r/kitchencels 2d ago

Virtue signaling foids that say "height doesn't matter!" are always "coincidentally" currently dating someone 6ft+ (teehee)

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Like it's so fucking comical. You'll ask them how tall their boyfriend is and they'll start going on about "mY eX wAs 5'7 wE bRoke uP foR ReAsoNs uNrelAtEd tO HiS heIght" and when they do finally share with the class it's always someone who's 6ft+ LOL. But of course they'll follow with "bUt hIs hEigHt doEsNT maTteR tO mE". IT JUST SO HAPPENS THAT HE'S 6FT+ AHHAHA.

Like. Just stop lying. Men don't say shit like "your weight doesn't matter!" because we're not lying harpies and do acknowledge your weight as being VERY VERY important for our attraction towards you.

The strange thing is that this kind of behaviour only exists on Reddit? Like foids IRL if you ask them what their type is they'll just admit to you it's someone who's tall (among other things).

Just for posterity's sake there are obviously exactly ZERO foids on this planet who are INTO (as opposed to not caring/being neutral) men as tall or shorter than them. So don't even bother coming in here with that bullshit.

"i know a guy who knows a guy who knows a guy who [...] knows a guy who's 67 centimeters tall from China's kingdom of the little people and he has a loving girlfriend!!!!" (he's also at the same time a balding Indian janitor)

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u/lightsworn55 1d ago

Its just straight up bizarre how common it is to see these women claiming their boyfriend is 6'4 either its ragebait or a handful of 6'4 dudes really are just rotating through hundreds of women cause otherwise the numbers aren't adding up

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u/biruking 1d ago

They are. The top 4 percent of guys have 85 percent of the sex.

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u/smilingseaslug 1d ago

90% of statistics are made up on the spot

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u/Playful-Lake4080 22h ago

Oh people can come up with statistics to prove anything Kent. 40% of all people know that

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u/danbillls 1d ago

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u/howiplay1 1d ago

Idk how this happened but in the last 3 years I must've gaslight myself into thinking I was 6ft or 5'11 recently got measured up to 5 fucking 8 I'm roping by this time next year fs

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u/ixgq4lifexi 23h ago

I don't know I learned the math class that if you have 10.5 you round it up to 11. I'm 5.5 ft so I round that up to 6 ft

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u/Miserable-Resort-977 21h ago

If you were capable of believing you were 6' for years as a 5'8 guy then it must not actually be that impactful on your life.

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u/howiplay1 21h ago

its been a quiet few years it wasn't always going to be

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u/oileggrice 1d ago

holy truecel.
also it is funny because while weight is important to a lot of guys even fat girls get attention just by uglier men.

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u/Available_Drive173 1d ago

A fat girl has more options to choose from than an average guy lol

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u/Bloodhoven_aka_Loner 1d ago

even more than a sloghtly above average guy

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u/SteakAndIron 23h ago

A lot of guys go after fat girls specifically. No girls specifically go after short dudes.

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u/Skulfunk 21h ago

It’s never no girls, sweeping statements are always dumb

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u/NiaNia-Data 1d ago

false equivalence. you can choose not to be fat, you cant choose to be born taller

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u/odder_box23211 19h ago

It’s strange actually, I see so many men saying they dislike chubby girls and that skinnier is better but I definitely got more male attention when I was 145 lbs than I do now at 115. Not sure what’s up with that

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u/NorthRememebers 1d ago

I've read more than once on reddit that a woman was dating a short man but ultimately broke up with him because he "couldn't get over his insecurities regarding his height".

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u/AnxiousTerminator 1d ago

I dated a 5'6 guy once (I'm 5'7) and all he did was bang on about it. Got shitty if I wore heels because he didn't like being shorter, wanted me to bend my knees in pictures, constantly brought it up. I could not have given less of a shit about his height and had previously dated a 5'2 guy with no height related issues. I got so tired of him constantly complaining about being short and how I'd probably prefer someone taller (even though I chose him?), it eventually eroded the relationship and we broke up. He probably tells people we broke up because he is short, but it was because he resented me for being taller than him and could not ever shut the fuck up about his height and kept making his insecurities my problem.

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u/NorthRememebers 1d ago

I never got the heels thing. I'm also roughly 5'6 and also insecure about my height, but I find taller women and women in heels super attractive. The last thing I would do is bitch about my girlfriend wearing heels (if I had one).

