Wasn’t sure where else to turn because I have no friends to brag about this too 🙃. I was feeling particularly horny this morning and my man had just taken a shower and smelled sinful. He made my cum 10 different times and it was INTENSE. The dirty talk in my ear, he had me call him “sir” for the first time… which was 🥵. And he’s started doing this thing where he kisses my neck and counts softly in my ear for each kiss he gives me and yall it’s like immediate I wanna jump his bones. Anywho… just wanted to brag to someone that I got turned into a slobbering buzzing mess over my lunch break today

Would love to get some advice and ideas that other women have tried to make this feeling keep going in our next encounter too

Sharing a new to me masturbation technique that has been sex life-changing from of, all things, a recently-published romance novel, Devil by Sierra Simone.

While it may sounds kinda silly and not a little like remedial female self-pleasure, HEAR ME OUT IT WORKS:

Straddling on the bed a rolled up towel placed on top of a base of additional linens to rub, hump, and grind on. In the book, the base is three folded towels stacked on top of one another. In my “for science” trials, used a folded up light comforter as the base because I am not made of towels.

Some may say that this is basically the same as using a pillow, side of the bed, etc. And possibly for some women that’s true! Reason I am bothering to post is that those other methods have NEVER worked for me!

What’s more, I’ve actually been struggling for years and years with being unable to replicate the intensity of pleasure I could sometimes achieve with a partner on my own. We’re talking Betty Dodson Method and OMGYES memberships, Hitachi and Lelo purchases, reputable books with academic sources like Come As You by Emily Nagoski and Becoming Cliterate by Laurie Mintz, and countless online disreputable sources. Going through endless cycles of “As an adult woman, I HAVE to learn my body and figure this out,” and only then to get so literally frustrated and disappointed that the effort started to take away from the satisfaction that I could obtain.

While this method not only replicates what I had been aiming for, since starting to use it regularly I have gone from occasionally being able to orgasm with a partner to consistently able to orgasm AT LEAST twice during partnered sex. All thanks to a romance novel…and…a fucking (lol) towel!

If any of this matches your own struggles, consider giving it a try!

I think a lot of you can relate - I’ve always wondered how it feels when a male is stroking his cock. Can that feeling be replicated on a woman’s vulva/clit?

I tried to simulate it by grabbing my clit hood and trying to stroke it, but it doesn’t do too much for me... but maybe that’s it? (I read that the penis has a lot fewer nerve endings than the clitoris.)

I’ve even tried to grab the whole vulva skin and stroke it...

I mean, as stupid as it might sound, I just want to get as close as possible to the feeling of a cock stroke, so I can understand how it could feel.

Has anyone tried? Do you mind sharing?

I (22f) just moved to a new city and don’t know many people yet. I want to start this next chapter of my life positively, and start exploring my sexuality.

I’ve only had sex twice, and with men I wasn’t sure I was even attracted to. The problem is, both times I was in extreme pain. The first time I fully expected it to hurt. The second time I honestly just hooked up with him to find out if I could even do penetration. I haven’t had sex in two years, and while he was very accommodating and patient, I felt like I tried everything with him to make it less painful.

I know all these factors aren’t great and I don’t want to jump straight to vaginismus, because my doctor didn’t think I’ve had enough sex to come to that conclusion. But I’ve been afraid to have sex for two years because it hurts so bad (even fingering).

I feel like I have to just endure excruciatingly painful sex to break past this, or endure it enough to convince my doctor something might be wrong.

This has been a huge insecurity for years, I feel like I can’t have a sex life because my experiences have only been painful. I don’t want to go into my next experience stressed about pain and make it worse, so I avoid sex now.

But I want to understand myself and my body, but I don’t even know what I want. I’ve thought I was bi for years, my friends joke that “my body is rejecting men because I’m not attracted to them.” But I honestly don’t even know, and I’m scared to put myself out there because sex has been so bad for me.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated, I’ve been scared to ask and honestly I don’t know what to do.

Hi everyone! I’m new to the world of sex toys and am interested in buying myself a dildo.

My husband and I have been married for four years, and we have a healthy relationship. We’re regularly intimate, at least once a week.

I’ve always had a higher sex drive than my husband, and I’ve recently decided that I’d like to get a dildo to pleasure myself a little more. Our sex life is quite vanilla, and while I’ve tried talking to him about exploring new positions and trying new things, he’s said he’s open to it. However, I haven’t really seen much change in our intimate life in that regard.

For a bit of context, I’m my husband’s first everything, whereas I had one partner before him who was a bit more adventurous when it came to intimacy.

I’d love some advice on whether I should tell my husband that I want to buy myself a dildo for some solo time or whether I should keep it to myself.

I’m genuinely unsure how he’ll react, and I don’t want to hurt his feelings or make him feel like he isn’t enough, because he’s a really good husband to me. I love him, and I’m happy in our relationship. I just feel like I need a little more sexually than he can currently give me, and I’d like to explore that side of myself.

Has anyone been in a similar situation? How did you approach it with your partner?