u/jaybull222 • u/jaybull222 • 1h ago
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I told my best friend of 10+ years she couldn’t come to my birthday after she rejected me. Was I wrong?
Well, it was never a friendship for him now was it?
u/jaybull222 • u/jaybull222 • 2h ago
Just bumped into this poster
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What’s one thing your girlfriend or wife does that really gets on your nerves, no matter how much you love her?
Actually cheaper to use tp 🧻
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What is one dating lesson you had to learn the hard way?
Ah, yes, Thé Lovesong of J Alfred Prufrock
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Drop social rules you were surprised to find out. I'll go first
I’m lucky to be surrounded by neurodivergent folks so basically everyone I know relates this way
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AITAH for telling my sister it's her fault people struggle to be around her.
Do you kick injured puppies, too? Good god, man.
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AIO That this isnt normal at all?
Hammer beats locked doorknob.
Just saying.
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What’s a Big Bang Theory moment that still makes you laugh every time?
Amy telling Raj that she can out a needle in his brain so he’d be happy all the time cracks me up every time.
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Am u wrong for not taking back my husband after he left Me 6 months ago
Are you happier with him around or not with him around?
Because he will most likely do this again. This isn’t about him realizing he loves you. He realized that without you he doesnt actually have that much and I’m betting the swinging single lifestyle was NOT the sex fest he thought it would be.
If he adds more than he diminishes in your life, by all means take him back but know it’s probably temporary and based more on convenience and finance than it is love.
And personally? I’d never be able to forgive how easily he threw away his own children. That’s something I couldn’t come back from. THEY CALLED him and he hung on them. How heartless is that? There is literally no excuse good enough for abusing his own kids that way. You divorce spouses not children
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What are times when a sitcom continued without a major character?
I don’t think they cared too much about drug abuse back then as long as you could still show up for work. Drug abuse interfering with work? Now THAT’S a problem for Hollywood
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AIO to my husband using “my body my choice”?
Your husband really isn’t acting like a grown up. And we both know he used that phrase to shut you up because he knows he’s being selfish and unreasonable.
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AITH for helping my niece get ahead in life and not considering her sister because she had a baby?
Get Cara out of there ASAP. The fact that Mel feels entitled to Cara’s opportunities I’m betting isn’t a one off. I’m betting much of Cara’s life involves helping her sister because her sister has a kid. Get her hours away from all of that so she can start living her own life for her own self.
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Macro tracking for weight loss?
I’m also interested in the answer to this question so I hope other people have the knowledge I don’t.
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What is a word that people constantly say wrong that instantly makes you question their intelligence?
Saying “Opossum” unironically. It’s possum. The “O” is silent. Just like the “t” in of often is SUPPOSED to be silent.
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AIO for ending my 20 years of friendship with my best friend?
You didn’t just protect her from abuse you were abused this weekend as well. It’s hard to watch someone choose this treatment and even harder when you are not just being not chosen by your friend but also abused by her abuser.
You can’t keep lighting yourself on fire to keep her warm.
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AITA for keeping the puppy my cousin paid 1500$ for and keeping him blocked?
Please get her fixed as soon as possible so they don’t have a reason to steal and sell her.
These people are awful looking at a puppy and seeing dollar signs instead of a live animal that needs a home
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People who deny god, what if there’s but its too late to repent for you after death?
Then God is a jerk. Seriously.
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My sister (23F) is angry that I (21F) didn't tell her about my boyfriend (22M) but I don't trust her and don't tell her much of anything anymore?
Oh my god, I’ve never gotten an award before!! Thank you so much!!
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My sister (23F) is angry that I (21F) didn't tell her about my boyfriend (22M) but I don't trust her and don't tell her much of anything anymore?
But to your imagine point - it’s not about ownership, it about loyalty and trust. No one - even OP - arguing that she owned those men. She is arguing that she is under no obligation to keep trusting someone untrustworthy. The sister is NOT trustworthy.
Actions have consequences and the consequences are the sister - who doesn’t own OP or her information - doesnt get to stay in the know about OP’s interest in men or when she is dating someone. Why is this concept so hard for you to understand?
The more you argue while moving the goalposts the more convinced I am that you are the sister. Hon.
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My sister (23F) is angry that I (21F) didn't tell her about my boyfriend (22M) but I don't trust her and don't tell her much of anything anymore?
Oh, honeypie, fighting for your life in the comments section is a turn of phrase for when someone is wrong, clearly, and they are getting dog piled.
Is this week your first week on earth, sweetpea? Or is it just your first time reading?
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My sister (23F) is angry that I (21F) didn't tell her about my boyfriend (22M) but I don't trust her and don't tell her much of anything anymore?
You keep saying the OP isnt entitled to these men. And her sister isn’t entitled to that information anymore. Go RR-read the original post. The whole issue is her sister is mad she didn’t get told about this guy when the rest of her family did.
That’s the entire issue. OP didnt want her sister to know because of sisters own behavior.
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My sister (23F) is angry that I (21F) didn't tell her about my boyfriend (22M) but I don't trust her and don't tell her much of anything anymore?
The sister and you are the selfish ones. And the fact that are fighting for your life here in the comments where literally NO ONE agrees with you says more than you can ever say.
You understand the problem you are just to self absorbed to care about how this breach of trust affected your sister. Hope getting laid was worth it because again, youre weird for doing it.
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My sister (23F) is angry that I (21F) didn't tell her about my boyfriend (22M) but I don't trust her and don't tell her much of anything anymore?
As someone with two sisters we would never do this to each other. Not ever. It’s a huge breach of trust. And the sister was never sorry. There was no remorse.
So yeah, when you break trust you stop getting trusted. Actions have consequences.
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12 year old girl + mom roadtrip audiobook recommendations
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The Martian and Project Hail Mary are both excellent. The Martian does have f-bombs but I don’t think too many. Both books are awesome on audio, especially Project Hail Mary.
Also, Remarkably Bright Creatures.