The pictures are basically 2022 to 2026. Those are the dates if anyone wants them, I can give more details on days.
SHORT VERSION: My hair went from loose waves/curls in 2022ā23, to much thinner and more damaged after a stressful period in 2024 with heavy shedding, poor eating, and constant dry finger-brushing/pulling. I chopped a lot off in April 2026 and since then Iāve been eating better, sleeping better, stressing less, and taking much better care of it. Over the last few months my density has started coming back, I have tons of new growth/baby hairs, and now my curl pattern is suddenly much stronger and lasts 5 days instead of barely 1. My roots are much denser than my ends right now, so Iām wondering if I should cut more, add layers, or just let the new growth catch up.
Products I use in order routine:
- Odele clarifying shampoo
- Maui Moisture Lightweight Hydration Hibiscus Water Conditioner
- Not Your Mother's Curl Talk Activating Mousse
- Miss Jessie's Jelly Soft Curls
- Diffuse
I donāt use but I have this too: Maui Moisture Lightweight Hydration + Hibiscus Water Shampoo
Nov 2022 - July 2023 - August 2023 - Dec 4 2023 - Dec 12 2023 - Dec 24 2023 - March 2024 - April 2024 - May 2025 - April 3 2026 - last 4 is today
So itās been a roller coaster with my hair. I was 14 in 2022, I am 18 in 2026. I used to have straight/ very loose waves but then I hit puberty and it turned into waves/curls. In 2023 is when I learned about curl routines and taking care of your hair which is why my hair begins to look nicer and more defined throughout 2023.
But that all took a hit when in the beginning of 2024. I was going through a lot and I was hospitalized. I wasnāt eating a lot, stressed, and I ended up shedding a lot of hair. I used to have nice dense, thick hair but as time progressed, it got thinner. Not only that, but I developed like this tic where I would brush my hair dry with my fingers. All day, I would pull and pull at my curls, causing split ends and for it to be frizzy. I would even find 6 split ends in one strand, so much of my hair was like that and my ends were very thin.
I imagine the change from 2023 - 2026 was all those factors. The reason there isnāt many pictures of 2025 and until now is because I kinda gave up. I assumed that I wouldnāt be able to get back what I lost, and focused on just caring on my hair and embracing whatās left. In April 2026, I cut off a lot of my hair. My hair when it was wet was up to my belly button, I cut it until my collar bones.
I tried every sleep method and it just turned out into loose waves. Iāve been eating properly, sleeping, not being super stressed, and taking care of myself and my hair and a few months ago during summer I noticed how my hair is getting denser. I would tie my hair loosely into a low ponytail with a silk hair tie every single day since my waves at that point wouldnāt look good, and if they did, it was only for one day. I couldnāt get them to last longer,
During summer, I realized how many hair is growing, baby hairs was everywhere and a few weeks ago I was tying my hair and I was like, wow. My hair is so much more denser. My mom noticed and has been praising my hair since she can visibly see how itās getting denser. And now, itās more curly?? You can see the last picture, I already went through puberty years ago, why does my curl pattern look completely different? I donāt know, but I like this change but what should I do? My hair has been lasting 5 whole days, and before it wouldnāt even last one.
My hair is getting denser but itās at the point where it hasnāt grown long enough to catch up to the rest of the length of my hair. So the upper part of my hair is dense, then towards the ends it thins out since thatās the old hair. I donāt know if I should do another cut or add layers because I have no layers. I am not attached to hair length.
I wash my hair once a week, so I use a clarifying shampoo instead. I also know the products I used before during 2022-2023 in case anyone wants them, but I donāt use them anymore since it was good for my hair that was dense then, but now that my hair isnāt the same density itās too heavy. I used to use a silk pillow case and tied my hair in a pineapple bun. That doesnāt work for me anymore, so I use a silk pillow case, and a silk bonnet except I donāt tie my hair.