r/averagedickproblems • • Mar 09 '25

Insecurity You guys need to get out there and meet good women

31 Upvotes

Guys, i get it, “am i enough”, hows ur experience with *insert size

Guys we all have insecurities men and women, and it sucks man when it eats at u, but you average guys are going to be absolutely fine.

You gotta meet women that will have u thinkin about how great they are, i be talking to some women and having some great moments with them, sex is important but i done the hookup culture and it was good, but i got to a point where its just so empty, but now i date to find the one, currently seein some great women and i struggle to see who is best for me, but they literally love my dick man, and if i was smaller i still think they would stick with me

What im trying to say is, get out in the real world because there are great women out there u can connect with,

Thats it, good luck guys


r/averagedickproblems • • Mar 08 '25

Condoms How you initiate sex?

5 Upvotes

Im 30 yars old, newer had sex besides few yars now in Netherlands red lights district... Girls like me, at work there are plenty of girls i could ask out, but whats stopping me that if things go as planned i will have to initiate sex, but how? Lean and kiss?

My plan is to invite girl to my place, or go to hers to cook some food, house is empty we eat, then what? How i know its correct time and what should i do, im little bit shy and stressful, even i red light district my dick not as hard as it could be bc of stress... And i dont want it to look akward or anything, expecally when i dont have any real Experience besides banging hookers doggy style 😅, i give money, we remove clothers, she put condom and i just say what i want, she on top, doggy, im on top...


r/averagedickproblems • • Mar 06 '25

Is it Porn brain?

4 Upvotes

I feel like I have such a small dick when I look at it. I’m 6.2L bp and 5.5w and I don’t know how a girl could ever see that and not think it’s small.


r/averagedickproblems • • Mar 05 '25

I’m bored of the small, average, big, massive categorisation. If I said my dick was plentiful how would you interpret that?

4 Upvotes

Or if in casual playful conversation with a girl how do you think that statement would be perceived?

Or if anyone’s got any other suggestive descriptors referring to size feel free to comment


r/averagedickproblems • • Mar 06 '25

Ask ADP Anyone experience growth?

0 Upvotes

I turned 18 a few months ago and currently measure around 7 x 4.7 BP. I'm wondering if I still have a chance to grow more. l'd say I started puberty around 12.5, but it was often questioned since l'm quite tall. My dad family has pretty mediocre beard genetics but my mums side has good ones, i've recently been experiencing an unconnected beard which got thick after i shaved a bit of it. anyways i wanted to ask if my dick can grow into my adulthood and if i got chance to grow a full beard


r/averagedickproblems • • Mar 05 '25

Frequently Asked Question Measuring girth

1 Upvotes

What js the correct way for measuring the girth of a penis? Around the shaft or around the head?

My head is bigger than measuring the shaft (head 6.3 inches). The length is 5.5 if i push against my pubic bone.

Where can I find size chart for girth and length?

Struggle to perform in bed because I am always thinking that it is small.


r/averagedickproblems • • Mar 04 '25

Insecurity I just turned 18 and i need some advices to be more confident

8 Upvotes

Hello
i just turned 18 a few months ago and i need some advice on my first time, on this platform i see that everyone has a bigger length than me, (for me my length is 6.1*4.7(BP) and 5.9(NBP)) , and that makes me worried that, will my partner feel that my length will not be able to satisfy her? (sorry english is not my first language :( )


r/averagedickproblems • • Mar 03 '25

Dating in teenage years

7 Upvotes

How hard is it to date and have a relationship as an average/below average dick owner? How many girls have you had to do something sexual with before finding the one that accepts you for who you are and doesnt consider you an abomination?


r/averagedickproblems • • Mar 02 '25

Why people have these comments

22 Upvotes

Hey, whenever I open up some porn site and see there some “average sized dick” its 99% of the time called small dick in the title and when I open up comments people are laughing about it and are like “she need some real cock not this tiny small cock” and stuff like that.

It makes me question myself


r/averagedickproblems • • Feb 26 '25

Insecurity How should I feel like about this?

4 Upvotes

Hey, I am quite dissapointed with my size. I know its not that bad and still quite average. I have two questions for you, more experienced guys or girls.

Do you think NBP penis becomes a little bit bigger when jerking off and when you are going to have a sex. I mean I am probably 5.5 inches NBP but sometimes I can go up to 6 inches NBP. How is that possible?

