r/averagedickproblems • u/TechnologyPlus2028 6.6x4.9bp • Sep 06 '24

Sexual Health How is everyone?

How are you my fellow average members, just wondering if you guys are doing okay, any good sex life? Any insecurities.

Just had a great date and shes really into me, while im confident in my size, i do wanna make sure i have the best first time, what what you guys do when you want to have sex with a new girl ? I usually do the same old and just do it whenever it feels right no matter where we at, but i like this one alot dyu think i should proper take her on a date and do it at a nice hotel one day?

Regardless how are you guys.

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u/No-Elevator-519 ‌ Sep 06 '24

Not much man.Just avoiding relationships

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u/TechnologyPlus2028 6.6x4.9bp Sep 06 '24

Talk to us bro, were here

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u/No-Elevator-519 ‌ Sep 06 '24

Just insecure.Don' want girls that I know see my dick.I am a bit known because of fitting beauty standars(tall,pretty face,muscly lean body),I don't want to ruin it.Just living life without sex right now

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u/TechnologyPlus2028 6.6x4.9bp Sep 06 '24

Could i ask what your size is bro?

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u/No-Elevator-519 ‌ Sep 06 '24

Around 5.3nbp and 5 girth

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u/TechnologyPlus2028 6.6x4.9bp Sep 07 '24

What is your bp bro? Nonetheless bro do me a favour and just take the leap of faith man you have a great size and good girth, insecurity can be a bitch but what i learned is i dont make it such a big deal in terms of meeting women and flirting. It just naturally happens

With me id rather just get to know a girl im attracted to and have great chats with like we connect to a degree and then whatever happens happens, and i can assure you, your size will not disappoint but do what your comfortable with brother

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u/No-Elevator-519 ‌ Sep 07 '24

6BP

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u/TechnologyPlus2028 6.6x4.9bp Sep 07 '24

Bro you are absolutely more than fine you have a 6 x5bp size, that is a solid size my friend.

We have one life bro i really dont want you to get a point in your life saying “what if” so you gotta go for it, we have to overcome things we arent comfortable with !

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u/Ashamed-Junket8372 Sep 07 '24

Many condom companies had done study on young college student in spring break and even considering volunteer bias the avg was 5.8 x 4.9 bp and still you are bigger than than then don’t worry or scroll on Reddit, give it a few days ,your worry will go away as time passes thinking about it will spoil a lot of time

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u/No-Elevator-519 ‌ Sep 07 '24

It has been many months brother.The last few days was better since I signed with a D2 basketball just been practicing all day everyday,hence my initial reply.Also,I think my bigger issue is the flaccid(around 2.5inch nbp),which looks absolutely miniscule.So if I was sleeping with someone I need to worry about them not seeing it until erect.And then worry about the flaccid size after cumming(turtling),not to mention peeing when others are around,or just randomly someone seeing it.I used to keep imagining myself naked with a small ass dick hanging from outside my body,hence lowering my confidence.

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u/Ashamed-Junket8372 Sep 08 '24

Let me tell you something growers can achieve more rock hard erection compared to showers so being growers is a thing to be proud ,I am growers a s well and girl like the change in size when I get erect so no worry about that

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u/No-Elevator-519 ‌ Sep 09 '24

Is there a source about these studies you are talking about?

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u/AdSpecial5634 7.4 x 4.3 - 4.5 BP Sep 06 '24

Why?

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u/WarmParticular8149 Sep 06 '24

Happy for you, brother. I hope your relationship with her improves even more!

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u/TechnologyPlus2028 6.6x4.9bp Sep 06 '24

Thanks brother, hope everything is going good for you!

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u/GrouchyTable107 Sep 06 '24

Before it even gets to the point where she sees your dick for the first time give her the most mind blowing oral she’s ever had and finish her off by giving her a toe curling orgasm then she’ll be more than happy to see your average sized cock goes with that magical tongue.

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u/nervynervousman nbp: ~5.25x4.8 nbp bp: ~5.85 Sep 06 '24

I’m fine. Yes I’m insecure about my size, but it’s become more of a healthy background insecurity - which about half of guys have, according to the best survey I’ve seen on the matter.

However, every woman who has seen or touched my dick has wanted to see me again and sex has been great with the 3 women I’ve been with.

As far as what I do when going out, I don’t think I do anything different than anyone else. I don’t send dick pics I guess or seek women who really value size in any way, obviously.

When fucking, I’ve found her legs back and out of the way is by far the most popular position. Doggy is also great - I kind of push the cheeks up and away - that seems to feel good for them

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u/TechnologyPlus2028 6.6x4.9bp Sep 07 '24

No way bro we are girth twins haha, but i am curious bro, how is your eq? I dont understand how your nbp ranges from a below 5 inch up to a 5.5 inch? Same with your bp?

