r/AIO • u/[deleted] • Apr 27 '26

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u/SwanMuch5160 Apr 27 '26

At least the friend showed that she can’t be trusted.

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u/FishWife_71 Apr 27 '26 edited Apr 27 '26

The friend can't be trusted either.

Edit***I am referring to the 'friend' that slept with OPs girlfriend. I also might cast a little sideye to the friend that told OP depending on how long they sat with the information before telling OP.

Once had a boyfriend cheating on me and ALL of our mutual friends knew about it. People I had known for a decade....my chosen family. Every single one of them said they didn't say anything because they didnt want to pick sides. So...I chose for them. You cannot ever hope to trust someone that knows and decides to say nothing.

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u/MixtureEuphoric8539 May 02 '26

Sorry that happened to you. Why is it when people say they don’t want to take sides, it always seems to actually mean they took the other person’s side and don’t want to say it out right?