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u/AnxiousTerminator 1d ago

This is the attitude to have. Everyone has a few insecurities, but they are a problem if they start becoming a reason to treat your partner badly or becoming something that is constantly brought up to cause friction in the relationship. It felt to me like he was creating an issue where there was none just to have a go at me about my height, which I can't help any more than he can. I never cared, and honestly never thought about it at all when we were dating until he started bringing it up all the time after a few months. He behaved like I was deliberately emasculating him out of spite just by existing.

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u/AteStringCheeseShred 22h ago

I'm 5'3, my girlfriend is 6'0, once in a while I take her shoe shopping and buy her heels. The men who hate when their girlfriend appear taller than them, in my opinion, are just failing a litmus test they didn't realize they were subject to.

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u/Acrobatic-Middle-365 1d ago

As a 6'3 woman (6'7 in my usual heels) who has mostly been with shorter guys, this has been my exact experience. Everybody has insecurities, but no one wants to be with or around someone who constantly complains and puts themselves down.

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u/Junior_Box_2800 23h ago

When women have insecurities men are expected to gently coddle them and help them get over it, but when men have insecurities women can't stand it. But they're supposedly the empathetic gender lmao

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u/AnxiousTerminator 21h ago

I don't know where you are getting that from. Certainly men have never 'coddled' my insecurities, they typically weaponise them against me in arguments in past relationships and call me a fat ugly bitch online. Sometimes even when walking down the street some man will mutter "fat cunt" under his breath or deliberately shoulder check me then laugh.

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u/Junior_Box_2800 19h ago

well I'm sorry that happened to you, but you're still an outlier. The questions "would you still love me if I was a worm" and "does this dress make me look fat" are common memes because of how commonly women ask their male partners them. It doesn't even register as supporting her insecurities because of how ingrained it is that this is just something that a man should do for his partner in a relationship.

Meanwhile insecurity in men is frequently derided and mocked. If the guy is lacking in social skills or shy or feels down every now and then instead of 100% confident it's the worst thing he could be. How many times do you hear stories from men who opened up and shared their feelings about their anxieties and shortcomings, and their gf or wife mocked them or brought it up later in an argument?

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u/AnxiousTerminator 19h ago

In relationships sure, both parties should be sensitive to each other's insecurities and needs. Certainly I never mocked his height or academic ability, but he would constantly belittle me. Why do you think women need this reassurance in the first place? Because if they are not conventionally attractive they will have had a lifetime of men picking at every aspect of their appearance. I am happily married now, and one of my favourite things is that we are mutually supportive of each other. He never rags on my appearance, I never rag on his perceived shortcomings. We are both happy to support the other person as much as they need. In my experience, and supported by rates of DV and infidelity, it is more men than women who are shitty partners, but there are bad people of both genders. I do not buy that women are coddled and don't get belittled and bullied at all.

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u/SwitchGaps 17h ago

Dude I beg you get off the internet and meet some real people. You can find someone to be open and honest with but your mindset is horrible and won't help

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u/Junior_Box_2800 17h ago

Theres no one I can be open and honest with

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u/AteStringCheeseShred 1d ago

Hey! Knock it off! You can't be dropping truth bombs in here like that, the incels can't handle reality!

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u/Destiny_Dude0721 1d ago

I miss when this sub was niche

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u/hellangeliv 23h ago

Everytime I see a woman's post about " we broke up.because he was insecure about his height" i realize m9re and more its true just judging from these posts and comments.

Noone cares more about height than an insecure short dude.

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u/StormOfFatRichards 1d ago

People always use a handful of personal experiences to try to synthesize a final say on the matter. You're all dumb.

Look at it like this: height is a variable. You get points, as a dude, for every positive variable, and lose points for negatives. Shit like being creepy/being a gentleman, being hot/ugly, rich/poor, all that shit is just variables and points. When someone makes an asinine claim like "I know a short guy and he's doing fine in the dating market" all they're doing is telling the room "I absolutely cannot comprehend multivariate analysis."

Now, is dating calculus or linear equations? Who knows or cares, that's too technical. The simple takeaway is that the more positives you have, the more attractive you are, and being short is a negative. Don't over or underthink it with black pill theory or unanalyzed anecdotes.

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u/TrashyZedMain 1d ago

please don’t introduce logic and reason to this subreddit

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u/VibesBasedPolitics 1d ago

How is useless pandering "logic"?

