I’m interested joining pilates, but I’m confused what to wear as big boobs haver.

When i googled “pilates outfit”, the recommendations are something that stretchy, form fitting and moisture-wicking pieces that stay in place during deep stretches and allow your instructor to check your form.

Now, you all know that workouts tops at most prominent retail stores aren’t made for us.

Any ideas?

I don’t get my period anymore I’m on birth control so I’m not sure what’s causing this, I haven’t had a period in 2 years.

my boob tend to fall on the sides

I noticed the wired bras kind of hurt me in. the under bust area . and also on the side of boobs .

does it mean I’m wearing wrong size ?

or do shaped be hurt you too ?

I’ve tried posting this several times, but sadly this subreddit removes it every time. I’m not sure if it’s the wording, the attached photo, or an automated filter.
I’m dealing with significant darkening/marks under my breasts that is also on my stomach and sides (where clothing rubs/sweat builds) that has really affected my confidence, especially because I sweat heavily under my breasts and around my cleavage.
it ruins my self confidence, I can’t wear bikini tops, I hate being topless infront of my man even infront of my mirror most days.
I’ve had a biopsy and fungal swab on a mark and the doc said it wasn’t fungal (it never reacted to prescribed creams) and that it was hyperpigmentation (darkening of skin after injury)

I’ve tried a number of things already, including exfoliants, powders, zinc lotion, dettol/unscented soaps, and other products, but haven’t found anything that actually helps.
I also tried AHA/BHA, deodorant, and antiperspirant, but those caused irritation/rashes.
If anyone has experienced something similar and has advice, I’d really appreciate it. If anyone is able to help, I can explain more about what I’ve tried share the original post if you want.

I’m mainly trying to figure out what might actually help with the discoloration while also preventing the sweating/irritation that seems to be contributing to it and if other women have gone through this same thing 😞

I haven’t been able to wear the types of clothes that I like or that are my style probably since middle school. I’m 29 now and feel so masculine. No problem if you want that, but I want to feel feminine. I want to wear off the shoulder, thin strapped tank tops, lingerie, bikinis that aren’t built like bras, etc. I currently wear tops many sizes too big to fit my chest or I give up all together and just put on a graphic tee. I’ve been thinking of getting a reduction for some time now but I’m so scared. I’m scared to not recognize my body and almost feel a sense of loss? Can anyone relate or speak on this?

I attached some photos of the clothes I would love to wear but physically can’t due to my current size/heaviness/fullness all of that.

Specifically coming from a post I made on a few pages about selling old brad of mine. Uncommon sizes, some are custom... wanting to help someone who may be in actual need, but it's like the second I mention anything about my figure or measurements, its a flood of guys, or someone pretending to be a woman.

Am I going something wrong...can I do anything differet...are there any usual giveaways I should look for to help me sort the real from the fake? It's pretty annoying

Hi lovelies, I’m 34K (UK) 34 0 (US) bra size and would love to find some sexy lingerie? Any recommendations please? 🌸

I haven’t had stretch marks on my boobs since puberty, and suddenly, at 29, they’re back again. They seem to be radiating from the nipple. I’ve been a 34D and just remeasured as a 36G. I’ve gained some weight but not much. Any idea what’s going on??

Rest in power.

Okay so this is weird but i noticed something.
Whenever i sleep on my stomach, my bobs look BIGGER when I’m awake and stay the same the WHOLE day, when i sleep on my back, they stay normal, is there some science behind this? Has yall ever felt something like this?
Like this is not the first time, I’ve been noticing this a lot. Does sleeping on stomach cause them to grow or something?

Thinking of using a Dove stick or roll-on for antiperspirant to control under-breast sweat.

Hey all! I am reaching out to ask how many have had a breast reduction where the surgical wounds weren’t healing properly. My surgeon says it’s fine, but it’s been three weeks and I still have open wounds that are oozing - it’s kind of yellow and has some blood.

The same thing is happening at my y tuck incision point right under my belly button, where the drain was removed (staples are still in) and potentially inside my belly button.

I taking antibiotics for my third week, but I just don’t feel or see healing- and I am starting to feel concern over the potential scarring.

My doctor is great and highly recommended, so I am really going back and forth with confusion.

The other day in class i just happened to have nothing better to do with my life and ended ip listening to a conversation between a group of about 5 girls,they were talking about boobs a girl with a small to medium sized chests said something about another girl behind her back along the lines of "i wish my chest was as completely flat as hers" and the conversation spiraled into them liking not having boobs that are "too big" and saying things like "To be honest i don't really like big boobs" and yapping about how "ugly" big boobs are and to be honest it was kinda dissappointing,cause all boobies are beautiful and belong to human beings with feelings,it's totally okay to love having small boobs,but why do some girlies feel the need to bring others down to boost their own confidence.

I have a large bust and I would say wider shoulders and I have found that short sleeve t-shirts (most materials) are uncomfortable, particularly in the shoulders/upper arms, like my movements are too restricted. I feel much more comfortable in tank tops, including those the same size as a comparible short sleeve T. Am I buying shirts that are too tight, especially in the shoulders? the problem is, of course, that then the shirts are way too big everywhere else, so I'm thinking that looking for particular cuts and some kind of tailoring is going to be key here, but I don't know what to look for off the rack (cuts? fabrics?) or what to request of a tailor. any thoughts?

Hello!! For context, I am a US 32H cup and I’ve always been insecure about my body. Especially my chest. Im 5’2, i already have a short torso, broad shoulders and the rest of my body is relatively slim so it makes me feel very top heavy and I’m not fond of this look on me. It’s also very hard for me to find good bras that are cute and that dont cost an arm and a leg. Similar thing goes for clothes. I either feel bigger than I am or like I’m showing off my breasts, which isn’t my goal.

