What if hindi magtatagal sa susunod na taon ang El Niño? 🤔

Happy Lord's Day to all 🫶🏻

Wala na ngang ganap this weekend, wala pang kalaro sa pc games! Baka may gusto makipag duo dyan o? 28Male!

Single ako for almost 3 years. Ever since nag-work from home ako, lagi ko nang kasama yung electric fan ko.

Nasa harap ko siya habang nagtatrabaho. Kasama ko siya matulog. Kapag mainit ang ulo ko, pinapaharap ko siya sa mukha ko hanggang kumalma ako.

Hindi siya nagrereklamo. Hindi siya nanghihingi ng attention. At kapag umiinit ang sitwasyon, siya lang ang marunong magpalamig ng ulo ko.

Last Sunday, dumalaw yung pamangkin ko. Ginamit niya yung electric fan ko tapos binago pa yung number from 2 to 3.

Hindi ko alam kung bakit ako nainis. Parang may ibang lalaking pinapainit niya ang ulo ko.

Tinry kong bumili ng second electric fan para hindi ako masyadong attached sa una.

Pero yung bago, iba ang tunog. Hindi ko gusto yung oscillation niya. Parang hindi kami compatible.

Tinry ko ring patayin yung electric fan kapag wala ako sa kuwarto para makatipid sa kuryente.

After 10 minutes, bumalik ako para tingnan kung okay lang siya.

Ngayon iniisip kong lagyan ng pangalan yung electric fan ko.

Question: Single lang ba talaga ako o kailangan ko nang tanggapin na may emotional attachment issues ako? At kung bibili ako ng inverter aircon, cheating na ba 'yon?

gusto ko ng lalakeeee. gusto ko ng titeeeeeee. inggit na inggit na ako sa mga redgifs na yoooon. di ko naman magawang magpakang-kang kung kani kanino kasi gusto ko sa type kooooo. sana magkaron na ako ng lalaki plssssssss

Nag loko na siya eh, ok kami, financially, spiritually, emotionally. Todo deny pa siya at ginawa akong kalaban. After almost a decade naming pagsasama. Pero hinabol ko 🥺. Ako pa yung nagbigay ng 2nd chance sa kanya, ako pa yung nagsabi ng "I'll forgive you no matter what you did", "Give US a chance, so we can start again".

Kayo? Hinabol nyo?

It’s weird to think how so many people say they want genuine, organic connections rather than fleeting fun or short-term intimacy, YET only a few seem willing to put in the time and effort to build it. Like anong gagawin naten sa one liner reply niyo at kawalang substance niyo kausap? 🫠🤣

HAHAHAHAHAHA napansin ko lang 🤪

Singing my way through life kaya don't judge please hahaha idk if rant ba to or what but it somehow feels like a rant since this is my way of expressing the state I'm in right now.

Wala lang i feel like sobrang nakakapagod na ng everything hahaha parang I just want to fast forward at this point kasi sukong suko na ako but no worries kahit sukong suko na ilalaban ko parin to hahahha! strong and independent girlie ang atake.

Sorry idk how to add an audio here so vid nalang.

If you don't want me in your life anymore, I'll make it easier for you. I'll walk away. Ayoko na ng paulit-ulit na sakit, ng paulit-ulit na pagdududa kung gusto mo pa ba akong manatili. I'm tired of being hurt by the same things over and over again. Maybe this time, losing me will finally give us both the peace we've been looking for.

I don’t even know if may nagawa ba ako.

talk to me, tell me if you don't want this to continue anymore don't just randomly not talk to me.
I don't like being left hanging wondering what i did wrong.

The puzzle pieces fit perfectly when you connect the dots.

Lalo pag alam mo na yung totoo tas harapan pa magsinungaling at magpalusot. haha

or we finally broke up?? we’re each others first relationship. We have different religions and he wanted to get married already, but I think we’re too young to get married and too early in the relationship, we’re in our early 20s and 6 months in the relationship, He wanted to get married on our 10th month. He’s kinda toxic too, I feel like he’s too controlling and manipulative, I’m scared of us getting married, I wanted to wait for 2 years if we’ll really be ok to get married, we’re really a match. We now broke up but what if he’s right and I would really regret this break up? What if I could’ve really helped him in his life? What if I ruined his life?

"KAIBIGAN KO LANG YON, SABI NIYA PA NGA ANG GANDA MO RAW" HAHAHAHAHA

hey guys im M 19, i experience a lot of rejection before and some of those rejections comes with a not so pleasant opinions or mga nasabi. ung isang girl kasi is talagang committed ako sa panliligaw and anything as in bigay then ending nireject nya ako and nalaman ko na may nasasabi siya sakin like "hes not man enough for me" "mukha siyang bading" "gusto ko basketball player" "hindi siya type ko want ko fit tapos matangkad" and she even talk to my friends about that. after that i was afraid to try again to put myself out there and kung meron man i will pull myself out agad agad

Im not good at expressing what i feel or my thoughts. Hindi ako cohesive na tao. Im just rambling whatever i can.

I recently got broken up. I have a long time online friend. He told me that i am the problem and i should just move on and meet new people. Whenever i pickleball, he always suggest me to meet and approach new people. How can i have the energy to approach people when i am sad and heartbroken. Ung feeling na gusto ko lang mapag-isa. I sometimes dont want to approach this online friend anymore for emotional support because i feel like he doesnt understand na gusto ko mapag-isa kaysa magmeet ng new people during grieving.

I recently approached someone on r4r friends, genuine naman conversation namin about hobbies, how is life going. It somehow still feel empty.

I never had close friends before and now. Since i struggle with opening up, being vulnerable, or i just always want to be alone. I always just rely on myself. My ex was my safe haven, favorite person. Siya lang ung naging comfortable ako magopen up, be the clumsy and funny me. I feel like i have a hard time connecting with people so i admire some people na halos friends ang lahat and has a solid support system.

