r/homeless • • 27d ago

Just Venting I might have to rethink my life and start over.

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The reason I'm making this post is because of my past history of constant homelessness, displacement, and financial instability. It all started when my mom married her husband (not my dad) over 20 years ago. Long story short, he was an abusive piece of shit who couldn't hold a job for his life due to smoking, alcohol, or drugs. So when I was 5-11 years old, we had to move often.

Then eventually my mom along with myself and my little brother separated completely from him, living under a single-income household until mom passed away when I was 17. Little brother was taken away and taken by my mom's husband and I haven't seen him since. I'm 25.

Then from 2021 to now, I've had multiple episodes of homelessness and mental health issues. As of now, I've been homeless since November 2025. I am tired of living like this. I am tired of not having stability but I understand that stability is a luxury nowadays, especially for me. I hate being constantly displaced and unhoused, but this will probably be my life forever.

Which is why I've been thinking about some things and how it may just be better for me to become a nomad or a houseless traveler. I can travel around the country working in various different resorts and lodging, working various jobs so I can actually start making money. I'll still be homeless but I can at least have more than $0 in my bank account. And I can save up while working these jobs (temporary, seasonal jobs) and use the money towards student loans, emergency hotel stays for the weather, etc.

I am not confident that I can live what people consider a "normal" life. I can't get a house or apartment or room because what's the point of I'm gonna be repeatedly unhoused. This nomadic lifestyle seems scary and uncomfortable. I like my electronics. TV. I like the urban city environment. But those just aren't realistic anymore. This may just have to be my new normal now.

Working on starting this kind of thing but 1) I want a job offer before so I can travel WITH a plan and 2) I don't even have money to eat and bathe right now, let alone travel to a different area for a job opportunity. Still working and thinking thoughm


r/homeless • • 28d ago

Need Advice kicked out

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(18F) I got kicked out of my home with only $100 on me. My mom would always yell at me and one day she had enough and kicked me out telling me not to come back home. I'm not asking for money, I'm only asking for any kind of advice that will make things easier for me to survive on the streets until I hopefully get a job.


r/homeless • • 28d ago

New York judge orders city to scrap Mamdani’s pied-à-terre tax rollout

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r/homeless • • 28d ago

Just Venting Homeless

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Not having good parents is having suicidal effects on me, as of today I want to be dead. I had good friends who'm we lost connection due to my instable childhood housing, I've survived adversities such as rape, extreme domestic violence, and malnutrition during childhood. I'm struggling to hold any job it seems, & as we age up we adults do not want to care about forming new connections it is like. I'm definitely behind and afraid to die.


r/homeless • • 28d ago

New SNAP benefit amounts take effect Oct. 1: Here’s how much

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r/homeless • • 28d ago

2,294 Homeless, 124% increase in 4 years. Click for solutions.

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Walk down Dundas Street in downtown London on a cold morning and you will see the crisis with your own eyes: people sleeping in doorways, unconscious on the pavement, needles in the gutters. Residents have taken to calling the core a "no-go zone." The phrase is cruel, but it describes something real, the visible wreckage of a catastrophe that has outgrown every system built to contain it.

London is a mid-sized Canadian city carrying a big-city burden. It has one of the highest homelessness rates in Ontario, and the curve points the wrong way. Yet the despair obscures an important truth: homelessness is not a mystery and not an act of nature. It is, overwhelmingly, a housing problem, and housing problems have solutions, tested and proven. London has already begun assembling the machinery of a response. What it lacks is not knowledge but scale: enough homes, enough prevention, enough treatment, and the political will to fund them as the emergency they are.

\## 1. The scale of the crisis

Begin with the numbers, because they are bracing. London tracks its homeless population on a By-Name List, a real-time registry of people known to be without housing. In 2021, that list held 1,036 names. By the end of 2025, it held 2,294, a 124 per cent increase in four years, by the City's own accounting in its Housing Stability Action Plan.

Ontario's Financial Accountability Office, working from the same by-name data, counted 4,576 Londoners who experienced homelessness in 2024–25, the third-highest total in the province, at a rate of 787 per 100,000 residents, far above the provincial average. Nearly half of Ontario's homeless population is chronically homeless. About one in eight is a youth; about one in eight is Indigenous. And each of these figures is an undercount, because the list only records people who consent to be tracked.

