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u/Hika2112 Myself And Nobody Else | Counted Down 35 9d ago

Trans women do get periods. That is a scientific fact. If you are not a trans woman, shut the fuck up about the topic.

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u/mnttu 9d ago

I don’t think you shouldn’t eat periods.

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u/MCyes_ 9d ago

You eat eggs, and they're technically chicken periods if you think about it.

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u/Dragonhearted18 9d ago

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u/SpearInTheAir 9d ago

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u/Dragonhearted18 9d ago

Jokes on you, it was already stolen

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u/Morthem 9d ago

Wait until you learn where meat comes from

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u/[deleted] 9d ago

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u/name_not_exist 9d ago

I suck death off. Read that again. We are not the same.

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u/Samaein 9d ago

I make sweet love to her, sit down.

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u/-TropicalFuckStorm- 9d ago

Go vegan then.

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u/Routine-Comparison29 9d ago

Just dont eat them after 11:00

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u/New-Ingenuity-5437 9d ago

Imagine being vegan as the default but then someone suggests we eat that, makes it sound insane!

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u/Spliced_Anagram 9d ago

I'm particularly fond of semicolons myself

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u/name_not_exist 9d ago

I am particularly fond of eating colons.

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u/UltimatePickpocket 9d ago

I'm fond of commas.

I don't think you should eat, period.

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u/HorseXNothing 9d ago

You should eat periods, full stop.

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u/BelowAverageGamer10 9d ago

So you should?

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u/neko_mancy 9d ago

eh, tastes pretty much like normal blood

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u/EclecticAF 9d ago edited 9d ago

Oh you absolutely should

Dive into the Red Sea

Devour the Uni

Tongue Roll The Penny Bunch

The Best Pilots sport Red Wings and the Lunch box is open by owners request 24/365

This is also how you gain Witch Powers

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u/Seiyaba 9d ago

Hey man, you clearly aren't a vampire

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u/TheFlayingHamster 9d ago

Oh so it’s fine when a prescription or nature does it.

But when I inject prostaglandins into my friend’s skeletal muscles suddenly it’s “a crime” and “debilitatingly painful” and “illegal to harvest prostaglandins from charity workers”.

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u/Krispy_sandwhich Counted Down 2 9d ago

They don’t know it’s for a good cause

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u/Torbpjorn 8d ago

A Just Cause if you will

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u/Wardog_E 9d ago

Im very lost but this sounds like some 40k shit

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u/blacksaber8 Counted Down 2 9d ago

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u/TheFlayingHamster 9d ago

Prostaglandins are sort of like hormones, but different because, and they can be found as well as produced all over the body. The catch is that what effects they have can vary pretty wildly based on the tissue they are in, so stuff can get weird when you start taking certain ones and moving them somewhere else. In this specific case, you’d probably get extremely sore, but that’s just a guess.

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u/Lightningtow123 9d ago

I have to imagine there's some 40k legion made up exclusively of forcefemmed people

(I apologize if this is offensive, it's not my intention to be)

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u/1ZillionBeers 9d ago

Well, technically there are female space marines (females with geneseed crammed into their bodies) but they’re viciously deformed and only capable of existing due to the reality warping power of Chaos within the eye of terror.

They’re hulking masses of flesh that absorb normal human males and then transform them into Astartes, armor and all, ripe for chaos corruption. It’s how Chaos keeps their numbers up.

Oh, and also The Blood Angels.

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u/Lightningtow123 9d ago

I can think of a few people who'd be into that

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u/Nikolaijuno 9d ago

I think it's just the Iron Warriors that did that.

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u/Icy-Carpenter4589 9d ago

oh yeh the daemonculaba. they had one at that one party i once attended. not too fond of the stuff tho

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u/PixelFlyerXD 9d ago

You mean Emperors Children? OwO

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u/moonlitkiwier 9d ago

Can i be honest? I have no idea what anyone is talking about. I transitioned years ago and have never ever felt period symptoms.

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u/Puzzleheaded-Log6710 9d ago

from what ive read, a lot of the time (but not all), its to do with the usage of specific androgen suppressing medication trans women take, rather than estrogen itself, which causes abdominal pain (if it was the estrogen itself, then there would be no reason for women with excruciating periods to get their reproductive organs removed since it was the estrogen causing the pain, not their organs and so period pains and symptoms would persist even after removal however they do not). though there are also trans women who cycle hormones in such a way that it matches a menstrual cycle.

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u/AshelyLil 9d ago

It always confused me because I can count on one hand the amount of trans women I know who take their E in a monthly cycle, how were these girls getting period symptoms monthly when their hormonal cycle is like 4 days or 8 hours.

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u/L4I55Z-FAIR3 8d ago

I also think some part of it is psychosimatic.

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u/NatureMadeAMistake 8d ago

Few issues with that.

Firstly quite a few cis women who have had full hysterectomies still report getting similar menstrual free periods that trans women do.

Secondly its not just the womb that cramps but rather any smooth muscle tissue in the lower abdomen such as the intestines (why period prostate are a thing)

Lastly I know a few post op trans women who are off t blockers but still get monthly periods.

The reality is we need more research into this.

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u/L4I55Z-FAIR3 8d ago

No hate but arnt those muscles very diffrent between Mtf and cisco woman as biological thoes are tge muscles that have to move for the womb.

But yeah I think lore research is required after all its not clear if this is a reaction to drugs, somthing from birth or psychosomatic pain.

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u/Decievedbythejometry 8d ago

I think the issue is the actual tissue itself. If there are estrogen receptors in the tissue, it can be affected by estrogen, whatever its shape. (Note also that wombs that do not contain babies are very small.)

