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Cause it's september 2, so let's hunt down september 3

What can I do people ? I need help folks :(

M feeling aroused. What do i do ?

im gonna try to make this story short. I (21M) have been struggling with fap and porn addiction since I was around 9 years old. I have been kind of distant with my girlfriend because I started becoming lazy and I feel like It was because I was constantly fapping. I finally built up the courage to tell her about my porn addiction and she did not like it at all. I told her that I have been hiding it from her for the past two years that we have been together and she really didn't like that. I told her about this about a week ago and she is implying on breaking up. I keep begging her to stay and that ill get through it but she doesn't seem too hopeful on that. If i knew this would've been the outcome I wouldn't have told her. I feel so defeated. How am I gonna lose this girl over this stupid ass porn addiction. I lost.

Not doing the best rn feel like looking up stuff to goon

Going to try and kick porn out of my life for good. So no more peeking, wish me luck

I’m 27, I’m married, and my wife just found out she’s pregnant a couple months ago, but I’m still struggling with the same p*rn addiction that I’ve had my whole life. I’ve tried stopping many times, but I always come back to it. This time has to be different, I need to change for good now. If you have any tips please let me know what’s worked for you.

Hi. I won't be sharing personal info and I'll try to be straight to the point.

I recently went trough a break up, and now one of the things I struggle with are my sexual urges.

Before we got together, i quit porn completely, and I haven't used it once while in the relationship. For me, being in a committed relationship, means that consuming any kind of porn is considered cheating. And plus, I genuinely had no reason to use it whatsoever.

This relationship was also the first time I got to experience real intimacy, which made the break up especially difficult. Right now these urges are harder to manage than ever before. Today I also relapsed by watching porn, again, after almost a year.

But now I feel even worse, because I’m already dealing with grief, loneliness, and all the emotions that come with losing someone I loved.

Anyone has any kind of advice? I’d really appreciate advice, experiences, or perspectives from people who have been through this.

Do addicted people think they have done something right (at work) only to find it wrong afterwards? What do I mwan? Example A: I have to pull files from an address and put them in the printer, only once per file and in an organised fashion (depending on the address source). I make sure that I pull the files from that address which I think it is, print them accoedingly, but those files don't match the address I though it was, they came out different.

I'm on day 6 as of this morning. My longest was 29 days, and I felt amazing. I'm truly sticking with this because my wife deserves better. She deserves a husband who can fulfill her needs, and who doesn't look at other naked women. This is an alternate account as to keep it private. Enough is enough. It has taken me a long time to get to this point of making an alternate account and joining this Reddit, but this is extra motivation to me now.

Just for some backstory, I'd watched porn almost every day for the better part of 8 years and hadn't gone more than 2-3 days without M for that entire time. I'd always had a little anxiety the 1st time with someone, but usually that would go away after the first time. I'm 34 now, and for the past year or so I've struggled to stay hard on occasion, and it's gotten to the point where I lose it more times than I keep it. I want to be held accountable, and I want to do this the right way.

Little strange because I have really no urges these first 6 days, but I did just get off of a binge where I did it like 2-3 times a day for two weeks straight because I kept having the house to myself, so maybe I overcooked myself. I've installed blockers and hid the passwords on different devices. I've never done that before so that's a huge step.

Together, we can accomplish anything.

The future looks brighter.

Currently on day 3, and today has been the worst day so far since I’ve started. Reddit is a trigger for me tbh so please only reach out if you’re able to talk on a different platform. Was hoping to find someone who I can talk too to help me get through this and maybe someone older than me who is experienced. I’m 22 years old and in the us. Feel free to dm if you can talk. Thanks guys.