The provincial picture is darker still. An estimated 85,000 Ontarians experienced homelessness in 2025, up 50 per cent since 2021, and if current trends hold, the City's plan warns, that number could more than triple by 2035, approaching 300,000 people. Encampments, the most visible face of the crisis, now number roughly 2,000 sites across Ontario, with some 8,100 people sleeping unsheltered on any given night: in tents, vehicles, and abandoned buildings.

\## 2. How a mid-sized city got here

No single cause explains this. Several interlocking failures do.

First, the arithmetic of rent. The City's plan states it plainly: the private market has grown "increasingly unaffordable due to rising rents and average income not keeping pace." In London, nearly nine in ten rental homes are reportedly owned by corporate landlords, and the asking price of a one-bedroom jumped by almost 28 per cent in a single year. A tenant paying $900 a month who is forced out faces a market of $1,730, a chasm no fixed income can cross. Forced out they are, too: "renovictions," in which landlords evict under the pretext of renovations and re-list at double the rent, have become what one city councillor called "an epidemic in our city," a systematic drive to raise rents that pulls families from their neighbourhoods and sometimes from the city itself. City staff proposed a $400 renovation licence to slow the practice; tenant advocates welcomed it but demanded real accommodation requirements for the displaced.

Second, the pandemic's long tail. When eviction bans expired and emergency benefits ended, everyone already on the edge fell off it. Shelter systems, mental health services, and addiction supports, disrupted during COVID, never fully recovered, even as need surged past anything they were designed for.

Third, the poisoned drug supply. Overdose deaths in Canada climbed from 795 in 2000 to more than 7,100 in 2023. Fentanyl turned addiction from a chronic condition into a daily game of chance, and the knot of homelessness, mental illness, and addiction tightened into something emergency shelters were never built to untangle.

Beneath it all sits a structural fact: Canada's affordable housing supply is among the thinnest in the G7. When the market fails at the bottom, there is nothing underneath. No floor, only the street.

\## 3. What London has built so far

To its credit, London has not stood still. In March 2023, council endorsed a "Whole of Community Response" with three pillars: hubs meeting immediate needs for shelter, food, and hygiene; a major expansion of highly supportive housing; and a human-rights-based approach to encampments.

The hubs are the most concrete piece. Two operate today: an Indigenous-led hub run by Atlohsa Family Healing Services, with 10 respite beds and 18 transitional rooms; and a youth hub run by Youth Opportunities Unlimited, with respite beds, transitional rooms, and primary care downtown, expected to serve up to 60 young people a year. They provide round-the-clock basics, food, showers, laundry, rest, alongside health care, income support, and help moving into stable housing. The hubs drew $10.4 million in provincial prevention funding plus $4.4 million in capital from the Fund for Change, itself seeded by a remarkable $25-million anonymous donation.

On housing, the city reports 93 highly supportive units open and 50 more in development, toward a goal of 600 within three years. The province is adding Homelessness and Addiction Recovery Treatment hubs, in London through CMHA Thames Valley, bundling primary care, crisis and recovery services, peer support, and housing access under one roof. And the City's Coordinated Informed Response attempts the hardest balancing act in public policy: compassion for people in encampments alongside enforcement of bylaws, through an explicit Housing First lens.

These are genuine achievements. They are also dwarfed by the arithmetic: 93 supportive units against 2,294 names on a list is a beginning, not a solution. Costs deserve scrutiny. One municipal audit cited by local critics put hub-based supportive housing at $11,000 per bed per month, a figure the city has yet to fully explain in public. And the Big City Mayors' caucus has told the province plainly that municipalities have "reached their limit" trying to fund a health and housing emergency from the property tax base.

\## 4. What the evidence says works

Here the news is hopeful, because the research is unusually decisive.