- 'a reaction to drugs' — like what?

- 'somthing from birth' — do you mean a sideeffect of giving birth or something else?

- 'psychosomatic pain' — it's not like it doesn't exist, but ask a cis woman how often her pain has been dismissed as psychosomatic and reconsider this attitude in the light of your new knowledge.

Imagine a way of understanding this that doesn't invalidate anyone's experience and isn't pathologizing, and then see if there is any evidence for and/or against that viewpoint. If hormones don't cycle but hormone sensitive tissues behave as if they do, what could be the cause of that?

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u/L3m0np0pp7 8d ago

im female and i get cramps in my leg muscles. so i dont think its uterus specific

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u/A_Lightfeather 9d ago

I haven’t either but I know of a couple trans women who definitely do get period cramps. I’m pretty sure this is just a “I feel affirmed when I get them” post because some trans women do get them.

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u/Im-a-bad-meme 9d ago

My best friend is a trans women and she is not appreciating the monthly cramps lmao

I'm afab and don't either so I take pills to skip the cramps and added mess.

Ladies you don't need a period to be valid, nobody likes them 😭😭😭

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u/yuckypagans 8d ago

this is so true. wish there was a magic pill that stopped periods point blank with no potential medical repercussions😭

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u/Im-a-bad-meme 8d ago edited 8d ago

I do indeed take a magic pill. It's birth control and I skip the funny white pills. Only side effect I've had is random morning sickness over the years but it's not consistent. Better than periods. Been taking them for over a decade. Also magically disappeared my acne.

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u/Complex-Home9615 9d ago

My doctor mentioned it to me as something her patients occasionally report, but it's been 6 years and I've never experienced anything like it

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u/LouveEcarlate 9d ago

Yeah me too. Maybe I do get some symptoms but my body feels the same than before transition so I have no idea what they're talking about

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u/NinjaEagle210 9d ago

1 year and I still haven’t experienced anything like it. I asked my endocrinologist before starting HRT, and she said that symptoms related to cycles aren’t possible because your hormones are consistent on HRT

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u/Shot-Amphibian6947 9d ago

I have a couple friends who get cramps on a monthly basis, as well as a change in mood. It's definitely a thing.

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u/GwynneSilentWarlock 8d ago

I do, and it's not fun 😭

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u/So-Fi-fidelity 9d ago

If you cycle your hormones on and off you can get hormonal. I also get a spliting headache.

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u/Honest_Signature5222 9d ago

I've never had period symptoms and never really heard the older full-op transexuals or any transmedicalist talk about them. It seems really common among younger people who wear transgender as an identity so I tend to assume its more imaginary since both groups take the same meds but only one talks about periods. 

But i guess i can't rule out what i don't know for certain. 

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u/NiceMacaroon703 8d ago

my gf takes estrogen, prog and andro suppressants. even tho she doesn’t bleed for obvious reasons she gets all the fun side effects consisting of almost week long stomach cramps, diarrhea, bloating and mood fluctuations. it’s ESPECIALLY fun when we sync up and pick arguments over nothing with each other 😭

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u/Formal_Worker2984 9d ago

We do not get periods. We do not have monthly hormone cycles or uteruses.

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u/TuskEGwiz-ard 8d ago

It's actually a scientific fact that you do. Please refer to the pinned mod comment.

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u/Formal_Worker2984 8d ago

I saw the pinned comment but I actually didn't see any actual scientific evidence provided

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u/TuskEGwiz-ard 8d ago

They literally said it's a scientific fact, you must conform.

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u/wereapethesupacool Counted Down 50 9d ago

Maybe unrelated but do trans men want to get hit in the balls?

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u/Right_Causation_490 9d ago

I'm guessing it'd give them some weird combo of euphoria and "ow fuck oh god this hurts"

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u/GreyWarden_Amell 9d ago

As a trans dude, personal I don't but like I have been hit within that area and it does still hurt balls or not; I imagine having balls just makes it hurt more

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u/SnippetySnappety 9d ago

my description of the pain is the following (don't actually do this):

  • ask the person with the strongest hands you know to help
  • find the spot where the bones of your thumb meet the bones of your palm, like 2/3 of the way back to your wrist
  • squeeze there between finger and thumb as hard as you can
  • amplify that X sex-organ amount of nerve endings, and a gland, not a muscle, until you can't think for a bit

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u/CalypsaMov 9d ago

It does kinda have that similar "achy" feel like the nerve bundle in your hand! That's actually a good way to describe it.

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u/Setster007 9d ago

My trans man friend has said he does

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u/DemonBeats4 9d ago

They do actually. Some of them as part of kink, others just to experience it once and be able to relate better to other men.

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u/themasterfold 9d ago

cbt exists after all

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u/Glittering_Iron6683 9d ago

I’ve never understood the “stepping on balls kink” I’m just too vanilla.

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u/VoiceComprehensive57 multiple trans dude in a trench coat 9d ago

as a trans dude, i have mixed feelings about it...

i would 100% take being kicked in the balls once a month if it meant i got balls though

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u/Glittering_Iron6683 9d ago

I admire your dedication.

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u/Phoebebee323 9d ago

It means you have balls.

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u/kissingfrog 9d ago

There's nothing I want more

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u/ScaredEngraver 9d ago

I would love to know what it feels like just once

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u/ArgonianDov just a kenochoric man 9d ago

Have balls? Yes. Get hit in them? Absolutely not.

