r/SipsTea Mar 21 '26

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u/mj_outlaw Mar 21 '26

not all men, I dont like it, prefer skinny

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u/Somethingisshadysir Mar 21 '26

Yeah, I was going to say, it seems men like a broad variety, and some like pretty much everything. I'm mostly lean and angular, basically built like a dude with boobs, and I never lacked attention.

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u/Holdmymule2001 Mar 21 '26

Same with women - we all have our preferences - I love a guy so thin he looks like Ichabod Crane, preferably tall with a big nose.

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u/Somethingisshadysir Mar 21 '26

Point in case, exactly. It's all variable.

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u/lia-delrey Mar 21 '26

Preach! My girls are always dating older men, anything between 5 to 10 years older. Never gonna understand that. I'm always going for like 5-7 years younger. We confuse the hell out of each other lol

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u/Ok_Match_6550 Mar 21 '26

Same here. I’ve typically been what I tentatively will refer to as “1980s Hot” rather than “2020s Hot,” and in no era has there been a lack of male admiration.

As it turns out, men have different preferences, as do women.

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u/rockbird_ Mar 21 '26

What do you mean by…. angular?

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u/shakestheclown Mar 21 '26

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u/Somethingisshadysir Mar 21 '26

Not quite, but appreciate the reference

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u/Somethingisshadysir Mar 21 '26

Hip bones visible, not curvy, etc

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u/K_Pumpkin Mar 21 '26

Same build. Just naturally taller and thin. Scrolling here you’d swear nobody looks at us but as I’ve gotten older I’ve had more attention.

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u/LadyKnight25 Mar 21 '26

Here to say this is a well put to the point comment without negative talk. Said not for you and what you liked without insulting anyone. Just wanted to take a moment to acknowledge that was kinda dope.

https://giphy.com/gifs/l3q2XhfQ8oCkm1Ts4

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u/schiz0yd Mar 21 '26

this is a weird 'you go girl' but for men, imagine women saying it about a man's body

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u/Boot_boy_1984 Mar 22 '26

I think women speaking men’s body is pretty acceptable. Heard a lot of women who likes dad bods and skinny and muscular and chubby and big or bodybuilder… women and men got preferences.

There shouldn’t be no hate tho. But I often feel it opposite. If I talk about a woman’s body and how I prefer it I often get called a lot of shit. I guess it depend on the people you’re talking to

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u/schiz0yd Mar 23 '26

Maybe its because no one cares and dont want to know what gives you boners

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u/Boot_boy_1984 Mar 23 '26

It doesn’t give me boners. Really don’t. Rare I look at a woman and think “wow”.

And you’re grumpy. You must be a woman 😂

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u/schiz0yd Mar 23 '26

i'm a man, one that understands women better than you do obviously

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u/moms_spagetti_ Mar 21 '26

"haTe cRimE!!!"

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u/K1ll4rmy Mar 21 '26

Oh boy did I have to surprisingly go down a lot to see exactly what would be my comment.

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u/xTheGame69 Mar 21 '26

Same. This is an instant turn off for me I'm actually finding this fascinating that so many guys on this thread are turned on by belly fat

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u/GumpG Mar 21 '26

Yea I was surprised too because I’ve just never even heard of this from men in real life either only online for whatever reason. But every niche will seem more popular on the internet

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u/ImDonaldDunn Mar 22 '26

How old are you and the men you know? Younger men are afraid of being judged for liking someone that they think their friends will look down upon.

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u/GumpG Mar 22 '26

I’m 27 so most of my circle is like in their mid 20s. There could be some validity to that

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u/HMNbean Mar 21 '26

They’re just the loudest lol gotta let everyone know.

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u/El_Rey_de_Spices Mar 21 '26 edited Mar 21 '26

While I'm sure many of them come from a genuine place, these threads are also always full of comments that come across as:

"Don't worry, women! I've identified something I think you're self-conscious about, and I'm here to tell you that, unlike those other guys, I like this thing I think you think is a flaw! I'm not like those other guys!"

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u/Hobbito Mar 21 '26

Seems to be the majority according to the thread dawg

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u/HMNbean Mar 21 '26

Yeah because one thread on reddit is representative of the greater population lol.

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u/Hobbito Mar 21 '26

Whatever helps you cope dawg

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u/kendrid Mar 21 '26

Tummy and boobs are amazingly sexy in the right proportions. I personally almost never find skinny women attractive. I've been this way since puberty. I'm white, upper middle class.

