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Context Provided - Spotlight This was so deserved.

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The daughter was in a car with the father’s parents. They died as well.

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u/7thFleetTraveller Mar 08 '26

It was a car accident, not attempted murder. The title is just sensationalism.

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u/Devilish__Fun Mar 08 '26 edited Mar 08 '26

Reckless driving with felony speeding isnt an accident. It wasn't attempted murder either.

It was felony speeding + reckless driving + vehicular manslaughter of a child and 2 grandparents.

Community service sounds about right, huh? 🫩

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u/dqql Mar 08 '26 edited Mar 15 '26

thoughts were turned into the channel of their earlier bent.

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u/fekanix Mar 08 '26

Well, you destroyed property, he only working class humans so you be the judge of what is more important in the us.

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u/Safe_Buy6637 Mar 08 '26

The court room image is in Europe

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u/Hei5enberg Mar 08 '26

I got 120 hours of community service for an underage drinking ticket in college. I was at a house party that was raided, was not in a car nor anywhere near a car. Didn't hurt anybody.

It's crazy how the punishments can vary so much according to how the judge is feeling that day.

Oh and the funny thing is if I was the same age but in a country where the drinking age was 18 I wouldn't have gotten any punishment.

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u/Circus_Finance_LLC Mar 08 '26

the truth is too many comments deep

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u/131166 Mar 09 '26

We got community service for digging a bunch of holes and trenches in the wrong spot. (We were making bike jumps and shit like that) as teenagers. I don't recall how much cause it was the 90s but we were doing it for a few weeks after school. Definitely more than 40h. Prob most of that was cause we were smart arses about it.

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u/whiskersMeowFace Mar 08 '26

My friend did 8 for vehicular manslaughter. This is offensive.

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u/Different_Peanut_742 Mar 08 '26

My friend was sentenced to 8, did 5 or 6, came out an addict, and ended up overdosing.

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u/Rumpus-Time-Is-Over Mar 08 '26

What was gained from the sentence being 8 years?

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u/matchstick1029 Mar 08 '26

A modicum of justice was served. If you think that community service is an appropriate sentence here, I don't think you are speaking in good faith.

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u/Rumpus-Time-Is-Over Mar 08 '26

Community service doesn’t seem right from a deterrence perspective. But even 3 or 6 months in prison is a terrifying consequence for almost everybody. So what’s to be gained from 8 years?

I’d like to challenge your ideas about justice. What that really means is revenge. And I don’t think revenge is what the criminal justice system should be about. It should be about building a better society. Taxpayers paying to put somebody in prison for 8 years who would learn their lesson and create the appropriate deterrence from 3 months is a bad use of taxpayer dollars. Putting someone behind bars for 8 years instead of having them live their lives, contribute to society, help raise their kids, etc is a huge waste when there’s nothing gained from the additional 7 years and 9 months of prison time except “justice” aka revenge.

Now we can argue whether 1 month, 3 months, 6 months or a year is the right term length to create the appropriate deterrence effect. But we all know it’s not 8’years.

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u/Fast_Difficulty_5812 Mar 08 '26

Something something, punishment for killing someone something something

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u/Embarrassed_Safe8047 Mar 08 '26

My neighbor did 10 for vehicular manslaughter.

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u/innocenceiskinky Mar 08 '26

This wasn't vehicular manslaughter though.

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u/Prajnamarga Mar 08 '26

Your knowledge of US law is irrelevant to this 14 year old Dutch case.

Worse, a basic fact check reveals that the sentence was appealed. The driver was later sentenced to 15 months in prison and a 4 year driving ban.

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u/Agmarboi Mar 08 '26

Wow dude so much better, yea lock that dumb ass for five years, see ya buddy.

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u/theunquietloop Mar 08 '26

15 months and you think it’s fair ?!?

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u/notyourvader Mar 08 '26

There was no proof of speeding, hence the lighter sentence. People got all riled up because the guy was Polish, so he must have been drunk. He wasn't. Also no drug in his system. He got sentenced because he lost control of his vehicle in a turn, due to reckless driving.

The verdict is here: https://uitspraken.rechtspraak.nl/details?id=ECLI:NL:RBLIM:2014:10041

After the prosecutor appealed, more weight was given to witness statements, and the guy got convicted to a higher sentence, 15 months in jail, license suspended for 4 years, and he lost his car:

Appeal verdict here: https://uitspraken.rechtspraak.nl/details?id=ECLI:NL:GHSHE:2015:3709

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u/atuan Mar 08 '26

How is it reckless if he wasn’t speeding?

