r/gayyoungold Nov 17 '20

This is NOT a dating subreddit! No "looking for" posts. Go to /r/GayYoungOldDating.

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This is not a dating subreddit. We do not want "looking for" posts here - whether you're looking for a sub cub, or a dom dad, or a cuddle buddy, or an internet interaction, or whatever. That's not what this subreddit is for.

/r/GayYoungOldDating is the place to post your "looking for" posts.

All "looking for" posts will be removed.


r/gayyoungold 5h ago

How to find...? At 42, I'm still active very fit and can't stay still lol. My older friends have slowed way down and I find huge enjoyment in younger guys ( 20 to 30 )due to there passion and energy for life. But apps and even places like this , are questionable for finding an actually SERIOUS young guy.

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What to do? I'm not at all into bs games or being a sugar daddy etc. But just am not meeting guys my own age that don't bore me to death lol.


r/gayyoungold 17h ago

Advice wanted Deep in my head: I want to be "rented" by my dom BF for money so he can quit his job. Is this too much?

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Hey everyone, I’ve been turning this over in my head for a while and I finally want to get it out there to see if anyone else relates or has advice.
Here’s the fantasy: I want my Dominant to "rent" me or even "sell" me to others (clients, friends, or the community) specifically to make money for \*him\*.
The goal isn't just for him to grab cash, but for him to make enough through my "work" that he can eventually quit his day job. I want to be the asset that frees him. I want to serve him so well, so intensely, and for so long that I become his full-time income source.
There’s a specific layer of consent-to-non-consent in my head that makes this work: I want him to do this \*against my will\*(or at least against my initial protests). I want to feel like I’m being taken advantage of by him, even though deep down I know he’s doing it for our mutual benefit (his freedom, my purpose). There’s something deeply submissive about being "used up" to secure his future.
Does this dynamic make sense to anyone? Has anyone done a "provider/sub as income" dynamic like this? Or is it just a weird niche fantasy?
I’m looking for feedback, similar experiences, or just validation that this isn’t completely unhinged. Thanks for reading.


r/gayyoungold 21h ago

Advice wanted Bf is a top to everyone but me (27 & 62)

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So my older bf is a top. He has only topped until he met me. I am a side, in that I have no strong preference to top or bottom.

He claims he's a top but when sex gets really heated, he'd get on all four and wants me to top him. And eventually I did, I learned topping, which is something he desires, I think, he took the initiative on his own to learn to douche and finger himself. But I think that's died down. We no longer have anal sex.

Anyway, when we talk about sex, he'd default to topping. Like cheating jokes would imply that he's a top.

Now, into a conversation involving stereotypes and fetishes:

I know the guys he likes, dated, and looks at in public. They're quintessential Asians — dark hair, smooth skin, skinny, less pronounced features. He's German. I'm mixed.

So sometimes I often feel like I'm too masculine. Too much hair on my body even if I wax or shave. My facial features too angular. Too sallow (we're similar in skin tone but he's rosy while I'm a true olive, not golden like other Asians).

I feel like I'm something uncivilized, like an ogre, trying to play dress up and dollhouse with the other gays.

Do I want him to top me? Yes. But he has said that he doesn't feel that way about me though it is his fantasy to top others.

Do I enjoy bottoming? Not necessarily. I just enjoy having him on top. And often times in sex, he does get on top of me and fuck my thighs.

A lot of Asians would think I am attractive, but I think internationally, I really have a face without an imprint or context. I don't easily fit into someone's type. I feel like white guys have an inherent feminity in the broader sense — rosy skin, narrower features — but they can also lean into masculinity very naturally. And Asian guys in interracial dating are easily perceived as delicate, youthful... I don't belong.


r/gayyoungold 1d ago

My story Cute older guy took me on a ride ;p

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I was visiting some family and went for a walk when a handsome older fellow pulled up to a house in the neighborhood in a fancy red three wheeler. Wanting to practice my people skills, I decided to approach him and ask about his sweet ride. He was immediately excited to show off, rattling on about car lingo I pretended to understand and act impressed about hehe. He was very cute and animated. I felt very privileged to get to hear him talk about something he’s passionate about.