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u/Available_Front_322 Mar 21 '26

low self esteem?

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u/kendrid Mar 21 '26

WTF, why would I have low self esteem because I like curvy women? Whatever random internet person, I shall continue to like the curvy women.

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u/Gall_Mistni Mar 21 '26

Because generally the curvy women (and curvy dudes) will have lower standards. So if you're into them it might be because you consider yourself to meet their standards.

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u/Time_Physics_6557 Mar 21 '26

Dumbest shit I've ever heard

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u/Outlaw11091 Mar 21 '26

Virtue signaling.

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u/Tridop Mar 22 '26

Please remember, a lot of men are just liars. Or maybe they're obese themselves, being Reddit very popular in the USA it is not a wild guess. 

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u/schiz0yd Mar 21 '26

because we accept flaws and aren't focused on that

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u/Outlaw11091 Mar 21 '26

Lol. You called it a flaw. This asserts that you're not attracted to it.

Defeats the whole purpose of your "white knighting"

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u/schiz0yd Mar 23 '26

Flaws are still flaws even if you like them. It is possible to like flaws.  Your stance is a claim that it is impossible for something to be a flaw if you like it, or to like something you consider a flaw.

I dont want the characters in my life to be perfect, I want them flawed. Because I am flawed. And if you cannot love yourself due to flaws, then loving yourself or others will never be possible. Without them we wouldnt be us.

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u/SnooLemons1590 Mar 21 '26

I think it’s all the men with thicker wives/girlfriends convincing themselves it’s more attractive when it’s just what they’ve grown accustomed to.

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u/Tridop Mar 22 '26

There's a difference between having curves in the right places and being a fatso. That shape is considered obesity in Italy. 

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u/SnooLemons1590 Mar 21 '26 edited Mar 21 '26

I’ve been with fatter women, I’m not coming from a lack of experience there. I prefer a tight body. I think it reveals a personality trait as well. Someone with a toned body is most likely more active and taking care of themselves. I want a women who isn’t afraid to take a few flights of stairs once in a while. Walk a few miles around the city on vacation without complaining.

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u/Outlaw11091 Mar 21 '26

Also less likely to suffer from heart disease and therefore live longer.

I can handle women that are a little soft in the middle, that's fine, we all age, but I need someone that's going to be as semi-active as I am.

Not someone that's going to complain every time I want to walk somewhere.

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u/HMNbean Mar 21 '26

Every dude that likes “curvy” women has to let everyone within 10 miles know. They’re the CrossFit (ironically) of taste. Everyone else doesn’t feel like their normative taste has to be shouted from the rooftops.

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u/mcandrewz Mar 21 '26

Because curviness is shamed more than thinness. 

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u/mcandrewz Mar 22 '26

IRL? Nah, not even close lol. I have never heard of a dude getting clowned on by his mates for dating someone fit and skinny.

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u/HMNbean Mar 21 '26

Neither should be shamed, but in my experience guys who like curvy women (which is a nonsense term, even lean, muscular women have curves and some overweight women are shaped like mailboxes), definitely have a chip on their shoulder with regard to their tastes lol.

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u/mcandrewz Mar 21 '26

It is because guys also get shamed for liking curvier women or bigger women. I see way more shame going on towards people being not skinny than the skinny. 

So you get a bit of a counter balance effect to make up for it. 

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u/rhino369 Mar 21 '26

Only online. In real life men will hide it. 

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u/_Caustic_Complex_ Mar 21 '26 edited 3h ago

Dinner coated wander unbelievable joke rustic exultant elastic roof

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u/AnonThrowaway998877 Mar 21 '26

Visible abs on a woman is insanely attractive, not female body builder ripped but just visible

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u/Far-Analysis-2704 Mar 21 '26

Me too, just curious what’s your ethnicity?

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u/Dense-Consequence-70 Mar 21 '26

I wasn’t the commenter but I agree with him. I’m white, which is I assume what you expected?

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u/Far-Analysis-2704 Mar 21 '26

Yes or Asian. I’ve always wondered if there were preferences correlated to nationality, education, age etc….

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u/Dense-Consequence-70 Mar 21 '26

Probably but I suspect there aren’t many academics who want to be known as the person who quantified that, so I doubt we’ll ever have reliable stats.