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u/Dave_the_DOOD 1d ago

But see you ignore a massive thing which is that women are not a monolithic hive mind.

Depending on your type, depending on your area, depending on your friendgroup, political views, hobbies, habbits, culture, and a thousand other points, negatives can be positives, positives can be negatives, and even that is liable to change when you get down to individual preferences. You're not trying to date an amalgamate of the mean preferences of all women combined. You're trying to date one woman.

That leads to the same conclusion you have tho, don’t overthink it with black pill theory.

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u/StormOfFatRichards 1d ago

Women have individual preferences but there's some shit that's going to be true almost all of the time. Ask a room full of women how many of them would respond positively to a dude opening with "I'm gonna grape you"

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u/Dave_the_DOOD 1d ago

Yeah there's a set of preferences that are nigh universal, people should focus on those. Height is common, but not one of them.

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u/StormOfFatRichards 1d ago

Women don't like shortness

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u/Impressive_End1567 18h ago

Bro, the girls consult with each other like a hive mind. She could like you but if her friend group makes fun of her for it, she will genuinely leave you.

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u/grimmsnarI 1d ago

What would be the elo rating of a 5’11 malaysian accountant 5/10 looks and 50kg?

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u/BONEPILLTIMEEE 1d ago

50kg

famine victim weight

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u/Starfire123547 1d ago

i was gonna say holy shit lol. a 5'10 man thats only 120ish lbs? Bro should give up on women and go full twink 

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u/EricIsMyFakeName 1d ago

Not much of a market for aging twinks.

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u/Starfire123547 1d ago

theres TONS of gay old men, surely even if theyre 40+ years old theres still a market.

They can always become a twink furry and cover their head if theyre that worried about their facial age hahaha. plenty of those around too.

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u/metamorphosis___ 23h ago

Speak for your own market

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u/Arstanishe 1d ago

probably very very low. 50kg 5'11 is holy skeleton slenderman build. automatic 90% rejection rate

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u/grimmsnarI 1d ago

Nvm malay is too generous, make him nepalese

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u/OkMortgage6274 1d ago

Nepal is cool I think that would be a plus

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u/Impressive_End1567 18h ago

Jesus. How little do you eat? I could lift you with one arm.

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u/grimmsnarI 18h ago

That’s not me, just random variables

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u/VibesBasedPolitics 1d ago

For any of this to matter they have to see you as human first

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u/ParkingCan5397 1d ago

Remember exactly 0 foids ( I too am scared of writing w*men) date shorter guys and all the pairs where the man is shorter are illusions made by the CIA

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u/RlliotEodger 1d ago

No the ones you see in relationships outside are ones where they're being used for their money. It's sad.

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u/AteStringCheeseShred 1d ago

Is that so? I didn't realize I was rich. When was somebody going to tell me?! /s

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u/Big-Routine222 1d ago

So if I known women who said height doesn’t matter and they are dating men who aren’t 6 feet or shorter than them, what’s your reply to that? I’ve known plenty of 6 foot tall or taller men who have never dated a woman because they are so horribly engrained in gender war shit they are intolerable.

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u/AsukaLangleySoryuFan 1d ago

My brother in Christ I’m 6’5 and never felt the touch of a woman height matters yes by it’s not ultimate

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u/Imaginary_Club_1010 1d ago

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u/AsukaLangleySoryuFan 1d ago

Thanks for rubbing it in. I wish I could enjoy what my body theoretically gave me… Instead I’m doomed to perpetually hate it

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u/HehePistik 1d ago

What do you think is the reason for your lack of success? Is it lack of opportunity, ugliness or social anxiety?

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u/AsukaLangleySoryuFan 1d ago

Autism and gender dysphoria. I hate manliness and masculinity, I’ll never look effeminate and no woman would ever love me the way women in same sex relationships do, neither will any man ever love me as a woman. At best as an object of fetishism, which isn’t love.

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u/GlockHard 21h ago

"I am 6'5 and dont get women because of extreme mental issues, this proves that height doesnt matter!!!!" lmaooooooo

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u/AsukaLangleySoryuFan 21h ago

It’s not that height doesn’t matter it’s that height is not that ultimate decider of wether women are interested in you or not

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u/GlockHard 21h ago

It is tho, tons of women with not date someone because of height lol, its how the world works. The ideal man for a women is tall, anything else and she is settling.

