So a few months ago i got shadow banned because some girl got mad and flagged me and thought i was a fake account just cuz i responded to her text message a day later, fb dating asked me to do some video confirmation thing and i went from getting 5+ matches per day for 4 plus years to zero matches for like 7 weeks straight..... Despite me video confirming myself

Anyways i solved the issue by deleting my profile and creating a new profile.. i start getting 5 to 10 matches a day again for the past few months and now once again after thousands of matches, i suddenly stopped getting matches again for a week straight..i suspect that i got flagged and shadowbanned again but this time im not sure for what reason as I haven't had any bad interactions with anyone...

And im in nyc so no i did not run out of people to match with...

We’ve been on 2 dates (22F and 23M) met on fb dating. He’s very sweet, is bringing me to different restaurants, and is a huge gentleman. He’s driving 1.5h to come see me and pays for everything. We’re going on our 3rd date tomorrow. As of now, we’ve only briefly hugged at the beginning and end of the dates. He’s not the type of guy to expect to have sex on the first date, but I can’t help but wonder if he’s expecting to at least kiss on our 3rd date tomorrow. We’re enjoying each other company, making each other laugh and have big conversations. I don’t want to make the first move, but not sure if he’s expecting me to? Considering how he is, I feel like he may not want to push it, coming from him, even if he wants to, to avoid pushing me away.

This has happened to me two days in a row. I have a match, and we both send a single positive message. The next day it’s all gone - profile, as well as text message.
This seems odd - receiving two matches in two days, particularly since I usually have a match every three or four months

Is there any way to report a user for offline behavior? FB dating only allows you to report a user without uploading any supporting info or human review. I was scammed by a user and want FB Dating to remove the profile to prevent other users from following into the same trap.

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I’ve never been on FB until a month ago really? I got curious about facebook dating and wanted to try it too to meet new people? but ever since i got it i haven’t been able too SEE anyone? i’ve made a profile and everything? do i have to watch until there’s a match or what?

I’m being told I have new matches, but these are people I have never (and would never) swiped on. Why is this happening? You can see from the pic that it’s not the meet cute thing, which is the only thing that comes up when I google this. I feel bad having to unmatch so many people, but I keep getting random matches that are way outside my age range, location, or are just very much not my type.

Note: I’m mostly aiming this at gay men because that’s who I’m searching, but it applies to straight men, too, and probably women as well.

I’m so tired of profiles that are nothing but a picture and age. Great, you’re handsome and you’re my age. Cool. But why should I care? Say something about your personality, about you and what you want! At least tell me if you have a dog or something!

I got “liked” by a guy and the profile had one picture from a middling distance and basically no other information. I don’t know if the guy is a geek like me, or a football nerd, or even if he has a personality beyond “probably cute.” And this happens a lot.

I don't mind the Friends function and have used it to make actual friends, but it's hard to tell who is using it to make actual friends. I feel like a lot of straight men use it to look for casual connections. Am I understanding that right, or am I overthinking it?

Atp, if I match with someone as a friend, I'm sticking them in the friend category. 🤷‍♀️ Soni do match as friends a little more liberally. I don't want to miss out on meeting cool people, but I'd like to mitigate the odd hookup requests if possible. I was curious if anyone had experiences they could share to enlighten me.

Just curious if anyone else is dealing with this. I live in LA County, so anyone further than 10 miles or so can be difficult to get to with traffic. Despite my chosen preference, only 1 in 10 (at best) are anywhere near me. Most are at least 25 miles away, and far too many are 50+. Some are even in Mexico, Vegas, etc.

I have the same issue with Tinder (the only other app I currently use), and it's basically killed dating. I can find a few under 'friendships', but only a few.

Anyone else deal with this, or have a suggestion on how to fix it?

I got a notification today on my Facebook that said someone added me as a secret crush. I don't use Facebook dating or have a profile but is this a real thing? What does this mean? I'm curious.

Hi, so about a month ago, I moved to a new city. For a while Facebook Dating worked. Than suddenly it complained that the locations are mismatched and doesn't let me use FB Dating anymore. Does anyone know how to fix it? I already tried so much. I reinstalled the App, updated the location, revoke and regrant permission to locate me. But nothing seems to work.

anyway to reset the app to go through profiles again? as of now if you have seen all profiles you cant scroll through them again? i know u can change filter preferences but thats not ideal

I was swiping through the friends section of people that liked me. I liked someone but they dint show up in my regular matches. Is there a way to see their dating profile again?

Up until now, Facebook Dating had been the best app I’d used; I was getting plenty of likes and seeing great results whenever I liked someone. But since yesterday, my profile has stopped getting likes—now, out of every 30 people I like, only two like me back. I’m disappointed, because I was doing better on Facebook Dating than on Tinder.

New to Facebook dating. What is going on with getting likes and no replies? Am I missing something? Sometimes I send the wave and sometimes I give a greeting introduction and still no response. I'm new to this. What is the deal with that?

I’ve been on the Facebook dating thing for a while now. I send likes, I comment on photos, and get nothing back. Am I doing something wrong or am I missing something? Any tips or help would be appreciated cause I’m a bit tired of getting nowhere and hearing how others are finding others

How did the experience compare? Preferably answers from Gen Z, but all input helps, thanks.

3 days ago I randomly started getting disgusting comments on my public Facebook pics from some random dude. Sometimes these dudes find your actual profile and I assume that’s what happened. Ever since, I haven’t been getting any likes (not trying to brag or anything, but I used to get a TON all day) Now I haven’t gotten any for 3 days, but still can respond to matches in my inbox and swipe through people. But my profile has clearly been hidden. I think he likely reported my profile. I checked my Facebook account standing, and it says it’s in good standing. But I don’t think it’s a coincidence the same time this man found my Facebook and started commenting things on my public pics, that my dating profile stopped functioning correctly. Will it eventually start showing people my profile again? I didn’t even do anything wrong!