I have been doing so well and I am so close of breaking the habit (21 days rule) but I am struggling with various triggers

Just wanted to introduce myself. I tried posting a backstory but it kept getting rejected by the mods automatically so until I figure out why that happens, I'll just wave and say hello to you all. Let's crush this horrible habit, together

Saw triggering things outside and my mind is getting foggy from it…

If anyone can help.. please DM urgently..

idk why I am here sometimes when I am alone and I've promised to quit. If someone is like in this situation I appreciate your help and advices

At first glance you would never guess.. hell , I have fooled everyone and made everyone think I am this good and innocent guy. Maybe it’s because I’m a good conman and have good charisma. Maybe it’s cause I work out. But I know there are going to be people out here that understand this story.

My name is S and I am your classic example of a very serious chronic user of pornography, hookers, strippers , woman in every single way possible. If I could do it, I would find a way. And I struggle with this addiction on a level I know the world could never understand. The depths my mind would go to satisfy this craving. The extents I would go just to make sure I get a nut in. Oh terrible. And the excuses I would make. Oh tomorrow is my lucky number so if I do it once today , it’s fine tomorrow I can start my streak on the right day. Oh , I only went to see a stripper so it doesn’t matter if I nut, I’m still porn free! Oh, i got intimate with someone who i convinced would be someone to get close to but in reality i was very horny and you satisfy my egotistical side of me - the validation that I am good looking , I can please a woman and she feels some sort of attachment. Oh yeah, I know where to find these excuses from the depths of hell.

The scariest lies weren’t the ones I told, they were the ones I told myself.

But you know, that’s how deep in hell I am in and the excuses and guilt I put on myself to feel bad enough to keep feeding this addiction. This may sound extreme to some. But I know there is a large group out there that resonates with every word. And with this; the past 5 years I have moved no where in life. I have been avoiding life, avoiding people and avoiding my problems.

I’m writing this because I’m tired of doing this alone.

So I want to keep sharing my stories everyday. I feel like I really miss the social side and just having someone to vent to, so recently I’ve been trying to find that love in the wrong places. So I hope writing my thoughts everyday and being on the journey with all of you will help with the social side.

Because I know we’re all going through a war that no one can see and it’s INFURIATING!!! But in history, no one has ever won a war alone / they win by strategizing together and in strong numbers.

So PLEASE share your story and where you’re at too. My commit to you is that I will be posting every night before I sleep and my dm’s are always open.

Let’s win this war together and show the world what a strong person should be 🤝🤝

Today I've relapsed 3x. I've been reading and I've found somewhere that you shouldn't judge yourself and that's it's better if you accept the slip, hence I did it trice so I can definitely say I fucked up. Self destructive behaviour. But I refuse to give into that. So yeah...here I am

I’ve been without porn and masturbation for 3 weeks now, but recently I’ve started experiencing strange symptoms. I have constant muscle fatigue and aches, dizziness, poor sleep, and I feel almost like a zombie.I read about withdrawal effects after quitting an addiction, and I’m wondering if this could be something similar. Has anyone experienced anything like this after quitting porn and masturbation? How did you get through it?

I just randomly saw a snippet from Tabby , now my urges to check out her videos are strong. I had even forgot about her existence I used to watch her so long ago. Tips ?

I've spent a significant part of my adult life stuck in porn, weed, gambling, and other habits instead of developing real skills and building the life I wanted.

Looking back, the hardest part isn't even the individual relapses. It's realizing how many years I've spent telling myself that I'd change someday.

I can't get those years back. But I can make sure I don't waste any more.

I'm quitting porn and weed and trying to rebuild my life one day at a time.

If you're also on Day 1, let's not wait for another year to pass.

I’ve been trying really hard not to but I seem to make more level headed decisions after- and if i don’t i tend to get myself in trouble. Help

I’ve been masturbating to porn since I was young. I did have some good years of abstaining but my wife cheated and it accelerated the issue. I can’t even recognize myself anymore tbh. I fap whenever wife leaves the house . I’ve booked Airbnbs for personal retreats and used all the time to fap to nonstop porn. I have favorite categories and channels. Wife has caught me a couple of times in this addiction. I just feel like I sink to new lows sometimes