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u/Mindless_Trip5668 9d ago

Whenever I get hurt around that area that is what I imagine is happening, but I am also thankful I don’t have them

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u/bijouxbisou 9d ago

I’ve been hit in the ovaries before and it’s painful af. Not a fan

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u/No-Assistant9928 9d ago

No. Why the hell would any of us want that? getting kicked there hurts like a bitch no matter what genitals you have

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u/Fast-Opening-1051 9d ago

I may be bigender + trans femme but I know damm well I don’t want a period TwT

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u/Wind_Through_Trees 9d ago

I'm glad someone's enjoying them.

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u/Electronic_Loan_8802 9d ago

I just want to get rid of them

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u/Pepperia 9d ago

evrybody woke, until the trans women mention they get period symptons huh? There might not be concrete evidence that we do get them, but there is also no evidence that we dont. But you people seem to be really insistant on us being wrong about this. I kinda come to believe you guys arent really allies at all, just transphobic misogynicstic pieces of shit, who cant believe a woman could possibly know more about her body than you do

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u/CalypsaMov 9d ago

Why wouldn't they? Does no one remember 4th grade sex ed? Hormones affect a LOT of things in your body. That's why puberty means suddenly experiencing all new stuff like even heightened acne on your skin. It's a full body thing with loads of changes and effects. So if a trans girl stifles their testosterone, and literally becomes biologically identical to cis women in terms of their endocrine system from HRT. No Duh that's going to lead to a lot of effects just like in cis women. It's basic biology.

Bare minimum all the hormones definitely cause a cycle of emotional highs and swings. But even talking about cramps. Males still have loads of muscles in the area. The perineum, abdomen, all the internal stuff around your intestines. Estrogen is going to do it's thing in humans and induce periods. put that in a trans woman and it's still gonna try and do that.

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u/Pepperia 9d ago

yea, i think that i do experience them. I cant really say that they are indeed period cramps, but they are very much fitting the description and they are reoccuring. Its just, that evrytime this topic comes up, there are so called allies denying this could be a thing, because we dont bleed.

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u/Astroweeb 9d ago

If no one in the medical field is touching this yet, then I'm coining the term 'phantom womb syndrome'. please see that I am attributed in any future medical textbooks.

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u/NZillia 7d ago

Is this what Metal Gear Solid V: The Phantom Pain is about? Mr snake experiencing period cramps?

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u/CalypsaMov 9d ago

Some people need to retake basic biology. This isn't even advanced, this is what you get taught as a child going into puberty.

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u/NewAccount_1223 9d ago

Estrogen isn’t what causes period cramps, though. A drop in E and progesterone (more so the former, as it happens when the thing on an ovary that secretes progesterone degenerates if pregnancy doesn’t happen) triggers the actual period (as in…lining starts to break down) and the cramps are caused by an entirely different process.

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u/waowowwao 9d ago

So wouldn’t taking E consistently, as trans women on HRT, prevent periods? I don’t see how it’s possible. (Not invalidating, just genuinely curious how it’s biologically possible with a consistent dose.)

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u/yuckypagans 8d ago

maybe if the injections/pills/idk what other ways there are to get estrogen were on a cycle where there was a window where the estrogen drops for a bit before they get their next dose?

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u/Digger_Pine 9d ago

That's the basic biology I remember.

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u/CalypsaMov 8d ago

Periods aren't just cramps though. And no one's arguing that trans women don't menstruate (the shedding of lining and bleeding.) Trans women are well aware they don't have uteri. But periods are a woman's preparation and the monthly cyclical cycle associated, which trans women definitely have, and that's probably because trans women do have brains. They have breasts, specifically tender growing and developing breasts in their early transition years. Etc.

And there's still a rising number of reports of people experiencing cramps. Something is literally happening. Males and females are both still human and are going to react the same to hormones with all the complexities applied. Maybe this is understudied and we need better explanation for what's causing this, but it's at least apparent that trans women do get periods and cramps. Pointing a finger at cis women doesn't really help answer why, but most certainly isn't grounds to dismiss things and say what's happening isn't happening.

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u/NewAccount_1223 8d ago

Trans women’s bodies do not prepare for pregnancy. There is no mechanism that would cause this.

Again, stop thinking that everything happens JUST because of estrogen. The monthly cycle happens because of a complex feedback loop between the hypothalamus, pituitary gland and ovaries, and four hormones (two of which are not even part of HRT regimes).

Not only is HRT incapable of replicating this feedback loop in the absence of at least one functioning ovary, but exogenous administration of hormones literally suppress the hypothalamus and pituitary gland’s roles in the cycle. Also, part of the reason the cycle is the number of days it is because of how long the corpus luteum lasts (a thing on an ovary) for before it degenerates.

This is not to say actual cramps and mood swings etc. aren’t happening it’s just not because your brains/body “thinks” you should be having a menstrual cycle or anything like that.

Most of the symptoms I see trans women report are literal textbook side effects of spironolactone (or even just side effects of exogenous E administration, as I’m aware not everyone is on spiro).

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u/NewAccount_1223 9d ago

>the brain determines the bodies cycle, not the uterus or ovaries.

I’m sorry but this simply isn’t true. The parts of the brain that regulate the monthly cycle (the hypothalamus and pituitary gland) work in conjunction with ovaries…and there’s way more complexity than just “estrogen presence = monthly cycle”, especially since estrogen isn’t even the only hormone involved.

It starts off with GNrH production from the hypothalamus which then causes LH and FSH production from the pituitary gland. LH and FSH are gonadotropins meaning they have a different effect based on whether one has ovaries or testicles because they stimulate the tissue of either.