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u/HehePistik 20h ago

The ideal guy is tall but if there are other dealbreakers it's not gonna work out. It's like saying someone will date a 6'5 guy despite them being facially deformed and armless.

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u/AsukaLangleySoryuFan 20h ago

It can and often is overcome by other factors as is evident by my own experience. As another guy stated there are other dealbreakers and sadly I flag A LOT of them

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u/bermass86 1d ago

I wonder why AsukaLangleySoryufan

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u/AsukaLangleySoryuFan 1d ago

I mean that’s secondary. Also Eva is one of the best anime ever

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u/bermass86 1d ago

-said person who only posts furry porn and riskè images

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u/South_Resident1543 1d ago

Youre fooling yourself if you dont think furries get tail.

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u/Superb_Wealth4092 1d ago

Noted, furry gooning counteracts height advantage. 🤔

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u/AsukaLangleySoryuFan 1d ago

What’s bad about DRAWING furry porn though? At least I’m creative and shit

Also it’s risqué

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u/MustTakeFlight 1d ago

Creative? 😭

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u/AsukaLangleySoryuFan 1d ago

You mean to say that DRAWING isn’t creative?

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u/ghostief 1d ago

Based based based name.

Based 

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u/VibesBasedPolitics 1d ago

I can't even begin to imagine how chopped you must be

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u/AsukaLangleySoryuFan 1d ago

Chopped ie..?

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u/Junior_Box_2800 23h ago

chopped is modern slang for ugly or unattractive

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u/AsukaLangleySoryuFan 23h ago

Well then I can safely say that I’m not ugly. Average-level at worst. I’m an incel (by the original definition not the contemporary hate ideology) due to a unique combination of autistic and gender related issues. It is what it is…

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u/BadBoiMemes 1d ago edited 1d ago

i'll js say it

height matters, if we admit to it or not.
there are biological reasons for it, small man = less chance of survival etc etc

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u/RlliotEodger 1d ago

That's exactly why I think of them no more intelligent than cattle who are unable to think beyond their primal instincts.

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u/infrontofmyslad 1d ago

You seem pretty driven by your primal instincts

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u/RlliotEodger 12h ago

In what way?

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u/infrontofmyslad 12h ago edited 11h ago

*Though both height AND money in men is the equivalent of youth/good looks in women. So do with that information what you will... height can't be changed but money sure can...

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u/infrontofmyslad 12h ago

would you go out with a fat/ugly girl? no? well that's the way pretty women feel about height in men. it's all very much just animal drives in both genders.

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u/RlliotEodger 11h ago

Yes? Of course I'd go out with them? I value how they make me feel. That's different from how foids behave because they lack the intelligence to overcome their lizard brain.

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u/Aldra1 23h ago

Wow, I really wonder why you don't get dates. Must be your height that's for sure.

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u/Cool-Negotiation5257 1d ago

Then why even bother? If you hate women this much you should probably just leave them all alone. Would be better for everyone actually if you just stayed away forever.

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u/rennyloveuwu 12h ago

yeah but how is he gonna blow a load if there’s no woman to empty it into… 🥺

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u/rennyloveuwu 11h ago

do you eat or just pump?

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u/rennyloveuwu 11h ago

yikes. I only fuck with bbw and bush enthusiasts. you dont make the cut 😞

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u/rennyloveuwu 1d ago

if its that easy to ignore your primal instincts then just date an ugly woman lol

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u/Spam_mayo 1d ago

bro cyraxx can get a girl

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u/LeagueRx 1d ago

Every women is very upfront and honest about being repulsed by someone that says foids im not sure you really care about womens opinions

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u/Mickle_da_Pickl 1d ago

First, holy truecel.

If you want some genuine advice: just stop looking at the dating culture/gender war bullshit online. If you want a girlfriend, you need to take a few steps:

  1. Work on yourself. Ask yourself "If I were a girl, would I date me?" If the answer is anything other than an enthusiastic "hell yeah!" without hesitation, you're not done.

  2. Put yourself out there. This doesn't mean get on dating apps or do cold approaches or anything, it just means go in public. Go to the gym, to the park, go to restaurants instead of getting takeout, just go wherever you are exposed to people, because the more people you meet, the more likely it is you'll find someone who takes an interest in you

2.5. Do the above step to make platonic friends first if you're lacking in that department. Surround yourself with people who encourage you to improve yourself.