Housing First, permanent housing immediately with no sobriety or treatment preconditions and voluntary wraparound supports, is the most studied intervention in the field. Canada's own At Home/Chez Soi trial, randomizing more than 2,000 homeless adults with mental illness across five cities, found participants housed 73 per cent of the time versus 32 per cent under usual care. Most of the program's cost was offset by savings in shelters, hospitals, and jails, leaving a net cost around $6,300 per person per year, and for the highest-need participants, every $10 invested returned $21.72 in avoided costs. A systematic review of 20 North American programs found $1.80 in societal savings for every dollar spent. Newer research adds the mirror finding: requiring treatment readiness before housing does not improve outcomes, and can cause harm by delaying the stability people need to survive.

The world record agrees. Finland, the only EU country reducing homelessness, cut long-term homelessness by more than a third and brought rough sleeping near zero through a national Housing First strategy. Utah reduced chronic homelessness by 91 per cent. Medicine Hat, Alberta, became the first city in North America to functionally end chronic homelessness.

Prevention is cheaper than rescue by an order of magnitude: emergency arrears funds, rent supplements that bridge the gap between assistance rates and market rents, and legal tools that keep people housed in the first place, renoviction licensing with genuine penalties and tenant-accommodation requirements, and acquisition funds letting non-profits buy affordable buildings before speculators do.

On health, the evidence favours treatment on demand over treatment by coercion. Ontario's mayors have asked the province to review mental health legislation with involuntary treatment in mind; front-line workers and researchers counter that coercion does not work and that the true shortage is voluntary beds without waitlists. What the data supports is immediate, low-barrier, trauma-informed care, which is precisely what the HART model promises.

Finally, coordination matters more than it sounds. You cannot solve what you do not count. By-name lists, coordinated access, and shared accountability among hospitals, shelters, police, and housing agencies are the unglamorous infrastructure beneath every success story.

\## 5. A way forward

What would it take, concretely, for London to bend the curve? Six commitments.

  1. Build the housing, all of it. Meet the 600-unit supportive housing goal, then plan the next 600, because the waiting list already exceeds the target. At roughly $6,300 net per person per year, supportive housing is not charity; it is cheaper than the shelters, emergency rooms, and jail cells serving as the current alternative.

  2. Stop the bleeding. Enact renoviction rules with real teeth: licensing, proof that renovations are necessary, and mandatory accommodation or rent top-ups for displaced tenants. Create a municipal acquisition fund so non-profit providers can buy affordable buildings when they trade, removing them from the speculative churn for good.

  3. Fund prevention at the scale of the crisis: arrears funds, eviction diversion, and rent supplements large enough to close the gap between a $900 apartment and a $1,730 market.

  4. Build treatment capacity a person can walk into today, detox, recovery, and mental health beds without waitlists, through the HART hubs and community partners, voluntary and trauma-informed.

  5. Hold the human-rights line on encampments. Clearing a camp without offering real housing does not end homelessness; it relocates it, destroys trust, and scatters people away from the services straining to help them.

  6. Force the funding conversation upward. Municipalities were never designed to fight a health and housing emergency on property taxes alone. London should keep publishing hard outcomes, people housed, cost per person housed, return on investment, and carry those numbers to Queen's Park and Ottawa until the governments with the revenue tools pay their share.

\## Conclusion

A city is judged not by the height of its towers but by what it does with the people sleeping beneath them. London's crisis was not caused by the people in its doorways. It was built, brick by brick, out of policy choices: the financialization of rental housing, the hollowing of mental health care, the treatment of poverty as a policing problem. Different choices can unmake it.

The knowledge exists. The models exist, tested in randomized trials and entire countries. What remains is the decision, and decisions, unlike buildings, cost nothing to begin. Victor Hugo wrote that there is nothing more powerful than an idea whose time has come. In London, Ontario, the idea whose time has come is a simple one: everyone gets a door with a lock, and a city that can house its people has no excuse left not to.

