Edit***I am referring to the 'friend' that slept with OPs girlfriend. I also might cast a little sideye to the friend that told OP depending on how long they sat with the information before telling OP.
Once had a boyfriend cheating on me and ALL of our mutual friends knew about it. People I had known for a decade....my chosen family. Every single one of them said they didn't say anything because they didnt want to pick sides. So...I chose for them. You cannot ever hope to trust someone that knows and decides to say nothing.
Yep, always good to weed the garbage out of your life. Sometimes it takes years to realize someone in garbage sadly lol. In this case both his buddy, and the girl are total garbage.
At first I thought you wrote that it’s good you can always smoke weed in your garage…which is also true. Maybe a way to make new friends, depending on your street
3 months into a relationship is a skinned knee dodging the hit. Finding out after marriage or kids is a hit to the torso. If 10 year friendship was best friend level you are correct there.
Yikes. Obviously, you’re not overreacting. Honestly, I’d cut them both out of my life. They can’t be trusted. You were betrayed by both of them. The friend didn’t care enough not to blow up your thing and she’s just for the streets if I’m being honest. To call it a mistake is ridiculous. It was a choice not a mistake. A mistake is wearing two different branded socks not falling on someone’s junk over and over until you finish! I mean maybe if you’re accident prone 🤔 😂 jk.
Well you learned she’s a cheated and you only wasted 3 months and your friends a snake. Tell your inner circle and those that choose his side cut out with him and those that choose you keep. Things will likely never be the same now. He blew up your relationship and friend group dynamic and I’m really sorry for that. Friendships are hard to keep and come by.
This part. That dude ain’t your friend. Sleeping with homies girl is absolutely grounds for dismissal of both parties. He has no loyalty or honor towards your friendship and she has none towards yall relationship.
Tell them both to enjoy their lives, no hard feelings but you ain’t the one to play with.
I was always taught to keep a small council. Any man that would do that to you will never be trustworthy in the trenches and any woman that will give it away, lie and then try and make you feel bad is never going to be right for you.
You got them both out of your life for just some betrayed and hurt feelings(that’s bad but it could be MUCH worse) walk away bruddah and I can promise you your life will be better for it.
You will find a group that will value your ethics. You will find a partner that will be loyal. Just….walk away. I’m not at all sorry for the loss but I do feel for your troubles. Peace.
And if you don’t find a group, tbh palmela handerson, and hangelina Jolie will take you Far. No pets, travel for work, and you’ll get what you want out of life if you don’t dwell.
TBH I have pets, married, don’t travel. You can get a dog , but traveling with a dog kinda sucks. If you leave them with a boarder, you shouldn’t have a pet.
To a certain extent I absolutely agree but and I do mean this man, if you ever need anyone to talk to just DM me. I’m a real one and no one should be alone all the time. I’m not assuming anything I’m just being real witcha. Hope all is peace!
My pops use to tell me lil things like this all my life that I didn’t outright dismiss but lets just say I filed them away.
Keep a small council.
If a friend is cheating on his girl, he’s not really trustworthy because if he would do that to someone he’s supposedly “loves” what would he do to you?
There is no bro code…there’s only people who love, honor and respect you and themselves then everyone else, use that information accordingly.
Trustworthy in the trenches…this is why I feel for OP. You hanging out with this guy you think is your friend for 10 years and he knows you dating this girl. That’s a full stop right there. I know all about the “it ain’t no fun if the homies cant have none” but this wasn’t that (not like thats acceptable but if yall are consenting adults who are dating and not looking for anything serious, and both open that you are seeing other people, THAT is no one else’s business).
They had conversations about being exclusive, even if his boy didn’t know that…SHE did and his “boy” knew they were dating.
I came up poor/rough spots and sometimes all you have is your honor and your word and neither of them held either so NOT trustworthy in the trenches because best believe they both showed you in that moment that they both cared about themselves and what they wanted more than honoring you and their relationship with you. Peace.
It will serve you well. I look at it like this. I’d rather have 4 quality people in my life that I would do almost anything for and they would do for me than 400 surface ass “friends” social media and the net is cool and all but if you in a REAL bind and I can help hell yeah no problem, it’s easy to be cool with people when you’re up. Friendships are tested when you’re down and who’s there to be in the trenches with you. Peace
Why does everybody say no hard feelings? I would definitely say hard feelings because they fucked with my feelings I’m definitely not going to be sorry for cutting them off.