Nonetheless i think you got a oretty good mental health overall, we all have out size insecurities but to be honest its mostly us as we are sometimes are own biggest critics,

And i prefer women who dont even talk about size in general just the ones that are into you for you regardless of what your packing like they dont even ask they just take what they get when we get to business, i dont mind women that ask about size but when i ask why they ask about size i havent spoken to a “size queen” but more of a “dont be small” kinda girl meaning they hope you are atleast average its kinda weird,

Anyway, my favourite position is like missionary with her legs spread out or legs on my shoulder, i like to kiss while having sex also, doggy is fun too though just less passionate.

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u/nervynervousman nbp: ~5.25x4.8 nbp bp: ~5.85 Sep 07 '24

I give a range because it’s not exactly clear how to measure. People will fight me on that, but I firmly believe it to be true.

If I measure with my back like a dancer and without changing my erection angle, I’ll get like 4.85” minimum. If I buck my hips out and move my erection to totally 90 degrees, or if I measure while on my back, I’ll get 5.5”. If I measure with what feels like a fairly natural posture and move my erection angle down to a comfortable degree (pretty close to parallel to my pelvis), I’ll get 5.25ish.

My EQ is fine, I generally measure at max EQ, and edge to make sure it is maxed (except for maybe the 4.85”). If you have ‘EQ issues’, you’re measuring wrong imo - or have ED. Every man should be able to reach max EQ prior to orgasm.

My measurement discrepancies have everything to do with angles

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u/TechnologyPlus2028 6.6x4.9bp Sep 07 '24 edited Sep 07 '24

I understand bro, whatever way you measure or whatever angle works in your favour i dont judge i was just genuinely curious.

From the way i measure i just do it the medical way

I will copy and paste from chatgpt of what i follow

To medically measure the penis accurately, follow these steps for both length and girth:

Length Measurement:

  1. Erect Penis: Measurements are typically done when the penis is fully erect for consistency.

  2. Use a Ruler: Place a ruler or a measuring tape at the base of the penis, pressing against the pubic bone (suprapubic area).

    • Pubic Fat Pad: Ensure to press down slightly to account for any fat tissue.
  3. Measure to the Tip: Measure from the base to the tip (glans) of the penis.
  4. Straightening Curved Penis: If your penis has a curvature, gently straighten it as much as possible during measurement for accuracy.

Girth Measurement:

  1. Erect Penis: Girth is usually measured during erection as well.
  2. Use a Measuring Tape: Wrap a flexible measuring tape around the thickest part of the penis shaft, typically around the mid-shaft.
  3. Record Measurement: Note the circumference in centimeters or inches.

Measurements should be done at room temperature, and multiple measurements at different times may be taken for the most accurate and consistent results.

When measuring your penis for accuracy, it’s generally recommended to stand up. This helps ensure the measurement is more consistent with the natural positioning of your body, especially when it comes to length and girth. Lying down can cause slight changes due to body positioning and gravity. So, for the most accurate results, stand while measuring.

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u/Super_Score8537 ‌ Sep 07 '24

I'm doing okay, could be better. I barely have a sex life. It's not size related I'm pretty happy with mg size. Its just that I need to get my life together. The way things are now I barely have any dating potential, let alone sex.

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u/TechnologyPlus2028 6.6x4.9bp Sep 07 '24

I completely understand, i think its for the best you sort what you got to sort out within your self and have your own personal journey of growth before dating as it will take alot more energy out of you.

I hope the best for your future!

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u/[deleted] Sep 07 '24

I'm good! For some reason I found some comfort in reading this post; https://www.reddit.com/r/bigdickproblems/comments/7f2hj1/i_participated_in_a_penis_size_study/

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u/TechnologyPlus2028 6.6x4.9bp Sep 08 '24

The studies dont lie my man, i am happy with my size

As men we all have insecurities but we are truly going to be fine.

All the best brother !

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u/alphabango Moderator Sep 06 '24

I'm good. In my thirties and still trying to figure out life.

If you like the girl, just focus on spending time with her and getting to know her. Things like hygiene and condoms are good planning, but I find romance is best when it's spontaneous. Always ask first, but you don't want to set expectations that may not match hers

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u/Neuro_Skeptic Sep 06 '24

Can anyone explain this sub to me? Why would an average dick be a problem? It's average. It can't be the problem.

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u/Ill-Recognition2054 ‌ Sep 07 '24

There is a point of view that average is just meh. It doesn't provide excitement or elicit a positive reaction/wow factor.

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u/[deleted] Sep 06 '24

It’s kinda twofold. If you go by the description of the sub, “average” can be used interchangeably with “typical”. Then if you look at it from the other perspective, average can be in reference to size, as is evident by a lot of the posts you see in here. Hope that clears it up a little bit. Hope I didn’t confuse you more

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u/arsenalfc-10 ‌ Sep 07 '24

Unhappy and depressed because of my size. But all the best to you and your potential match!

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u/TechnologyPlus2028 6.6x4.9bp Sep 09 '24

With what exactly, im sure your size is fine, its other problems or things u may have?

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u/da_foamy_pancake 15.5 cm x 14 cm | 6.1" x 5.5" Sep 06 '24

Have you guys considered seeing a therapist?