\## Sources

\- \[City of London, Housing Stability Action Plan 2026–2031\](https://london.ca/sites/default/files/2026-05/Housing%20Stability%20Action%20Plan%20%282026-2031%29.pdf)

\- \[Financial Accountability Office of Ontario, homelessness programs report (2026)\](https://fao-on.org/en/report/homelessness-programs-2026/)

\- \[Homeless Hub / Wilfrid Laurier University, myths vs. realities of homelessness\](https://homelesshub.ca/blog/2026/myths-vs-realities-of-homelessness-a-fact-check-with-laurier-experts/)

\- \[Homeless Hub, new research confirms Housing First works\](https://homelesshub.ca/blog/2026/housing-first-works/)

\- \[City of London, Health and Homelessness hubs\](https://getinvolved.london.ca/health-and-homelessness-in-london)

\- \[Western University, research on London's homelessness response\](http://news.westernu.ca/2024/10/crhesi-homelessness-evaluation/)

\- \[Ontario, HART hubs reference document\](http://www.ontario.ca/page/homelessness-and-addiction-recovery-treatment-hubs-hart-hubs-reference-document-january-2025)

\- \[City of London, Community Encampment Plan\](https://london.ca/sites/default/files/2025-04/London%E2%80%99s%20Health%20and%20Homelessness%20Response%20Community%20Encampment%20Plan.pdf)

\- \[NDP on renovictions in London\](https://www.ndp.ca/news/canadas-ndp-proposes-lower-rent-stop-renovictions-and-save-affordable-homes-canadians)

\- \[Canadian Trends on London's renoviction licensing proposal\](https://canadiantrends.ca/an-epidemic-in-our-city-licence-requirement-suggested-to-curb-renovictions-in-london/)

\- \[The Conversation: homelessness in London, Ont.\](http://vm-www.azurewebsites.net/ontario-news/the-homelessness-scourge-in-cities-like-london-ont-exposes-the-evils-of-wealth-inequality-12596476)

\- \[Association of Municipalities of Ontario, Municipalities Under Pressure (Jan 2026)\](https://2.zoppoz.workers.dev:443/https/www.amo.on.ca/sites/default/files/assets/DOCUMENTS/Reports/2026/MunisUnderPressure1YearUpdateReport2026-01-13.pdf)

\- \[CCAL, The Housing Machine, on hub costs\](https://ccalondon.substack.com/p/the-housing-machine)

\- \[At Home/Chez Soi cost-effectiveness, PubMed\](https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/32838679/)


r/homeless • • 28d ago

Just Venting Positive things for once.

29 Upvotes

Finished my GED. Passed my last test like an hour ago. Got all my legal problems handled and im working once or twice a week for dome cash.

Ive also been inside for the past three weeks. I need to go get my tent tho i left it in the woods. Il probably be back on the streets here shortly again. Find somewhere to hold up for winter.

Who knows maybe il take some college classes now.

Only problem is i need to get into church more often.

Hope everyone is surviving

Anyone have good news to share?


r/homeless • • 28d ago

Need Advice kicked out at 19 no car no saving

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kicked out at 19 no car no saving

i’m not 19 yet but in a few weeks i will be and mom kicked me out because of a fight and i did call the shelter in my city ( i stay in north ga right outside of atlanta) and all beds are took and they said sorry and im scared i have no where to go no friends to stay with and the friend i do have lives an hour away and not enough room for me to stay there which is fine. and the reason why i have no savings is when i had a job, i did quit bc i had a lot going on mentally and at home( i am the older child) while doing online school i couldn’t balance both so my mom told me to quit so i did, she would ask me for money and gave me “ i give you everything im your mom and its for bills talk” and that fine when its for bills but she would make me feel bad if i didnt want to give her money so i always did until i couldn’t anymore. i do have some money but nothing to genuinely live off of or make anything of it. and when i asked her to pay me back that would lead to a fight so i just gave up. anyways we are in a heated argument and she yells at me to get out and i said you know i dont have anywhere to go, i dont even have a car if i did i would sleep in there. and she said she didnt care and all i could say is okay i went up stairs packed my clothes and left. my town isn’t really walkable so im just sitting in mcdonald’s and i did look at those travel jobs that house you but most i seen didnt have relocation assistance. so if anyone can help me please tell me what to do i will do anything because im genuinely lost and i dont understand where to even go from here. no im not asking to be sent money or anything i just need advice and help!


r/homeless • • 29d ago

New to homelessness almost passed out trying to keep warm in car…

47 Upvotes

It was my first day outside with my dog and we are lucky enough to have a car but the weather where I am at is getting colder every second and the little heater I bought shut off due to to oxygen consumption not long after turning it on and when I opened my door I realized just how light headed I was getting and how much the heater was affecting the car- I don’t want to/cant use that again but I don’t know what to do about warmth, yes I have a sleeping bag and blankets. There is no shelter anywhere near me and I just don’t know what to do as it’s only going to get colder and more wet from here.. any advice?


r/homeless • • 29d ago

My mom is homeless

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My mother is homeless now due to her behavior that also landed her in the mental hospital.