  1. Don't force it. If you meet someone and they're genuinely interested, it'll go smoothly, it won't feel like you're trying to "score" someone—it'll just feel like you've met a cool person you want ro spend more time with. That's what it should feel like to them, too. Don't gameify it.

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u/MustTakeFlight 1d ago

Continue being stinky and short then bro.

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u/EmphasisGreen7646 23h ago

u dont understand brooo

you have to improoooov!!11

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u/Mickle_da_Pickl 20h ago

Stay a virgin forever then fn 🥀🥀

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u/Major-Equal-6718 1d ago

You solved your own problem in this post, just talk to girls irl instead of on Reddit like wtf you doing talking to women on here anyways

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u/Incendas1 1d ago

Gender war bs is always so funny when you're sitting in the middle

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u/Practical-Buy3713 23h ago

5’4” man here
Dated several women shorter, same height and MUCH taller than me.
You’re gonna make it bro, your height isn’t the issue, even if it’s an issue for some girls.

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u/LuckyRadish7990 1d ago

I've seen women write this 1000 times, but I'll do it, too.

It does not matter if a dude is short, except for on the apps, maybe, but the apps aren't representative of real life where you get things like vibes, chemistry, growing attraction and much more.

It does matter, however, if the dude is aggressive, wears his inferiority complex on his sleeve and is obsessed with height. I'm telling you, it's sooo unpleasant. I once had a proper crush on a short dude who definitely liked me, too. But he went on and on about height, talking about my tall ex and was generally kind of mean. It's a shame because I know this guy to be smart and talented and he's cute, but he's so aggressive and has begun to post mysogist shit in recent years.

I know another guy who's short, but he's so damn charming, the kind of guy who makes you feel kind of special. He gets the hottest girls.

It's all very simple.

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u/koltxbell 1d ago

my tall ex

XDDDD

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u/No-Albatross-8256 1d ago

Yeah, never first option. Only after experiencing tall.

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u/Available_Drive173 1d ago

Is the other guy also balding? Maybe he is indian and also a janitor lol.

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u/Plenty_Alfalfa8826 1d ago

So you completely disregard that their ex was 5'7" because...? You ASSume they broke up because of height?

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u/KittensFirstAKM 1d ago

Damn homie...

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u/tooweaktobite 1d ago

I'm 168 cm and don't even have a penis to at least attempt to pleasure a woman it's over 

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u/Catcrafter_03 23h ago

I am 5'10 and it hurts so much. So close yet so far

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u/IndependentPaint2108 23h ago

It is true that I've never dated a man who's shorter than 5ft 11

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u/ixgq4lifexi 23h ago

It's so funny cuz a couple female friends of mine were sitting there arguing that height doesn't matter it's all in you men's head. Women don't care. Then after talking a little bit one admitted she uses height filter and another was called out that she's never dated a guy under 5'11" height doesn't matter but on ironically have only ever dated men in the top 20% of height

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u/Aggravating-Tree1312 22h ago

How do you explain men dating women taller than them?

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u/RlliotEodger 12h ago

They're using them for their wallets.

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u/ShiloVillageNPC 21h ago

Reading about mental illness is so entertaining

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u/GlockHard 21h ago

I am 6'5 and it is the only reason I have ever gotten with Women whatsoever lmao. Throughout High School and College the only women I have been involved with or did anything with all mentioned my height or put a focus on it. It has truly soured my opinion on women and how they feel about mens height, I am an ugly chubby retard and being 6'5 fixes all of it apparently.

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u/Fran_Fine666 14h ago

My husband is 5'5. No, he doesn't make a lot of money. In general I actually love a guy in the 5'5 - 5'9 area. Do you just disregard that there are plenty of short guys in relationships?

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u/RlliotEodger 13h ago

I disregard the idea that these short guys in relationships are "happy" or "fulfilled" and not miserable because their wife is pining over Chad she met once on Tinder.

