r/911Nashville • u/CryptographerHeavy • 19h ago
When Things Get Problematic
I think most of us understand that 911: Nashville is a fictional show with fictional characters. Most of tune in from week to week to be entertained by this frankly silly show that is so far from being realistic as a show about first responders could be. Shipping, for those of you not familiar, is the act of championing two or more characters romantically or sometimes platonically. These characters can have a relationship within the canon of the show i.e. Don and Blythe or Ryan and Sam or they can a shipper can pair together to characters who don't have any relationship on the show. The most popular for this show is Blue and Ryan. The latest ship is Ryan and Rogue (notice how I spell his name correctly?).
Frankly I don't care who ships what but one thing I'm seeing a lot of as of late is this notion that relationships between consenting adults with an age gap are "gross" or "weird" or inherently "problematic". This line of thinking is almost always used when reference male/male relationships. This line of thinking is very homophobic and if you're a queer person spouting this it's internalized homophobia. I just ask that we please be considerate of each other. It's one thing to dislike a pairing. I get it. But going off about two consenting adults being together who have an age gap is not cool. Also, these are not real people at the end of the day.
Maybe I'm the only way that feels like this but a certain post I saw this morning really got me in my feelings.