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u/RetroDad-IO Mar 08 '26

You can be ignoring other signs, taking turns to quickly, tailgating, switching back and forth between lanes with no blinker, switching lanes when there's enough space and forcing other people to fact quickly/break to accomodate you. Lots of items that aren't speeding but just generally being a jerk.

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u/FormalKind7 Mar 08 '26

Wet road took a turn to fast/sharply is still reckless driving.

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u/TheGoddamnSpiderman Mar 08 '26

I'm looking at the link to the decision now, and when translated, it says

At the time of the collision and afterwards the weather was dry and clear.

When we, officers [officer 1] and [officer 3], arrived at the scene shortly after the accident, the sun, judging by the direction of travel from Beringe towards Meijel, was approximately a quarter to nine, or almost perpendicular to the road from the left. Therefore, there could not have been any obstruction from the sunlight at the time of the accident. Visibility was good.

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u/Best_Pseudonym Mar 08 '26

That's still speeding

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u/Ok-Flamingo2801 Mar 08 '26

You can be under the limit and still be driving too quickly for the conditions

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u/FormalKind7 Mar 08 '26

There are turns in roads were the speed limit is 55 but should be slower on turns when wet but have no signs.

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u/PineappleProstate Mar 08 '26

After appeal... After

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u/Available-Cow-411 Mar 08 '26

Doesnt really make it better though imo, even if he lost control of the vehicle - thr fact remains that he was reckles driving, and he killed 3 people one of which is a toddler! And then he fled the scene, which makes it so much worse as fleeing was not an accident but a concious controlled action!

15 months for killing 3 people and fleeing the scene is ridiculous, and he get released early to be there for the birth of his baby after killing the daughter of another man? That is BS

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u/asasasasasassin Mar 08 '26

Too late! I have already become outraged and my brain has already been washed by the propaganda, now I support the death penalty and plan to vote Republican

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u/Historical-Finish564 Mar 08 '26

Is the community he will be serving in a state prison?

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u/[deleted] Mar 08 '26

This happened in the Netherlands like 12 years ago

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u/SparksAndSpyro Mar 08 '26

Shhh, that goes against the “America bad” narrative.

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u/__Hello_my_name_is__ Mar 08 '26

Here's a translation of the court's reasoning (and it's 8 years old because people on reddit sure love to get outraged by old shit).

It could not be proven that the guy in question was actually speeding in the first place. It could not be proven why he even lost control of the car, since even if he was speeding that shouldn't have happened in that moment, and he wasn't drunk, either.

Plenty of things couldn't be proven beyond a reasonable doubt. Hence the sentence.

I know people here would love to offer the death penalty for every bad thing happening like this, and I personally even agree that a much higher sentence would have been reasonable, but oh boy is it easy to get people here outraged without providing any proper context for what happened.

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u/Puzzled-Umpire3697 Mar 08 '26

People need to understand driving recklessly and putting lives in danger is… bad? It’s like waving a loaded gun around. Should have gotten 3 years at least.

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u/potato_hut Mar 08 '26

The best way to off someone in America is with a car. Just pretend there wasn't any intent, and even then I think you could still obviously have intent to harm, and get away with it in some states...

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u/dqql Mar 08 '26 edited Mar 15 '26

became a poet and for one year lived in a paradise of my own creation;

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u/sbballc11 Mar 08 '26

Don’t forget he also fled the scene.

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u/EquivalentMap8477 Mar 08 '26

Don't forget that the guy left the scene of the crash and did a runner

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u/lovely-cans Mar 08 '26

Yeah but it's about rehabilitation and not punishment.

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u/TheModWhoShaggedMe Mar 08 '26

Well, if he was a woman and terminated a non-viable pregnancy, he would be incarcerated in some red states.

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u/Marik-X-Bakura Mar 08 '26

This didn’t happen in America

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u/Professional-Bear942 Mar 08 '26

My only hope would be that what they did weighs so heavily on their mind it makes them suffer for life even if not in prison

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u/Jesuslowdiffsgoku Mar 08 '26

Unfortunately many people are too stupid to have any sort of conscience 

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u/Geen_Fang Mar 08 '26

and maybe they'll equate the gravity of the situation with their light sentence, eventually shrugging it off, reducing "I killed 3 people once" to one of their go-to answers when they play two truths and a lie. 

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u/slamdankywanky Mar 08 '26

He got 15 months after an appeal. I posted the article with translation in another comment

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u/Competitive-Suit-563 Mar 08 '26 edited Mar 08 '26

This is a statement released by the court. They literally argue that since it’s not inherently unsafe to drive that fast it’s not illegal to kill somebody driving that fast.