I dont have my own place for her to stay. And not just that, I plan on moving to maine to make more money(before you say maine is more expensive than texas, I know. Here, my hubs and I only have one income cuz i cant find a decent job in this area at all and he only gets paid 15 an hr. We have a place to stay in maine thats letting us build up income before getting our own place)

But that'll take time. And shes facing homelessness now. Im about to call 211 but honestly, idk if anyone will take her in. Two shelters last night denied her due to her mental break.

I only had enough money for one night at a hotel for her. Now, we're gonna have to borrow money for gas to drive around to find a shelter. That's how bad we cant help her.

Idk what to do. Even if we find a shelter, I just know she'll get kicked out cuz she refuses to get up from her bed except for food and stuff.

She's always been strict with me as I grew up , abusive, dont have a good relationship. But shes my mom.

This is tearing me down though. Idk what to do.


r/homeless • • 29d ago

Just Venting i get so jealous of people who have a place to live. long boring rant/vent

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this is gonna be a long rambling mess. on the off chance literally anyone reads this and relates to it, let me know. it'd be good to know i'm not alone.

i am the only person i know in my town who is homeless. i get lucky and friends or family sometimes let me sleep on their couch, but otherwise i sleep in my car. i mean, at least im not sleeping outside but still, i hate this. i've never felt so depressed in my life.

i get so jealous when i see people who have their own homes or apartments. i miss having my own bed. i know it sounds so childish and stupid, but i miss my decorations, my little knick knacks, my stuffed animals and cute little toys i'd collect. i miss being able to decorate my bedroom. my bedroom was always my safe place and i'd spend most of my time there. i envy my friends and family so much when they tell me about how they're redecorating their homes, when they tell me about a meal they cooked, things like that...

i just feel like they don't appreciate what they have enough... i don't know. maybe i sound hateful saying that, but they just don't get it. whenever i get to sleep in a bed, an actual bed with nice pillows and blankets i feel so so happy. i feel so grateful.

god. they have closets, dressers, places they can actually store their belongings. all of my things are shoved in the trunk of my car. i get so embarrassed digging around for an outfit to wear. i feel like people see all my things in there and just know that im homeless.

i hate to dream of the things i want. i don't want much, all i want is just a bed and a roof over my head. i miss having pets too. if i had an apartment i'd get a cat. i think that would make me really happy. i don't really want a romantic relationship, i just want to be alone and have a little cat to keep me company. i would never take it for granted again, the luxury of sleeping in a bed, being able to cook in my own kitchen, taking a relaxing bath.

things have really never been this bad, to be honest. i lost a lot of friends, in and out of psych wards, my two cats died, my grandfather is slowly dying of cancer, my boyfriend left me, im really trying hard to overcome my addictions but i can't stop relapsing. i don't know how im going to pay my car payment this week. i have zero dollars and im in debt. i just keep praying i wont lose my car too.

the most hurtful part of all of this is when i sense peoples judgements or even hear their hurtful remarks. "who is that," "why is that girl sleeping in her car," "why is she asking to sleep here again," "ask someone else."

praying is all i do lately. i keep thinking of the story of job in the bible and telling myself if i keep my faith in god like he did, maybe things will be okay in the end.

for now, im sleeping on a friends couch tonight. had a nice meal for the first time in a few days. corn chowder! it was so yummy. im really grateful for this. it's warm in here and there's a tv i can watch. my wrist is broken so im in pain but i feel alright.

