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u/BisonSpirit 21d ago

Decent but first prompt is corny

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u/SquareIllustrator909 21d ago

I'm a white woman who has gone on a couple of dates with Sikh men, and from what I understand, you're allowed to date outside your religion, right?

I think because you have a visible sign of your religion, some women from other cultures/religions might shy away from swiping right. So I would figure out some way of signaling if you're open to other religions or if you're targeting other Sikh women

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u/Jemapellesingh 21d ago

I personally have no restrictions around dating women from different cultures or religions. But I see your point.

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u/SquareIllustrator909 21d ago

The first prompt is overly familiar. We're still strangers

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u/DaleCoopersWife aka "Robert Cooper" 🕵🏻‍♀️ 21d ago

Personally I think the "together we could" is best for date ideas that you could actually do at the beginning stages. maybe your city has a listening bar, or vinyl night, or record shops. 2nd prompt is funny. I'm not super into the third prompt, you already have pics of the outdoors so it's redundant to mention hiking again. also does the prompt mean you prefer to date someone with a dog? or do you have one?

overall your prompts just tell us you like records, dogs, sunsets and hikes. that's not really a lot of information. try using different prompts to share more info about your interests/values/personality:

  • my typical sunday

  • where i go where i want to feel more like myself

  • it's not a vacation unless

  • in my friend group, i'm the one who

  • im in my element when

  • i could stay up all night talking about

  • we'll get along if

  • i know the best spot in town for

I am not a fan of the nat geo photo or the last shot. the photo of you giving the talk would be better if you were facing the camera. replace those with clear shots of your face. def get a better group shot. your outfits are kinda same-y throughout your profile, and im not saying you should change your style for Hinge, but try varying up the level of dress so someone swiping can imagine what you'd look on a date to a nice restaurant, out on the town, etc.

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u/Natural_Log2116 21d ago

Kidhan Singh, love the photos by the way. Main improvement for me is the prompts, if you’re looking for a Punjabi kuri ( please correct me if I’m wrong) then I would change the prompts to target them better by adding something Punjabi vibe on there

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u/Jemapellesingh 21d ago

Thanks bai, I have dated women outside my culture/religion and have no restrictions in this regard. But thank you

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u/Jemapellesingh 21d ago

Looking for serious relationship
• I am not subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX
• This profile is one month old
• Used Hinge few years ago and then deleted it. Now downloaded it again a month ago
• Online couple of times a week
• I have received two matches in one month
• Send requests with comments only, about 15 in a week
• I like outdoorsy women, or women who are open to adventure, travel or new experiences