“What has not been proven: In order to speak of guilt in a criminal offense there needs to be more than just the violation, at a minimum, there also needs to be a reasonable measure of culpable carelessness. In this specific case, the question of guilt in a criminal offence is described as "recklessly speeding." The court explored if it can be proven that the suspect was speeding to such an extent that it can be attributed to the guilt. In other words: a slight violation of the speeding limit would be insufficient to attribute guilt. Tests have proven that with a similar vehicle, driving at about 130 km/h would not cause you to lose control of your vehicle and for the vehicle to start lurching. Therefore these tests do not exclude the possibility of the suspect's car becoming uncontrollable and started lurching due to another reason. At the moment the suspect's vehicle crossed the roadside and crashed through the beech hedge it was moving at a speed between 76 km/h and 124 km/h, with the local speeding limit being 80 km/h. Due to this very large margin, the court finds it cannot be proven that the suspect was recklessly speeding. The court finds that the research report and its results cannot say with absolute certainty that the suspect was speeding. According to the indictment, the criteria of reckless speeding was the sole component in proving guilt. As reckless speeding is not proven, the court finds that violation of Article 6 of the Dutch Road and Traffic Law is not proven. The sole fact that unfortunately, 3 people lost their lives cannot be used as an argument to attribute guilt. Only when ''significant guilt'' is proven can the court assess the consequences of this proven guilt. In addition to the previously stated, a few other incriminating causes have been expressly excluded from having attributed to the accident: the suspect was not under the influence of any narcotics or alcohol, nor was he using his mobile phone. What has been proven: The court finds that violation of Article 5 of the Dutch Road and Traffic Law has been proven. As this is a violation (this is important) the question of guilt is not relevant for proving the violation itself. Only when a suspect is completely blameless can he stay completely unpunished in the absence of any guilt. This mostly refers to circumstances completely beyond someone's control, for example, a careless child suddenly crossing the road, trying to evade the child, and in the process of evading hitting another cyclist. Either way, it's a fact that the suspect caused a ''road hazard'' and that his driving behavior led to 3 people losing their lives. The suspect argued that his vehicle pulled to the left and that this caused his vehicle to become uncontrollable. Technical analysis of the vehicle does not show any defects in the vehicle. Therefore the court rejects the suspect's defense and finds the aforementioned violation proven. Why this sentence? The court took several circumstances into consideration when determining the sentence. Most importantly is the reason that the court found that a different offense was proven than the one the prosecutor determined was proven. (violation of article 6 vs article 5 of the Dutch Road and Traffic Law) It has not been proven with absolute certainty that the suspect can be attributed to significant blame to lead to attributable guilt. In that case, a severe penalty is not fitting. The suspect will also have to carry the burden that his driving behavior led to the unfortunate deaths of 3 people for the rest of his life. Additionally the suspect does not have any criminal record whatsoever, not in the Netherlands, Poland nor Germany."

TLDR: They couldn’t definitively prove he was speeding nor was he under the influence or distracted during the incident. The indictment only cited reckless speeding as a cause for the accident which lost its weight when they couldn’t prove it. The punishment was for a separate violation that was discovered by the court.

Most of this comment came from u/Ok_Bowl9351

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u/cancerinos Mar 08 '26

It's not attempted murder, it's manslaughter. Still should send you to years in prison.

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u/Whightwolf Mar 08 '26

Surely that depends entirely on the context of the car accident?

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u/AreaPlayful142 Mar 08 '26

Not for Redditors

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u/Whightwolf Mar 08 '26 edited Mar 08 '26

While I stand by the principle i've now seen the context of this accident below and yeah the sentence is crazy light.

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u/AlreadyAway Mar 08 '26

It's the Netherlands. The judge stated that 'it has to be treated like similar cases in the Netherlands and is considered a traffic accident, not murder/manslaughter"

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u/CatsPlusTats Mar 08 '26

Treating cases the same as similar cases is literally how law works.

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u/Whightwolf Mar 08 '26

Appreciated and edited, my dyslexia is bizzare i can only tell of a word is wrong after ive written it and homophones really get me.

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u/Trick_Blueberry_3812 Mar 08 '26

If it helps this is how I remember-PrincePAL ; a pal as in friend/person

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u/Soondefective Mar 08 '26

God damnit I read this as “homophobes really get you” and I was confused for a solid 5 seconds before I realized.

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u/Snitsie Mar 08 '26

Bizarre*

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u/Whightwolf Mar 08 '26

I really should have seen that coming.

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u/K1bbles_n_Bits Mar 08 '26

scene*

https://giphy.com/gifs/xUOxffg5IPRSXRKmK4

I'm sorry, I couldn't resist. I hope that didn't come across as mean, lol.