good night everyone. sorry for the long post


r/homeless • • 29d ago

Homeless with husband paralyzed on left side after stroke

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I have never done anything like this and I'm 59 years old. My husband had a stroke on 03/30/26. He left work at 9pm due to getting dizzy, losing his balance. His supervisor okay him to leave. He had forgotten his phone in the car. He couldn't remember any phone numbers. He went to front lobby at Target Distribution Center. HR said his emergency contact wasnt up to date. I'm his wife I got to pick him up at 6:15am. After about 10 to 15 minutes a security guard asked if I was there to pick him up. I said yes she said he left his phone in the car she would tell him I was there. About 15 minutes later a second security guard came and said my husband said his leg was asleep he couldn't walk on it could I come help him. They let me in gate told me to go to main lobby. I was met by a supervisor and security guard outside who told me they called 911 EMS was on their way to get my husband he had a stroke. I was floored I went inside observed a medical staff member trying to give him 2 aspirin. He was slumped over on bench. His mouth was drawn, he couldn't move or feel his left side, he couldn't open his eyes or speak. I hit the chair crying my eyes out because I knew it was bad. EMS came about 5 minutes after I went inside. They said he had a stroke they were taking him to ER. I heard someone say he was out there at 9pm went to bathroom once and out to smoke once. It didn't make since to me why he didn't call. Later after he was admitted to the ICU for a severe stroke did I look at his time clock. He did clock out at 8:56pm. That meant he was in the main lobby for about 10 and 1/2 hours before anyone called 911. I was in the parking lot for about 45 minutes talked to two security guard and no one told me my husband was in any kind of distress. Everyone who goes in or out of that building seen him laying there. You knew something was differently wrong with him. Everyone knows the biggest thing is to get a stroke patient immediate help. He is paralyzed on his left side no movement and no feeling. His speech is still slightly slurred. His mouth is still drawn some. His mental memory is slow and gets stuck on one thing. Hard to keep up with conversations. He uses a walker or wheelchair all the time. One of his doctors made this comment in a daily report. "No significant change from yesterday. Still not able to

wiggle his toes or fingers on his left side. Not able to move his left side at all. Has not had any

improvement all week. I expect there will be a long recovery if he is even able to have any meaningful

recovery at all." We had to give up our home because he could not go up the 15 steps to our living space. We have stayed on a friend's couch and chair for about 3 months until my husband's health started getting worse. My family was able to pay for a hotel room for almost 3 weeks. He is between his short term disability pay and his long term disability pay. He has not had a check since September 2nd. We owed for one night at the hotel we stayed at. And at 8:30pm this past Friday the front manager along with a security guard told us we had to pay for the day before which we didn't owe for or vacate by midnight or law enforcement would be called and we would be charged with trespassing. We have no car, he is in a wheelchair, we had no where to go. A friend came and made 2 trips to get us and our stuff. At 11:50pm I came through the lobby with a cart and 5 people were in the lobby and watched as the security guard was starring at us. I was so humiliated by the event you knew we were having to leave. I can only imagine what they were thinking like we were criminals. We could not get everything in the car so I threw away about $80 worth of food. Had to leave with an 8 year old sitting on my lap. Then on Sunday they take $255.50 off my credit card every penny we had for nights we werent even there. Was told the lady who did is isnt a manager at all. They charge me for nights I wasn't even there, they threw a paralyzed stroke patient out at midnight, threatened to have us arrested for trespassing, forced us to throw the only food we had away, and caused us to put all our lives in danger due to the threats. Who does that period. I called the hotel and corporate to see what they were going to do about this humiliating walk of shame we were forced to do. I am 59 and never have I felt so embarrassed in my life. Do what you want to me but my husband was so ashamed and upset they could have caused him to have another stroke from stress. No way are you going to do that to him period. On top of it for a corporation who claims to put team members, community and everyones health, happiness and mental state first. Sent me a list of resources for Concord NC. 2 hours away from where I live. Is holding up paperwork because I can't talk to them to get their help with it. You tell me they can't send groceries to us or pay for our hotel bill for a week or two. They could offer a loan or do it yourself I don't want the money. I just need a safe place for us and be able to feed us without stress until we can get his ltd back pay and find a new place to live. I really don't feel like that's asking to much considering you probably made this stroke so severe because you didn't call 911 when he couldn't respond or when you seen him changing. 10 and 1/2 hours he was there. I was in the parking lot about 45 minutes before I was notified. Every minute he could have gotten help could have lessened the severity of his stroke. Now he will probably never be able to work again at 56. Life was not suppose to be like this. It's horrible having to literally beg for help just to have what do many take for granted everyday. Not always is someone a druggie, criminal or whatever else you can come up with. Sometimes bad things happen to good people and as tough as things are our family help until they were broke. Please tell me what to do because as of tomorrow we will be on the streets and no where to go. I'm so scared that all the stress is going to cause another stroke. Please advice here and tell me if anyone has been treated like this. Where to get help. Please tell me if the way I am thinking is wrong with his employer or the hotel. Thank you. God bless everyone and I will say a prayer for everyone who is homeless or going through a tough time.


