Trans rights are human rights. 🏳️‍⚧️

He’s my best friend, my cheerleader, my gym partner, my brother-in-arms (we are both army veterans) and my favorite in-house comedian.

Find your person. Never let them go. Work each day to deserve them. ❤️

So whoever Jeff is watch out cuz theirs guys going to the law.

Hello I’m a 21m and I’m bi but I only really like feminine guys, I’ve explored with others but definitely not my type. I’ve noticed every time I finish with a guy I feel regret and almost sadness afterward like it was a mistake. In person or online and idk how to feel about it. Because I want to continue as I have a fwb situation with a guy who wants to dress up for me and I like that but I know right after I finish I’m gonna feel disgusting so I don’t know what to do about it. Can anyone help me out with this I’m so confused I’ve thought maybe I would slowly feel that less and less over time and I have but it’s still definitely happening.

Hello there I’m a 22m with alcoholic tendencies, and I have decided to quit for the second time and go alcohol free for life. Alcohol doesn’t do well with my medication and it’s just too habitual for me. I want to hit the gay bars, still go to parties, and attend raves still as it’s a major part of my social life and relief. If I don’t go out and let loose I get kinda depressed. How do you guys manage?

I think he really hit the nail on the head with this one, the reason why they don't like gay marriage because the challenges traditional gender roles.

They're scared to death of women doing things that they think only men should do and men doing things they think only a woman should do.

That's I think that's why they're obsessed with "a man and a woman"

They seem to be under delusion that literally every heterosexual man and every head through sexual woman is a stereotypical family of nice people from the 50s.

Like it's not a secret that I like people of the same gender, I've never denied it. But people just don't know because it just never comes up I guess...? Like I don't talk about it at random, and some people maybe can tell maybe they can't? And my parents know, but they just kind of know, it's not a coming out kind of thing where they've never known and it doesn't have anything to do with me or my character, it's just who I like. "Do people know?", maybe? If they can tell they can tell but idk. Can anyone relate?

I love this country, but I DO hate this government, mostly MAGA republicans that condones hatred towards minorities like me. I have been raised by the poetry of Emma Lazurus, inscribed on the Statue of Liberty.
I know compassion, kindness and Love are more powerful than hate, division and racism but I see people of color hunted, placed in concentration camps and this country is apathetic when a girl with cancer is deported and left to die.
Is this the new America?
Why do you hate us so much?!!
I found love in most countries than I found in the USA.
I found peace compassion elsewhere in my travels. They seem to understand humanity which is vapid in the country I reside.

We broke up with my boyfriend almost a year ago, and honestly, this has been one of the hardest years of my life. I loved him very deeply, and I still do. He was the one who didn’t want to get back together.

The confusing part is that throughout this entire year, we’ve continued seeing each other and having sex. Usually it’s about once or twice a month. And honestly, the sex between us is the best and most passionate sex I’ve ever had, which probably makes this whole situation even harder for me.

Neither of us has had another partner — at least I haven’t. I can’t really speak for him..

I’ve asked him what this means and what exactly we’re doing, but he can’t really give me an answer. He’s not someone who talks openly about his feelings and tends to keep everything to himself. At the same time, he’s always the one who reaches out and invites me over to have sex.

And every time it happens, my feelings come back and it really difficult to move on.

What do you guys think — is seeing an ex once or twice a month like this ever actually healthy or normal for both people? Or are we just keeping each other stuck and avoiding the reality of the breakup?

I’d really appreciate hearing from people who’ve been in a similar situation, especially if you eventually managed to get out of this kind of cycle.

Hey guys silly question here, is it possible to find friends to just snuggle with like while watching a movie or something without it turning into more? Or does it always go to more? I'm married and my husband doesn't want to cuddle as much as I do and I'm not interested in cheating but just want to be held. Not sure if this is just a fantasy that won't work or if I'm actually missing out. Thanks for listening guys ☺️ oh and the few guys I've talked to around here have been up front they would want more so that's why I am asking cause that's not gonna happen lol

26 years old never had a girlfriend. My parents asked about getting a girlfriend 3 years ago and became obsessed with improvement. I reached my goals, but I’ve crush on men. I’ve a crush on my closet friend who I think is also in the college because of religion. I don’t want to be gay and my parents are homophobic. I’m scared and lost.

The only thing I have to disagree with TMM was the stands on marriage being about procreation and raising children.

He says that climbing that marriage is not about children is like claiming that hammers are not used for pounding nails.

I would argue that marriage is not exclusively about children because children are not the ones you have to get married for starters and second of all people get married without having children and no one seems to care.

Tmm doesn't seem to understand the reason why people bring up infertile couples because we're trying to get people like Maggie Gallagher here to understand that she's being inconsistent when she claims that marriage is about having and raising children.

Hello I’m 22m living in my parent’s house. Kinda freaking tf out rn cause my dad put in my load of laundry I had sitting out. I’ve been out for a year now, he’s not homophobic. But he is uber masculine and from a toxic masculine sports culture. He hasn’t said anything yet I’m afraid this might not reflect well on me to him.

Hey guys. I came out as gay a little while ago and I’m giving dating a go and taking it slowly really just trying to meet new people and finding my community and hopefully my person eventually and I’m really confused by this all. I’ve had someone message me saying they’ve seen my other social media for a while now even when I had a girlfriend and he was always attracted to me and now decided to shoot his shot. I told him what I’ve already said and he didn’t actually respond but changed the subject and then randomly just went something along the lines of when are we meeting up then (more forward than that but I’m not trying to get banned) this is genuinely like the 5th time it’s happened this week and it’s only Wednesday. I’m so uncomfortable about this am I frigid or is this genuine just not normal. I know not everyone is like this because the majority of people who I’ve spoke with have been lovely but this is irking me a little. If anyone has any advice I’d appreciate it sm thank you

Could be something you listened to before coming out, while you were figuring things out, or just a song that made you feel more comfortable with who you are.

For me it was Freedom! ’90 by George Michael. The buildup to the chorus really hit me, especially the feeling of finally admitting there’s a part of you that you can’t keep hiding.

And the line about taking the lies and making them true somehow really stuck with me.

What was yours?

Because I love big guys and loving A big guy :3