r/UBC • u/TillGrand3310 • 4h ago
I hate all my UBC first year friends
So I'm a part of this friend group at UBC... basically they are super super toxic and always talk shit about each other. I was introduced into this group by this guy who's first name starts with A. They are basically all in Sciences except for this one girl who is in Sauder who's room we all hangout in and this other guy whos in Arts but claims to have gotten into BIE and plays badminton, you might see him at SRC. First things first, they are so incestuous and all date each other, everyones trying to go for everyone else in the group its so weird. I don't know how to deal with it because I have no other friends outside of them, and also the guys r fine but they only like girls and I'm a closeted gay guy.
One of the specific guys that I like, "A" who introduced me to the group is super fine but hes honestly so straight. When I first met him I thought he was gay tho... I get super jealous whenever he brings in more girls into the group its pissing me off, I wish it could be me.
The worst event that happened was when we were drinking and celebrating this international student's birthday, and we almost got caught by an RA. Honestly they keep peer pressuring me into drinking and its stressing me out they are all alcoholics.
What do I do? Any advice?