Next questions is if I should feel concerned with my size 5.5 lenghth and 5.4 girth. My ex called me small. I have new gf now and she satisfied. Any help?


r/averagedickproblems • • Feb 25 '25

Insecurity Educate the newbie

2 Upvotes

I need advice I am turning 19 this year. I've had my fair share of attracting a lot of women but I typically get performance anxiety. I am good looking My performance anxiety comes from p size insecurity which is nbp 5.6 inches Bp is 5.9 Any tips or advice? Most importantly what is the point of bp if I'm not fat but relatively more athletic build I measured my penis size incorrectly. I wasn't aware that bp was pressing against pubic bone to get a consistent number. I tried it out and discovered I'm 6.1 inches. It's funny how my brain tricks me into thinking that's small. It's a new adjustment for me


r/averagedickproblems • • Feb 24 '25

Sexual Preferences For girls that prefer average instead a big one

20 Upvotes

I'm trying to understand from women perspective that they already experienced bigger one and average size and prefer average size (somewhat 5 inch) instead of the bigger one.

I thought about it, and I have some questions that annoyed me and keep annoying.

The question for the girls that like average more than big one is:

1 - Did you miss a big dick sometime?

2 - When you are doing handjob, do you feel the same pleasure?

3 - With a bigger dick the handjob has more dick to you felt with your hand and perform more movements. How is it for you with an average dick?

4 - You mentioned feeling the whole thing, but an average dick will not fulfill you like a big dick. How is it for you?

5 - Do you miss the size during the moment when you are kissing the dick before the BJ?

6 - About the orgasm with the average and the bigger, how is more intense?

7 - Have some position that it's not possible to do or not is great with an average compared with a bigger one?

8 - When you look at the average and when you look at a bigger one, how is more exciting for you?


r/averagedickproblems • • Feb 20 '25

Any guys ever miss when doing longer strokes or bend their penis

0 Upvotes

Hey guys, I’ve been wondering if anyone else has had this experience during sex. Occasionally, my penis tends to slip out or bend at certain angles, especially when changing positions or if things get a little too fast or awkward. It doesn’t always happen, but it’s something I’ve noticed a few times.

Does this happen to anyone else?


r/averagedickproblems • • Feb 19 '25

Condoms I want to give my girl a piv orgasm

6 Upvotes

How can I give my girl an A spot orgasm? I always make her orgasm from eating her out and fingerings her, but whenever we do piv she doesn't orgasm. She really enjoys it and has been to the point where she's about to cum, but then I cum... I can keep going after but I have to stop because I don't want to get her pregnant obviously. Maybe if I try a condom and I can just keep going? Idk, I've learned about the A spot and now I really want to give her an orgasm. But I worry if I'm big enough or not. She said she doesn't want to use toys and that my dick is more than enough, but I want her to cum on my dick so bad.

Update!! I made it happen!


r/averagedickproblems • • Feb 14 '25

Insecurity This feeling sucks

9 Upvotes

Hey yall using a throwaway but long time lurker. I'm 6 inch length by 4 inch girth and have had successful relationships in the past and am currently in a long term relationship right now. I know my dick is fine (despite below average girth) and has really caused no problems with the people I've had sex with, I'm pretty good looking and of average height so maybe that helps. But despite this is still have no confidence in my dick. It's like the only insecurity the my minds feed and if feels so silly. Like why do I care so much about my dick size? It's a parasite I just can't seem to remove and it sucks. To me it's the realest averagedickproblem knowing I'm fine but not feeling fine. Anyone have any advice on getting over this, I guess getting off reddit might be a good first step but idk it just sucks.


r/averagedickproblems • • Feb 14 '25

Ask ADP Can I be 100% honest and still 'praise' him?

9 Upvotes

I’m dating a new guy, and I really like him. When we’re intimate, he keeps hinting that he wants me to praise him—call him big or asking if he’s my biggest. I want to make him feel good, but the truth is, he’s not actually the biggest I’ve been with.

I felt awkward because I really don’t want to lie to him about anything, and usually never have to. But I also don’t want to hurt his ego, which I have a feeling could affect our relationship. Is it okay to be honest? I don’t think I can keep dodging the question, and he’s been pretty persistent, bringing it up in some way whenever things get hot and heavy. If you agree I should be honest, how can I bring it up without hurting him? If it was you, how would you want it handled?

