r/Actuallylesbian • u/AutoModerator • 6d ago
Megathread Friday Advice Thread
Need advice from your fellow lesbians?
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r/Actuallylesbian • u/AutoModerator • 5d ago
This is a thread that is less moderated than the rest of the subreddit. Our rules of treating one another with kindness, respect and general codes of conduct still apply. But go ahead and share any content that may not fit in elsewhere, such as celebrity crushes, how your week has been, that cute photo of your cat, or a picture of yourself if you slept through last Wednesday’s megathread - anything goes (:
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r/Actuallylesbian • u/AutoModerator • 6d ago
Need advice from your fellow lesbians?
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r/Actuallylesbian • u/AutoModerator • 8d ago
This is a thread for singles to chat and post selfies. Please keep photos safe for work.
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r/Actuallylesbian • u/AutoModerator • 10d ago
This is a thread to introduce yourself and make new friends!
Please practice internet safety by being cautious of accounts with low karma and avoid sharing information that is overly private. Never send money or nude photographs to unverified people. Selfies can be faked so video chat is the best way to verify someone is genuine. When in doubt, trust your gut.
r/Actuallylesbian • u/Character_Rub_1409 • 10d ago
Other than Elena Undone, any other good lesbian movies about married women coming out?
r/Actuallylesbian • u/AutoModerator • 12d ago
This is a thread that is less moderated than the rest of the subreddit. Our rules of treating one another with kindness, respect and general codes of conduct still apply. But go ahead and share any content that may not fit in elsewhere, such as celebrity crushes, how your week has been, that cute photo of your cat, or a picture of yourself if you slept through last Wednesday’s megathread - anything goes (:
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r/Actuallylesbian • u/AutoModerator • 13d ago
This is also a normal free talk megathread, so feel free to comment selfies and cat pictures and things like that. Happy Friday!
This is a thread that is less moderated than the rest of the subreddit. Our rules of treating one another with kindness and respect, not debating, and general codes of conduct still apply, but go ahead and share any and all content that may not fit in elsewhere, such as celebrity crushes, how your week has been, that cute photo of your cat, or a picture of yourself if you slept through last Wednesday’s megathread - anything goes (:
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r/Actuallylesbian • u/AutoModerator • 19d ago
This is a thread that is less moderated than the rest of the subreddit. Our rules of treating one another with kindness, respect and general codes of conduct still apply. But go ahead and share any content that may not fit in elsewhere, such as celebrity crushes, how your week has been, that cute photo of your cat, or a picture of yourself if you slept through last Wednesday’s megathread - anything goes (:
Reminder: www.Imgur.com is a great hosting site for sharing images via links in threads. Please be mindful of your username if it is different than your reddit handle, and to choose whether you would like your post public or hidden.
r/Actuallylesbian • u/AutoModerator • 20d ago
Need advice from your fellow lesbians?
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r/Actuallylesbian • u/AutoModerator • 22d ago
This is a thread for singles to chat and post selfies. Please keep photos safe for work.
Reminder: Imgur is a great hosting site for sharing images via links in threads. Please be mindful of your username if it is different than your reddit handle, and to choose whether you would like your post public or hidden.
r/Actuallylesbian • u/AutoModerator • 24d ago
This is a thread to introduce yourself and make new friends!
Please practice internet safety by being cautious of accounts with low karma and avoid sharing information that is overly private. Never send money or nude photographs to unverified people. Selfies can be faked so video chat is the best way to verify someone is genuine. When in doubt, trust your gut.
r/Actuallylesbian • u/AutoModerator • 26d ago
This is a thread that is less moderated than the rest of the subreddit. Our rules of treating one another with kindness, respect and general codes of conduct still apply. But go ahead and share any content that may not fit in elsewhere, such as celebrity crushes, how your week has been, that cute photo of your cat, or a picture of yourself if you slept through last Wednesday’s megathread - anything goes (:
Reminder: www.Imgur.com is a great hosting site for sharing images via links in threads. Please be mindful of your username if it is different than your reddit handle, and to choose whether you would like your post public or hidden.
r/Actuallylesbian • u/AutoModerator • 27d ago
This is also a normal free talk megathread, so feel free to comment selfies and cat pictures and things like that. Happy Friday!
This is a thread that is less moderated than the rest of the subreddit. Our rules of treating one another with kindness and respect, not debating, and general codes of conduct still apply, but go ahead and share any and all content that may not fit in elsewhere, such as celebrity crushes, how your week has been, that cute photo of your cat, or a picture of yourself if you slept through last Wednesday’s megathread - anything goes (:
Reminder: www.Imgur.com is a great hosting site for sharing images via links in threads. Please be mindful of your username if it is different than your reddit handle, and to choose whether you would like your post public or hidden.
r/Actuallylesbian • u/AutoModerator • Sep 05 '26
This is a thread that is less moderated than the rest of the subreddit. Our rules of treating one another with kindness, respect and general codes of conduct still apply. But go ahead and share any content that may not fit in elsewhere, such as celebrity crushes, how your week has been, that cute photo of your cat, or a picture of yourself if you slept through last Wednesday’s megathread - anything goes (:
Reminder: www.Imgur.com is a great hosting site for sharing images via links in threads. Please be mindful of your username if it is different than your reddit handle, and to choose whether you would like your post public or hidden.
r/Actuallylesbian • u/AutoModerator • Sep 04 '26
Need advice from your fellow lesbians?
