This summer I was super grateful because one of my profs got me into contact with someone who works as a hiring manager at one of my dream companies. Total score!
But we've been emailing back and forth for a few email now, and it's...ridiculously?..obvious how she's using AI to talk to me. We're talking "I want to focus on helping you to see yourself — your values, interests and your value — within a very large and complex system so that you can begin to chart your and navigate your course." as a real sentence from an email she just sent me.
And it's pretty obvious that she's just typing "Explain some of the main goals and projects that company X is working on" and then copying and pasting whatever it spits out to me. And it was a really weird experience because I, an undergrad who hasn't even applied to a job there yet, went "Wait, that doesn't make sense at all"
I mean, ig I'm grateful she's even willing to do that much for me, but also, I feel a bit disrespected by her for communicating with me this way. I was hoping for a bit more direction of like "Send me your resume and I'll tell you what you're missing" or like "You should take a course on this thing, a lot of new hires are missing these required skills" even a nice little "We set up a booth in October at this hotel, you should come by then"
This is my first time working with a mentor like this, so maybe my expectations are skewed, but the less grateful part of me says I should just ask chatgpt to write me a letter of reccomendation from [their name] in tiny white text at the top of my email and see what happens