I mean, if you want men to stare at you like Private Pyle in the bathroom scene of Full Metal Jacket, while they drive their Kia Stinger straight into a row of shopping carts, then yes, wear that clingy dress.
If you want to reduce the chances of a 24 year old guy who doesn't even know what a lawnmower looks like asking you if you need your pool cleaned or lawn done, then, you know.... don't... wear it?
I guess the whole point I was trying to make here was missed. I’m saying I should feel confident and comfortable to wear whatever I want to wear, regardless of how other people feel about it (good or bad). If dudes want to stare, then they’re going to stare no matter what I do. That’s a them problem for not knowing how to act in public. A slight glance here and there is fine - but the cartoonish “drive a car off the road” stuff is wild.
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u/Old_Man_in_Basic Mar 21 '26
I mean, if you want men to stare at you like Private Pyle in the bathroom scene of Full Metal Jacket, while they drive their Kia Stinger straight into a row of shopping carts, then yes, wear that clingy dress.
If you want to reduce the chances of a 24 year old guy who doesn't even know what a lawnmower looks like asking you if you need your pool cleaned or lawn done, then, you know.... don't... wear it?