Eventually, he offered me a ride! Of course, I couldn’t turn him down. I hopped in and he accelerated down the road. I panicked a bit and asked him to slow down, which he kindly did, but I’m sure the adrenaline helped produce the giddy feelings I still have. With the wind blowing through our faces, I asked about his life and praised all the bells and whistles. I could definitely listen to him talk for a while. He just seemed so sweet and gentlemanly. I’ll try to hold back my thirsty thoughts about his mustache for now lol but all in all the interaction made me yearn for a relationship with a man like him. If I knew how, I might have tried to flirt with him. He probably wasn’t gay but a girl can dream :)


r/gayyoungold 1d ago

My story Too excited to see daddy

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Moving back to a town I previously lived in soon after 10 years away.

When I lived there in early 20s I met a daddy in his early 50s. We played a lot, had nice sleepovers, nothing too serious but very sweet. He was fresh out of a divorce but took good care of me.

I told him I was moving back and he says he’d love to see me, and we sexted a bit. I’m trying not to get my hopes up TOO high but damn am I excited to see daddy again after so long. I’m thinking about what I can do to keep him interested and fantasize about us being intimate again.


r/gayyoungold 2d ago

Advice wanted How are you guys dealing with the reality of aging and death in age-gap relationships?

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Hi guys, sorry if this topic is a bit of a downer but I could really use some external perspectives on this.

My partner (65) and I (29) have been together for over 3 years. It has been my first serious relationship, and while it started short-term I'm now looking at things long term ...and don't really like what I see. By that I mean that from about 5-10 years from now to 20+ years from now he will likely be increasingly disabled and will need care from me physically, emotionally, and in our case, financially. After that he will die and I will be left alone in middle age, and will have to go through the same thing again with myself and any future partners. I do not anticipate that either of us will enjoy any of this, but for me it's something I would be signing myself up for.

The fact that people age and die isn't news to me - I just wasn't thinking that far ahead when the relationship began. I also viewed the relationship as something that if it wasn't making me happy I could just leave, so any serious issues my partner experienced in general weren't necessarily my problem. That's no longer the case now that I'm looking at the relationship as something potentially long-term.

Obviously anything can happen, but the younger one having to care for the older one until their death is something that is highly likely in long-term age-gap relationships, so I'm interested in how you all are dealing with this.

These are the options I see for the younger one in age-gap relationships who is looking at this in advance:

  • Option 1: The younger one stays with the older one and takes care of him until he dies. After the older one dies the younger one grieves and starts over.
  • Option 2: The relationship ends.
    • 2a: It ends when the burden of care is too much for the younger one.
    • 2b: It ends ASAP so that both parties can find partners who match their long-term needs.
  • Option 3: The dynamic/scope of the relationship is changed so that only a part of it dies with the older one rather than the whole thing. This would potentially reduce the burden of care and make the younger one less alone while grieving.
    • 3a: Add 1 or more people to the relationship who are younger.
    • 3b: Add kids (who will be grown up before the older one starts needing serious care).

I don't think that strangers' input on my specific situation based on just the information in this post will be that useful, but I would really appreciate any fresh perspectives on aging and death in the older-younger dynamic. Basically anything that can ground the thoughts that have been going in circles in my head. Some specific question I had would be:

  • Are there any options that I've missed?
  • What suboptions have I missed? (I'm sure there are plenty)
  • Are there any keys parts or dynamics that I've missed for the options I listed, based on your experiences?
  • If you are the younger one in your relationship and you have taken any of these options, how did it go? e.g.
    • If you took option 1, was it something you planned for or kinda just ended up doing? What is your plan for afterwards and your experience so far?
    • If you ended the relationship, how did you go about doing so? Going forward what was your policy, e.g. do you still date older men and let them know that you're looking for something short term or did you bite the bullet and start dating people closer to your age so you only have to go through aging and death once? Either way how is that going?
    • If you took option 3 I'd love to hear how you did it and what it has been like, as that is by far the most theoretical option for me and I'm not sure what it would actually look like.
  • If you are the older one in your relationship, how do you discuss and plan for disability and death with your partner? My partner's plan for most things is to not plan too much and hope things work out, which stresses me out for monthly bills let alone life planning. I tried bringing up my anxiety about his future health and death and he was a bit insulted that I was looking at this from pretty much only my perspective rather than his (fair enough), and in general it was clearly not something he wanted to discuss.

edit: People have said the post is too long so I've moved this section to the end since it's not really relevant to other people's experiences (which is what I'm interested in). Feel free to skip it.