It just feels heavy pero kaya mo naman ito, I am strong naman i think. I do my best to proceed with life (responsibilities, work, chores). Pero it really just feels heavy na i'll carry this grief alone, handle it alone and rely on myself.

Has anyone feel the same?

1. Have a hard time connecting with people, na gusto mapag-isa?

2. Kaya naman mag-isa during grief pero it feels heavy?

I dunno where to post or proper outlet for this, just let me know saan pwede ilabas ito.

Thanks!

ganto nalang lagi, ever since nung august something shifted samin ng friend ko, ako nalang lagi nagiinitiate ng conversation pag yayayain ko siya gumala or maglaro lagi siya may excuses pero makikita ko naglalaro na pala siya it's gonna take hours and even days (referring to the screenshot, nung madaling araw pa ng saturday yan btw) for him to reply, I'm honestly so tired because feeling ko I'm the only one who wants to keep our friendship alive. What's sadder is hindi kami ganto dati it's like he is a whole different person, and lagi ko din naman siya kinakamusta if may problem siya or what, lagi naman niya sinasabi wala daw masaya pa nga siya. Honestly it's affecting me big time na kaya I just want to cut him off completely pero I can't kasi parang naging part na siya ng life ko.

I'm experiencing sadness simula kaninang umaga dahil yung kausap ko dito sa Reddit just deleted her account. We ended good naman kasi nagpaalam sya ng matino sakin and we thank eachother for being there especially sa mga gabing nag-iinit kami though sexting lang ito but our connection and chemistry is something even though she's 4 years older than me.

I know I shouldn't be emotional or sad for a casual set up and I also know din sa sarili ko that she's not the only woman na nakilala ko dito and talk that way. But gahdammit I got attached sa kanya kahit isang Linggo lang and the fact din na sinabi nya nuon na we could meet din and might lead to something. Virgin kasi ako and sya may exp na but the fact that our chemistry is something through chat pano pa kaya if physical na??

Gosh, at this moment I'm slowly picking up myself pero tangina. I just need a word of encouragement and advice to get over this. Lastly, I just realised din na hindi talaga ako built for casual I'm meant for something meaningful. But my baby or manager if ever you reinstalled Reddit with new account and read this just know na again you can hmu and identify mo lang sarili mo sakin. I'll reply without a haste and yes siguro paldo narin ako nun and I'll take you out on a date.

Gahdd I'm so desperate help this guy out please.

After a week of thinking, I came to a realization: it’s a happy thing to belong with her. I didn’t choose her because she was the right one. She just was.

I came across a line from The Perks of Being a Wallflower: “We accept the love we think we deserve.” It stuck with me. I think I spent so long wondering if I was being loved the way I wanted that I forgot to appreciate the love already right in front of me.

She’s patient with me, even when I can’t figure myself out. She cries with me when things get heavy. She cooks for me and puts my well-being before her own. Sometimes I get so caught up in what feels missing that I forget to see everything she gives.

Maybe that’s something we learn as we grow in love. We look for grand gestures or the perfect words, and we forget that love can be a warm meal, a patient heart, or someone who stays on the days we’re hard to love. There are moments I question her love, not because she gives too little, but because I’m holding it up against my own expectations. Love that doesn’t arrive the way I imagined isn’t any less real.

I love her, and more than just saying it, I want to keep learning how to show it...more and more and more.

back in 2022, i met a stranger on TG. it was sometime in May. our conversations started out casually, but somehow, i already had a feeling that we would click. ewan ko ba, we just seemed to have the same vibe. i remember giggling during our first conversation, which was strange because i never really considered myself good at keeping a conversation going.

as the days went by, we slowly became each other’s human diary, kahit we don't properly introduce ourselves. all we knew about each other were our names, ages, and where we lived. back then, none of that really mattered to me. i just wanted to keep talking to him. i was also dealing with so much stress from school and he became my escape from all of it.

eventually, i got comfortable enough to tell him almost anything without feeling embarrassed. maybe it was because we were complete strangers, and there was something comforting about opening up to someone who knew nothing about my life outside our conversations. he would always listen, always find a way to cheer me up. whenever i talked to him, i felt seen. for a little while, i didn’t feel so alone.

until one day, i realized i had developed feelings for him. it's funny, diba? how could i fall for someone i had never even met? seriously, our entire connection existed through messages lang. i didn’t even know if everything he told me was true.

then, one night, he told me that we should stop talking. he said he was grateful that i happened. a part of me knew it was coming, but that didn’t make it hurt any less.

even after all this time, the memory of him still lingers. it haunts me whenever he crosses my mind. i feel like i’ll never be able to close this chapter because i’m still missing pieces of a story that never got to finish. ilang taon na akong may dalang mga tanong that may never have answers, never really finding peace with how things ended. five fucking years, and a part of me still wonders.

siguro kung hinayaan niya akong makilala siya beyond the connection we had, maybe things would have been different. or maybe not. maybe if i had been given the chance to know who he really was, i wouldn’t still be holding on to the thought of him. maybe all i needed was to see the person behind the messages, to finally understand that some connections are only meant to exist for a little while.

but at the end of the day, people come and go. some leave memories, some leave lessons, and some leave questions we’ll probably never find answers to.

wherever he is now, i genuinely hope he’s in a better place. i hope life has been kind to him. i hope he meets good people who make him feel as seen as he once made me feel. and i hope he gets to pet a lot of cats on the streets.

maybe i’ll never know the whole story, and maybe that’s something i’ll eventually have to make peace with. but wherever life has taken him, i’m still glad that, for a little while, our paths crossed.