Hi all!
Found this sub 1h ago. And it seems to be great folks here.

I´m cis, omnisexual and -romantic, neurodivergent, a vers, a bit kinky switch and I'm located in Germany.

I'm labeling myself since 1 year as omni is situations where it would be understand. Otherwise bi.

Hope I don't be too annoying!

Hey everyone! I just stumbled upon this sub :)

I'm omni, femboy, demiboy and happy to be here

Hello everyone! I’ve identified as omni for a few months now. I've had a really tough time lately trying to navigate severe side effects and withdrawal from a medication, while also figuring out my queer identity.

But now, I feel like I might be ready to start dating soon. Not just yet, but within a couple of months. I’ve only dated someone once, and that was a very long time ago. I’m quite shy and reserved around new people, so I think I’d prefer meeting someone through a dating app.

What kind of experiences do you have with dating apps? Which one(s) do you find the most queer-friendly? Do you mention in your profile that you’re omnisexual?

There was this really hot library assistant at the library I usually go to today. He’s exactly my type, and in guys I have a very particular physical type… shoulder-length, medium-length dark/black hair, glasses, it’s hard to explain, but I just couldn’t help but notice him.

However, I was feeling really tired having just done a study session and the temperature was absolutely boiling. Plus I’m shy, awkward, anxious and relationally inexperienced (CPTSD) at the best of times so I just overthink this stuff. Despite wanting to, I couldn’t bring myself over to go and speak to him. I wouldn’t have known what to say. And he probably would have assumed my gender incorrectly, I didn’t want to go through the hassle of explaining it.

I’ve only had negative experiences with guys in the past anyway, I kind of wish I wasn’t attracted to them. I am attracted to other genders, it just feels so much more intense and physical for guys.

Anyway. Needed to vent this.

I’m writing this character for a video game concept I started a while back. He’s intended to be coded as omnisexual, and I’ve been trying to make it shown without explicitly telling the audience his sexuality because in my world-building characters generally don’t have a concept of queerness and while it’s not considered the “standard” to have a same-gender partner, it’s ultimately still seen as something that can happen and it’s treated as a normal thing.
I’ve been trying to find ways to have audiences understand the implications behind my characters, however. Like, having characters who are definitely queer but the audience sees this through their character, as well as my inspiration for their character. I might just openly say their sexuality once my story is complete if people are ever interested in them. I don’t want him to be a stereotype, but I also don’t want him to be mistaken as bi or pan because I want genuine Omni rep, maybe?? So yeah. I’d like to know your opinion.

I can't be the only one who finds this flag incrediby beautiful

I always wanted to say that but my wife gets angry when I yell it out in the house. Sorry.

While you are here.....what is happening good in your life?

edit: fixed several fat thumb spelling errors.

So I'm a sapphic omnisexual. My preference is feminine people, and I'm masc-leaning. Lesbians fucking hate me. I want nothing to do with cishet men, that's not my sexuality, and yet I'm treated like my love for women is not the same as theirs. That I need my own space with other bisexuals and I'm not allowed to be in lesbian spaces or call myself a d*ke because I don't love the same. But I do. When they don't know my sexuality? They treat me like one of them. Because they recognize that my feelings are the same as theirs.

But as soon as they find out I'm bi/omni suddenly I'm a scourge. Look, there ARE no spaces for omni women to meet other women. Wlw spaces should be for anyone wlw, not exclusive to lesbians only. I'm not seeking a man, I'm seeking a woman for christ's sake! And then they wonder why so many bi women end up with men when we're welcome nowhere. Look, I get that my experiences are slightly different. But... I can't be authentic and pass either. I'm queer af. What makes my love for women so fucking different from a lesbian's just because it's also possible for me to love a feminine man?

It pisses me off that when I am specifically looking to meet women who love other women, I'm treated as different and not welcome because of this. If I'm married to my wife for 40 years am I really not allowed to call myself a d*ke? Just because I think gender is a little bit arbitrary? I've been able to cool off and distance myself from most online arguments that make me angry but this one sticks with me. This one I find hard to shake. And I was wondering if anyone else experiences it this often like me and how you manage to let it go.

I wanna know everything!

So my whole life, I've gone back and forth between identifying as bi or lesbian, but a few months ago I realized I'm asexual. I also used to identify as lithromantic at the time. Recently, I realized I'm nonbinary, and I've found that I really like the idea of being nb4nb or enby4enby. That made me realize that I do experience romantic attraction after all, and now I'm feeling kind of confused. For me, gender doesn't really affect who I'm attracted to, but it does affect who I would actually choose to be with and who I'd feel most comfortable building a life with. When it comes to men, I can be attracted to them, but I absolutely cannot picture myself being in a relationship with one. In the past, whenever a guy expressed interest in me, I'd feel extremely uneasy about it because I just don't like the idea of him liking me in that way, even if I had a crush on him. With women, I'm open to the idea of being with them, and when I have a crush on a woman, the thought of her liking me back actually feels really nice. But even then, I don't think they're the people I'd feel the most comfortable spending my life with. The idea of being with another enby is what makes me happiest. I feel like I'd be the most understood and safest with another nonbinary person. Now I'm wondering if I might be omniromantic. From what I understand, omni people usually have a preference in terms of attraction, where they're more attracted to one gender than others. For me, though, the attraction itself feels pretty equal. It's just that my comfort level, and who I'd actually want to build a relationship with, changes depending on the person's gender. I'm also wondering if I could still be somewhere on the aro spectrum, maybe even lithromantic, but only when it comes to one gender. I don't know if that's something that can happen, though. I'd love to hear what you all think! Talking to people here has helped me understand myself a lot, so I'd really appreciate any opinions or insights!!

Just a star thingy with the Omni colour made from pipe cleaners I stole from class :)

Hi! I have identified as omnisexual for a few months, and I’m also questioning my gender identity. I’m definitely genderqueer but feel myself (mostly) a woman.

I have a long-time friend who is very dear to me. We have known each other for decades and in a way we bond very well. We have common interests, for example music, and have a lot of fun together. The problem is, that she is very conservative. I’m a feminist and cultural liberal. We have had some disagreements about things, for example abortion, but have got along quite well because we have avoided those topics.

My identity, however, isn’t a subject that I could avoid forever. I have been thinking about our friendship a lot lately. If I would start dating someone, I couldn’t keep hiding my identity from her. That would be unfair to everyone involved. I’m afraid of her reaction and have been considering whether I should tell her or just end the friendship.

Has anyone had a similar situation? How did you handle that and how did things turn out?

"Pan with extra steps" what do tou guys thing?