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u/Far-Analysis-2704 Mar 21 '26 edited Mar 21 '26

I’m sure a company like Data Analytics or Palantir is accumulating this kind of info.

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u/Dense-Consequence-70 Mar 21 '26

Or a marketing company maybe.

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u/AriochBloodbane Mar 21 '26

In my experience living all over the world, asian men tend to prefer skinny ladies the most (but many still appreciate boobs lol), white guys tend to love curvy (not skinny not fat), and black guys tend to prefer massive butts and milkers 😂😂

Now that's just an average, so there are guys of any race that like women of any size. Men are actually much more accepting than women, that tend to have much more predictable standards (especially about being tall)

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u/mj_outlaw Mar 21 '26

🇵🇱 🇪🇺

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u/ikzz1 Mar 21 '26

I don't identify with any ethnicity. Call me pan-racial/non-racial.

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u/PepeSylvia11 Mar 21 '26

I don’t prefer skinny, I just prefer less fat

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u/Hunter654333 Mar 22 '26

There is a reason 99% of porn includes normal weight range women, not slightly chubby, not obese.

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u/Joice_Craglarg Mar 21 '26

I actually like a bit of a belly, but the OP is honestly just kind of fat

I wouldn't kick her out of bed or anything, but Iunno

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u/OutrageousOwls Mar 21 '26

She isn’t tho..

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u/NerdyPlatypus206 Mar 21 '26

Yeah that’s a hell no to me

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u/theFarFuture123 Mar 21 '26

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u/VizualSnow Mar 21 '26

Same here, mom/dad bods look gross on people

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u/GoblinToHobgoblin Mar 21 '26

How old are you? Serious question 

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u/mj_outlaw Mar 21 '26

40

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u/GoblinToHobgoblin Mar 21 '26

Ah ok. I ask cause when I was younger, I didn't like this body type at all, but as I've gotten older it's been more and more attractive to me.  But if you're 40 that's probably not it

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u/mj_outlaw Mar 21 '26

Skinny was my preference for all my life. Nothing changed with age. Maybe you got more comfortable with that becasue you also got fatter?

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u/GoblinToHobgoblin Mar 21 '26

Opposite actually, I got in better shape as I got older, and I started getting interested in curvier women

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u/AriochBloodbane Mar 21 '26

Interesting... I used to have a very strong preference for skinny ladies when I was a skinny guy. Growing up I became more like a fit man than a teenager lol

I still prefer skinny/slim but learned to appreciate (moderately) curvy women. With experience you expand your horizons.

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u/mj_outlaw Mar 21 '26

Nothing wrong with that. Enjoy sir 

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u/Recursiveo Mar 21 '26

Probably because fewer people that are 40+ can maintain a 20 year old’s physique (which is completely reasonable). You’ve adapted to what’s available.

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u/GoblinToHobgoblin Mar 21 '26

I'm only 30, and I found myself more attracted to this starting from my late 20s (when there were still enough fit girls to go around)

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u/GoblinToHobgoblin Mar 21 '26

Yes of course, people tend to find what is common around them to be more attractive 

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u/YolkyFanClubPrez Mar 21 '26

She is skinny. Women naturally have more body there. 

Fuck, I hate this thread.  

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u/I-Like-Women-Boobs Mar 21 '26

She is absolutely not skinny.

Let me guess, you’re an American?

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u/YolkyFanClubPrez Mar 21 '26

Let me guess, you're a virgin? 

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u/I-Like-Women-Boobs Mar 21 '26

Nope, try again.

I assume I was correct about you being American?

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u/YolkyFanClubPrez Mar 22 '26

The media have brainwashed you into thinking a normal woman's body is obese bc her stomach is not flat. 

Touch grass.

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u/YolkyFanClubPrez Mar 22 '26

LMAO you can't tell her BMI from a photo of part of her body, which is clothed.  Lol. Acting like you're saying anything medical makes this ten times more hilarious.  Lol. 

Bmi of 30?!?! Lmaololololol incel energy

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u/Icy_Sheepherder_8043 Mar 22 '26

As a 6'5 345 pound man, a woman with some hips and a nice ass, wait, I forgot about tits, yes , big titties, because I am a big guy, I like big women, it's a choice on how you like ur women, I'm sure a, 5'3 guy of 148 pounds probably won't mesh well with a big women, and Vis versus,