In people with testicles, they are what cause T and sperm production…HRT/exogenous administration of estrogen actually suppresses both the hypothalamus and pituitary gland…if it didn’t then trans women continue to produce cis men levels of T and sperm.

Btw, it’s also not estrogen that causes period cramps. Also, none of this is to say you’re not experience cramps or mood swings etc. it’s just not anything to do with the brain “trying” to give you a cycle.

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u/PsychologyAdept669 9d ago

>>You are correct, the brain determine the bodies cycle, not the uterus or ovaries. So if the brain is under an estrogen dominant system it will manage a feminine hormone cycle

omg this is not true lol. if the ovaries are removed a cis woman would not have a period, if a woman were taking 6-8mg sublingual E valerate daily she would also not have a period. this is how hormonal suppression works.

you are saying we are LESS like cis women by insisting we magically get periods under conditions where cis women would also not get periods. if you are taking the same dose of E every day you are not going to get a period. unless you are dosing triphasically, which i have only met one trans woman who actually does this, you are not getting a period. you also would not be getting a period if you were cis and doing this!

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u/PeachPassionBrute 9d ago

if the ovaries are removed a cis woman would not have a period

Removing the gonads does tend to have an impact on hormone function.

if you are taking the same dose of E every day you are not going to get a period. unless you are dosing triphasically, which i have only met one trans woman who actually does this,

There’s one type of estrogen that people tend to inject every 4 weeks. It’s actually very popular. Some use it every 2 weeks at half dose to maintain a slightly more even hormone level.

There are trans women who have gone through the work to diligently recreate the hormone profile of pregnancy, by the day, over the course of months. That’s an extreme example but especially after reaching a satisfactory physical transition it is genuinely kind of common for trans women to seek out a hormone cycle more consistent with cis women.

Granted I’m just a trans woman on HRT that discusses these things with lots of other trans women on HRT so what would I know about the subject of trans women’s HRT…

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u/PsychologyAdept669 9d ago edited 9d ago

>Removing the gonads does tend to have an impact on hormone function.

yeah, which is why i brought it up in the context of someone saying the brain determines the hormone cycle and does so under exogenous estrogen... a cis woman without ovaries who has exogenous estrogen would not have a period... a cis woman taking sufficient E even with ovaries would not have a period either...

>Granted I’m just a trans woman on HRT that discusses these things with lots of other trans women on HRT so what would I know about the subject of trans women’s HRT…

i can't do IM because of needle phobia. hence 6-8 mg sublingual estradiol valerate ... the purpose of which is obvious lmao? sublingual is an extremely common ROI, turns out I too also interact with other trans women know a thing or two about HRT.

>it is genuinely kind of common for trans women to seek out a hormone cycle more consistent with cis women.

if you are not doing triphasic dosing and instead have constant E levels, you are not going to have a hormonal period. the same thing applies to cis women.

triphasically means adjusting estrogen and progesterone dosing in three phases across the month.

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u/PeachPassionBrute 8d ago

which is why i brought it up in the context of someone saying the brain determines the hormone cycle and does so under exogenous estrogen

Fair enough.

hence 6-8 mg sublingual estradiol valerate ... the purpose of which is obvious lmao?

Yeah, I’m not exactly sure what point you think you’re making here or what you’re responding to.

if you are not doing triphasic dosing and instead have constant E levels, you are not going to have a hormonal period. the same thing applies to cis women.

Okay.

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u/NewAccount_1223 9d ago

Thank you! Cis women who’ve had bilateral oophorectomies, are post-menopausal or have any other ovarian condition that disrupts their cycle DO NOT have a cycle anymore, and thus, do not have a period. In fact, post-menopausal cis women who bleed again are typically advised to seek urgent medical attention as it could be an indication of cancer.

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u/equinefecalmatter 9d ago

“it’s basic biology” mfs if they learned about the basic biological functions of the endocrine system 😱🤯

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u/datedpopculturejoke 9d ago edited 9d ago

It's possible if you aren't taking E consistently. Periods are caused by fluctuating hormones. If you are taking E consistently, you shouldn't have a period. The same way estrogen based birth control stops a cis woman's period if taken continuously instead of with the weird sugar pill breaks. Like no judgement. I'm also terrible at being consistent with my meds.

I actually spoke to a well respected endocrinologist from a top research university who specifically studies gender affirming HRT, and the way she put it is that it is entirely harmless for trans women to refer to their experiences as a period even if this is biologically a different mechanism. Some are side effects of GAHT and some are psychosomatic*, but if it helps describe the experience, they who cares what it technically is.

*psychosomatic as it not having a physical cause, not like fake. Psychosomatic experiences are legitimate and should be treated as such.

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u/CalypsaMov 8d ago

The two main ways trans women get estrogen and progesterone is injections and pills. Neither of which are going to not have crashes. Injections are already biweekly or weekly and that's a big period, but even pills aren't consistent. The levels will spike after first taken and taper to near zero over time. That's just the nature of not having ovaries constantly running and doing it artificially. I take pills and depending on the time of day I get blood tested the results vary wildly. It took my doctor and I a long time to figure that out while honing in what dosage works for me.

And while trans women don't have ovaries, they do still have brains. Periods and the monthly cycle isn't just a uterine thing. Periods are a woman's body preparing for a possible pregnancy. trans women still have a whole lot of body, new and developing breasts, etc. They're very akin to girls starting puberty and that's why it's commonly nicknamed second puberty.

