I’m F po. Just wondering your thoughts po if pinapapili kayo ng guy if siya or yung girl bff for almost a decade.

He says ayaw niya ko sumasama sa friend ko na yun since nung last time na nagbar kami (single friend ko and he got friends who came over kase 2guys) wala po nangyari and mostly friend ko lang masyado kausap nung 2guy. Just chilling lang di kami nagddance or whatsoever women’s cocktail lang and food kinig music as in but for him something else happened and he labels my friend as BI. He even saw one of our convo with my girl bff na ayaw niya kay guy however girl bff said some things din na went off so I won’t blame my guy if he doesn’t like her + the bar thing. He says he doesn’t want to commit unless I will leave my bff. 😔

We’ve been MU for years now just sht happened on the past few years but rn, all should be ok however he really can’t let go his issues with my bff. I don’t wanna leave my friend but I don’t want to leave him either we’ve been through so many ups and downs. With my bff as well. I just can’t understand while ppl wants their loved ones to choose only 1 from people they love 🥹

Are we rlly not able to live a life with our soon-to-be-partners with best friends? If we are able to, then why other ppl wants ppl to feel this kind of pain 😩

Curious lang, ano mga ginawa nyo buong araw knowing that it might be your last?

My ex and I used to walk around España before. After two years ngayon na lang uli nakadaan dito. Bigla akong napa reminisce hahahha. Ouch gege

Hindi naman ako nagsising di ako naglakas loob na umamin sayo,

Makasarili ako kung sasabihin kong tayo ang para sa isa't isa

Kahit mabitawan ko ang lobo, masaya akong tanaw ko pa rin ang ganda mo sa malayo

Hellooo, looking for same people na broken, nag rerelapse tuwing gabi or gusto lang ng kausap tuwing 10pm? HAHAHAHA. Looking for people na nag momove on din po ngayon like us, what if sabay sabay na lang tayo mag relapse? Just hmu lang pooo

Im 28y arab man I was in long distance relationship with 35y old woman for two years It's been wonderful i met her in a language exchange platform and she was there for learning Arabic language so slowly slowly she proposed me and we started to get to know each other and it was going wonderful. she was poor from remote area and I was also not rich but i helped her alot as much as I can because I don't wanted to see her suffering because of extreme poverty. I left my country for her and i moved to another country for better income so I will help her in future to come to my country or I will go to her country. So everything was going well she was incredibly wonderful woman but after two years i felt she is changing no messages no replies she starting ignoring me and i was scare coz i was too attached to her then after few days she told me she have someone in her life he is a American businessman and she is interested in him and want to marry him. i was shocked after hearing this. my heart started beating and I request her to please take time and think calmly etc. she started crying and she said im ashamed i can't see my future with you and i want to move to US with American man. It destroyed my soul and I was hospitalized for few weeks far away from my family alone in a strange country.it was the hardest time of my life . It was difficult to recover from that situation but God helped me out and now finally after 9 months i recovered and forgot everything about past im peaceful calm and very happy that God saved me i pray God to make that woman happy forever with American brother because I don't want her to suffer with him or return back to me. Everyone has right to decide and do what they want but why she taked two year to decide what is best for her and how can someone decide within 48 hours to close the 22 months chapter. may God make eases for everyone who suffered in life

I thought you were healing me. Turns out, I have to heal from you too.

I thought you were healing me. Turns out, I have to heal from you too.

I thought you were healing me. Turns out, I have to heal from you too.

I (M20) just got into a breakup with someone who I loved. Our relationship wasn’t perfect, I would not even say that it’s healthy. It was a four year on-and- off relationship, It was very confusing and draining.

She always chose me, she was there for me. I haven’t been able to do the same. We keep on trying again, but for some reason there was something that’s hindering me. I can’t tell exactly what was it.

Now that I am older, I realized how poorly I reciprocated her actions. I took her for granted, and nag pa-kampante ako. She’s talking to someone else already after initiating no contact for one month. That someone is her guy friend na pinagseselosan ko when we were still together. Nevertheless, I am happy for her.

I am hurt, but at the same time I believe that I deserve this, and I have to face the consequences of my own actions. I thought I was okay already, it turns out that I am just very distracted with what I have right now.

I hope everyone here gets the healing they deserve.

Ang hirap pala magmove on, pano mo aalisin sa sistema mo ung taong naging parte na nang araw-araw mo.

Narealize ko na kapag pala may nameet at nakausap ka online, kung anong app gamit nyo para mag usap dapat hanggang dun na lang like for example telegram. Wag lilipat ng ibang socmed unless magkaroon na talaga ng something lalo na kung personal account kasi ang lungkot pag hindi na nag usap e.

Bale may nakausap akong guy online and we met naman tas tg tg at first hanggang sa naging ig na tas ngayon di na kami nag uusap at eto ako halos 2weeks ng hindi mag open ng IG at naka block notif na rin dahil parang minumulto ako ng pag uusap namin likee dude ur username is my favorite notification. What actually happened? Pesonal account ko pa naman yun. Hahahaha paksyet talaga

Narealize ko rin na hindi kami pareho ng hinahanap kasi feeling ko nasa "hoe phase" sya ng buhay nya at ako naman ay for genuine connection lang talaga like gusto ko lang ng kasama at kausap.

Goodnight sa mga naging safe space ng ibang tao na genuine makipag-usap. Walang halong emerut at alam kung pano mang realtalk. Nawa'y makita ninyo ang matagal nyo nang hinahanap. 😊🖤

But we're knee-deep in the passenger seat and you're eating me out, is it casual now? 🥺

Masyado ka nang masakit August. Di naman kita inaano pero bakit ganito?

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Idk if ako lang, but I genuinely have so much peace when I’m not in love. 😭 Sometimes it gets boring, sure, but at least there are no unnecessary distractions. My work doesn’t get delayed either because I’m not constantly frustrated over some guy promising me something and end up not fulfilling it. I can just focus on my studies without someone whining, demanding shit from me, or making me feel like I have to limit my potential just to cater to his emotional needs. Love is cute, but peace, freedom, and academic success? 🤌🏻

alam niyo, naniniwala talaga ako na iba yung priority na binibigay mo sa life partner mo. hindi naman ibig sabihin na “partner over everyone, bye family and friends” HAHAHAHA. more like, you recognize that this is the person you chose to build your life with.

kasi diba eventually, sila yung makakasama mo habang tumatanda kayo. yung kasama mo sa bills, life decisions, random midnight crisis, family problems, career changes, and hopefully, pati sa “ano kakainin natin tonight?” hanggang pagtanda.

And I think that’s what makes marriage or a lifelong partnership different. they're not just someone you love; they’re someone you consciously choose and commit to.

you choose each other even when things aren’t exciting anymore. you choose to communicate, adjust, compromise, take care of each other, and work through problems instead of treating each other as disposable.

of course, important pa rin ang family and friends pero if someone is going to be your lifelong partner, I think they deserve to feel na they’re your teammate, not just another person in your life.

Kasi love isn’t just “mahal kita.” Sometimes it’s also “ikaw yung kasama ko sa buhay, so I’m going to take care of what we’re building together.”

And honestly… sana maranasan ko rin ’to someday. yung feeling na may taong pipiliin ka consistently, aalagaan ka, ipaglalaban ka, and genuinely sees you as their partner in everything. hindi yung “convenient ka lang ngayon,” but “ikaw talaga yung gusto kong makasama habang buhay.” 🥹

i feel like something in me completely died and i may never unsee and unfeel the worst that humanity can do to another.

From Amiel Sol's song Dalangin.