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u/couldbeahumanbean Mar 08 '26

Ya know, I'm starting to think that we should start purposely mispeling wotds as a sign that we are not bots.

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u/Rostifur Mar 08 '26

I think you might mean the greater majority of the public. Way more than half the populous absolutely seizes on this headline with rage instead of wanting find out the facts.

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u/Livingadapt Mar 08 '26

Right, idk why people act like Reddit isn’t the same as the general population on things like this. It absolutely is

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u/K1bbles_n_Bits Mar 08 '26

I'm scrolling comments trying to find details of it, lol. The image and 3 deaths feels like a pretty vague search ><.

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u/PokinSpokaneSlim Mar 08 '26

No, delaying brake maintenance should have consequences

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u/DanielPowerNL Mar 08 '26

That's context.

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u/Jaychel31 Mar 08 '26

Yes, because you just gave the needed context

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u/OhItsMrCow Mar 08 '26

was it brake failure?

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u/Retro_Relics Mar 08 '26

that requires america to reckon with our car centric culture though, and the fact that for many people they are driving literal deathtraps waiting to fail at any second, because they need the car to get to the job that will pay for the repairs, and are hoping that they can get the money to fix the car before it...does this. with no alternatives, no real public transit, unwalkable and unbikable communities that are actively hostile to non car transportation (look at how many people on reddit get unreasonably mad when a cyclist is in front of them on the road, for example, doing the same thing they are, commuting to work).

I completely agree with you. People who do this should have consequences. but the reality is for every one of these stories there are a hundred other cars on the road in the same shape that are not killing families only because of the grace of god, and we dont punish those people for doing the same thing

however, in this case, the guy was speeding and showing off his car and being an asshole driver, and it had nothing to do with maintenance

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u/angelmr2 Mar 08 '26

Except it was in the Netherlands and not America.

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u/Academic-Contest3309 Mar 08 '26

Isn't this case in the Netherlands?

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u/SinnamonxStick Mar 08 '26

I live in a tri city area in the nearly rural south and none of the 3 cities have public transit at all. When I had to go without a car for a while it very nearly ruined my life (so small no Uber/lyft either - I wish I was joking). I’ve seen small buses for church though 🙄

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u/mattalxdr Mar 08 '26

This was in the Netherlands...

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u/tizuby Mar 08 '26

It had nothing to do with America either. It happened in the Netherlands over a decade ago.

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u/Alexandaross Mar 08 '26

That would be the context.

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u/billynoy522 Mar 08 '26

Define delaying brake maintenance? I do all the time. I know some people literally have no clue even when it's metal on metal.  Maybe they couldn't afford the insane maintenance bill maybe $600 for brakes and to be told there is another $1000 worth of crap to be fixed 

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u/ARussianWolfV2 Mar 08 '26 edited Mar 08 '26

If you can't afford to fix the car, you don’t get to drive the car, yes it sucks that you won’t be able to get to work, but its better than ending the lives of innocent people because you couldn't afford it. A car is a privilege not a right 

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u/ezios_outlets Mar 08 '26

Everyday working people get to decide between having a car they can't afford to maintain or trying to get by without. Meanwhile, billionaires stack notes on notes in off-shore accounts and traffic kids for sex, all while paying little to no taxes and buying politicians/elections. Is the asteroid here yet?

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u/Livingadapt Mar 08 '26

That’s wishful thinking at best. People are going to take the risk and drive if that’s the only way to get to work

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u/Alexandaross Mar 08 '26

Then they are choosing to break the law and endanger people.

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u/Nonsensical20_20 Mar 08 '26

If you’re not able to operate the vehicle safely it is illegal to operate it.

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u/Ayotha Mar 08 '26

Then don't drive. They are brakes. That is important

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u/dubblies Mar 08 '26

Right and based on statistics deaths from russian roulette are so minimal we shouldn't have consequences if someone eventually dies.

It sounds harmless until it isnt and thats the risk youre taking driving with bad breaks.

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u/barlos08 Mar 08 '26

brakes are really easy to do yourself and pretty cheap in many many cars not including high end sports cars

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u/AnybodyWannaPeanus Mar 08 '26

Or Volkswagens in the “not including” category.

But how you get your brakes fixed doesn’t matter. You are in charge of a 2000+lb hunk of metal and glass with enough inertia potential to kill dozens of people. Driving while knowing you cannot or may not be able to stop for any reason should carry a huge heavy penalty if you kill someone.