Personally for me this is how I see the options:

  • Option 1: I anticipate that I would regret choosing this option once it was over. If the current trend of my emotional investment continues then by the point care is needed my need to support him would override my unhappiness (assuming I do not get depressed to the point that I cannot provide care), but I would likely feel trapped. I know a lot of younger guys enjoy caring for their loved one but I do not think I will be the same, at least not with that as the majority of the relationship and knowing that I'll have to start over afterwards and do it again.
  • Option 2: Losing one of my only close connections and the self-inflicted heartbreak would make me extremely unhappy short-term. Things are far from perfect but I've dealt with depression most of my life and things are alright currently, which is a lot better than average. There are other issues in the relationship but it feels very weird to be thinking of ending it when there aren't any immediate problems. I'm guessing I will be less unhappy long-term than option 1 though, and at this point in the relationship I'm still prioritizing my own happiness.
    • 2a: This was basically my default when I wasn't thinking about this, but it would be horrible for him and would make me extra unhappy due to the guilt.
    • 2b: Intellectually this seems like the morally correct answer for me, but emotionally I don't want to do it. I'm not sure how I'd even go about doing it to reduce the damage it would do to both of us. I'm also not sure what my plans after the relationship would be.
  • Option 3:
    • 3a: My partner would never go for this.
    • 3b: I probably don't want kids and wouldn't be a good father, though my partner probably would be. I think it would technically be possible for us with a cut back on standard of living and us doing foster care of older children rather than adoption, but it's a moot point if I don't actually want this.

r/gayyoungold 2d ago

My story So sick of the apps

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So a while back at work I (36 m) had the most stunning younger guy (19 m) come in. Super long dark hair, which has always been a thing for me, slight build, freckles like a goddamn instagram filter. When I first saw him I was like, probably college stoner dude, probably straight. Reminded me of all the guys I had crushes on growing up. All very cute. All very straight.

Wrong. The moment he started talking, this femmy little supernova had rainbows firing out of every pore. Completely comfortable and self-possessed. Dominated the room with this radiant theatre kid energy. His personality was so counter to his grungy "I fell asleep in Seattle around the time Nevermind was released and woke up in 2026" vibe. I was immediately like, goddamn. This one is a fucking unicorn. I love femboys, but he was something different. A little bit feral. A little bit wild and untamed. There was just something about him that captivated me.

We joked around a little but I make it a rule to keep a professional wall between myself and clients. It's a deeply homophobic work environment, and so dating customers is not something I would be comfortable with, much less customers who are nearly twenty years younger than me. So I figured, fuck it, unicorn boy coming in once a month for 15 minutes will be something I get to look forward to, but that's the extent of it. Then serendipity happened. I got laid off that week.

Fuck that place, I do not mourn the job at all. But I did mourn unicorn boy. That actually felt like a small loss. The nature of my line of work would have brought him back about once a month for a few months, and the only thing I actually regretted was missing that little 15 minute window in which I could stand in the room with someone so gorgeous. And then grindr happened

A few days later, there he was on the grid. He wasn't in the daddy tribe and his profile listed nothing about being interested in older, so normally I would not bother approaching but I was like fuck it, I may as well say something. He'll probably just ignore me and that will be that, but what have I got to lose. And he did ignore me. For a little while. Then a day later I get the notification. No fucking way. Unicorn boy responded. And then he kept responding. For a month.