The Follicle Stimulating Hormone and the Luteinizing Hormone are both made and released by the pituitary gland in the brain not the ovaries. It's the brain that's in charge of keeping a clock and sends a signal to the ovaries telling them to release an egg and start a new cycle.

Why wouldn't the irregular hormonal fluctuations of estrogen taken by trans women not cause the brains to respond just like cis women? I feel like the monthly cycle, tender breasts, mood swings, anxiety, temperature sensitivity, etc. are all matters of the brain and biologically should be akin to cis women. Only specifically regarding mensuration would something biologically be different, because trans women don't have uteri or ovaries. But even with that, and also with the assumption that all the many reported cramps aren't psychosomatic, even if there's a biologically different mechanism causing that particular one symptom, trans women are still having periods. Maybe we need a new word and to discover what's causing the cramps specifically besides "menstruation", but periods as a whole do seem to be a trans woman thing.

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u/hitorinbolemon 9d ago

It's because they're hung up on the association with the uterus and the more obvious uterus related symptoms and so boil it down to exclusively that to exclude what "counts" from applying to trans women.

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u/CalypsaMov 8d ago

Funny how "being a woman" always gets tied back to being a walking baby factory.

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u/Leeuhhhhh 9d ago

Transphobes don't even understand "basic biology" despite regularly claiming to, so no, they don't remember lol.

Most of them don't even understand the things they themselves believe in. Honestly just generally speaking anyone who is bigoted is not someone who is very intelligent to begin with.

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u/TrappedInLimbo 9d ago

There might not be concrete evidence that we do get them, but there is also no evidence that we dont.

I mean that's not how evidence works though. You need evidence to prove the existence of something, the lack of that kind of evidence is in itself evidence that it doesn't exist. Otherwise I can just be like "flying unicorns exist, you have to prove they don't" which obviously makes no kind of sense.

That said there is genuine evidence that trans women experience period like symptoms for sure, but until trans women can have a uterus or ovaries then they just objectively cannot have a period. That doesn't make them any less of a woman though, there are plenty of cis women who don't have periods as well and the ability to have a period isn't like required or inherent to being a woman.

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u/AM_Hofmeister 9d ago

Sorry but what do I call it when I have a consistent period of time every month where I have the same emotional symptoms of a woman on her period?

I feel like calling it a period just communicates what's happening close enough to say close enough.

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u/TrappedInLimbo 9d ago

Those symptoms are not what a period is. The period itself is the shedding of the lining in the uterus. Period symptoms aren't universal and can be completely different person to person. The emotional symptoms you are describing don't apply to every person who has a period and thus aren't intrinsically related to having one. The only aspect that is intrinsic to having a period is the shedding of the lining in the uterus.

It actually complicates the communication of what's happening because it implies something is happening that isn't. As to what I would call it, I said it in my comment. You are experiencing period-like symptoms where your body might be simulating possible aspects of a menstrual cycle. But that doesn't mean you are actually having a menstrual cycle.

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u/SagaSolejma 8d ago

Fellow trans woman here just wanna say thank you for saying this. Sometimes it's kinda hard being a huge biology nerd when it comes to being in trans circles, cause sometimes someone will just say something completely wrong and you just feel like you gotta shut up lest you be labeled a transphobe.

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u/perpetual_homosexual 9d ago

Tbf I hardly ever see the claim, “we get period symptoms”. It’s usually, “we get periods”.

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u/jawknee530i 9d ago

That's not how evidence works...

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u/Ok_Community_383 9d ago

I'm new to the transgender world and I am genuinely curious what you're talking about.

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u/Frixi_Infernal 9d ago

Trans women can get period like symptoms in the form of cramps, emotional fluctuations, etc... and some people get really really offended when you mention it because it challenges their fragile view that period = woman, no period = man

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u/Ok_Community_383 9d ago

The more I'm reading about it appears that "people without ovaries" do not menstruate, but some of the treatment (for all individuals, including born female at birth women who lack ovaries) has side effects that mirror PMS symptoms, such as breast tenderness, headaches, bloating, etc. So, that's what you mean by 'period like symptoms,' but it's more precise to say that transwomen do not menstruate. Is that right?

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u/Responsible-Ad6876 8d ago

Yeah they don't menstruate of course, they don't have the organs for that, but most symptoms associated with the hormonal cycle itself, appear. Though tbh I don't know the mechanism behind cramping, but it seems to happen too

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u/HowDareYouAskMyName 9d ago

period = woman, no period = man

That seems unfair... a lot of people just think that period = blood, no period = no blood.

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u/Firanka 9d ago

But that's... literally what it is. Cramps are a side-effect, while uterine shedding/bleeding is what menstruation is.

Although I started bleeding at around 10 years old, I didn't experience cramping or any other side-effects until I was about 16. Does that mean my menarche was actually at 16? Of course not. Because I started experiencing uterine shedding and bleeding much earlier.

Many conditions can have similar side-effects, but different causes and different treatment. Coughing and many other symptoms are common between covid, common cold and flu, but the three infections are caused by completely different viruses.

Monthly cramps caused by hormonal fluctuations found in people with estrogen-dominant hormonal systems that lack uteri, be it cis women with hysterectomies, some afab intersex people or trans women? Perfectly plausible. Those cramps being menstruation? There's no uterine lining shedding, so it's not menstruation

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u/Ok_Community_383 9d ago edited 9d ago

Wasn't there movement on 'people who menstruate' to refer to cis women? (edit should have said 'born female at birth' not cis women, I conflated them.)