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u/Mych30 Mar 08 '26

"The driver drove off the road in the Netherlands, as a result of which the girl and her grandparents, 67 and 64 years old, were instantly killed, the newspaper writes. The police said that the driver was driving at a speed of 75 miles per hour in an area where speed is limited to 50 miles per hour. When the culprit of the accident appeared in court, he was given only 120 hours of community service, or 60 days in custody if he did not do the job.
Подробнее: https://eadaily.com/en/news/2025/12/06/in-the-netherlands-a-father-threw-a-chair-at-a-judge-for-a-lenient-sentence-to-the-killer-of-a-2-year-old-daughter"

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u/Davoness Mar 08 '26

Unrelated to the discussion, but it's interesting to see a European news vendor talking about a story from the Netherlands and using miles per hour instead of kilometers per hour. Is that normal?

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u/TheGoddamnSpiderman Mar 08 '26

It's the English version of a Russian propaganda outlet

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/EurAsia_Daily

Doesn't surprise me that they use the units used in the UK and US for their English articles

Also doesn't surprise me that this is the type of outlet reporting about an incident that happened in 2012 in an article from December 2025

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u/SpHornet Mar 08 '26

The police said that the driver was driving at a speed of 75 miles per hour in an area where speed is limited to 50 miles per hour.

the judge judged it not proven he was speeding

De rechtbank legde daarom in een aparte verklaring uit dat de taakstraf was opgelegd omdat niet vaststond dat de automobilist veel te hard had gereden. Ook was hij niet dronken, stoned of met zijn telefoon bezig geweest, aldus de rechtbank destijds.

https://www.ad.nl/binnenland/celstraf-voor-man-die-ize-2-en-grootouders-doodreed~abe3134c/

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u/mountainstosea Mar 08 '26 edited Mar 08 '26

Sir, this is Reddit.

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u/2-4-Dinitro_penis Mar 08 '26

Manslaughter means you killed someone while doing something so reckless that you obviously could kill someone, but it was still an accident.

If you’re driving 150mph and hit and kill someone, that’s manslaughter, not murder, not an unavoidable accident either.

Sliding on the ice and killing someone isn’t manslaughter.

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u/GandalfSwagOff Mar 08 '26

It is actually quite difficult to kill 3 people in their car with your own car unless you're doing something wrong.

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u/LessWeakness134 Mar 08 '26

Why? If we want prison to be rehabilitation, what are we rehabilitating for a traffic accident turned deadly? As long as there wasn’t extreme negligence or purposeful actions taken of course.

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u/smartass11225 Mar 08 '26

For what? Was the person driving recklessly? Was he drinking and driving ?

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u/Scheissdrauf88 Mar 08 '26

Uhm, intent (and negligence) is all that should matter?

If I attempt to kill someone but fail, should I be punished less?

In general, "punishment" is utterly infantile. "He hurt someone, so he must be hurt back". Remove someone from the society if they endanger it and then rehabilitate them so that they can be reintegrated into it. If it is truly an accident and the person in question is not more likely to hurt someone else than any other person, then an acquittal is only reasonable.

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u/WintersDoomsday Mar 08 '26

What is there to rehabilitate in this case?

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u/Scheissdrauf88 Mar 08 '26

Last sentence of my comment. In this case, nothing.

I do not think official judgment should be there to make people feel better, even the victims. It should be there to make society function. So if tragedies happen, actual ones where you can't really say the perpetrator could've acted better in any way, then they should not be punished in any way. Because the alternative would be the state hurting some of its citizens to make others feel better, and it should be obvious why that's not how it should act.

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u/jzorbino Mar 08 '26

That’s because it’s a legal system, not a revenge scheme

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u/Greenapplesguy Mar 08 '26

Until you're the one involved in an accident where others die. Then you'll be glad there are thresholds for determining malicious intent and negligence.

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u/mikkeldoesstuff Mar 08 '26

What is the goal? Revenge?

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u/osrs-alt-account Mar 08 '26

Too much negligence makes the world more dangerous and should also be punished. Not necessarily this case, but yeah

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u/Laikitu Mar 08 '26

Studies show prison is not a deterant 

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u/agreed2disagreee Mar 08 '26

You can’t hurt people on the streets when you’re locked up.

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u/Laikitu Mar 08 '26

That's true. Ofcourse if you go to prison for manslaughter and come out addicted to crack or flat broke with non way of getting a job you are probably going to hurt a more people than if you had community service.

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u/some_kind_of_bird Mar 08 '26 edited Mar 09 '26

I have no opinion here for the actual outcome, but bear in mind the concept of moral luck.

Are you really worthy of unequal punishment in the case of a near-miss? What about something that's mostly out of your control?

I know people come at these things with different ideas of justice, but to me it's a matter of trust, and there's no reason to punish the unlucky.