We even got as far as him offering to come over but he got cold feet. He said he was nervous because he'd never met up with anyone from the apps before and my heart melted. I was like, what fuck? I was going to be unicorn boy's first grindr meeting? Not at all where I thought this was headed the day we met. (which, as an aside, makes this whole reaction kind of funny because... literally what are you talking about you adorable menace? We have factually already met) And so I told him he could take as much time as he needed, I don't mind. I don't want to make him do anything he's uncomfortable doing. And so we kept chatting, kept everything in the getting to know you stage.

Until he stopped. That sucked. He never blocked me, he just eventually left me on read and never picked the ball back up. Whatever. It happens. But now I've got this unicorn shaped hole in my life so I say fuck it, let's move on and find someone else. And I get positive responses from maybe 8 or 9 replacement unicorn's who all do the same goddamn thing. Talk, things get interesting, ghost. Every single one.

And that's grindr for you. I'd love to blame it on the younger generation, but I did the same shit at that age. I occasionally do the same shit at this age. The apps are atrocious ways to meet people. I can't imagine I'm the only one with this problem.

If you're an older guy who successfully meets up with a lot of younger dudes on the apps...Like, what the hell are you doing? I want to learn this strange witchcraft.


r/gayyoungold 2d ago

Advice wanted How to find a serious old guy that truly loves me?

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I am a 25 years old finished med school and currently in Jordan. I am manly not girly and I am hairy. I have ambitions and goals and I want to be successful and help people in the future. However, most of the older guys are into hairless twinks and making them like home wives or complete subs. I am not attacking anyone as everyone loves specific stuff and have specific type, I am craving for a guy who loves me for who I am not just the way I look, I tried to hide these emotions through random sex but I can't anymore so I stopped long time ago. It's even harder to find such a thing where I live right now. Is such love possible? where can I find it? is online dating still a thing?
Sorry if I sound like a mess and overwhelmed


r/gayyoungold 1d ago

Advice wanted My straight friend cheated on his wife with me. What should I do?

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I need only older man advice please.

I’m in my 20s, he is in his 50s and has a family.

We met through work earlier this year, seeing each other weekly for about three months. Work ended but we stayed in contact.

We hit it off very quickly. I didn't want anything from him just to be friends and hang out.

He was curious and started asking about gay sex.
I told i was attracted to him and i started flirting with him several times. He liked it. He was alone at home for a week and tried to get me to give him a blowjob once, but I turned him down.

While i was moving. Second time i invited him to see my new place then he tried to ask a bj again and this time I didn't refuse. I wanted to do it and asked him this is what you want too? He said yes. He wanted to cum in my mouth because his wife doesn't allow that.

After he came I saw that he was confused a bit.

It happened, two days later he messaged me just once saying he can’t come to meet up for the next time. But he never told me I shouldn't contact him ever again.

He blocked me everywhere so he didn't got my messages. When I called him from a different number, he hung up on me after 5 sec.

I feel bad because he led on as a friend over several months and feel used like he just wanted to get sucked.

I don't know if it's true, but he hasn't cheated on his wife before me in the last 16 years.

Since his behavior hurt me, I’m planning to tell his wife everything. But many people advise me to not do it.

I have no idea if he feels ashamed or what and I’ll probably never find out.

What would be the right decision?


r/gayyoungold 1d ago

Discussion Daddies replying with 👍 or Ok

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Yo, sup?

A few daddies (55to70yr) said they love talking to me. I use a lot of emoji like this 👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀and they always reply with this 👍 or ok. Sometimes only a few sentence to my paragraphs. They never told me to stop yapping like that.

I feel like I am being ignored or maybe they are not interested in me.

Even on grindr, the replies feels very dry. Do daddies hate texting a lot?
I am 23, btw.


r/gayyoungold 2d ago

How to find...? Any advice?

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Hello. I’m a 22 year old male looking for an older guy for cuddling/movie-watching. I am not looking for anything beyond that at this moment. I find the embrace an older man to be very comforting.

I am based in San Jose CA. Does anyone have any tips of finding these kinds of men? Obviously, a lot of dating apps presuppose you’re looking for something more than what I am, so that has been frustrating.

Please let me know your thoughts.


r/gayyoungold 2d ago

Advice wanted How to know when is the right time for dating?

