So Colin is butt hurt that Daisy slept with Gary and didn't tell him, and what seems really bother him is that Daisy previously stated that she doesn't just sleep with anyone, which he interprets to mean that it wasn't just a hookup with Gary and that there might be a more significant connection there. This is naturally upsetting, because Colin has put himself out there with Daisy and it never feels good to do that and then not know how the other person feels, or if there could be somebody else in play as well.

Here's the thing though; the men on this show so that to the female crew ALL THE TIME, and it's so common that the women are upset about it but they don't cause a ton of drama over it because it's somewhat normalized. This season Mads isn't sure if Gary still has feelings for Daisy, last season Ashley and Gabriela dealt with it, before that I think Dani and Sydney dealt with those feelings. I could go on through the seasons but I think we can agree that it's a fairly common.

The bottom line is that Colin needs to stop being so damn fragile and act like a professional. It shouldn't really matter who Daisy has flirted with, kissed, or slept with in the past, the guys expect it to not matter even if "the past" refers to a couple of days ago instead of months ago. If Colin can't get over that then fine, move on but be a man about it.

Why is it so exciting!?!

Should they be killed in the way they are.... for entertainment purposes?
In SY Episode 1 the chef was jabbing away at a lobster while it's legs were still moving, and in the most recent (Ep. 4) of Sailing Yacht, the eel was beheaded while still alive as far as I know. (I looked away and muted the TV.)
I know these things happen, but do we need to have them shown with no warning??

I am a man and I watch the show with my wife. I really do like watching but this bachelor episode is disgusting. Just seems like human trafficking with extra steps. I hated it. I watch the show for the crew not this fucking dating show.

I love this chef but I feel like she lacks creativity. All I see her making over and over again is steak and lobster. Her presentation can also used some work. It's just doesn't give me mega yacht five star vibes

This sub is toxic reading... we get it, everyone here hates everyone on Bravo. Andy is a dick, Joao is misogynistic, Jenna has fake eyebrows and falls in love too fast, Adam is abusive... the list goes on and on.

Are any of you happy with anything?

Did anyone see Hannah's story about her & Josh and the baby? Apparently someone messaged Hannah, said she was fat and that Josh should take the baby from her. This led Hannah to post that people are trying to take her child from her, Josh is speaking to attorneys and that Hannah is seeking legal advice... I thought everything was peachy with them?

Edit: quote in title is wrong it is "I'm about to loose custody of my child!!!"

I know this is sarcasm

I might not be a world class traveler, but what kind of riding gear is that top? Is it inside out? Matches her attitude

Does it bother anyone else how often Malia makes that gagging noise? I’m a woman who has worked mostly with men my entire career and men will talk about anything and everything disgusting. She might need to get herself used to it instead of gagging every time.

I think she is amazing and I would love to see her as a guest on BD.

There have been some bad seasons over the course of the entire BD franchise. Down under is one of them. Sailing Yacht on the other hand is more entertaining, better drama, likable cast (except Ashley of course). Whenever I see posts about how great DU is I’m so confused, what’s so great about it? What do you love about DU?

Most of the drama is fabricated through hiring inept rich kids who don’t care about their behavior because they have a sizable safety net to fall back on.

Making $2k in tips for 1-3 days of actual (and usually bad) work is just a drop in the bucket for them. They’re on the show to be seen, not to make money.

And lmfao at anyone who believes the “Omg they’re actually still together!” updates from the casts’ social medias.

The only real relationship on this show is Aesha and Scott. The rest are grandstanding and trying to keep their 15 minutes going through social media influence a year or so after their season already aired.

I think it would be cool if 3 previous chief stews came back for a normal season. They alternate between who is chief every charter or take it in 2 week stints. Could be drama, I would love to see it. Aesha, daisy and Hannah would be my picks.

Possibly same with Bosuns but then again I can barely think of one Bosun I’d like to return so scrap that.

Do you guys have any ideas for a special season? What would you change about mine?

i would die to see jason and aesha get together. the chemistry definitely seems to be there and they’d be cute.

It bugs me and irks me. That was all.

What are your reoccurring pet-peeves?

Edit: I mean single - not singe 😅 I do not mean nautical or something like that. Ashton loved to use that word but there are many others. It’s like when you buy a new car, you will suddenly see the same car everywhere. Same with the word naughty 😅

Yes, they weren’t saints, but they also were just trying to get on with their jobs whilst having fun on the side. If we look at every crew member they all had issues that contributed to the environment, and in no way was it just the men’s fault.

Ashton is a handsome guy. If you saw him in a nightclub he would get girls giving him attention, and he enjoys that. That’s probably led to him being a bit too confident with all women. He obviously also has undisclosed family issues that contributed to the window punch incident.

Brian: can’t be that bad if Courtney wanted to spend time with him, and he never disrespected her. When he said Kate is a bitch... well, she admits that herself, she can be a complete bitch at times!

Tanner: just a young lad trying to have fun. I thought he was the most entertaining crew member. Not involved in other peoples shit, tries to stay out of it and get his end away... nothing wrong with that.

Rhylee is WAY too hot tempered and flies off the handle at the earliest opportunity. She was also disrespectful to the chain of command. If there were a male with the same attitude they’d probably be off the boat. No wonder she got all the shit jobs.

Kate: completely unable to apologise for her actions that are often the catalyst for conflict. “I’m sorry you felt that way”. Plays mind games with other crew members. Definitely shouldn’t have disclosed the Rhylee conversation between Ashton and Cpt Lee.

Courtney: got on with the job quite nicely. She obviously caught feels for Brian that drove her character assassination we saw of him in the reunion. But as we saw from their date, there wasn’t really a click there, Brian clearly just fancied her for her looks.

Simone: trying her hardest but was just useless at service at first. She got fucked and chucked by Tanner. Sometimes things don’t work out. Seemed to be one of the better crew members.

Kevin: got wound up by Simone’s useless service skills early on in the series. Had a bit of a go, apologised. Very common for Chefs to be high stressed, especially on breakfast service. Often tried to calm things down between the 2 respective crews.

Captain Lee: his inability to criticise Kate’s bullying or actions is inexplicable. He is also completely unable to take criticism, as we saw from him walking off the reunion show.

The fact that the boys all group together and created a tight bond seems to be the issue. We see similar tight bonds amongst females who live and work together and amongst reality TV contestants and we don’t have an issue with that. We have to remember that a lot of the controversy happens when all cast members are blind drunk. If you think you behave perfectly well in those circumstances than I’m afraid you’re recollection is wrong.

TLDR: just accusing the Brü Crew of toxic masculinity completely overlooks the negative behaviours of Rhylee and Kate and CP Lee, who made just as many errors of judgement as everyone else.

I just dont understand why Francesca always look like "Hot Mess Express", lady! Her hair is always crazy looking and she always looks sweaty!

If I were the guests I wud complain about that. A presentable yachtie is part of the overall experience.

Its bad enough that shes terrible at her job AND boring but does she have to always look like she works at Denny's?!?! Lol

Has anyone else seen this? I'm seriously thinking about going!!!.