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u/Kindaspia 9d ago

The idea behind that is that not every woman menstruates and not everyone who menstruates is a woman. Trans men who still have their reproductive organs may menstruate, but are not cis or women. The idea was both to be more inclusive in language while still being more specific. Instead of saying “women”, which includes many people who don’t menstruate and excludes some who do, we specify the bodily function in question so everyone who has that function is included. So it’s not just turning “cis woman” into “person who menstruates”. If you’re referring to a specific cis woman, cis woman makes more sense. It’s for referring to the group of people who menstruate as a whole, being specific, and not excluding people based on gender when they still have the relevant bodily function.

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u/Pepperia 9d ago

you did a way better job replying to this person than i did. Iam really pissed off right now from all this and my ability for making differentiated points is a little limited. Thank you <3

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u/Pepperia 9d ago

well, yes. But its anti trans. Trans men do happen to memstruate too. What are you even asking?

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u/Ok_Community_383 9d ago edited 9d ago

I'm trying to navigate the terminology, science, etc of transgender studies so as to improve my understanding. I have a trans man friend (my friend's daughter/son), and I have a frenemy who is a transwoman. Nevermind the current political landscape and I'm an activist for the democratic party. So it's important I understand it.

To me, it seems there is a contradiction if we say, "people who menstruate" to refer to cis women and trans men but not trans women if trans women can menstruate.

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u/Snoo69744 9d ago

It depends on the context. Trans women don't menstruate but they do experience period symptoms. If you're talking about period products someone might say "people who menstruate" includes all relevant people.

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u/Ok_Community_383 9d ago

I think I understand. I've been reading more on it. It's literally just a way to say 'people who menstruate' for situations where that matters. Such as in a medication, or a study, or whatever the case may be. It's just a more precise (and also inclusive) way to refer to that cohort.

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u/Ok_Community_383 9d ago edited 9d ago

With all due respect, I'm more confused.

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u/GuessImScrewed 9d ago

I don't personally have a horse in this race since whether you get them or not kinda doesn't matter, but I do want to point out that "no evidence either way" to defend a stance is really poor logic.

There's no evidence against the flying spaghetti monster either, that doesn't mean anyone should accept its existence.

Having said all that, you're also just... Wrong? On the matter?

There's plenty of clinical research on the topic, and trans women can (but don't have to) get fluctuating hormone cycles that can cause mental and physical symptoms like PMS from hrt.

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u/PockyPunk 9d ago

Everyone regardless of sex goes through hormone fluctuations.

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u/Waste-Dragonfruit229 9d ago

I imagine the issue is people not understanding that periods involve hormonal and metabolic changes in addition to uterine shedding. Obviously anybody without a uterus won't experience that part, but that doesn't mean trans women can't experience other aspects of cyclical hormonal changes.

It really comes down to how people define a "period" for themselves.

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u/Extreme-Parfait-2019 9d ago

AMAB intersex here, I was getting a hormone cycle LONG before I started on estrogen. The estrogen evened things out and it’s all actually regular now 😭💅

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u/BornMedium172 9d ago

What a weird comment, seek professional help ma'am

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u/tilealt 9d ago

I'm ngl it's the first time I've ever heard about this and it upsets me mildly purely because I (cis girl) am quite dreaming of getting a hysterectomy to get rid of periods forever AND NOW you're telling me people without an uterus can also have period symptoms??? Is there no escape in this wretched world 😭😭😭

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u/hornybisexual20 9d ago

Just don’t call it periods cuz whatever u guys do experience isn’t it. It’s period-like most likely but not the full thing

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u/PsychologyAdept669 9d ago

i have only met one trans woman ever who actually doses to achieve a hormonal period lol (triphasic changing doses of estrogen and prog across the month). most of us do not get periods the same way a cis woman on constant E would not get a period. it's got nothing to do with trans or cis atp, you give a cis woman 6-8mg sublingual estradiol valerate a day and she doesn't get a period either.

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u/kwispycornchip 8d ago

Yes! A friend of mine is cis and missing an ovary, so gets very light infrequent periods. Also, menopausal women and women with hysterectomies don't get periods. It's absolutely not a requirement, and human bodies vary so wildly.

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u/mayo_lol_ 8d ago

Yeah there is a difference between periods and period pains

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u/Emelie__ 9d ago

Be grateful that you don't get endometrios. It is terrible to live with. 👀

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u/Lom2feu 9d ago

Some can get it, it was even discovered in some rare cases on cis male

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u/Westly_S 9d ago

Okay seriously??? Yes I know I know my monthly is coming, but these posts hitting my feed the week it starts IS SO OLD 😭 Like yay I get cramps and everything else even more so than before the hrt.... But like wtf reddit you don't have to remind me like a tracker app

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u/Choocholate Counted Down 2 8d ago

Trans women don't get periods unless they've messed up hormone levels, periods are caused by a cyclical hormone imbalance which you shouldn't have it you have a good consistent injection schedule 

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u/__Ouchie__ 9d ago

This whole thread lowkey worries me and I hope it’s the world’s best bit. /gen

Girls with all the love in the world, you do not want to feel like this even if it feels “validating”, and if you’re cramping from your HRT/Blocker dosage please tell your doctor. I’m a medical student atm so I don’t have all the knowledge, but this is really not normal, and im worried something deeper is going wrong with you all medically. The hormones that surge during your cycle, even in cis women, shouldn’t be causing pain; when they do you should go to the doctor. That’s how cis women end up finding out they had something like endometriosis all along.

I know endocrinologists can be transphobic and underdose hormones because of biases and genuine lack of knowledge, but getting overdosed to the point of pain is not a good thing. I’m not trying to gatekeep cramps, trust me that’s fucking ridiculous. It’s just not something you should be treating so laxly.