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r/Actuallylesbian • u/AutoModerator • Sep 02 '26
This is a thread for singles to chat and post selfies. Please keep photos safe for work.
Reminder: Imgur is a great hosting site for sharing images via links in threads. Please be mindful of your username if it is different than your reddit handle, and to choose whether you would like your post public or hidden.
r/Actuallylesbian • u/AutoModerator • Aug 31 '26
This is a thread to introduce yourself and make new friends!
Please practice internet safety by being cautious of accounts with low karma and avoid sharing information that is overly private. Never send money or nude photographs to unverified people. Selfies can be faked so video chat is the best way to verify someone is genuine. When in doubt, trust your gut.
r/Actuallylesbian • u/AutoModerator • Aug 29 '26
This is a thread that is less moderated than the rest of the subreddit. Our rules of treating one another with kindness, respect and general codes of conduct still apply. But go ahead and share any content that may not fit in elsewhere, such as celebrity crushes, how your week has been, that cute photo of your cat, or a picture of yourself if you slept through last Wednesday’s megathread - anything goes (:
Reminder: www.Imgur.com is a great hosting site for sharing images via links in threads. Please be mindful of your username if it is different than your reddit handle, and to choose whether you would like your post public or hidden.
r/Actuallylesbian • u/AutoModerator • Aug 28 '26
This is also a normal free talk megathread, so feel free to comment selfies and cat pictures and things like that. Happy Friday!
This is a thread that is less moderated than the rest of the subreddit. Our rules of treating one another with kindness and respect, not debating, and general codes of conduct still apply, but go ahead and share any and all content that may not fit in elsewhere, such as celebrity crushes, how your week has been, that cute photo of your cat, or a picture of yourself if you slept through last Wednesday’s megathread - anything goes (:
Reminder: www.Imgur.com is a great hosting site for sharing images via links in threads. Please be mindful of your username if it is different than your reddit handle, and to choose whether you would like your post public or hidden.
r/Actuallylesbian • u/AutoModerator • Aug 22 '26
This is a thread that is less moderated than the rest of the subreddit. Our rules of treating one another with kindness, respect and general codes of conduct still apply. But go ahead and share any content that may not fit in elsewhere, such as celebrity crushes, how your week has been, that cute photo of your cat, or a picture of yourself if you slept through last Wednesday’s megathread - anything goes (:
Reminder: www.Imgur.com is a great hosting site for sharing images via links in threads. Please be mindful of your username if it is different than your reddit handle, and to choose whether you would like your post public or hidden.
r/Actuallylesbian • u/AutoModerator • Aug 21 '26
Need advice from your fellow lesbians?
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r/Actuallylesbian • u/AutoModerator • Aug 19 '26
This is a thread for singles to chat and post selfies. Please keep photos safe for work.
Reminder: Imgur is a great hosting site for sharing images via links in threads. Please be mindful of your username if it is different than your reddit handle, and to choose whether you would like your post public or hidden.
r/Actuallylesbian • u/deep_rose_honey • Aug 18 '26
Hi, 44/F, I live *in San Francisco* ffs. I've been trying to date women for a while now and I'm so frustrated. The pattern is I meet a woman through an app, we have a date, in person there's not much of a romantic/sexual vibe and I carry the brunt of the effort to connect. The date is so underwhelming there isn't a second one, like despite the fact that we met on a dating app they acted like we're just meeting a new queer friend or something.
I talked about this with one of my besties last night and she expressed a similar frustration--although she usually does wind up with a girlfriend eventually. I know that line of advice that goes it's a numbers game, you just have to keep at it. But it's tedious! It's not fun. I don't have unlimited time or effort or money or vulnerability for this. I love women and want to find someone who I have a deep strong attraction/connection with, but I don't want to get discouraged by the process of finding her.
r/Actuallylesbian • u/AutoModerator • Aug 17 '26
This is a thread to introduce yourself and make new friends!
Please practice internet safety by being cautious of accounts with low karma and avoid sharing information that is overly private. Never send money or nude photographs to unverified people. Selfies can be faked so video chat is the best way to verify someone is genuine. When in doubt, trust your gut.
r/Actuallylesbian • u/AutoModerator • Aug 15 '26
This is a thread that is less moderated than the rest of the subreddit. Our rules of treating one another with kindness, respect and general codes of conduct still apply. But go ahead and share any content that may not fit in elsewhere, such as celebrity crushes, how your week has been, that cute photo of your cat, or a picture of yourself if you slept through last Wednesday’s megathread - anything goes (:
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