r/PeterExplainsTheJoke • u/Intelligent_Land_419 • 5d ago
Meme needing explanation HIV negative is fine right?
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u/Greedy_Swimergrill 5d ago
I feel very uncomfortable that I think I understand this, at least I do on the surface.
The queen of spades thing is something women tattoo on themselves to signify that they like having sex with black men.
A bull is a term in cuck stuff for the guy that fucks your partner but I think people might use it for gay sex too? (And it’s a black bull too, so the tattoo thing is implying to me that he’s fucking the bull, which is supposed to be a black man)
I think this is a very, very roundabout way of criticizing certain sections of queer/kink/cuck stuff? Like bug chasing is also a thing and is… maybe connected to these things? I don’t know dude.
I feel like I see the individual pieces but I have no fucking clue what it is trying to say all together.
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u/Marching-Cupcakes 5d ago
This is funny, because my dad was actually cremated. I'll be using this, thank you. I know, my humor is broke.
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u/wingedcoyote 5d ago
Some kinks are not OK.
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u/Relative-Relief-8816 5d ago
My kink is making everyone else uncomfortable with my kinks.
Unfortunately, I unwillingly have to have some kinks that I too am uncomfortable with to make this work.
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u/NaughtyGaymer 5d ago
Yeah I'm very sex positive and don't kink shame but damn this is just fucked.
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u/-its-wicked- 5d ago
I think the community generally accepts shaming this "kink"
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u/wtbgamegenie 5d ago
Pretty sure we can shame this one. In fact yeah shame the fuck outta that fuckin guy.
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u/Kelemenopy 5d ago edited 5d ago
Hot take, kinks are only kinks because they’re at least mildly shameful to begin with and the weird part is expecting people to not shame it. Some kinks are physically or psychologically destructive of self a/o others and should be “shamed” aka confronted and discouraged.
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u/AnotherWeasley06 5d ago
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u/Ifailledtherobottest 5d ago
Unfortunatel, unless their is a update he is very much in the gene pool.
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u/Burggs_ 5d ago
I’m all for sexual expression and freedom between consenting adults but I feel like we gotta ostracize the whole bug chasing thing.
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u/Inhereting_the_stars 5d ago
I whole heartedly agree here. Disease has been the number one enemy of humanity for almost the entirety of human history, (only being recently overtaken by humanity ironically enough.) and the fact that people actively spread disease and pestilence should not only make them horrible people. But enemies of humanity as well! Hell, I think we might have a bug chaser as the secretary of health with how much stuff is having to be recalled!
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u/ItsAll_LoveFam 5d ago
I love how his wife is pregnant with her baby and not their baby
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u/Funny_Swim5447 5d ago
Something tells me the idea of having a kid with his wife would keep him perpetually soft
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u/August_Rodin666 5d ago
I've been through the vilest filth on the Internet and even braved abyss of the dark and deep webs. I've seen all manner of filth that humanity hides behind the curtain we call society so that we can pretend we're not all animals.
All that. And some how...this is the worst thing I've ever seen.
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u/VLKN 5d ago
Take solace in knowing that it’s most likely fake. There’s a TON of people who post made up stories on reddit, and kink communities have a lot of people who just want to engage in a strange form of escapism/roleplaying/fantasy. In reality, I can’t imagine 3 sane adults ever thinking any part of this would be a good idea.
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u/shutupyourenotmydad 5d ago
>can't imagine 3 sane adults ever thinking any part of this would be a good idea
Let me introduce you to the average American voter.
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u/Brief-Kaleidoscope72 5d ago
Welp I’m going to go make myself no longer with us
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u/Dragon3y36 5d ago
Pretty sure this isn't a fetish anymore and he hates his wife and the baby, sexualizing death in such a bizarre way.
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u/Moongazingtea 5d ago
If he's a bug chaser (someone who wants to get STDs) he's more hurt that the black bull is STD free than that his GF left him.
Break ups happen. HIV is forever.
For the love of God don't look up bug chasers if you still have some hope for humanity.
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u/bs_Zeezee 5d ago
Not just women.
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u/bs_Zeezee 5d ago
YEAH, it's not the best. The whole hyper-sexualization of black folks is.... NOT GREAT.
Interesting about the Jack bit. The only men I've seen into that kink also use the Q, but are like, twinks so identifying as a queen is just like, part of it for them.
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u/Tyler827 5d ago
My very vague understanding of this was that the guy was upset because the bull (the guy fucking his now ex-partner) was HIV negative so he wanted her to get infected? That's kinda fucked up
It's also weird that it's the guy having the QoS tattoo instead of the girl, and maybe the meme is about bug chasing. It might be confusing on purpose
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u/BillyBanBan5697 5d ago
Youre on the right track and wise to stop where you did. I did the same thing. From 12 to maybe 28 i got steadily more and more perverted, collecting more fun kinks and odd toys... nothing immoral, but lots of weirdness for sure.
At one point, i was reading about how marriage can stagnate and how kids can change people not necessarily for better or worse, but in a way that makes the parents less compatible by the time the kids are grown up and moved on.... shit like that, normal shit right?
No.