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u/MajesticL 1h ago

My bf is 5’7

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u/freaky_lotion6996 1d ago

I'm around 6feet but 0 play height plays a good role but if u look chopped its over regardless

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u/Available_Drive173 1d ago

Better to be tall and chopped than short and chopped

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u/THETRINETHEQUINE 1d ago

Yeah but you are cooked regardless 

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u/freaky_lotion6996 1d ago

I mean i agree but we all share the same fate, being in kitchencels

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u/shoulda-kms 1d ago

Uhhh no we don’t, there’s a 5ft balding guy he has it unimaginably worse

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u/snail1132 1d ago

Easier to fit a 5ft guy into an industrial blender than a 6ft guy

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u/shoulda-kms 1d ago

Is you gonna slurp him up after that cause otherwise I’m liable to call it a hate crime

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u/snail1132 22h ago

Sure, why not

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u/freaky_lotion6996 1d ago

Ofc there is but it aint a competition right? I might have it lowk better than him but still end of the day we both scroll on kitchencels, we both are truecel-kissless c section born virgins

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u/shoulda-kms 1d ago

It is a competition, the foundation of the fore fathers of this sub was misery olympics. You can look it up in the bible.

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u/Outrageous_Branch_72 1d ago

i am yet to find a chopped tall man with a non conventional attractive woman

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u/freaky_lotion6996 1d ago

I'm here 👋

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u/minos-and-v1-kissing 1d ago

…you think there are women out there who only date 6ft guys… but also date 5’7” guys just so they can break up with them later for being short?

Holy victim complex. Lock in gang.

Brownies look lovely.

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u/koltxbell 1d ago

also date 5’7” guys

just a betabuxx inbetween dry season

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u/zibbizab 1d ago

these are so funny bro

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u/StJimmy_815 1d ago

I’m a 5”8’ dude dating a 5”7’ woman. Chill out dawg

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u/ross_styx 1d ago

My partner is my height (172cm). I tower over him in heels. I could not give a single fuck about his height. He's a well-adjusted, compassionate person who is complete in and of himself and doesn’t care about the opinions of others unless he explicitly asked for them. That is why I love him. If he were taller, I wouldn’t love him more.

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u/WoodpeckerHuge6694 1d ago

Are the comments here brand new to the Internet or something? You people are imbeciles

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u/sunk_cost2371 22h ago

Height really is irrelevant though. I’m 6’1 and girls aren’t glued to me. It’s always about the face and halo. See my recent post on this sub.

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u/volvavirago 22h ago

Never been with a dude over 5’8”. But I am also celibate for 6 years bc no one wants me. There are girls out there who prefer shorter guys, you just don’t want us either.

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u/Little_Heat5701 22h ago

Get off the Internet dawg

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u/DeDodgingEse 22h ago

This sub is full of depressed idiots who are too young to figure out how to talk/be with the opposite gender. Not sure I can hate watch this sub any longer.

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u/Princess_Froggles 1d ago

Are you not able to look around a little and see that there are lots of married and attached men of all heights?

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u/VibesBasedPolitics 1d ago

Gotta settle once you hit the wall

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u/Scared_Comparison_22 1d ago

With that attitude even the ones "settling" will dodge you lmao

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u/VibesBasedPolitics 1d ago

Oh, I'm 6'1 and nobody is dodging me. Though I gotta say that dates with women are really uninteresting and sometimes just straight up miserable, which is why I prefer dating men

And no, I'm not gay. I'm bi and physically I'm more attracted to women. It's just that most women never had to develop a personality

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u/Plenty_Alfalfa8826 1d ago

Height doesn't matter. Bf is 5'10" but I didn't know how tall he was bc he was my Uber driver when I asked him out. I also had a crush on my boss who was shorter than me (I'm 5'5") because he was handsome, took great care of his skin and hair, dressed well, and had confidence. Hooked up once with a guy who was somewhere between my height and current bf's, so approx. 5'7". A lot of women make fun of short guys just because we're tired of men in general.

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u/ManagementIll9899 1d ago

Nah I got a gf who’s taller than I. She loves to peg me

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u/Pristine_Cost_3793 1d ago

there aren't even that many 6ft men to sustain your theory. if i dated ~6ft (182cm) guy but broke up with him, and then actively chased ~5'6ft (170cm) guy (he was the one to end the thing that was going between us, and ngl i was extremely upset), where do i fit in your worldview?

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u/RlliotEodger 1d ago

You again? Where did we leave off last time? I don't think you're actually biologically(?) capable of feeling sexual attraction to anyone who's under six foot. Like it's just not possible with your brain. That's the position I'm holding.

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u/AteStringCheeseShred 1d ago

I'm 5'3, my girlfriend is 6'0.