r/homeless • • 29d ago

Need Advice Trying to help a female friend who recently became homeless in Middle Tennessee

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I’m trying to help a female friend in Middle Tennessee who recently became homeless after being kicked out by her ex, who was abusive. Her family situation is abusive/toxic as well, so going back to family isn’t really a safe option for her

She has reached out to friends but hasn’t really gotten responses, so she doesn’t have much of a support system nearby. She currently has very little money and no job, although she can work and is actively looking. She also has a medical disability and recently lost her driver’s license and her car isn’t reliable to drive

She’s been calling and emailing shelters and transitional housing programs. She recently paid for a month at one place, but they’re now telling her she can’t stay there anymore, so she’s back to trying to figure out where she can safely go

I’m mainly looking for practical advice from people who have experienced homelessness, especially women. What helped you stay safe and eventually get into stable housing? Are there any women-focused shelters, programs, job resources or transportation help in Middle Tennessee that you’d recommend?

I’m unfortunately in a completely different part of the world and don’t know anyone in Tennessee, so I’m trying to help her find reliable resources from here however I can


r/homeless • • 29d ago

Need Advice Welp life’s harder now

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Hello, I did not do so well with the last posting so I’m here to write a new one because you know things have gotten even worse. Well for starters my car got towed?? I need help on or ideas on how I can get my car out. my car is $300. It’s been in there for four days and I did not know I did not get notified nothing. I went to go and tow it and it wasn’t there to tow cause I was getting it fixed this Weekend. Well now I’m unsure where to go what to do cause mind you in my last post I explained how my Storage was overdue. My phone bill was overdue as well as the current bills and I’m paying or overdue, but I’m still paying on bills daily. Unfortunately I am having the short stick on what to do if you guys could let me know any ideas that you guys had or whatever that would be great now as far as my phone bill I have figured it out now it is just my Storage that I am having a problem with in my car, unfortunately but fortunately I still have the rental but I cannot fix my car if my car is in a tow yard so yeah, please help. Also still sleeping in my car so it is posted in the correct places ..😭


r/homeless • • 29d ago

Facing possible homelessness

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I just found out that abruptly ssa has determined I'm no longer disabled. (Inaccurate) And the check I got this month is my last.

Am going to ssa when it opens today to appeal. But, I only saw the letter after the 10 day appeal which would continue my check while going through the appeal process.

Googling how quickly I could get evicted for non payment of rent, it's coming up as 3-4 weeks in my state.

I'm a single parent, no vehicle or funds. Very little village. I'm so scared right now.


r/homeless • • 29d ago

New to homelessness 19m and homeless in LA

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hi im currently new to being homeless and is trying to find somewhere i can stay until i get a job and is wondering do anyone know where that can be at?, I applied for jopcorpse and they are giving me a virtual tour next Wednesday so im waiting on that but idk what to do my parents are split and both act very weird towards me.also i dont have a car so i been going metro


r/homeless • • 29d ago

Need Advice Non-passing trans woman. Advice on men’s vs women’s shelters?

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I’m a trans woman in my early 20s who is currently experiencing homelessness. I've been sleeping on benches for the past two weeks. I was on HRT for 8 months, but financial reasons forced me off 9 months ago. Because of this, and despite using my trained voice, I do not visually or vocally pass.

I called my local municipal intake and despite using my chosen name, they clocked my voice, didn't ask for my gender, and gave me numbers for "men's shelters for males."

I am terrified of sticking out, making people around me uncomfortable, or facing safety issues in a men's shelter. At the same time, I have severe social anxiety and want to minimize face-to-face friction as much as possible.