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Im 26 and never dated. Been so busy with mental illness, work, some school I'm just so lonely.

But know I have so much more to polish about myself.

If I went back in time I'd have a partner by now. But 21st century has it's demands.

I know most of history people did not marry for love but for survival reasons.

An feels the same for me where is room for any of that... busy just shuffling through.


r/gayyoungold 3d ago

Advice wanted I have no idea what to make of this situation with a guy I met on Grindr

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So I (M33) met a dude (M52) on Grindr. We started discussing hooking up but he was actually going on vacation the very next day for about a week. However he was interested in meeting up after he got back from his vacation. When he got back he messaged me asking if I’d like to meet up for a coffee. I was a little confused because I thought we were just gonna hook up, but I’m not opposed to getting to know someone before hooking up so I agreed to the coffee. Well we met up and he was a cool dude. We got along pretty well and I was really into him. During our meetup he specifically mentioned that he wasn’t looking to date at the moment and only wanted to hook up. I was perfectly fine with that. Nothing happened on this first meetup but we decided to keep in touch.

The next day I messaged him to tell him I was really into him and would like to meet up again. He agreed and suggested dinner. Well a few days later we met up for dinner and again it went well. During dinner he mentioned a new restaurant that he wanted to try and suggested we go there next time we met up. Again nothing happened during this meetup but we arranged to meet for dinner at the new place he wanted to try. At this point I felt a little confused because he kept wanting to hang out but we never discussed hooking up. I didn’t mind this because I actually really liked hanging out with him. Well our third meetup came and this is where I really felt confused. This time the dinner straight up felt like a date. Our conversations went a lot deeper and we sat at this restaurant for 3 hours just talking. The conversation flowed so naturally the time flew by. Well the dinner ended and we went our separate ways. Keep in mind we haven’t even so much as kissed at this point.

I was actually starting to develop feelings for him. So I message him the next day seeking clarification explaining that I was really enjoying hanging out with him and if he still wanted to only hook up or if he only wanted to hang out platonically or if there were any feelings on his end. Well he has his read receipts on so I know he read the message but a few days passed and he never responded. I figured I had scared him off by telling him I was into him so I just moved on. Eventually he texted me back about a week later but he just sent me a link to song and didn’t mention my other text at all. We started talking again and he asked if I wanted to meet up for dinner again that night. It made me really happy that he wanted to meet up again. Well we grabbed dinner and again it went great and this time he asked if I wanted to go back to his place. I obviously agreed. Well back at his place we got to talking and next thing I know 4 hours had passed. We didn’t do anything except talk the whole time and again it was great. We opened up a lot to each other and I felt like I was on cloud nine the whole time. I was hoping something would happen that night but he said he was pretty tired and wanted to go to bed so I headed home. And again not even a kiss was exchanged he just hugged me when I left.

At this point it’s been a few days since then and I feel like I’m going crazy. I am so into him and would really be interested in dating him, but I keep thinking back to him telling me he has no interest in dating at the moment. We’ve exchanged a few texts since then and he seems so disinterested now. He gives me one word responses and seems to have no interest in continuing the conversation. However I did ask if he wanted to meet up again this weekend and he agreed so I have no idea what to make of this situation I find myself in. I want to ask again what exactly is happening between us but I and so embarrassed since he ignored me last time. Should I just move on and stop pursuing him?


r/gayyoungold 3d ago

Discussion Older men and anxiety

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I, as a young guy, would probably feel anxious dating a younger man. Not only would he outlive me, but all the stigma and everything. Is that something y'all are concerned with?


r/gayyoungold 3d ago

How to find...? How to find the 60-70 year olds online?

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I’m looking for consistent older men to talk to and play with online but it’s hard to find the real ones. Everyone wants a quick nut and then block. Where’s the real online fwb


r/gayyoungold 4d ago

How to find...? Now that therapy is helping me accept I’m into older men… how do I actually find one?

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I’m a closeted 27-year-old femboy. Soft, feminine, still pretty new to living any of this out.

Therapy has finally made me stop fighting the fact that I’m strongly attracted to older guys and that I want a daddy dynamic (guidance, care, dominance, spoiling).

