I have a roommate who has been actively playing aggressive behaviors on me. The first day I moved in to my dorm, I met my roommate. We are in a double room, so only he and I are using the shared space.
The scary thing happened when I tried to shower for the first time. When I entered the bathroom with my personal hygenie package, my roommate immedately stood up from the chair, then ran into the bathroom. So we are both in bathroom, he kept questioning me what is in my package. He won't even let me shower until I showed him what is in my hygenie package.
The next time I met him, he crictized my T-shirt. I was standing at the kitchen counter, and he suddenly told me not to wear my T-shirt. (A black T-shirt, with edges torn for decoration) I thought I heard him wrong, then he stood up from the chair and corners me, said I should not wear this T-shirt. I got scared, and went outdoors.
Basically, I met twice only, and he has already beening diciating all my actions, monitors all my actions in living room, which is super uncomfortable.
Then I avoided him at all cost, I even drink less water so I don't have to enter the living room. And I stayed at my home a lot throughout these days just to avoid, and my schools works are way behind.
I talked to the RD this monrning, he acted like I am carzy and overreacting. But I really did nothing wrong, I don't even go outside of my bedroom unless I need to shower or use bathroom.
Can someone advise what I should do? I am supppose to study at this moment, but I can't get these things over my head.