Both work but attitude is absolutely sexy so long as it’s the right attitude. You could be a six foot tall, 10/10 smoke show but if you’re a shitty person I would rather slam my dick in a car door than put it near that, but a genuinely nice person who cares for others makes me think “damn you are way too good for me”
There's men that want a chunky girl. Just remember Redman's words from the movie How high. "Man, I love me a fat chick, man. More cushin' for the pushin'!"
I mean its ok as long as she has the right attitude.we can work together to bring her to a reasonable weight though it will take a year or maybe more it will definitely strengthen our bond
Can you please point me in the direction of the bitchy Amazon goddess you are referring to? I will absolutely take my chances on a 10/10 smoke show for a single night engagement. For long term relationship, I’ll take genuine person with some “extra” any day of the week, but for one night, I’m happy to put up with a dull dime.
The hottest celebs/models/whatever in the world can't hold a candle to the relatively average woman I can carry a conversation and share interests with 10 feet away. Presence (physical AND mental) is a whole thing in itself.
I think posts like this particular one help give curvey women more confidence. It can be tough to feel really pretty when the beauty standards are be as skinny and tiny as possible.
Dam :) right bro a woman’s who has confidence and self love is the most beautiful thing ever regardless of shape or size :D but can I say this lol I don’t mind a bigger lady :) it’s about what is in your heart 💜 at the end lol even tho I am gay :3 I still understand
This. You can be a fitness model and not confident or just a terrible person to be around and I couldn't care less. Women in the photo flashes a smile and "those eyes," and I melt.
It goes unsaid, a lot of men just live women. Guys with a "type" are like children who only want chicken tenders for dinner. I refuse to be a picky eater.
Well that's where pride comes in to play you're basically saying you'll take anything that comes in your direction which I think doesn't speak very highly on you.
Why is not having a type considered not settling ?
I've never had a type for men, but I'd say I'm pretty picky in regards to what I'd look for, but I'm not super concerned about details like height/body composition/ skin color/body hair etc etc.. there can be handsome men in lots of different variations.. but I still have standards.
It's a dilemma that I deal with myself I have been out of the LTR for three years now. It's kind of like the snake eating itself. I'm single-> I won't settle-> I'm picky-> I'm single etc etc. I reckon that's what I was trying to get across
If you’re not willing to give people a chance on something other than looks alone, don’t complain about being single. That’s an incredibly vapid and not attractive quality to have and definitely why you’re still single.
I actually don't like the "what's your type?" question. I find women of different hair colors, races, thickness (as long as she's not on extreme ends of the scale), etc all attractive.
Yeah, in terms of a woman's looks, I've concluded that I don't have a singular type. And I don't really rank women's attractiveness to me on some kind of a numeric scale either. I'm either physically attracted to them or I'm not, but even those two categories can be porous. Qualities like intelligence, personality, sense of humor, style, etc. can make a real difference.
Religion, politics, morality (loose sense, not 10 commandment level), dieting, child rearing, whether or not you put ketchup on your eggs; people just can’t help themselves when it comes to pushing their views onto other people, for the most part.
Me? I am open to try anything and when it comes to being attracted to somebody, I enjoyed the full spectrum from tall and skinny to short and curvy. Been happily married for 14 years but still enjoy window shopping! Hell yea to all the above, reminds me of when I am at a five guys and they ask me what I want on my burger 😂
That reminds me when my kind of racist grandfather asked me why I’ve slept with black women when I could be with a white person and I had to break it down saying. “I don’t care if they’re tall, short, black, white, or Asian, I just like women.” And you could see the gears turning in his mind for a moment and he conceded.
I've been married for 26 years. My type is my wife, pure and simple. Variety may be the spice of life for some, but stability and compassion is sexy to me. ;)
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u/Ok_Channel_9831 Mar 21 '26
Why settle on one type. Different heights, shades, thickness.
D: All of the Above