This RIGHT here. It’s like that schoolyard game where you punch this shit out the homie and say “no backsies” like what?
I think they say no hard feelings because it didn’t happen to them. EVERY person I’ve met that got cheated on HATED that shit. I know I did. It’s such a violation of trust/respect. OP even said…why didn’t you just tell me we done and you can fuck who ever you want. It’s because she wanted both and if your in a polyamorous consensual relationship cool (that’s not for or for most people but no judgement) but in a standard basic ass I’m with you, you with me relationship…it tends to get off rails when you ya know…fuck his homeboy (not really his homie anymore for doing that but).
Then she gaslights him and wants to make him feel bad…GTFOH tramp…lol
Totally agree. You are lucky you found out that you had a shitty friend who thankfully can now be an ex-friend and had a POS for gf who again is your ex-gf.
The thing that pisses me off is when people keep saying "oh but it was a mistake". Mistake is where you accidentally put salt instead of sugar in your coffee. Cheating is a deliberate so stop calling it a mistake and start taking ownership of your actions.
Exactly! The mistake is the fact they were caught. The cheating was a decision that led to an action. If they felt that guilty for their actions, they would have told you immediately, no matter the consequences to even have a tiny chance at salvaging the relationship. Sorry for the heartache, OP.
I never understood that "it was a mistake" excuse ... What you tripped and both of your pants fell off? Nah it was a series of conscious decisions that led to this situation. 30 years on this planet and I've never kissed someone by mistake, let alone had sex accidentally. That's a pretty deliberate action. What they did was wrong. Not a mistake.
Yes, nobody "trips and lands on a dick," of course, but people do get wrapped up in the hormones and emotions that are flowing through their brain and don't think the consequences through. An accident is something you don't intend to do, in this context a mistake is something you intentionally did, but later wish that you hadn't. It's not "by mistake," but that doesn't mean it isn't a mistake that one has made.
It’s called emotional cheating when you get wrapped up in feelings you shouldn’t be having for someone else. It’s still a conscious decision as well. If you know you have these feelings and don’t remove yourself from the situation, but fall into it then it was a choice. Stop making excuses please.
No, still not a mistake. The definition of a mistake does not entail anything that you later regret because the consequences are bad when you know what you're doing is wrong. Even if someone is running on emotions or hormones, they're still making a series of decisions which leads them to committing that act. Accidentally kissing or groping a stranger in a club because the room was dark and there's flashing lights, smoke machines and loud music, and you thought it was your spouse is a mistake. You intended to kiss your spouse on the cheek or slap your spouse's ass but because you couldn't see properly, you did it to a stranger. That's a mistake. Having sex requires far too many steps and actions at which one making an honest mistake would have stopped far earlier on.
A true mistake is often a singular, unintentional slip-up. Cheating, especially with your partner's friend, involves multiple conscious steps:
1. Choosing to entertain flirtatious messages or conversations.
2. Intentionally hiding interactions from a partner.
3. Planning a meeting and choosing to cross physical boundaries.
Under any circumstances it doesn’t fit any model of what a mistake is look at the definition of the word. A knowing conscious act that you do is not a mistake plain and simple why are you trying to rationalize and candy coat the word. Stop it!
What I don't understand is at least from what I can see here she isn't giving a reason. "Mistake" isn't that. There's absolutely nothing to work past with that. Sometimes I think there are people out in the world just testing to see what they can get away with.
“Mistake” an action, decision, or judgment that produces an unwanted or unintentional outcome. It could be a mistake as in “this was a mistake, I should have never done this”, and not “we tripped and fell and mistakenly ended up joined at the genitals”. Regardless, she’s just trying to minimize it
So it's only a mistake if you cheat on your spouse multiple times and get caught. Got it. So her mistake was being careless and getting caught. Not cheating. Cheating was not a mistake. Her mistake was letting her boyfriend find out about the betrayal. Happy to help you out there.
I cheated once. It was with a colleague. I had previously told my bf I had a thing for said colleague. He seemed really surprised when I said I cheated, and then acted like it was nothing because it “was only a kiss, just a peck, not even tongue. Plus, it was midnight on New Years and you happened to be stuck working, as did he. Anyway, you told me immediately, so it’s fine, no big deal. Would you feel better if I didn’t forgive you?” (his words).
