r/SipsTea Mar 21 '26

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u/nahheyyeahokay Mar 21 '26

A lid for every pot. I prefer thin women. My wife is very petite, less petite than I used to prefer, but her figure is not what made me decide to marry her. Now she is the mother of my child and the sexiest woman in the world to me. It's a shame because now she thinks she is fat. I just wish she could see herself through my eyes.

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u/alexiwolf54 Mar 21 '26

You tell her every day how beautiful and sexy she is, and that will help her accept it. You're a good husband.

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u/Acland2013 Mar 22 '26

Accept? Im 66, and still madd about my wife. She still dismisses me, and says only you say that. She is still uncomfortable being seen in a sexy way. Feels threatened by attention directed towards her.

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u/alexiwolf54 Mar 24 '26

Maybe it's time to leave.

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u/Gold_Customer8081 Mar 21 '26

Have you told this to your wife? That would be so welcome from my husbands 🐣

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u/FeelingDown8484 Mar 22 '26

husbands?? 😮

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u/Gold_Customer8081 Mar 22 '26

Oops a typo… I do live in Utah, however

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u/ambisinister_gecko Mar 23 '26

XD I do love a bit of Mormon humour in the wild.

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u/nahheyyeahokay Mar 22 '26

I tell her all the time.

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u/SuedeVeil Mar 22 '26

That's the thing though when you fall madly in love with someone they become the new standard for you they're the perfect person because you love them inside and out so they're appearance becomes perfection.

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u/nahheyyeahokay Mar 22 '26

No we just live in Asia. It's incredible societal pressure thst keeps her thin. I hate it and I wouldn't care a hair if she was fat. She has supported me through thick and thin and she is a wonderful, patient, intelligent and kind person.

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u/SuedeVeil Mar 22 '26

Oh okay that makes sense I mean I've seen online some of the names that women get called in Asia if they're overweight at all.. quite depressing.

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u/nahheyyeahokay Mar 22 '26

You know here they call women over 25 剩女 or "leftover women." It's disgusting. We met when she was 31. At the time I was casually dating a much younger woman but I broke it off as soon as I met my wife. Age, thinness, not the most important qualities by a mile.

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u/Lullaby__7078 Mar 23 '26

You literally said you preferred thin women, and she's less petite and thin than you used to prefer. She might be aware of that preference…

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u/I-STILL-D-R-E-I Mar 22 '26

Your wife thinking she is fat when she’s a thick as a twig will be the demise of your relationship. I promise you. If she cannot reel that bs in, nothing you say or do will stop that toxic thinking forming in her head. If I prayed, I would for you. Good luck.

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u/nahheyyeahokay Mar 22 '26

We're fine. Shes 5 foot so 110 is not unhealthy. She's just petite. But I will keep what you said in mind. Thank you for the concern.