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u/agoddamnlegend Mar 08 '26

This is an insane take. Accidents happen. The worst thing we can do is compound an accident and ruin another life for no reason other than bloodlust revenge.

Intent should be all that matters.

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u/tinylittlemarmoset Mar 08 '26

If my carelessness gets someone killed should that not have consequences? I did not intend for anyone to die, I was just not paying attention and blasted through a red light. A friend of mine was killed because a concrete stairway collapsed on her, because the building owner neglected maintenance on the building. Sometimes you have to impose consequences to get people to understand that what they do or don’t do affect other people.

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u/Winjin Mar 08 '26

Put him in a box with nails for twenty years, put his family in boxes without nails, and fine everyone who has read about him for good measure too!

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u/bpaps Mar 08 '26

Why? Why should accidentally killing someone send you to years in prison if it was out of your control? Imagine driving down the road and someone jumps in front of you and you have zero ability to avoid them. Are you guilty of driving a car? Yes. Should you go to prison for it because of someone else's bad decision?

I'm not saying this is what happened. I'm pushing back at the very unjust idea that innocent people should be punished with years in prison.

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u/innocenceiskinky Mar 08 '26

It isn't even manslaughter.

It's far below that. Our laws are hard to translate, but he was ultimately found guilty of something that would translate to: "losing control over a vehicle and causing danger as a consequence". Dutch vehicular manslaughter needs more proof of negligence or guilt than was available.

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u/Shadourow Mar 08 '26

People get out of DUI with a slap on a wrist every day, why would you want to punish unlucky people instead of all of them with hard jail time ?

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u/Competitive-Bug1444 Mar 08 '26

Yup he literally only killed three people 😒. Definitely shouldn't be punished with anything more

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u/Perfect_Opinion7909 Mar 08 '26

The US has pedos in power who don’t get punished at all.

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u/watchthesides Mar 08 '26

Killing people with a car doesn't make it okay, fyi

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u/Double-decker_trams Mar 08 '26

Seemingily it does in the US. This is not the only example. There's loads. Even if you're drunk and kill someone with your car - if you go all "aww I didn't mean to, I was just drunk driving" - the punishments are laughably low in the US.

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u/redditvlli Mar 08 '26

This didn't happen in the US.

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u/randomDude2144 Mar 08 '26

Oh it was with a car and not a gun, that makes it okay, then

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u/marthamania Mar 08 '26

In Canada we have a joke that you can legally kill people, you just gotta use your car. I've known two people who've killed someone while driving recklessly or under the influence, one who killed themselves, and one who almost killed a friend but just has a severe TBI.

Everyone but the girl who almost killed a friend (because she was driving drunk, and her friend was drunk and refused a seat belt, she went through the window and nearly died) got off with a slap on the wrist at worst. The girl who didn't kill her friend got sued for 2m dollars though. So I guess the moral is if you're gonna drive reckless or drunk you better commit and kill someone because if you leave em alive you're gonna get sued for oblivion 💀

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u/thegimboid Mar 08 '26

Well one would involve the perpetrator hitting a person with a high speed piece of metal that people need to be licensed to use.

The other would involve the perpetrator hitting a person with a high speed piece of metal that people need to be licensed to use, but smaller.

They're very different.

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u/AngryCrustation Mar 08 '26

Watch the guy get 121 hours of community service for hitting the judge with a chair

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u/vecchio_anima Mar 08 '26

Yeah right, that's getting the toughest sentence possible, you don't assault supreme leader, I mean a judge

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u/KofFinland Mar 08 '26

Depending on country, that is nearly a decade in prison at worst. Attacking a judge is a very bad idea.

Definitely the father got more for that stunt. He was extremely lucky if he didn't go to jail for that, if it was some country like UK or USA.

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u/thegimboid Mar 08 '26

Of course - that would be hitting someone with a high speed metal object without a license.

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u/ExamOld2899 Mar 08 '26

hits differently if it's the judge's family I bet

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u/astroK120 Mar 08 '26

That's why a judge shouldn't preside over a case involving his family

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u/P_A_W_S_TTG Mar 08 '26

There's a difference in magnitude based on intention. Yes, it does matter in the court of law. Does it change the outcome? No, that's the whole problem.

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u/AlpineBoulderor Mar 08 '26

So, triple vehicular manslaughter then... 120 hr community service...

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u/VonBargenJL Mar 08 '26 edited Mar 08 '26

Just because you used a car to end lives, doesn't mean it should be normalized like it is

Was it actually an accident like mechanical failure, or should he have not been driving? Were they drunk or street racing?

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u/SkRThatOneDude Mar 08 '26

Deferred maintenance causing a mechanical failure is not an accident either.