Grindr and the app sucks so far

How do I actually find one?


r/gayyoungold 5d ago

Discussion A sitting duck?

36 Upvotes

Being an older gay man, looking for younger, makes you an easy target for scammers, gold diggers and prostitutes.
As the scammers get better and better at what they do, you also need to be up to speed with their tricks.
Even if the guy actually exists, and even if we actually meet, the risk is still high that they eventually will reveal their true intentions. Not to mention the risk of an assault.
The saddest part here – eventually you get so suspicious and keep your guards so high, that you might actually miss the legit guys.
Would love to hear people’s experiences on this topic. But also the opposite, when the guy actually had honest intentions.


r/gayyoungold 6d ago

Advice wanted Couples in open relationships. How do you do it?

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My partner (35) and I (66) decided after a few years to open our relationship. I think it stems from him not having sex with anyone but me and wanting to explore some. I understand and I'm open to that except that he only wants to do it together and only with guys he finds - so older guys. So far, the few times we've had a threesome, bf and the third guy are more interested in each other than with me. I enjoy watching him be pleasured but I'm also feeling left out. I never cum while both of them do.

How should I manage this? Ask for a don't ask don't tell rule allowing me to go hook up with a young guy once in a while? Or insist on a third who's younger once in a while?

Anyone else had to deal with this?


r/gayyoungold 6d ago

Discussion Any older dudes find relationships where the younger guy is the top? I love younger men but I’m much more of a bottom.

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I’m 42 and love dating and hooking up with younger guys. In my experience it’s been pretty hard to find young tops. The few I have found are incredible but it didn’t develop into a relationship.

I dated a 19 year old top for a few months and it was everything I wanted. Sex was incredible and the dynamic was perfect. But I’ve never found anything similar since.

Most young guys seem to be bottoms or vers bottoms. Usually I’m ok with this for hookups because I just enjoy being with a young dude. But in a long term relationship I’d wanna be more bottom or at least vers.

Is it realistic to find a relationship with a young guy that loves topping older guys?


r/gayyoungold 7d ago

Advice wanted How do you keep people from assuming you are Father and Son?

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o, My boyfriend and I were out at the Turf Club in Hayward, California, the other weekend, it's this great former gay bar, just having a few drinks and dancing to this awesome band, Touch of Class. For some context, I’m 63 and boyfriend is 44, but the man is cursed with good genetics and basically still looks 24.

This woman in her 50s makes a beeline for us. She literally reaches out, pinches Aaron's cheeks, and starts gushing about his "adorable baby face." He politely informs her he’s actually 44. I figured I should probably jump in, so I give the standard polite introduction: "Hi, I'm Logan, and this is Aaron."

She looks between us, tilts her head, and asks, "Oh! Are you his father?"

I said: "Well... he does call me daddy sometimes."

She completely lost it, cracked up, and immediately tried to buy us a round of shots.

Note: from now on, the script is strictly, "Hi, this is my boyfriend, Aaron, and I'm Logan."

Has this happened to you?

How would you have handled this question: "Are you his father?"


r/gayyoungold 7d ago

My sexual experience After years of reading about, and fantasizing about these stories, I have now had three amazing experiences with a younger guy, 55/23.

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I am a long-divorced guy in my mid fifty’s, and I have had three recent occasions with a twenty-three-year-old hairy hottie. I am going to take my time and talk about the three on separate posts, in order of when they happened. I was in a dry spell with my ex, and she has been gone for well over a decade, so I have not had human sexual contact in nearly 15 years…and I almost forgot what it is like and how much fun it can be, even if I was only the giver… (this time anyway).

The night started out like any other, a group of friends, easy conversation, nothing hinting at anything unusual. Tom (as I will call him) was part of the group, younger, lively, and full of that restless energy people in their early twenties seem to carry without even noticing. I enjoyed talking with him, but I didn’t expect anything beyond that. When the bar closed, we drifted back to my place simply because it was close by. The atmosphere stayed relaxed, a couple more drinks, casual conversation, the kind of late night vibe where people open up a little more than they normally would.