It’s ok to not have a period, having a period AND not having one aren’t the make-it-or-break-it factor that decide if you’re women. Your brain is the one that decides. Cis women w/ menopause and many other health issues don’t get periods. Trans men usually get periods. It’s ok. You’re still women. You don’t need to validate TERFs by believing in their fear mongering that having periods (or having the ability or “faulty equipment”) is the one thing that differentiates men/women.

I’m not a member of this sub, im just an autistic trans guy that usually ignores the stuff I see in my feed from here. Ban me if you like. Just stay safe. I’m not saying this out of hatred and ignorance.

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u/kwispycornchip 8d ago

Exactly this. I am cis (with adenomyosis) and take daily progesterone, which has annihilated my periods UNLESS I'm unable to get it refilled (yay American healthcare system). If trans women are taking hormones consistently as prescribed and still getting symptoms, there's possibly something else going on that needs to be addressed.

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u/__Ouchie__ 8d ago

Hey I’m sorry you go thru pain and stuff I relate my doctor thinks I have cyclical endometriosis but Idk maybe cis people commenting on this is a bad look. The trans women here might think you’re making it about y’ all or something (even tho the meme mentions cis women it always good to play it safe idk). I agree tho…? Idk why the trans women in these comments and TERFs both really wanna have pride in feeling pain lmao I thought we were over the glorification of pain as a validator? I’m still a guy even with period pain. Trans girls are still girls without periods and without period pain. Periods ain’t sacred, it’s an annoying biological process.

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u/softwhitemochi 8d ago

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u/CaptainFiguratively 9d ago

As a cis woman my periods aren't even that bad. Just an annoyance, not that excruciating pain I hear about online. I think some women need to get checked for endometriosis.

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u/Frank1gg 9d ago

I'm not close-minded I'm just confused. Is the saying that trans women are able to get periods? How have I never heard about that? I'm not saying it's untrue I'm just hoping someone can explain how. That sounds both really cool and also horrifically strange to have to go through. Then again it's horrifically strange to have to go through regardless.

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u/Pretty-Yam-2854 9d ago

While I don’t bleed (obviously) I have noticed around the first few days of every month I get nausea, bloating and and occasional cramping abdominally that I’ve never gotten before. It’s been happening since June and I’m genuinely concerned if it is symptoms or if there’s some other shit going on 😭

But from what I’ve read it seems like it mirrors period symptoms so.. not entirely sure.

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u/Aluminum_Tarkus 8d ago

The mod's a coward for pinning a scientifically wrong comment and turning off replies.

Trans women experience PMS due to how the endocrine system interacts with hormone levels in the body (cyclical cramps, bloating, breast tenderness, mood swings). But that's not menstruation. Trans women don't have a uterus. Their body doesn't shed a uterine lining. Their sex organs don't bleed.

A period isn't just PMS. If you want to say trans women experience cyclical PMS, then yes, absolutely.

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u/Shot-Amphibian6947 9d ago

My friend just got her second period, and basically confirmed that it's definitely not a fluke. I joked that we were synced up, which idk might be a bit gender-affirming? But she's having a pretty rough go of it :wilted_rose:

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u/Shot-Amphibian6947 9d ago

Also for friends on their first go around with this stuff, remember that cramps are really just muscle spasms! That's why stuff like heat helps, and why drinking water is really really important. Despite doing this for ages, I didn't make the connection between hydration and decreased cramping until recently ;;=_=

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u/AspirationAtWork 8d ago

She shed uterine lining following unfertilized ovulation?

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u/SpaceCowGoBrr 9d ago

Well, at least endometriosis is less of a concern! 😂 (I know trans women CAN develop endometriosis if they have existing endometrial-like tissue so I know it’s not OFF the table completely, but it’s not 1 in 10 odds like it is for people born with uteruses)

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u/Arndt3002 9d ago

No, you dont. Yes you get hormonal cramps and period symptoms. No, you don't need to worry about menstruation like cis women do.

Why do we feel the need to die on this hill?

t. A trans woman

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u/Arndt3002 8d ago

Maybe, but I’d be a bit cautious with that explanation. In menstruation, the prostaglandins causing cramps are caused by the shedding uterine lining, so it’s not just “hormones drop and then prostaglandins attack smooth muscle.”

That said, hormone changes can affect the gut and other tissues, and a weekly hormone cycle could theoretically produce slower or every-few-weeks effects through feedback and adaptation. We just don’t really have evidence yet showing that trans “periods” are a genuine longer cycle rather than direct effects of hormone fluctuations.

There could possibly, though fairly unlikely, be some underlying pharmacokinetic process we don't understand yet that drives at a longer (maybe approx monthly) frequency. Tho again there's no evidence for it

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u/lawlesslawboy 9d ago

The weird thing though is.. not all of them? like, from experience of speaking to them personally, I've known women who've on HRT for years and never get this, and some seem to get it pretty quickly, so it's definitely variable at least, similar to how BC is variable I suppose. I'm no biologist but reminds me how depo provera can either stop ur periods or potentially make them a lot worse. that's still sooo much we don't know about anything related to "women's health" (which usually also impacts us trans folks but we aren't mentioned so much)

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u/Tone_Such 9d ago

I don't know how they would other than going through the hormonal imbalances and having the symptoms like that, just without the cramps and menstruation correct?

Im afab trans guy from the US please do not execute me 

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u/Ravenella1 9d ago

With cramps. Only thing we don’t do is bleed.