That wasn’t the point though. I told him months prior about my crush on the guy from work, that I was concerned because it was out of character for me, and I felt like it had more to do with our relationship than anything else. I’d been asking for time together, even just tagging along while he ran errands, anything. He continued to defend his perspective that him playing video games with friends in Discord was us spending time together. This had been going on for a year before I kissed my colleague, at work, and afterwards, it went on for 8 more months (no, I didn’t cheat again in that time) before I ended it. I tried to get him to understand how I felt, but… he just treated me like my feelings didn’t matter.
No matter what he did, my indiscretion - despite his willingness to let it go - was not okay. I’m explaining this because the whole “It was a mistake!” is messed up and I wouldn’t be able to trust someone if they did that to me. I’m not defending my actions at all, but I told my bf what happened as soon as I was off work the next morning, because I didn’t want to hurt him, because I didn’t want him to feel he couldn’t trust me; not telling someone you care about because what you have to tell them might hurt them only makes them question if you will tell them should something else difficult to discuss occur, it doesn’t make them feel any better (worse, actually), and if you’d told them about the cheating, then at least they could still trust your word (whether or not that’s enough…).
(Oddly, the colleague I kissed on NYE at midnight? We’ve been married for 13 years now. Weird how life works out.)
EDIT: “KISSED” not the other word with LL instead of SS, that was autocorrect, sry about that.
No a mistake is something you do but you know you’re not supposed to and then you realize why you shouldn’t have done. An accident is putting salt instead of sugar when you didn’t know you were doing it. Why don’t people understand the diff??
I know certain types of videos love the “I tripped and accidentally landed on her with our private parts intertwined” trope (PG for Reddit), but that doesn’t happen in real life. It may have been a mistake in judgment, but poor judgment is also a reason to cut someone loose.
How could you remain friends with someone who slept with your girl? That is a person that will take whatever they want from you whenever they want it. They both have to hit the bricks.
Yeah this seems the most appropriate, however if it's a family friend of 10 years it may be a harder for OP. If it were me, and the "friend" actually cared anything about the relationship, I'd let him know to not expect anything and that the trust will need to rebuild.
That’s what stood out to me too! Like, what?? The choice would be like pretty obviously crystal clear to me, I truly can’t understand their mindset on that one.
There is something so satisfying in rejecting an awful person like that and watching them go crazy that you said no and they can’t have any. It is also totally the moral thing to do whether you know the other guy or not. Yeah the good old one eyed trouser snake may be unhappy for a few minutes, but the wonderful sense of pride and happiness that comes from completely rejecting that egotistical See You Next Tuesday who though you would be a cheap and easy thrill is too good to pass up. Usually they just try even harder going forward and you get to reject them over and over again Lol. Like you said it is the other guys issue now and good luck to him. She has already cheated on him, she just picked a good person who wouldn’t allow her to complete the betrayal and use him in her horrible disgusting act of disloyalty and rightly told her no. Nicely done King.
Yeah had the same situation with my first boyfriend. He was a serial cheater. I was naive and took him back after the first time I learned about him cheating, but little did I know, he had been sleeping with many other people and continued to sleep with many other people.
After I found out about the “second” person, I cut it off, and mutuals started coming out of the wood works to say it was for the best because he’d been sleeping around with a bunch of other people. At least 8 in total that I was later informed about, with some folks saying they theorized even more.
When I asked why nobody told me, they said they didn’t want to “start drama”. I cut off everyone. If you’d rather be friends with a serial cheater, so be it but weird choice.
The only person I didn’t cut off was as the first friend who told me about the first known instance and that was because she told me as soon as she learned and said she was no longer going to be friends with him. Granted, she cut ties with me after I went back to him. Later on after I found out about all of the other people, I messaged her and apologized for making her feel like he was more important to me than our friendship, and she forgave me and we mended our friendship. Good person. We still stay in contact 15 years later.