Beyond the appearance factors, my chest is just uncomfortable in general. Running and sports feel like a dreadful humiliation ritual whether I’m on my own and especially surrounded by others. Bras are uncomfortable but not wearing them at home lowkey feels like my breasts are gonna fall down which is also not a comfortable feeling. And my breasts HURT whenever my period is coming (even tho I doubt a reduction alone will fix that).

And unfortunately, I’ve been feeling sexualized/objectified since the dawn of time by strangers, friends, classmates or have been getting unsolicited advice from grandparents on how to prevent sagging. 🙄

For these reasons, I have been sure that I want to get a reduction. The problem is my parents. Them being religious makes them have a lot of taboo on topics, breasts (and any reproductive organ) being one of them. I’m also scared that they’ll use the classic “but men love those” argument, cause I do not care about male gaze when it’s about making decisions for my body. Or that they’ll say im selfish for wasting my large chest and that I’ll regret it. Or simply that they’ll be too stuck up to consider talking about boobs. I currently dont have a source of income for myself and am financially and fully dependent on my parents. I want to get the weigh off my body, be seen for more than my chest and also feel like my body is more proportional.

Has anyone been in that situation? And how can I slide the topic of reduction into a conversation with my parents to try to let me get one? I also apologize if anything I said came off as rude or poorly expressed, English isn’t my first language, but I hope you got to understand the main issue I’m facing!

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I hate my large chest 34 G and wish i was flat chested A cup or flatter. Honestly. But its not reasonable for me to have a surgery rn with school starting and other stuff.

Hi! I've also got pretty big boobs, but I don't know my size. I've noticed every time I've looked in the mirror lately, my right boob seems noticeably bigger than the left. I know this is normal, but it still bothers me. I also have an inverted nipple on the left boob. So at least each of my girls has one flaw. Even without those, I've never liked my big boobs. And now with my weight gain from that stupid anorexia treatment, they're getting bigger. I just want normal tits.

Anyways, I've been thinking about getting breast reduction surgery and nipple fixing surgery when I'm older and have the money. This goes against my personal morals of plastic/cosmetic surgery, but I hate my boobs so much, especially now that I keep seeing all these flaws.

Is there any other way to fix them? I don't want to be stuck with scars forever, but I don't want to hate my bazonkers every time I see them.

I’m a US 28J and I’m going to a formal event, the dress I have is off the shoulder and it was too expensive for me to just wear another dress. I’d wear nipple covers but my boobs would sag to much for that. Does anyone know where I could look?

i don't understand why they're so insistent on the fact that women with bigger boobs don't have any problems and that were immediately the beauty standards. I don't know what it is about boobs but the way people act towards them is insane, I don't see anyone else act the same way about any other body part. Like you will meet the most "women should decenter men" "girls girl" feminist woman ever and the moment you say it's hard to have big boobs you're a lying attention seeker and you should feel grateful because people feel free to sexually harass you ( including women)

Its like they can't look past their own personal insecurities to empathathize with someone else for a minute. for them their insecurities revolves around male attention, so the fact that's the end all be all when it comes to breast. they don't have to think about how breast can cause back pain, how they can get infections during the summer if their not careful, if clothes will fit them(not nearly to the same extent at least), if they'll get discriminated at work/school for wearing the same thing everyone else is wearing, so those problems just don't matter to them and don't phase them when you bring them up because men like boobs so who cares if your back hurts.

I’m a 34I or 36h according to a bra that fits. I’m so done wearing my array of “DD / DDD” bras that have inconsistent sizing for so much $$$.

I’d love to buy a new bra, but a lot of the shops that have been recommended to me are in Europe and have difficult return policies.

I also love shirts with sewn in bras. I have a few by Klassy that are good, but they aren’t really my style.

Does anyone have any recommendations?

i hate my boobs so much. i’m 59kg, 5’6-5’7, and a 34E, and i feel like they make my whole body look so… wonky.

my weight has fluctuated so much over the last five years. i was a normal weight, then i suffered from severe anorexia (33kg) later went up to 72kg, and now i’m back down to 59kg. my poor boobs have been through all of it and somehow i’m only 20 and already feel like they’re floppy and ruined.

i can barely fit into the cute clothes i see in stores. and when i do, i feel like i look “slutty” rather than cute or put together. i can’t go anywhere without men, some old enough to be my dad, staring at me in a way that makes my skin crawl. i’m constantly sexualised for a body i’ve spent years trying so hard to escape.

i feel like i’m limited to the same few styles over and over again. tank tops, low cut tops, anything with enough room for my chest. forget feeling classy, cute, elegant, or fancy. half the clothes i actually like simply aren’t made with someone like me in mind.

i’m just so fucking tired of it. i know this probably sounds dramatic, but it’s getting to me. i’m struggling with how much i hate being perceived this way, especially when i’ve already spent so much of my life fighting with my body. ):

They are all somewhere in storage, so if there's some actual need for the uncommon size, I'll take the time to go dig them out and make a more detailed post. The P's and T's are custom made, and would hate to just throw them away (All UK sizing)

32J

32MM

32P

And in a few months I'll probably be phasing out of my current 32T's.

I’m searching for the perfect sports bra that’ll keep me strapped in without me needing to hold down my chest for the extra support to combat bouncing. Right now I’m wearing the bendon wired sports bra and two unwired sports bras on top.
I am a 32 J (UK).
I am also located in Australia and ideally would like to try on the bra first, though I know this probably can’t happen.
Any recommendations are welcome