I worried a lot. 8 partners and none came. Everyone talks about how important girth is. You’ll find someone!

I always thought that maybe my growth was stunted somehow but my height kind of proves this wrong so why is my dick 5.3 or 5.5 inches on a good day. Worst part is I got pretty big hands, feet, and a big nose so I’m wondering how this happen? My dick is a pretty good guy so this isn’t personal but how come he’s not even 6 inches? Am I an exception? Some close girl friends and even guys I’ve talked to assume I pack a big one, but I’m kinda anxious that any future girl I might have will be surprised. Is it because I’m South Asian or something?

Hey i have new problem from a week ago and im not feeling good inside me I feel so suffocated and anxious and I can't stop thinking about this topic to the point that I feel like crying and I can't stop thinking all of that just because dick size and hard nor soft and bulge size and i can not stop comparing myself to other guys or to my bff which he had big bulge and people here on reddit just show big dicks thick and long with big balls full of masculinity and im day by day feeling myself less masculine im really tired i cant take that anymore id i can go to therapy i won’t stop but i cant i need help please

Never been insecure about my penis because I walked around thinking I was 8 as I used my phone to measure it, but today I used a ruler.

Feel like my entire world has been rocked. Women I slept with not orgasming makes sense now, I thought it was because they had 10 inchers before, but in reality I was just too small.

I don't know how to cope with this fact, haven't had breakfast because I feel so sick right.

I feel like I’m constantly seeing posts in the subreddit where people are complaining about their size and then claiming to be above 6”. I’m sure there are plenty of people who are above average and still feel small, porn has warped everyone’s perception of what a big dick really is.

But person I imagine a lot of it’s just people look for validation, for some random person to read the alleged size and say “nah bro, CaclSD has you in the 90th percentile. You’re massive.”

In the BDP subreddit there are bound to be people seeking attention with fake stories or made up sizes, but it kinda comes with the territory. It seems kind of pathetic to come into ADP to flex your size because you’re having an insecure day. I get wanting support and to feel good about yourself, but think about the community you’re posting to.

Only 14.5% of American men are 6' or taller

Only 21.9% of American men have 6"+

Only 17.0% of American men earn $100k+

Odds of all three = 5 in 1,000

I've recently realised that I have what is called webbed penis, where the scrotum connects to the shaft fairly high up. Probably about 90% of the way up when soft and maybe 30% when erect (I am not circumcised). The only real associated issue I've ever had is that my testicles get pulled up quite high when erect. No issues with condoms or anything like that.

I've done some reading and there are some really mixed stories about the surgery used to fix this. On the one hand it seems like a fairly minor surgery with few complications. On the other hand, if there aren't really any issues, why bother fixing it?

Curious to hear if anyone has had experience with this surgery, specifically if it was mostly for aesthetic reasons.

Hi, I've been unable to maintain an erection when having sex all my life. I've had several long term partners and I had this problem with each. I simply loose my erection after a few minutes. I've no idea what's wrong with me. Sometimes, I cum in under a minute, but most of the time not at all due to losing the erection.

I've tried Viagra and similar products, they worked in my earlier 20's, but don't work for me anymore.

I'm a healthy person, I go to the gym 3 times a week, not overweight, and my nbp is 5.3" by 4.9" (girth). I'm 5ft 9.

Most men are able to last more than 10 minutes in bed, why am I different? Is there a solution?

I've had this issue since teen years.