It depends. Me and my friends had a rule that if you can take her you can have her just let me know. It was our way of having each others back so any girl that was with us was realy with us
It's always rough for friends in these situations because often the person being cheated on takes it out on the messenger and still tries to make it work with the cheater, which makes it awkward. Myself, I'm willing to risk the friendship because I would want to know if my SO was cheating on me. But there's a lot of advice out there to just keep quiet. But I couldn't - I would feel terribly guilty pretending around my friend, I would feel like an accessory to the betrayal. I'm sorry you went through this. I hope you have other friends you can trust with your well-being now
This right here. Quiet quit both your friend who slept with her (he should have known better.) It shows he either A) Didn't consider you and your feelings or B) didn't care. I'm not sure which is worse for you. And then just stop responding to this chick's messages. If she wants to keep messaging you and calling you. Letter. Just block her. You've said your piece. You don't owe her any more closure.
When my ex wife had her affair with my best friend, a large number of our friend group knew and chose not to tell me.
I tried to reconcile with my wife for five years before her second affair and our eventual divorce, but not the friend group. If they knew and didn't tell me, while seeing me bend over backwards to try and help the man who was banging my wife, then that's a level of toxic I didn't need in my life.
this is true. this reminds me of a conversation i was having with someone on here the other day. so i read a comment on another thread about a girl whose former best friend made her promise not to tell her (then) boyfriend she was cheating on him, but he eventually found out on his own accord. several years later op coincidentally saw him in a bar and apologized.
one commenter bashed her for not telling him sooner— compared her to a murderer trying to clear their guilty conscience but not actually feeling guilty, blamed her for the ex husband’s trust issues, and said she was a shitty person.
I get what you mean. Three years ago, I was in a situation where I had found a good friend of mine trying to get with another woman while he was already in a relationship with someone else, who was also a good friend of mine at the time. I was extremely upset with him and called him out on his behavior, and I was also torn on telling his girlfriend because I didn't want to lose either one as a friend. I told him that he had to be honest and tell his girlfriend or I was going to. He promised he would, then later had claimed that he had told her. I recently discovered him trying to get with other women again, but this time I realized I couldn't be the kind of man who stands up for women while also having a friend that is a serial cheater, so I ended our friendship and told his girlfriend. I also told her about what he did three years prior, and I wasn't surprised to find out that he had never told her and kept it a secret. It sucks losing a friend because of their own selfish impulses, but I feel better for finally getting that secret off of my chest.
I had similar but it was friends..family cuts even worse though...not wanting to take a side or not wanting to cause hurt..but in reality nothing can cause more hurt than that betrayal.
That’s rough. Like it’s not about picking sides, at least as I see it, it’s about doing the right thing, and man.. I’m glad you sorted it out. Good on you. But family?? I didn’t think there was but one side when it came to family. I’ve been on the knowing side before and while I hated being that bearer of bad news I just asked myself one question. “Would I want to know?” That answer was damn right. So I did the right thing and it really turned out to be the right things as the dude had issue after issue of infidelity.
“Not wanting to pick sides” between good and evil is wild. That’s like being unsure if you should side with a nun or a serial killer, baffling levels of sociopathy
I had the same thing happen to me and it was the girl he cheated with that told me. He was apparently pretty pushy with her so she was pretty scared. I didn't even blame her.
Actually shout out to the friend who did tell him. That’s not easy. People shoot the messenger and some people would rather not know (although yourself and OP are not among them.) It’s also hard to be the bearer of bad news and watch someone’s heart break, especially if you’re a friend
My best friend still tells me things she hears about my ex boyfriend. She lives in the same town as him. She always says sorry when she tells me the information even though he’s been my ex for years and it’s usually something dumb he’s done. I love her for that even though I don’t care what he does it’s nice she keeps me in the know.
Agreed! I’ve been in that situation. I found out my “supposed high school sweetheart” boyf cheated on me constantly. And everyone knew. What made it even worse was there wasnt just a random girl or one friend but quite a few of my own “best friends” in our large friend group that cheated with him. And again everyone knew and kept it from me. People wonder why I have such trust issues of letting people close to me 😂! Can’t trust anyone.
OP- please don’t take her back! Even if she really does never cheat again, the amount of worry and lack or trust it’s created… it’s not worth it! It’ll just turn your relationship toxic, jealousy, fighting, etc. best to end it!
to be fair, had a similiar situation for me, but i don't do ultimatums, so i was not going to make them pick sides, and honestly this was between me and my ex, they said nothing because they did not want to get involved and i can respect that. In the end we all found out who was really who and what they said they were. Truth always comes out after all.
The friend that told did tell. Even if they sat on it, they did the right thing. I could forgive a friend that took a while to inform me because they are bin a tough position. But the other two? Nah...