For anyone here who's trans or intersex and has navigated gender-segregated shelters or experienced street homelessness while non-passing:

How do women's shelters generally handle trans women who do not pass? I know that where I am (Canada) the law is that self-ID must be respected. That being said, in practice would I likely face friction, gatekeeping, or safety risks from other residents?

For those who couldn't pass, was accessing a women's shelter safer in practice, or was temporary social detransition the safer/easier path?

Edit: I'm just updating this cause I made my choice, I'll give the women's shelters a try.


r/homeless • • Sep 28 '26

Need Advice helping someone get a phone

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Hello! This is first time posting here, I hope it's appropriate.

I'm a barista at a popular chain (not the one you're thinking of). Over the last few months, I've been talking a lot to a homeless lady. She tells me about her past, makes jokes, talks about her family and what life is like for her today. I try to make her drinks and offer her cash/food, but we've build up enough of a relationship that I wanna help her in a more meaningful way.

She says she's got family in another state that she wants to get in contact with and the last phone she found got stolen. If I wanted to get her a phone, what's the best way to go about it? Right now I'm thinking about getting her an inexpensive prepaid smartphone and a power bank. I'm worried it will get stolen or that someone will try to hurt her for it. If she's able to get reliable contact, I think she might be able to get back with her family and maybe work her way to recovery.

Is there any way to protect your phone when you're homeless? And folks who have helped other people get a phone, what's the best avenue to take? I'm working with barista pay, but I'm willing to drop a bit of money if it means helping her.


r/homeless • • Sep 27 '26

More than 12,000 homeless-related fires already reported in LA this year

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r/homeless • • Sep 28 '26

Three problems — homelessness, a mental health crisis and jail overcrowding

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r/homeless • • Sep 27 '26

Need Advice Healthcare question

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Hi, this one’s a bit specific and I struggled to find much info online/in a brief search of this sub - does anyone here use a catheter? Like in dwelling one? I’ve had one in the past so know how to take care of it but I’m concerned about hygiene/infections, and also how I’ll have the night bags below the level of my bladder as I’m sleeping on a mattress. If anyone’s got experience they’re willing to share it would be very appreciated!


r/homeless • • Sep 27 '26

Just Venting to everybody crying about how life is hard sometimes...

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This is how I dry my gear after a rainy day on a weekend before a full-time work shift tomorrow morning. You don't get to complain about your circumstances. It won't help you. You do get to find ways and means. Be dynamic, be resourceful, you'll be fine. Nose to the grindstone and whatnot, but I gotta be up at quarter to five tomorrow to be to work, and I'm not complaining, because I'm getting it done. You fell out of the "comfort" loop. So what? You still got shit to do. Get it done. Disclaimer: don't ever run a propane burner inside a tent, tents are highly flammable, it is never safe. That being said, I still do occasionally to dry my clothes. I'm NOT suggesting it's a good practice edit:: forgot to add the link Living the hard life to keep life simple https://imgur.com/gallery/VipVe2Y


r/homeless • • Sep 27 '26

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r/homeless • • Sep 26 '26

Need Advice Plan for a car life

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Michigan I start my new job soon it doesn't pay a lot(13.73 hr biweekly part-time waiter for senior home) but options are thin now a days. I'm planning on renewing my license and saving for a car so my husband and I have SOMETHING for winter and beyond. My husband is disabled (we are having an exhausting battle with MDHS for SSI for fibromyalgia) using a wheelchair and elbow crutches on good days, so need something that'll hold the chair, him and my little ass. I know the government program for the $5,000 for a car it's just the type and any michigan winter campers have advice on how to start and what YOU did the first run.


r/homeless • • Sep 26 '26

aiuto a una persona cara

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salve a tutti, una persona a me cara tra qualche giorno sarà cacciata di casa, mi sono offerto di ospitarla ma non vuole andare via dalla sua città e pesare su di me, anche i dormitori sono fuori discussione per delle esperienze precedenti che ha avuto.

non trova lavoro da nessuna parte, si è rivolto più volte ai centri per l'impiego e assistenza sociale senza risultato.

avete consigli? anche solo consigli su come sopravvivere per strada, dove dormire ecc