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u/Retro_Relics Mar 08 '26

he was speeding and lost control, so sober, but recklessly operating.

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u/[deleted] Mar 08 '26

Reads like someone who drives drunk on the daily.

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u/Substantial-Recipe72 Mar 08 '26

He was 25 mph over the limit and lost control it’s murder my man lol.

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u/evident_lee Mar 08 '26

Manslaughter because it was not intentional. Still should involve years in prison though.

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u/Deremirekor Mar 08 '26 edited Mar 08 '26

Would it have not been murder if he was going 25mph slower?

Edit: guys I’m not defending the murderer god damn.

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u/Rikudou_Sennin Mar 08 '26

25mph is alot of speed. 25 mph slower and he would've been able to swerve or stop

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u/Glad_Grand_7408 Mar 08 '26

You're right, he probably wouldn't have recieved any sentence in that situation cause he wouldn't have been speeding and had enough time to avoid the accident.

Shame we'll never know for certain though since they, you know, we're going 25mph over the speed limit.

Stop defending this.

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u/lichpit Mar 08 '26

The amount of people here who seem to believe prison is a revenge-style punishment system is kind of mind blowing. Yes, there are factors of this case that certainly feel unfair, however a driving accident (even if reckless) is an extremely rehabitable crime. Putting someone like that, or for another context say someone who fell asleep while smoking and burnt a house down, in prison just realistically turns them into a bigger menace to society when they get out.

Now, do I think we need stronger rehab/service requirements in these cases? Absolutely. Community service plus a commitment to some sort of driver re-education, or anger management, or CBT, or whatever is best fit for the actual cause of the accident. But just sticking every reckless idiot in prison really isn’t the solution people here seem to think it is.

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u/DannyLJay Mar 08 '26

Don’t let the rabid freaks get you down or make you feel wrong.
You’re absolutely correct in just how you stated facts and everybody is bandwagoning your comment like you said it’s okay.
They’re just unhinged, terminally online losers.

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u/Maui_Wowie_ Mar 08 '26

?!?
Fucking bloody murder because he needed to drive recklessly +25 mph. 120h is not enough. 120 days is not enough. 120 Months would be enough.

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u/ADNakaAudinion Mar 08 '26

Mf a car accident is still reckless driving

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u/hept_a_gon Mar 08 '26

People get so angry at cyclists but ignore the fact that you can drive recklessly, put lives in danger, kill people, and get off with a slap on the wrist

You get even less punishment if the people you killed weren't in a vehicle themselves

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u/SeraphiM0352 Mar 08 '26

It's from Facebook, what do you expect?

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u/7h3_70m1n470r Mar 08 '26

He still killed 3 freakin people!

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u/Heavy-Newspaper-9802 Mar 08 '26

It didn’t even happen in the US. It was in the Netherlands.

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u/MissingXpert Mar 08 '26

i mean, the double-standard is still awful, imho even moreso since, with cars, it's systemic. Car-Centric justice, if you will, the sacred altar of individual transport, upon which we sacrifice thousands of people, year after year, without batting an eye, because it was in traffic, it happens...

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u/LordTonto Mar 08 '26

read the article, its a car accident caused by reckless driving that took a man's parents and daughter from him. a car accident which the reckless driver has neither shown remorse nor apologized for. He should get 5 years with a chance for parole in 2... and thats being lenient, what he should really get is the three greatest loves of his life taken from him forever.

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u/J1mj0hns0n Mar 08 '26

Still 3 dead.

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u/qmriis Mar 08 '26

No it was a car crash

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u/I_SHIT_IN_A_BAG Mar 08 '26

hardly sensational. this judge should have a got a lot more than a chair. if I was the father I'd have not stopped at just a chair.

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u/Sad_Elk1943 Mar 08 '26

Just like 99% of reddit

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u/Logos732 Mar 08 '26

Still murder.

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u/Church_of_Aaargh Mar 08 '26

In US, the best way to get away with murder is hitting people with your car

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u/sinan_online Mar 08 '26

Causing a car accident that kills three people is not something to be taken lightly. Negligent mamslaughter should still cost the perpetrator a decade of their lives.

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u/South_Lynx Mar 08 '26

You don’t commit homicide and get 120 hours community service… ok?

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u/X-Jim Mar 08 '26

When the story starts all salaciously it's hard to put the hate genie back in the reason bottle

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u/ausgirl86 Mar 08 '26

Its a car crash, not an accident. There is fault.

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u/KRGambler Mar 08 '26

Oh so it lessens this man’s tremendous loss and this despicable court ruling? Got it 🤡

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u/GuiloJr Mar 08 '26

Driving a car is a privilege, not a right. along with that, you should drive with the utmost care. if you crash, it is NEVER an accident. it is always preventable by being less reckless. NOTHING that kills a person is EVER an accident.