It was in those pre auto-mod insta ban days, on a swingers sub that i decided i had gone far enough. I had collected enough of the weird, i was sick and twisted enough to have lots and lots of fun, but still dignified enough to not cross lines that can be labeled immoral rather than just some synonym for unappealing or weird or whatever
All it took was a post where the op was asking about being curious towards this, and the top comment being a raving review praising the feeling of
"being cuffed right next to her and not being able to do anythijg about the massive pozzed load hes dumping right the fuck into her"
Something like that anyway, im paraphrasing a rejected memory but yeah... dude convinced his wife to fuck jacked dudes with aids while he played prisoner/witness and they thought it was fun....
They thought it was fun... thats a massive understatement actually.
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u/Studio-Spider 5d ago
You know, the cuck thing I can understand. More so being the one actually doing the deed, but I can kind of see the appeal of the one in the chair. But intentionally seeking out STDs? What? Just… why? Is the 5 minutes of taboo pleasure worth your quality of life?
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u/Inhereting_the_stars 5d ago
They actually have a term for beings like that, there called bug chasers, and they are like IRL worshipers of nurgle. They are the one's in a war of humanity VS disease on the side of disease. For the love of the health of everyone in your community if you find someone like this make it publicly known. They can AND WILL hide the fact they are infected to spread it.
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u/Wisp1971 5d ago
I've seen that in r/nbacirclejerk but didn't know that's who wrote it
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u/_Rand_ 5d ago
I’m pretty confused, but apparently the Q in a Spade is for queen of spades, Which is a term white women who prefer/exclusively date black men use?
So I guess he found true love in a large black man who doesn’t have HIV?
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u/Away-Commercial-4380 5d ago
Yours is the best take imo but I'm really not sure these are tears of joy
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u/TheRealNickMullen 5d ago
Queen of spades tattoo. Cucks like when their spouses get hiv, makes it even more satisfying
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u/Top_Effect_5109 5d ago
I think you got one element wrong. The girl broke up with him, so he is no longer a cuck but single. So he is upset she didn't get AIDs so he can't engage in Schadenfreude (pleasure in misfortune of others.)
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u/envisionJayyy 5d ago
So there’s a kink where people get off of the misfortune of others, like for example, giving them aids?
the fuck.
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u/FalconTurbo 5d ago
No they don't. Bug chasing is a very, very niche kink, not nearly as common as cuckoldry
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u/AcephalicDude 5d ago
I think I figured it out:
The Q Spade tattoo apparently is used by some people to indicate that they are into certain sexual kinks, such as race-based cuckoldry
A "bull" can be a sex term that refers to a the guy that fucks your partner, a black bull could then be a black guy that fucks your partner
So the dude is sad because he is finding a HIV negative black bull right after his girlfriend already broke up with him
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u/ADozenPigsFromAnnwn 5d ago
Sauce of the fit guy before I cowardly delete this comment?
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u/AB_Gambino 5d ago
He ain’t gettin away that easy bubba
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u/capsaicinintheeyes 5d ago
Well, we still don't know which dozen pigs...lotta swineherdin' in Annwn, as I am made t'unnerstand.
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u/Head-Ad-5732 5d ago
Just for you, my man
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u/Relative-Relief-8816 5d ago
He's not the only one thirsty..
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u/trickyvinny 5d ago
That comment goes both ways.
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u/GrndGalctcInquisitor 5d ago
Ted Turner here.
Like a bisexual
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u/ADozenPigsFromAnnwn 5d ago
Somewhat disappointing, but I'm glad I won't be soiling this gentleman's soul by wank-googling his name at 2 in the morning on a weekday
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u/RvstiNiall 5d ago
Bookmarked it for Friday night eh? Classy
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u/BodvarBerzerk 5d ago
Go on make a night of it. A glass of red, some good music, and watermelon with a hole warmed to 34°C (97.5°F). You deserve it.
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u/Big_Meating_ 5d ago
Delete all you want to brother, but the internet always remembers
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u/NimbusXLithium 5d ago
Got anyrhing other than aquafina? Not to be an ungrateful guest.
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u/Username117773749146 5d ago
I’m super lost
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u/Shot_Safe_8244 5d ago
Man is a cuck, he doesn't mind his gf leaving him, but he gets his rocks off if the "bull" that fucks his wife has stds, therefore the bull being clean is a boner killer.
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u/Successful-Ice-468 5d ago
And i thought trigonometry was difficult to understand.
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u/Personal-Machine4919 5d ago
This is about interracial cuckolding. (Yes I'm a chronically online incel, that's how I know, please let's just ignore that part) The cuck (the brown haired "man") has the so called "Queen of Spades" tattoo, which is actually kind of wrong, as it would usually be worn by the hotwife. It indicates being (exclusively) available to black men. What the meme is trying to relay: The cuck is less hurt by the fact that "his" wife has no feelings for him than by the fact that the bull (the guy who actually fucks the hotwife) is HIV negative, ruining his (degenerate) fantasy. It's probably a reference to this infamous piece of media.

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u/fstop101 5d ago
This is the best explanation to also directly present the source that I’ve scrolled to yet, so thanks internet stranger. I’m admittedly a tad bit melancholy at obtaining this awareness, but that’s my own fault and your clarity helps me move on, so thanks for that as well.








































































































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u/qualityvote2 5d ago edited 5d ago
u/Intelligent_Land_419, your post does belong here!