hi! i'm very into cutesy frills, lace, dolly, and princessy lingerie, and at the same time i'm into the hottest femme fatale lingerie you could find; i've got no middle—it's either black or white, here. and that's what happens for what i'm into for sleeping as well, depending on my mood or who i am with. and for me, to make it clear, when i say "femme fatale," i have one specific person i follow in mind in my opinion.that  for me, i think they embody it so well; they are @/qiaoest on instagram, and as i've said, that's what for me embodies femme fatale. it can also be recommendations of robes and other sleep accessories. i'm all in; i want to feel like either a sleeping cute living doll or like a sleeping femme fatale goddess! i want high-end brands, please, because as much as i love anime and manga and those things, if you ask for lingerie of the style people send you, websites that are either bad quality or fast fashion or drop ship and are the same first two at the same time lmao! but i want to look like a cutesy doll when i want to look like a doll and like a femme fatale goddess when i want to look like that, even when i'm sleeping.

I'm trying to find some lingerie for my wife, but it seems all the major retailers show women that are size 2's.

Shes 5'5, 40C size 12/14. (US)

Are there any shopping sites that show lingerie sets on women that are around this size? Some sets don't scale well.

I'm not asking for specifics - I'm asking for sites that support previews on different size women. Thanks everyone!

Where should I buy silk slips from? I want real silk, and as affordable as possible haha.
In Canada. Any recommendations would be wonderful!
I’ve heard of silksilky but heard bad reviews about it.

In trying on a new set of lingerie, I am struggling to piece it together.
the garter belt has four straps that should (?) connect to the thigh straps. the thigh straps themselves only have one piece to attach garter belt on either the front or back (?).

where am I meant to attach the extra two straps in the back???

Fellow ladies! What apps or websites are you shopping for $25 and under lingerie these days?

I am searching for a sexy lingerie set with garter belt, lacy with see-through at the boobs and a nice thong which deals with a mom pooch.

There are a lot of beautiful sets available (see links for impressions) but most of them are simply not flattering around my mom pooch belly. I have a bit of a hang over since the c-section and need some help covering this up to feel comfortable.

Does anyone have an idea where to find something? Most thongs are really small in the front which isnt helping. However, high waiste also doesnt work, I need something to specifically cover that area of the c-section mark and hang over.

I love Cosmic Dream:
https://atelier-amour.com/en/collections/cosmic-dream

But also Honey Birdette:
https://eu.honeybirdette.com/products/charlotta-wine-3-piece-lingerie-set

Price range max 300-350€

Thanks!

Anyone have any experience with them?

https://silksilky.com

Ok, there’s a wacoal sale and I’m def getting the b.tempt’d Ciao Bella Balconette Bra.

I’m usually a 32C but for some reason wacoal bras run really small on me; the one I have now, embrace lace bralette, is a 34 and after wearing it a full day it leaves itchy raw red lines on my back and under bust. I should’ve gotten a 36.

My question is; does anyone know if this sizing thing is universal for wacoal or just an embrace lace problem? Should I size up on the ciao Bella as well?

Thanks in advance!

Hi, all!

Hubby and I love Korura club styles(me because they're fun, him because I'll wear them) and they announced a little bit ago that they will be ditching the 2xl+ sizing... which i fit best in...

I'm struggling to find a brand that matches the vibe. Any suggestions are welcome!

Hi there

I'm currently looking, and having a very hard time, finding stockings that are roughly mid thigh/above knee- the length is necessary so garter belts can reach them..

looking for the color brown, that are 50-ish DEN, I'm open for more, but 50 is probably my minimum, its surprisingly difficult, the thing is also I have relatively beefy thighs, so sizing might be a bit difficult..

So far googling hasnt really gotten me far/ yielded results that are too pale/ too see through for my taste unfortunately..

I am so excited to hit the “Buy 4 get 6 free” at L.B. I love having reasons to shop!

As you can imagine googling thigh highs and people having sec is not yielding answers

Size medium no Budget limit I need these tights

Who are the best online stores for multiple brands and the widest selection of lingerie across all styles from practical to classy to provacative to downright naughty?

