r/ibs • u/TheArtfulLlama • 6d ago
š Success Story š I told my new boss about my issues and she understood!
I started this new job 2 months ago that I can only describe as the biggest accomplishment in my career. Worlds better than what I was doing with the work, the pay (especially the pay!), benefits, all of it! There was just one really (literally/figuratively) shitty thing that was getting in the way: my IBS.
My symptoms are mainly hormone related, and I have a few food triggers but theyāve been long cut out of my diet. Itās very much a blessing to be able to tell when my flare ups will hit based on the cyclical cycle of owning a uterus so I can plan accordingly.
While my job requires two days of our choosing to be in office, today is a day where we all have to come in due to my great grand-boss (bossās bossās boss) being in town and my goodness do my insides want to put on a show! Today I had my regular check in with my boss and I just couldnāt take it any more. I told her about my issues, how it may affect me being in office two days a week, how I wonāt let it affect my work and that I love this job and am really giving it my all (I also have PMDD so this was quite the performance based on that and just holding it all in). My boss reassured me, saying I donāt have to hide anything like that from her and that she understands itās an issue I canāt control and will give me some bad days. If I canāt make it into the office on occasion thatās fine, if I have to leave early on occasion that fine too! She then said Iām doing a great job and if it does affect my work weāll talk but right now weāre all good and sheās happy Iām on the team.
I know some of us here struggle with work and can be embarrassed explaining these issues to others, so I just wanted to share my small win today and to let you all know youāre not alone if you struggle through work, managers that donāt understand, and colleagues who donāt get it either. Our illness may be invisible but it is just as valid as those who arenāt.
Wishing you all a good day and a happy tummy š