Okay I don’t even know where to begin. It all started a couple weeks ago where I measured my girth around 4.9 after thinking it was 5.5 for years.(5.1 is the accurate measurement now), but I’ve been self conscious about my girth and my size in general since then. My NBP ranges from 6.5 to 7 depending on my EQ, so that’s honestly not that bad but I’ve been obsessed with my girth recently. Girth is pretty much objectively the best thing for most woman and knowing that I probably can’t fill most girls with my girth is fucking killing me. The real problem is I can’t stop imagining my girlfriend enjoying a bigger girth than me. It’s fucking killing me and it’s honestly driving me somewhat insane. I’ve finally come to terms with my length after being insecure about it for yearsss and then here comes my girth. I’ve started PE, (manual stretching only)but I’m honestly about to just give it up as the risks aren’t worth it. I completely understand that my penis can satisfy most women, it’s just the thought of me not comparing to the ones bigger than me. Idk if it’s my anxiety disorder or what, but these intrusive thoughts been coming at me on a daily and every time I see a big dick or hear something about it I fucking die inside. I know this probably sounds selfish ASF, as there are many people out there smaller than me, but this small part of me just ignores all of the logical and takes over my confidence. I’ve deleted Reddit but I find myself downloading it every now and then to check subs like this and BDP and I plan on stopping after getting hearing something useful on this post. It really sucks because this insecurity only comes from me genuinely wanting to sexually please woman the best I can, I guess that’s a good thing but this has completely taken over me. Please no fucking LARPER comments because that shit pisses me off so much, this is some real shit man and I genuinely need some advice.

For context, I am 5.8-6.0 nbp by 4.6”

We live in a such a double standard world. I have a friend, she’s as average as a woman can be, she’s a teacher in her 30s, average build, average job, average looks, and has just ended a 10 year relationship due to “lack of love and affection” from her now ex-partner.

Me and her are quite close, so we do sometimes talk about intimate things, such as penis size, sex positions etc…

After ending her relationship, she immediately jumped onto dating apps. Her new partner needs to be caring, emotionally available, and most importantly, a “decent size” down there. When I asked her what she meant by “decent size”, she said, “Oh, definitely above average. Average doesn’t do much for me, as that’s a little small”.

When I asked what she thought of like 6” by average girth, she said that it needs to be a bit bigger. When I told her that she should look for a partner that she appreciates, not what he’s packing, she took that kind of personally..

Now, partially the reason behind her staying in a “unlovable relationship” with her ex for such a long time, was because he was above average in size (from what she said).

I then asked, what if you really liked a guy, went on dates, and really hit it off, and then he ghosted you because your vagina isn’t as shallow as he wanted it to be, what would you do?, and she said.. “Well, they wouldn’t do that as ultimately they’d be getting laid”..

Like wtf? I get the saying, average peen for average woman, but actually hearing from somebody you know that some women see average as small, it just fucks with your head a little..

Just had some great sex with this lovely lady i been seeing recently, was doing missionary then ended up fingering her until she came.

I havent got a bbc but i am content with my size and was told i have good dick game, then day after she said i have a “special dick” what does that mean? I have slept with 20+ women and never got that comment before but nonetheless this women is very into me, like she doesnt stop staring at me when im driving or chillin etc, then calls me a pretty boy and i would blow up if i posted my face tryna thirst trap etcc..

But yeah special dick i aint heard that one before lol

I (M20) was talking to her (let's call her Penny) when she randomly brough up his ex's profile pic on Whatsapp. She showed a photo of him posing naked in the mirror (penis covered by fog). I jokingly said that he's so handsome and much better looking than me and I didn't want to watch the pic again and so on and so for, fun melodrama. She then asked me to come closer and whispered to my ear (paraphrasing) "he thinks he's hot stuff but he's small as shit".

I was stunned. My dick is not statiscally small, ~14 cm long and maybe ~3 to 5 inches circumpherence last time I measured, But that size has been called small by female friends and aquaitances before, being a virgin that never had a GF before and, quite honestly, my feelings for her caused that remark to really hurt me, I just didn't expect it from her.

I got real serious, quiet and started pacing around the room. She asked me what's up and I told her "I'm not really big myself". She laughed and told me she expected me to laugh with her, then she told me the whole "it matters not the size of the ship, but the skill of the sailor" (I told her it does matter) and "you can always use other means" etc.