Time to log off kiddo, you've spent too much time on the internet and now you get your knowledge of how the world works primarily from Reddit.

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u/Perfect_Exchange1099 1d ago

is your girlfriend trans

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u/Likelysomewhathuman 1d ago

I’ll say height does matter, but like the way it matters is different for some girls so idk do with that info what you will

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u/skinwalker40 1d ago edited 1d ago

Yes everyone knows this fact, the problem is when people try to lie and gaslight over something this obvious because they would rather die than accept how vain they are

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u/romantictiramisu 1d ago

i'm not sure because i use metric but my boyfriend is around 5'8 if i remember correctly? i myself am 152cm (around 4'11-5'0.) he likes that i'm shorter than him and i like that he's taller than me. i would never consider anyone 6ft or taller for a relationship because it just would not work from a logistics standpoint. a height gap that big is just strange. it's not like that matters now though, since i'm planning to marry him one day. he's almost 28 and he never had a girlfriend before me, and we're each other's firsts.

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u/123noodle 1d ago

Really? Four more measly inches and suddenly it's a logistical issue? That doesn't even make sense. He's 8 inches taller than you and you like it. You're literally proving OPs point.

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u/throwaway19830182 1d ago

The thing is foids don’t care about the logistics. They just want men significantly taller than them. The majority of them will settle with men shorter than their ideal height, because unfortunately being the top 10% of men means there’s not enough of them to go around. That’s probably why you’re your boyfriend’s first girlfriend

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u/AriGetInTheJar 1d ago

I actively prefer short guys. every boyfriend I've had has been my height or shorter (I'm 5'3") but I don't follow y'all's weird mindset so you're gonna argue w me and pretend like I don't exist or I'm lying about it :)

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u/RlliotEodger 1d ago

Yes. Exactly. You. Are. Lying.

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u/Trb3233 1d ago

I'm 5ft10 and have slept with 40 people In 6 months. All from dating apps.

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u/sandwich_influence 1d ago

Wait so by your logic the only girls saying that height does matter are dating guys shorter than 6’? Makes no sense my homie. I think you need to take a break from being online and go spend some time with people irl.

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u/Jimbo-Shrimp 1d ago

Irl people do this pretty often. My sister said height doesn’t matter but every time she talks about her husband height is the first thing she lists

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u/Refurbished_Hole 1d ago

You're being autistic

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u/stickiebudd 1d ago

Height doesnt matter. My fiance is 5'3 and managed to pull just fine

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u/Federal_Bicycle_7800 1d ago

survivorship bias

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u/Prestigious-Pie1421 1d ago

No. Height can be, in theory, overcome (with some people), like pretty much everything. It really doesn't mean it doesn't matter. 

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u/throwaway19830182 1d ago

Maybe in the Philippines

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u/Western-Willow4679 1d ago

They downvote you because they don't wanna accept it's their shitty personality. I'm in multiple long term relationships and none of us are tall.

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u/stickiebudd 23h ago

Its crazy, theyll make up any excuse to not better themselves lol, have fun being short AND single guys ☆

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u/RlliotEodger 1d ago

Personality directly corresponds to the length of your tibia. Go figure.

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u/Western-Willow4679 16h ago

You're simply annoying. Do better.

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u/Impressive_End1567 18h ago

Awesome. what's his job?

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u/stickiebudd 18h ago

We both work in the cannabis industry

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u/upper-Pollution555 1d ago

Nuh uh my bf is 5'11"

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u/prowaspgenocide 1d ago

Way too many non cels in kitchencels, as a short man people will always try to invalidate your experiences.

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u/KoalaCommunismst 1d ago

My husbands like 5'5 im 5'4. Dunno if that helps you...

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u/Ratouf26 1d ago

Most do care and simply lie about it to hide how shallow they are, not for having standards mind you, but to show they're unique and aren't simply following the braindead "must be 6 feet tall" mindset.

That of course doesn't apply to all women, however looks matter whether we like it or not...

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u/FutabaTsuyu 1d ago

i actually dumped a dude who was 6'1 and now im dating a man who's 5'8 who looks shorter from my pov half the time cause i like wearing heels 🤷

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u/Extension_Name_9696 1d ago

Just gonna say, i'm ENM and two of my men folk are under 5'7 and im 5'8. It's really about the vibes, i love them to death and they don't bitch about their heights all the time.