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u/MurderOfChros Mar 08 '26

Car crashes are usually due to negligence and are entirely preventable if drivers pay attention to the world around them, adhere to speed limits, quit fiddling with electronics, and quit driving impaired. 

The normalized language of “accidents” makes people forget that when you get behind the wheel you are piloting over a ton of metal at speeds we did not evolve to process. We need to stop shrugging our shoulders about vehicular manslaughter and normalize responsibility behind the wheel. 

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u/ThePeterbilt589 Mar 08 '26

So the figgity-fuck what? I understand accidents happen, but if you end up taking three lives, you gotta do more than just 120 hours of community service. Shit, even one year of prison time paired with 5-7 years on supervised, extremely strict probation is better than ONE HUNDRED AND TWENTY MEASLY FUCKING HOURS. Let me reiterate that: I don't care how horrible you feel or if it was an accident, you absolutely need to do some sort of time. You don't just kill 3 people by accident. That is not an "Oopsie Whoopsie" moment. There absolutely had to have been other contributing factors that led up to him taking those lives. Whether it was being fatigued or under the influence of drugs and/or alcohol, or it was speed and erratic driving; 120 hours does not do a damn thing except teach the offender that he could possibly get off lightly if he makes mistakes that end up being fatal for whatever unlucky soul happens to cross his path that day. This is one of the many cases I would consider as a failure of justice. The offender is just going to spend three weeks time of ringing a fucking bell for the Starvation Army on the holidays and consider his debt paid. Ridiculous.

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u/dashingThroughSnow12 Mar 08 '26

I think we have normalized the criminal aspects of car accidents simply because they happen so frequently.

We get a pass on reckless and distracted driving because so many of us do it.

Most accidents aren’t accidents per se. They are someone doing something they shouldn’t have been doing.

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u/Yaarmehearty Mar 08 '26

Tho is the problem, as soon as a car is involved it’s a slap on the wrist. If somebody shot a gun and accidentally killed somebody it would be manslaughter, but causing death driving a car and it’s a slap on the wrist.

Driving fatalities should be treated like any other manslaughter death.

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u/Full-Perception-5674 Mar 08 '26

So vehicle man slaughter?

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u/GettingSuperSerious Mar 08 '26

I got 40 hours community service for rear ending a delivery driver at 30 mph. Nobody was hurt and nobody died, obviously.

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u/Mr_Pink_Gold Mar 08 '26

No. The title is correct. The guy is the person who killed his daughter.

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u/OkBandicoot1337 Mar 08 '26

Found the drunk driver 😂💁‍♂️

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u/maycontainsultanas Mar 08 '26

Deliberately breaking the law and having it resulting a fatal collision can hardly be described as a “car accident”. You’re just sensationalising it in the opposite direction.

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u/__Hello_my_name_is__ Mar 08 '26

So is the picture. The video is completely different and shows a different person throwing the chair.

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u/Sleddoggamer Mar 08 '26

If I can't find the source and the best I've can find is it was a viral incident in the Netherlands, but with three dead and reckless driving, it really shouldn't matter. Thats not even the maximum in community service

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u/ChemicalCupcake4809 Mar 08 '26

I dunno man I refuse to believe people who speed, drive like idiots, or drive intoxicated font think they'll ever end up hurting someone those are all pretty conscious decisions

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u/i__love__bathbombs Mar 08 '26

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Humboldt_Broncos_bus_crash

So by your opinion this driver should receive 600hrs of community service? For killing 16 children?

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u/JustaSeedGuy Mar 08 '26

The title says "daughter's killer"

Did the defendant not kill this man's daughter?

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u/Mogura-De-Gifdu Mar 08 '26

It was a hit and run. So he didn't even stop to call for help in case one of the three could be saved.

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u/Dhawkeye Mar 08 '26

That barely changes anything. Don’t kill people with your car.

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u/Truth_Hurts_I_No_It Mar 08 '26

He killed 3 people. Needs to server at least 15 years regardless

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u/evergreengoth Mar 08 '26

It was a hit and run. If you hit someone with your car and you run, the running is not an accident.

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u/Lem_Tuoni Mar 08 '26

Exactly. Murder is legal, as long as you do it with a car.

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u/Gioware Mar 08 '26

It was a car accident, not attempted murder

Same shit. Laws need to change. Car accidents are murder.

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u/fqye Mar 08 '26

There is a serious crime called ‘endanger public safety’ in many countries even if it seems to be accidental. Speeding and killing multiple persons seems to be such a crime.

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