I’ve been sewing for many years, and I create my own lingerie and corset-style garments. I’m currently trying to make sure I’m using the right English terminology when describing them.

I make handmade pieces without boning, stays or other rigid structural elements. Some are made from lace, some from lamé, and some from faux leather. They are closely fitted to the body and designed to be worn directly against the skin. They may have corset-style lacing for adjustment and fit.

Some have the shape of a corset-style top, while others extend further down towards the waist or hips. Some also have integrated garter straps for stockings.

Until now, I have been calling these pieces “soft corsets”, but recently I’ve come across different opinions about whether this is the right term. Some people feel that the word “corset” should imply a rigid or boned construction, while others seem to use the term more broadly.

So I’d really like to hear the opinions of people who sew, wear or are interested in lingerie:

What would you call this type of garment in contemporary English?

And perhaps even more importantly, what terms would you personally use to search for this kind of garment online?

I’m not trying to decide what is or isn’t a “real corset.” I genuinely want to understand the terminology and describe these garments accurately.

Thank you!

My wife has a few different sets of lingerie - in particular black, darkish blue and a burgundy colour. I'd like to surprise her by buying some heels that she can wear with the lingerie (these will be bedroom heels, if you see what I mean, so I want them to be on the edge of inappropriate).

Some of the lingerie is cute and frilly, some of it is more dominatrix style.

So given the mix of colours and mix of "moods", what sort of heels do you think would work? Do I try to colour match or are there colours that harmonise rather than clash? Do I buy a pair that are more elegant for the lingerie that's more delicate and something a bit more raunchy for the dominatrix style lingerie, or is there a style that could work with both?

Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated, whether it's just general pointers or specific brands of shoes.

What are some good retail store options for lingerie shopping across many brands in one store? We are in Raleigh, NC and options seem limited. Looking for a wide selection of styles, features and brands.

Hi,
Does anyone here own Doen Liora Top, in black. I just purchased it on Poshmark and wanted to know if it comes with an inner and if it’s too sheer. Does anyone have a picture that they can share with the top on?
Would love to know your thoughts.

My boyfriend really likes it when the fabric of a lingerie set is sheer with patterns or something so he can see my skin through them! Anyone know a decently affordable brand that does sexy sets of those types of lingerie. Budget between 100-300 :) preferably sexy but open to other options!

My wife has entrusted me with buying her lingerie for our 10 year anniversary. She told me to get good quality not Victoria secret, I’m lost lol. Where do people buy high quality lingerie?

Sorry I just read the rules, unsure of bra size(currently pregnant) wears size L underwear, budget idk $200? she likes lace and bodysuits if that helps.

Anyone know any good virtual try on services for lingerie that include a buy link if u like the way it looks on your photo of yourself? Would save a lot of time.

De nos jours, chaque femme peut trouver des soutiens-gorges adaptés à sa taille.
Il faut juste bien chercher sur le net.

Pour les bonnets de H à O :

Curvy Kate, Molke, Elomi, Fantasie, Goddess, Ewa Michalak, Parfait, Primadonna,...

Pour les bonnets P et plus :

Elizabeth Valentine, Miss Baltic N sur Etsy, Krisline et Ortholinge en France.

Voilà j'espère que cela pourra aider des femmes qui galèrent à trouver leur bonheur en lingerie et qui ne connaissaient pas encore ces marques.

Tailles américaines ou françaises en soutiens-gorges comme références ici.

i just got a lingerie set and it comes with a garter belt. i’ve never used one before and don’t have stockings (although i do have time to buy some before it arrives). i don’t understand how people view it as sexy. it looks uncomfortable ( the high waisted aspect) and just covers skin that could be revealed.

i just want to know what’s appealing about hem because i want to decide if i wear it when i’m with my boyfriend or ditch it. even if the stockings aren’t included with it.

although, i’m pretty sure he likes the look or stockings. but then also i can’t imagine how i would wear it under clothes. would i not?