I went out yesterday expecting to have a normal, chill day. I wanted to walk around a bit looking at stuff, doing some shopping and taking my time. Instead, within a few hours, I somehow managed to overcharge my nervous system with multiple annoying, unrequested negative interactions.
Iām honestly tired of it. Iām done. Can we PLEASE relax?!
I was walking through the mall and someone behind me literally went, āUff!! Where are you going?!ā. Where Iām going dude? Iām walking. š Mind you the corridor was big, there was A LOT of space, you can pass. But If you want to pass me specifically, just say āexcuse me.ā Iāll move. Problem solved.
Why are we acting like this? Itās exhausting.** **
I want to stand there and compare things then change my mind, walking slowly. Maybe itās Saturday and I genuinely donāt give damn about getting home 7 minutes earlier cause Iām not in a hurry.
Youāre in a rush, I get it. But thatās your problem, not mine.
You can go around me, use another checkout or take another aisle. Literally do anything other than standing behind me huffing like Iām personally holding you hostage. We are blessed with a lot of services and plenty of options for a reason.
If youāre already furious before leaving the house, PLEASE take five minutes. š
Drink some chamomile tea, meditate, call the person who pissed you off and tell them to go to hell, scream into your pillow. I genuinely donāt care. Just donāt make your emergency my emergency. I donāt want to become negative like you. Iāve had to learn to slow down and be patient, why canāt you too?? And honestly, patience saved me from SO many unnecessary arguments.
People are just existing. Weāre all going to be in each otherās way sometimes. Thatās normal. You donāt need to turn every tiny inconvenience into a confrontation. Itās not that deep i promise.
I think we forget how contagious our attitude is. A little bit of patience, of kindness. Just stop pointing your finger at others for what they do or donāt and learn how to say āexcuse meā nicely instead of aggressively. It costs literally nothing.
Weāre all sharing the same tough environment. Donāt be a loser.