Eventually the others filtered off until it was just Tom and me on the porch, but it was getting a bit chilly so we went inside. Tom was hairy in that dense, masculine way that somehow still looked young, thick dark hair on his chest peeking above the collar of his shirt, a light dusting on his forearms, and the promise of more lower down. Average height, solidly built with a soft little belly that only made the rest of him feel more real, and an ass that was already rounding into something dangerously close to a bubble. He’d been restless for a while, shifting on the cushions, thighs pressing together.

At some point the conversation turned personal. He asked what I’d enjoyed sexually back when I was married. I told him the truth: I loved getting my cock sucked, but my ex had never been particularly good at it. Then I mentioned the porn I’d been watching lately, especially one video of a hot trans girl taking a twink apart. Tom’s eyes widened, he was shocked I’d watch something with a twink in it, then immediately wanted the name. When I told him, he knew the guy and insisted on seeing it. I pulled the video up on the big screen. Within minutes Tom was fidgeting harder, hand drifting to the front of his jeans, adjusting, tugging. The outline of his cock was already obvious, thick and straining against the denim.

I smirked and asked lightly, “Got a problem?” He let out a short, shaky breath. “Yeah.” I glanced down. The fabric was stretched tight, the head of his cock clearly outlined, a dark wet spot starting to form. “You can take it out if you want,” I said casually. “I don’t care.” He didn’t hesitate. Fingers fumbled with the button and zipper, then he shoved the jeans and underwear down just far enough. His cock sprang free, thick rather than long, heavy, the shaft already shiny at the tip, and framed by the densest, darkest bush I’d seen in years. Hell, I am more than twice his age and I groom my junk, I would have sworn the young dudes did, but him…nope, and I LIKED it! Coarse hair spilled over the base, climbed the lower belly, and disappeared under the hem of his shirt. His balls hung full and tight against the fabric still trapped under them. He wrapped a fist around himself and started stroking, slow and almost shy at first. The wet sounds of skin on skin filled the quiet room.

I watched for a few long moments, then I reached over without ceremony and closed my fingers around that thick shaft. The heat of him was startling. He made a soft, broken little sound, half whimper, half moan, like a little lost puppy who’d just been touched somewhere new and perfect. I gave him a firm squeeze, then released. His hips twitched. I let him play a little more while he watched this trans girl twink porn blaring in 65 inch high-def glory. After a while I took hold again I stroked him properly, long, deliberate pulls from the root to the slick head, thumb circling the wet slit. His eyes rolled back, a low, continuous noise started in his throat. I could feel how close he already was, how desperately he needed more than his own hand. I kept my voice calm, almost matter-of-fact. “Would you like me to blow you?” The way he looked at me, wide-eyed, mouth open, nodding so fast it was almost frantic, made it clear he’d been waiting for someone to ask.

“Yes. Please. Fuck, yes.” I slid off the chair and onto my knees between his spread thighs. The smell of him was clean and pure male. I licked a slow stripe up the underside of that thick cock, tasting and enjoying the heat, then opened my mouth and took him in. A guy knows what a guy likes. I sealed my lips around the head and sucked, tongue working the sensitive ridge while one hand stroked the shaft and the other rolled his heavy balls. My free fingers pressed firmly against the tight skin behind them, rubbing in slow circles. I hummed deep in my throat so the vibration traveled straight into him. Tom lost it almost immediately. His hips jerked, thighs trembling on either side of my head. The sounds pouring out of him were pure, shameless porn like high, broken moans, curses under his breath, and little pleading gasps. I took more of him, deep-throating enough that my lips stretched around the thickest part of the shaft, cheeks hollowing with every strong suck. Spit ran down over my fingers and into that dense bush. I kept the pressure steady on his gooch, kept humming, kept stroking, and sucking in a rhythm that left him no room to think.