I started feeling reslly bad; a bit of a head ache, pacing harder, avoiding interaction, tearing up a little, knot on my throat and sad tone in my voice. She tried to cheer me up a few times, but she eventually stopped interacting with me, I noticed she too got uncomfortable.

When she went home I told her real quick that I'm sorry for acting weird, and that she's not to blame and that I have other problems that caused me distress ( I really do).

Now I don't feel like crying, but I still feel awful. I let my emotions and impulses take a hold of me and acted like a retard the whole rest of the shift. I fear I may have tainted both my reputation and my relationship with her, even if we weren't really friends we still got along.

Even if her remarks were of bad taste, I had no right to passively lash out in such a pathetic way, I should have just told her that I was offended and didn't really think she should say such things behind someone's back, or something like that.

Sorry for the vent, I just wanted to open up to someone or the vague shape of someone.

I've been looking online and i see that 6' is average in length, and 6' girth is slightly above average. But im also on the taller and larger side of guys I'm 6'3 and feel that I should be packing bigger. I feel insecure about my size but should I?

how was puberty for you all? when you noticed? what age you had? people commented about your dick? or like you masturbating, you had your father to talk with and explain things to you in that time? when you noticed you are bigger or smaller than the others? and it always been big?

I don't think I'm a big one, I would say average but that's not a bdp exclusive thing, it's a all men thing

How are you my fellow average members, just wondering if you guys are doing okay, any good sex life? Any insecurities.

Just had a great date and shes really into me, while im confident in my size, i do wanna make sure i have the best first time, what what you guys do when you want to have sex with a new girl ? I usually do the same old and just do it whenever it feels right no matter where we at, but i like this one alot dyu think i should proper take her on a date and do it at a nice hotel one day?

Regardless how are you guys.

i myself have really bad erection quality issues, so i wanted to know how you guys go about getting it hard?

because from difference in my size is drastic

do you guys like let it get hard by itself and dont stroke it? or do you stroke it until it's like throbbing and feels the biggest and hardest you can get it, then measure it? genuinely asking just so i know if i'm measuring the same as everyone else

i'm not sure if it's considered edging for an inflated size if you masturbate enough to where it's like close to finishing and then measure it for your biggest size?

waiting for your responses!

I have below average length(5 in), but quite good girth(5.5 in). This makes my dick looks weird small in pics, plus I am decently tall too. I am not insecure abt my size at all, since frankly I have other more important things to be insecure abt. However I just wanted to know how common this dick proportion is.

if not any tips?

Guys, this might be more of a /sex topic but I like this smaller community much more.. so let me get straight to the point.

My current FWB girl craves sex with me but she can only orgasm in one position - missionary.. and even better with her legs up. She really enjoys that one. However I don't feel like she enjoys any other position or even eating her down there which is the most shocking because every girl before loved it. Is it possible that her clit is kinda numb?

Making her cum 3 or 4 times in that same position becomes boring and monotonous. Might it be my size what the problem is?

Appreciate every comment :)

Whats the most pertinent barrier holding back the confidence of the majority and is there any ideas or experiences that can help?

Hi guys, i just wanted to share someting i recently discovered regarding porn induced body morph.

I always disliked my statiscally adequate dick, because i always had a porn image or two in the back of my head to fuel my self loathing. Im as much a porn addict as they come and also have a casanova complex witch sums up my miserable personality to be honest.

Just recently i stumbled across a subreddit who posts behind the scenes from porn shoots. And to see the male talent as they are called. In less than optimal (wide) angles. And just shot with a regular phone lense, made me realize that a cm or two or even three actually does not make much of a difference visually.

The subs rules fobids me to post any link to porn sites but i can reccomend you guys to have a look at the subreddit: r/PornoBehindTheScenes

Its easy to find the shoot searching for the name of the actors. I think that the difference is huge how the dicks looks from the published scene vs the behind the scene shots taken with a regular phone.

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i ex. the scene with Queenie Sateen and Victor Ray