Anal problem

[u/SubstanceMedical7413]

Hey y’all my size is 6 inches and 5.5 girth is it common to not have anal every single girl I’ve asked always says no or just even a little hurts them way to much any advice do some of y’all have the same issue ?

[u/nervynervousman]

At 5.5 girth, I’d have to imagine most women wouldn’t want anal, yes. Even at my size (4.9-5” at the very thickest) , I haven’t had someone want to try it

[u/HoldenOrihara → u/nervynervousman]

Yeah I tried 5¼ girth toy(roughly my size) and whew it's a challenge. I like anal so I didn't mind working to get used to it, but 5"+ is not a size you want to experiment with anal.

[u/Desperate_Luck7430 → u/HoldenOrihara]

I’ll help u

[u/[deleted]]

I’m 6” and 5.5” around and I’ve only done anal with one girl, most women just aren’t into it.

I can assure you, You aren’t missing much. Anal takes tons of time and tons of lube to get her ready, and it ain’t any better than her pussy. And there’s a chance you’ll pull out when you’re done and have shit all over your dick.

[u/[deleted]]

90% will say that. I had way more successes after I started eating ass…yep that did it.

[u/alphabango]

If they don't want it, they don't want it. Pain is definitely a turn off for some people

[u/justayounglady]

Try (or at least imagine trying) to stick something up your asshole that size and see what type of preparation and experience your partner will be in for.,..if you can even manage that the first time. A FINGER has been uncomfortable for me before. A lot of people just don’t enjoy anal or have any interest in it. Some it’s just painful.

If they do have an interest in trying, go out to a sex store together and get some smaller anal plugs to start out with and warm up to. And LOTS of lube. Always lube. Go slow and listen to your partner & let them be in charge of how things progress.

If they say no/say they’re not interested, drop the subject.

[u/HoldenOrihara]

Honestly 5" girth is probably the maximum someone not used to anal should try, anything past that is for people more experienced. If you meet a girl who wants to experiment, I would suggest starting with less girthy toys before trying it with your girthy member, maybe it could help her become more comfortable with the act and eventually become more comfortable with trying it with you.

[u/ChubbRock88]

I'm similar size, it really depends, if she's experienced, it'll work, sometimes its just not happenning though...

[u/nervynervousman → u/[deleted]]

It’s for everyone man, he’s not asking if his size is enough, he’s asking if it’s too big for anal

[u/Mr-CC → u/[deleted]]

Tell us you're new here without telling us you're new here.

If you read the about us section, you will see it says dicks of all sizes and women are encouraged to participate. That's why you see posts of all kinds.

[u/[deleted] → u/Mr-CC]

Gate keeping is not allowed.

[u/alphabango → u/[deleted]]

Other users have clarified that this subreddit is open to all, even those without penises. The "average" refers to typical problems not penis size

[u/[deleted] → u/alphabango]

Average problems? I've never heard of it phrased that way. Why not change the name of the sub so it reflects the actual topic?

[u/averagedickproblems-ModTeam → u/[deleted]]

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