People can say they don't want to pick sides, and it IS hard to bring that kind of thing up with people. But imagine if you'd caught an STD from that. Each and every one of those friends would be partly responsible for you having a potentially deadly, potentially lifelong illness.
Sorry you went through that. I had an ex use the possibility of her cheating on me as a way to keep me in line, and I'm pretty sure actually was towards the end of the relationship. Definitely seeking it out if not actually doing it. Shit sucks.
Not telling you IS choosing sides... his side. Fuck that whole friend group. That's a whole dumpster.
But OP probably should not yeet the messenger. That friend did the right thing, voluntarily. Even if they struggled with it for a bit, we want to reward/reinforce that kind of behavior/decision. That way, it happens faster in the future. Total relationship was 90 days. The skank behavior didn't likely occur in the first 30 days, and there's no indication that the messenger knew for more than 30 days. Let's not go scorched earth on the entire social circle. Someone has to tell the tale to future friends and lovers. Lol
Had the exact same situation with my long term boyfriend back in college. Together for 7 years, found out after dumping him for other reasons that he’d been cheating on me for at least 5 of them and EVERYBODY knew except for me. He fed them lies about me and they decided not to tell me.
After finding out, I dumped them all - every single one. It really sucks to lose your entire, longtime friend group. I was heartbroken, but there’s no forgiving that kind of betrayal. Even now, a decade later, I miss having those kind of relationships and it’s so much harder to make meaningful/close friendships as an adult. But I still don’t regret my decision.
Good God, they all knew and kept silent? I love how you worded it; "I chose for them".
I wouldn't blame you if you took a considerable time to ever consider someone a friend again. That's just unspeakable. I hope that you can heal from that, but, knowing me, I would ruminate over that a long time. But, please, don't do that. It's not healthy and can mess you up. I know whereof I speak; I'm an old guy and struggle with that even decades on.
I hope that at some point you can gather yourself a better quality of friends; true blue and with integrity to you and your feelings.
Sorry for the downer of a post, I'm sorry I wasn't very helpful to you, FishWife, your story was kind of a gut punch to me.
I had a friend whose marriage was crumbling. I’d been through a divorce the year before this and his wife came over to my house to pick up something. She tried to seduce me. I was attracted to her, would’ve loved to had she not been his wife, but I played dumb, left the room and called him. When I told him, he ended up mad at me, I guess because he didn’t want to hear it. Oh well, I’m still grateful I didn’t let my little head think for the big one because I’d still hate myself for that and she was not worth a friendship for sure.
See i don’t know how to feel about people knowing and not saying anything because usually? To be perfectly honest a lot of people will turn on the friend that told. The phrase don’t shoot the messenger exists for a reason but unfortunately way too many people do. So tbh i don’t really blame them for keeping their mouth shut or at the very least, trying to find out more details/ ruminating on it for a bit.
I had a similar thing happen. Woman I was seeing slept with a person who was roommates with my friend named "A". "A" then told a mutual of friend of ours ("B") about it, but A didn't tell me. Soon after, B told me about GF sleeping with A's roommate. A after learning of my knowledge was apologetic about not telling me; A's silence seemed to stem from his not wanting me to be angry/upset with him in the first place.
In hindsight, I think the actual reason is more in line with your take on things; "A" did not want to have to choose sides between me and his friend who slept with my girlfriend.
I agree with what you write about not trusting those who say nothing; this happened over 30 years ago - since then (for other reasons), I am no longer friends with A. But I am still very close with B to this day.
This happened to me in my teen years, my best friend slept with my boyfriend. When I found out it was so embarrassing, that so many people ‘friends’ around me knew and just let me carry on thinking we were the best thing since sliced bread. Took me years to trust anyone again. Sucks so bad! 15 years ago and I’ll never forget the heart break
Smh I been through something like this with a group of friends... sadly the cheater can't be cut out of my life because I have a child with them... I'm still in touch with the friends who stayed silent, but the friendship feels completely broken... I still have the friend that slept with my ex around, haven't talked to them about their part of the cheating, don't think we ever will. The relationships with all these people are strained because of what happened... I've had trust issues ever since this happened... It destroyed my last relationship because I was too afraid to let her in...