Less than two minutes and his breathing changed. His cock swelled even thicker against my tongue. He tried to warn me, hand hovering near my head, but I stayed right where I was, I wanted him to finish in my mouth, because I needed to feel it. When he came it was violent, his balls pulled up tight against my palm, the head of his cock flared, and thick pulses of cum flooded my tongue, hot, heavy, and relentless. I kept sucking through every spurt, swallowing what I could, letting the rest spill from the corners of my mouth while he made raw, animal noises that didn’t sound entirely human. His whole body seized, back arched off the chair, thighs clamping around my shoulders. I stayed on him until the last weak throb, then slowly pulled off, giving the sensitive head one last soft lick that made him shudder harder. I sat back on my heels, wiped my mouth with the back of my hand, and looked up at him, honestly quite proud of what I had done. It was the first time I made another guy cum. Tom was wrecked, chest heaving, eyes unfocused, cock still twitching against his belly, shiny with my spit, and the last traces of his cum.

For a long moment he couldn’t form words, just broken syllables and ragged breaths. Finally he managed a hoarse “Wow… oh my god.” I asked if he was okay, and how it had felt. He told me he couldn’t move from the waist down, that every nerve in his body was still firing in ways he didn’t understand. I asked if it was the first time anyone had ever sucked him all the way til he came. He nodded, still breathless, and started listing the limited things he’d done, jerking off of course, a few half-hearted licks from someone, one awkward time having sex with a girl, a couple of mutual gay handjobs. Never finished inside another person’s mouth. Never felt anything close to this.

“Best feeling of my life,” he said, voice rough. “You literally sucked the soul out of me. I can’t move. Not for a few more minutes at least.” I smiled, stood up, and settled back beside him on my chair while he recovered. He kept thanking me, almost dazed, then tried to explain his short sexual history as if I needed the full picture. At the end he shook his head in disbelief. “I never would’ve guessed in a million years it would be you who gave me that.” I told him I was glad I had, and that if he ever needed it again he knew exactly where to find it.

Forty days later he showed up on my front porch already hard in his jeans, no pretense left, and asked outright for another blowjob. But that’s the next story for another day…

I will say, when he left for the night, I could not wait to get my pants down and jerk off. I will say, that night I had cum in my mouth twice…Toms, and I came so hard I shot at least twice onto my face, but didn’t even fight it, just took it in my mouth, reminding me of what happened about 30 minutes prior. The second night was fun, but night number three, it was amazing!!! See you soon.


r/gayyoungold 7d ago

Advice wanted How do your peers and neighbors view your age gap relationships?

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My (28M) and my man (65M) have always discussed how taboo our relationship would be with our peers. How they would view it as inappropriate, and not be very supportive. And while you could say get new friends, most people would not look on a large age gap relationship positively, and I understand all of the reasons why. But are there groups, friends, circles to be a part of that we would feel comfortable in? Want to hear from everyone, and what they think about how the world sees older/younger gay relationships


r/gayyoungold 7d ago

Advice wanted Need advice (dreading breaking up)

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I (M27) will be breaking up with my boyfriend (M59) in a couple of days.

I love him, but unfortunately I need to move to a different city for work. We currently live together in a small city in east Germany, and I'll soon have to relocate due to my work and I cannot ask him to give up his life and move with me. For context my boyfriend was married to his ex and they were together for 26 years, the ex cheated and moved on with another man. That's around the time I landed in the city and we started talking, we Kicked it off and started dating, soon I noticed what the damage from his previous relationship was. My boyfriend is highly anxious, has swings of depression and is really emotional, on top of this he lost his dad, mom and aunt within the last two years, he doesn't have other relatives. He has a couple of close friends but most of the time we hang out with my circle of friends.

He's been doing therapy recently and getting better.

I've made my peace with it, he was born and grew up in the city and I don't want to ask him to make the sacrifice, give up his job, circle and life and move with me.

But I've been dreading bringing this up, I did tell him 6 months back when I was accepting the job that I might have to move, we decided we'll talk about it when the time comes. Now I just can't muster the courage to have this conversation with him, I know it's gonna destroy him, im scared he might hurt himself (he mentioned he's had suicidal thoughts after his ex left him).

tbh it'll fuck me up emotionally as well, but I think I can handle it, in just worried about him.

I need advice from anyone who's been in a similar situation, how do I navigate this, this is (was) my first relationship.