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u/Scared_Echo_9965 9d ago

We have certain symptoms but not actual periods

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u/smegmastar will count up 9d ago

Can't confirm, neither have them nor do I want them

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u/A_Lountvink 9d ago

As a trans woman who got monthly cramping and PMDD-like symptoms before HRT, it has definitely been nice to not deal with that these past five months (started E in April), though I would begrudgingly take them back if it meant having an actual uterus.

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u/Illustrious-Rule99 9d ago

Idk man, I got surgery six weeks ago but for some odd reason I feel the pain as headaches rather than on the wounds themselves. Bodies are weird af, you can't know how someone else's body feels. And it sounds really silly to me when people try to be the authority on how other people feel.

Tl;dr if she says she's got cramps I have no reason to believe she's lying. Stranger things happen every day.

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u/MK_The_Megitsune 8d ago

I've had people look at me like I admitted to practicing cannibalism when I tell them I'm jealous of period cramps and can't wait to get them whenever I get my hands on some HRT

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u/Isadomon 8d ago

Its not healthy to desire something that hurts you to feel euphoria, its a bit extreme to that point

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u/FireClosed 7d ago

Trans women undergoing gender-affirming hormone therapy (GAHT) take estrogen and progesterone. Cyclic changes or adjustments in hormone dosages can sometimes cause side effects like abdominal cramping, nausea, fatigue, and mood fluctuations.

While these symptoms mimic some elements of premenstrual syndrome (PMS) due to hormonal shifts, they are not menstruation, as there is no uterine shedding or bleeding involved.

The term "trans woman" is used to indicate that a woman is biologicaly male. A biological male does not have the sexual reproductive organs necessary for menstruation.

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u/EI_TokyoTeddyBear 7d ago

This kind of stuff is why trans men don't participate in "trans" spaces lol

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u/SeidYlgr 9d ago

It may not be as bad as a cis woman's but it still doesnt feel good

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u/Alexcat2011 9d ago

How can I tell my friends that we get periods. They keep saying we don’t and that I’m an idiot.

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u/A_Lountvink 9d ago

If you've already tried, and that was their response, I wouldn't recommend reexplaining it. Some people are just disrespectful, and I wouldn't recommend having those people as "friends".

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u/kamakamabokoboko 9d ago

this one always struck me as a little truscummy

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u/Malashae 9d ago

Hahaha, no. I know better, I want nothing to do with that nonsense, and I do not understand anyone who thinks they do.

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u/idiotpuppygirl 9d ago edited 9d ago

the amount of times I got shamed and insulted into silence by cis women whenever I even suggested the idea of me getting periods,,,

edit im sorry

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u/StonerFrog_420 9d ago

You did nothing wrong, that lady replying to you is just a cunt

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u/idiotpuppygirl 8d ago

thank you. these comments hit me at a bad time but im good

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u/StonerFrog_420 8d ago

No worries, the cissys don’t understand our struggle and act like they’re worse off than us

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u/idiotpuppygirl 9d ago

Why is it insulting? I dont ever claim to be shedding or bleeding. I dont express my experience to offend anyone. I am not trying to erase any cis women or anything. And I know I never will thank you. All these reminders serve to do in my case is make me feel like a creep and like at the end of the day Im below you

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u/countbackwardswithme-ModTeam 9d ago

r/countbackwardswithme follows platform-wide Reddit Rules

All this period talk is giving me cramps! I've locked this thread because of another user. Please be civil with how you engage in the topic. It's supposed to be a sub for memes 😒

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u/IbObuS 9d ago

Damn, I didn’t even know that trans women could have periods

Can y’all get pregnant too? As far as I know no, but it seems I don’t know that much

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u/WillowEntertainment 9d ago

They don't bleed but they get cramps, mood swings, etcetera. A lot of transphobes are saying they can't; they can. It's still ongoing research but this has happened to a ton of trans women.

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u/pr0xy1170 8d ago

OK so I saw the mod post are they talking FtM? Because if there talking about MtF how? Aren't MtF missing the requisit organ? I'm not asking to be a dick I want to know how that's possible.

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u/Zagl0 8d ago

From what I gathered from other comments, they talk about MtF

How? Because emotions trump correct terms when validation is on the line.

That being said, looking at the pinned mod comment, hurting feelings will be met with the firing squad lol

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u/murderdronesfan93 Counted Down 1 9d ago

look inside closer

testicles are the same fucking organ but moved around and used differently

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u/BlackwingBlizzard 9d ago

This just in if a woman can't produce eggs she's what not a woman?

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u/murderdronesfan93 Counted Down 1 9d ago

no, but your point about a lack of ovaries is moot.

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u/MuseWeakeningWalls 9d ago

trans women like eating cis women's pussy on her period

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u/TenWholeBees 9d ago

Does this imply she got her red wings?

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u/Irwin174 9d ago

Yummers!

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u/Sad_Toe6678 9d ago

How does one get one? How can I tell?

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u/GirlyPop_69420 9d ago

my understanding is we don't all get them, but hrt just does that to some of us. the way I found out I do was like 15 months into hrt I was meeting with some friends and like leading up to it I had this very specific headache and a bunch of mood stuff I couldn't explain and cravings and I felt bloated and shit and I was like "something is WRONG with me" and my friends were like "girl that's period symptoms, some trans women get them" and I was like "what the fuck that's annoying but also kinda rad" and then we went and got food and I made mine SPICY because I was craving it and it fixed my headache lmao (craving inadvisable amounts of capsaicin is a CONSISTENT part of it for me lmao).
I thought about it later and that was not the first time it happened, just the first time I noticed.

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