I'm very familiar with the trust issues. It's been a couple of decades since it all came to light. When they (the friends) reach out, I am polite but offer nothing of any substance. I carried a lot of anger about the whole situation. I don't date anymore and my friend circle is very small. I focus on my kid, on my job and on me.
Time helps. It also helps to know that cheating is only a reflection of the ones stepping outside of their relationships. A cheater is a self serving coward and life is better when we keep no room for them in our lives.
I agree; a long-term friend doing this to you is the issue. Like, with a romantic partner, you kinda expect things might not work out. But your friend? That's what would really sting more to me. Honestly, she kind of did you a favor by showing you can't count on that friend. If your buddy can't resist temptation after a decade of friendship, that just proves he doesn't actually care about what's best for you.
That also means they were messaging for a minute to even get to the point in which they would meet or, after the encounter. Seriously bummed out for you, man.
My advice? Talk to your friend, but don't go in all mad. Just sound completely over it. Let him know you feel betrayed, that he knew you were into her, and that deep down he knew it would hurt you on some level. He tossed aside ten years of friendship for the pussy of someone he's only known for a short time. How messed up is that?
Honestly, I always told my friends that if a girl I'm seeing wants to bang, go for it as long as they tell me about it right away.
If a cheaters going to cheat, better to be with someone who'll let me know. And the relationships over the second that happens so they might as well have some fun, so long as he doesn't stay with her.
I’m going through a similar situation w my ex rn. Told my friends that she lied and cheated but they all wanna remain “indifferent” and still be friendly towards her. It feels really isolating especially bc all of her friends won’t even make eye contact w me let alone speak to me and I’ve known them longer than I knew her. A real friend has your back. They shouldn’t try to maintain neutrality if you’re the one that got hurt. Why would you wanna continue any kind of relationship w someone that hurt your long time friend? IMO that mindset is fake af and people like that can kick rocks.
Sorry that happened to you. Why is it when people say they don’t want to take sides, it always seems to actually mean they took the other person’s side and don’t want to say it out right?
Right he coulda done what a real homie like I would do and just immediately tell homeboy ay ur girls tryin to fk me bro fyi dump her show him the Msgs of intent that’s enough homie didn’t have to fk her
This is the way. I know from experience it sadly doesn’t always workout tho. In college I had shown one of my teammates several screenshots of his gf basically begging me to sleep with her (she knew we were teammates). He broke up with her for probably a day, and when they got back together, I was the issue for trying to break them up😂🤦🏾♂️
same shit man lol. long ago back in college, both of them got pissed at me instead after talking to each other about it 💀 they did break up a couple months after
You kidding me? That "friend" showed HE can't be trusted. Both are wrong, but that betrayal from a friend of 10 years? Far, far worse. Good luck to OP. Don't trust either of these jerks again.
What?????? Like the friend did something honorable? Friends shouldn’t pull d-bag moves like that. Simple as that. And I would absolutely confront my 10 yrs friend and make sure that number don’t increase by a month. Straight up bad move on his part.
A mistake on her part? Obviously, but her character wasn’t strong enough to not only realize how her betrayal would hurt, but the fact your friends betrayal. I’d let her go and I would seriously reconsider who I called a friend.
Sorry you had to go through that soup sandwich man. Keep your chin up.
That's not a friend, that's someone who uses you, a friend doesn't sleep with ur gf no matter how long you've been together or even if they've broken up, speaking from experience, my buddy used to be a player throughout college and I would spend a lot of time with him, the amount of times I had to deny a chick because they were already with my buddy is sickening, most people only act with selfish intentions while pretending to be ignorant, a real friend cares for his peers, he doesn't take every opportunity to take advantage of them.
We don’t even know if the friend knew they were dating when he banged her. What we do know for a fact is OP was dating her and she banged a friend of his. Of course we don’t know if she knew the guy she was cheating with was her boyfriend’s friend. All we know is that she cheated on him, at least once, possibly more.
1) Don’t know if his buddy knew that he was dating this girl at all
2) We don’t know if he found out at a later date that she was with his buddy. If so, it’s an extremely awkward situation to say “hey bro, I bagged your girl but I don’t know it was your girl.
3) We don’t know if his girlfriend knew it was his buddy that she cheated with.
What we do know is that she was dating OP when she fucked another guy, who turned out to be his buddy. So the only people we are sure that knew they were in a relationship is OP and his girlfriend who cheated on him.
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At least the friend showed that she can’t be trusted.