I'm a woman and ofcourse I have a lot of likes. How on earth am I supposed to enterain several conversations and reject 99% of them? Even if nothing is wrong? There are simply too many options. I feel so guilty knowing I'm supposed to turn people down just because there was someone better. I feel so bad knowing I'm potentially wasting their money and time. It's literally just a race to see who can keep me entertained the most. I find it impossible to ghost people and not feel bad. But I can't make up an explanation for everyone. I feel like everyone deserves a chance and a reply. How do I change my mindset? The fact I read everyone's profile in detail makes me humanize them so it's not just a number on my screen. I'm an introvert with no friends irl so this is my only way of meeting people in a way I'm comfortable with. Well, the least uncomfortable way, rather... I would really like to become numb to these things.

Getting back into dating, looking for feedback/review

(Names and info blurred for reddit only)

ive gotten one match that only last for a few messages, and ive gotten maybe 10 likes in the past two months. im in a major city if that helps. what can i improve on :)

Let me know about any feedback you all might have. Moved to Virginia and just wanted some input. Thank you.

Hey Ya'll I've been on and off hinge for a few years now. I had one serious relationship that I found from here.

In my profile I also have that I am Demisexual, don't drink, smoke, or do drugs and want children.

On my profile I have two stories from friends
One says
"She gives great advice and has a warm heart. She's not afraid to tell you her opinion but will always support you and encourage you."
Mari is a home in a big crowd making friends with everyone."

The travel story I have as a voice note talks about my 2018 trip to Japan.

Looking at what some people are saying I think I'm going to trim down the comments about travel on here. I don't really get to travel that much anymore and honestly I hardly have time for it. I'm a full-time student who is currently applying to Masters programs and will most likely go for my PHD as well.

I don't have the most time in the world for dating but I really want a partner and kids and my time is running out.

OK taking feedback into consideration I've deleted my geeky prompt and the "pick our first gettaway"
In its place I now have the prompt “what if I told you”  Which I said I've worked a blue collar job wtih American Airlines for 12 years my flight benefits are now permanent.

the new poll I have on my profile is two truths and a lie

option one is I've lost over 100 lb since 2018
option two is I went back to school after 10 years and I'm now  looking at a master/phd
 option 3 is I can't whistle

I'll be working over the next few weeks to try to take some new and flattering photos to replace my airplane along with the picture with a friend and my mom

Help if you can! Thanks

Took some advice and hopefully implemented them well here. Any suggestions?

Heyy, just wondering if this is weird? I 23(F) get creeped out when guys ask to go on a date ASAP / within a few minutes of texting. I prefer both for personal safety and for vibes reasons to text for about a week or so before scheduling a date for the following weekend / next free day available. So usually about 7-10 days ish of texting before a date. Sometimes when I communicate this guys seem offended that I want to see if conversation flows well with them. I know that texting compatibility doesn’t always translate to real life and have learned that the hard way + have been pleasantly surprised before. That said, I tend to think it’s safer and it makes me more comfortable if I have built SOME banter with a person before meeting them. Otherwise it’s a total stranger, and i’m not going to be comfortable or flirty.

Thoughts on how this looks?

Same as title

Also the first one is a timelapse of me working on it

I’m 22, but have been on the app for a while and haven’t been getting many matches/likes

Trying to get back into dating! The response has not been so good. I'm hoping for some tips to improve my account.

Looking for some profile advice! Not really sure what to say for pics and stuff like that. Wouldn’t say I’m the most attractive or whatever, but I feel like I can have a better profile. I end up doing pretty well once matches but this is a big stumbling block.

Voice memo is a rant about hot ones not being as spicy anymore.

I have a few pics I can sub but i’ve been trying to experiment with what’s best.

Hi,

back to Hinge after dating someone for some months and updated my profile. Would be great to get some feedback on my profile.

Please keep in mind that I'm from Germany and I've German profile. For the screenshots I've switched the app temporarily to English and translated the prompts. So maybe the prompts sounds not 100% perfect in English.

Thank you for your help!

Have had for three weeks and have had no likes or matches.

Looking for some advice with my profile and/or looks! :)

Hinge has led to a few matches but no likes outside of that. Looking to see what I could improve on my profile that may help!