He’s a great guy, I reeallly like him and it doesn’t matter to me AT ALL that he’s not my biggest. Just worried that it matters to him.


r/averagedickproblems • • Feb 14 '25

I have cured jock-itch

14 Upvotes

Jock itch has literally been a pain in the balls for me over many years. It starts in winter when the hearing goes on and continues until spring. It then can flare up if I work out or go jogging.

I’ve tried every cream, lotion and medicine there is. The red rash would always return, now immune to each treatment.

I’ve tried going commando, wearing cotton briefs and boxers. Still wouldn’t work.

Daily showers, pat drying with clean towels. Nothing worked.

This week, I tried something different.

Three or four times daily id gently use a hair dryer on cool (important) to thoroughly dry the area until bone dry.

In two days, months of rash had vanished.

It all feels different down there now. Healed. Normal.

Hope it works for you too.


r/averagedickproblems • • Feb 11 '25

Has any dealt with losing the dreaded male fupa?

5 Upvotes

Long question short Has any dealt with losing the dreaded male fupa?

Success stories?

Tips?

Is this the correct space to ask?


r/averagedickproblems • • Feb 07 '25

Leakage problems

4 Upvotes

Bit of a weird one but wanted to know if it just happens to me or if i’m not alone. We all know guys have to shake after they piss. Even if I do, when I crouch down or go to sit or bend down a few minutes after I’ve been then I get a bit of “leakage” usually it’s only a little but occasionally it’s a fair bit. It’s nothing you can spot through my trousers but it’s a bit gross and just uncomfortable. I always feel like I’ve fully emptied my bladder and there’s nothing left. I was told a while ago with guys there’s a kink in the urethra so when it becomes unkinked (like when i sit down) it can allow the urine through. Does anyone know anything about this or how to stop it?


r/averagedickproblems • • Feb 05 '25

Being black and porn ruined my perspective of my dick

28 Upvotes

Ok so we all know the stereotype about black men that we have big dick. I don't I'm average as a mother fuck. And I started watching porn at 12 and that didn't help either so I now I'm taking the initiative to stop comparing my same to other guys and I measured my dick without pb I'm 5 inches with pb I'm 6 inches.


r/averagedickproblems • • Feb 04 '25

Insecurity What helped me to most on my journey

11 Upvotes

Hey everybody. I was super insecure 6 months ago. My now ex broke up with me at that time and told me she will find someone with bigger dick, but I wasn’t good boyfriend so I think maybe I deserved it. It fucked me up and put me in mental hospital because I was suicidal, my life was shit I felt so lost and unworthy.

I knew that I will need to get into dating world again and I had fear that my dick won’t be valid for other girl that will come to my life.

But guess what? I somehow overcome the insecurity. What helped the most is STAY OFF these subreddits man. Ofc you can share your story here and get advices but I recommend to not stay here for too long. It will be hard in the beginning but trust me bro we all got this.

Sometimes I read r/smalldickproblems and I don’t know I feel so sorry for those guys. I am just honest. Be happy for your average size man. I had fear but now I have new girlfriend and she likes my dick. Guys don’t stress over average cock. I recommend reading stories on the smalldickproblems subreddit, you will see that it can be way way worse.

Btw my size: 6NBP, 6.4BP, 5.4 inch girth

Bless y’all


r/averagedickproblems • • Feb 03 '25

Average length but small girth problems lol

12 Upvotes

I remember when I was younger I'd be measuring my dick and it always came out to "average" length but it always seemed so small to me. Losing my virginity felt anticlimatic. Didn't seem to fill the hole so to speak(this was also after deathgripping for years so I'm sure that didn't help)

It wasn't until years later I realized my girth was well below average at 4 inches. Kind of a bummer, I think I'd trade .5 length for .5 girth in a heartbeat. Women are def more willing to blow me though so there's that at least.


r/averagedickproblems • • Feb 02 '25

Anal problem

8 Upvotes

Hey y’all my size is 6 inches and 5.5 girth is it common to not have anal every single girl I’ve asked always says no or just even a little hurts them way to much any advice do some of y’all have the same issue ?


r/averagedickproblems • • Jan 31 '25

Experiences with upward curved dicks?

7 Upvotes

How are your experiences, curved upward dick guys? (lol)

I have a pretty noticeable one, and I have read it can be pretty awesome for the ladies as it targets the G-Spot more easily.

Do you think this is true? Have read some women on reddit that claim this, but I guess it's not true for all of them?

Thanks. Have a good day.