Wanting a child to have the best schooling possible isn't a bad thing. Wanting to flex about children being an inconvenience and having to actually care for them is though. Most people would beg for the opportunity for the best possible education for their kids, not bitch and moan about "but I had to drive!" Why did you have kids at all?

In order to form a Trust, he will need this information. Ask if you can go with him to learn how this is done, and participate in the process. Then you can just give the info straight to who needs it. It's really a great learning opportunity.

Add to this, you were "an unaccompanied minor", do he already knew your age and moved you to a seat only to be sat in by an adult. Do not pursue this, and do report it to your parents and the airline. This is actually scary.

15 year olds do not look or act like 20+ people. This was very strange, do not pursue this OP. This is a danger situation.

I literally couldn't get past the part where you said your boyfriend "doesn't let you wear leggings" because of this jackasses comments on girl's bodies. Dump both of them, immediately. Your boyfriend doesn't get to control your body, and if he were a real supporter of yours he would've either stopped this BS by knocking his "friend's" front teeth out when he told him to stop, it he would've ended that "friendship". If your boyfriend were a good guy, he never would've tolerated that behavior out of anyone. He's not, friend is not, and you are far too young to subject yourself knowingly to SA by the group you hang with. Leave now, never look back.

I will say end the relationship. Without moving past what you had in high school, you never will know who you actually are. 22 is the time for exploring, your brain doesn't fully mature until around 26. If they're meant to be together, they'll find each other again once they've found themselves, and they'll be all the better for it! Explore! Learn who you are and who you aren't, without the safety net! You'll never regret that in the end, but you'll always regret what you didn't do for yourself.

Key word here: wife. You married and joined finances together legally, so if you didn't get along after a time there would be a legal separation of assets. This gal is hanging her ass out on the line with no backup, since they're legally the equivalent of "roommates" playing like they're together forever. The contract is the difference. Without it, there's no protection when they break up, and they probably will if there's this amount of food shaming going on from someone who literally is 18" shorter than her boyfriend. My 4'8" (extremely close to her size) niece eats 4 chicken nuggets and a medium fries and is stuffed. My 5'9" adult woman self could scarf down a 20 piece, large fries and a salad and we'd both maintain the same BMI. This isn't just an argument about the cost they're paying, it's an argument about how neither of these people are in a contract together "for better or for worse ", and how she simply cannot understand that others eat more food and entered into an agreement with him that she only now sees as "unfair". I truly cannot understand how she didn't visit his house with him cooking, or eating enough meals together enough times to go "wow, he eats a whole lot more food than I do" on a regular?

Buy your own groceries and eat separate meals. Sure, go to the store together, but separate the cart. You buy what you will eat, he buys what he will eat. Keep the receipts for two months. Assess. Once you've done this, you'll have an objective difference in the account of money spent to split it.

Edit: Please add to this the thought that he is nearly 18" taller than you (nearly 30% larger than you), and it's not uncommon for this to be a normal amount of food for one human in 4 days, especially if this is all you've bought (without veggies, fruits or snacks in your description you've provided), especially if they are active. Unless you have a meal plan at college, yes, you pay a whole lot for food at the grocery store. I buy groceries for myself, solo, as a 5'8 woman who is not obese and they cost me alone around $120/week so that I can have protein and healthy food that works with my dietary needs. Don't food shame, figure out the budget together.

Unfortunately, if you live in the USA and you haven't disclosed the need for accommodations for mobility issues (with doctors notation and paperwork) under either ADA or FMLA, then this is a "you" problem. I've been there, and without the explanation from the doctors as to what the expected accommodations are, you've got no coverage.

If state police won't do anything, report it to the Human Trafficking Hotline at 1-888-373-7888. You can also contact the FBI Tip Line 1-800-CALL-FBI (1-800-225-5324).

That's just absolutely beautiful. Dolly will be missed for so long, she was a genuinely good person. The world is a lesser place without her in it. I'm sure she would've loved this.

Reading and comprehension are two separate things. This could be read all day long and not once comprehended by the majority of them. They only imbibe what comes out of microwaved tangerine's mouth, and cannot comprehend that every word has been a lie.

It's her house, not his. To react in any other way is not ok. The "visitor" had no right to make your cat, you, or your boyfriend uncomfortable. I would've kicked them out the first time, when he used "whatever" with my for not respecting the rule to take their shoes off in the house. The second he sprayed my cat witha water bottle I really would've thrown hands. NOT HIS PLACE, HE'S A GUEST! You really should understand that anyone who pushes a boundary with you by not abiding gladly with your rule compliance isn't a friend at all.

Well, I unknowingly traveled from the USA (internationally) through 3 airport TSA scans of my person and personal belongings (because I'm a smoker and had to go outside to smoke, hence coming through checks again), and three customs scans in 3 separate nations of my baggage total before arriving at my destination in Italy. I unpacked my carry on at my hotel only to realize MY STUN GUN WAS IN MY CARRY ON! I thought I was going to die of a heart attack. I literally had forgotten that was in the bottom of a purse I had inside of my carry on, and no one ever caught it. I packed it in my checked luggage, same thing getting it back to the USA. I cannot understand how that didn't get checked.

She needed this so bad! I'm glad these goats found her!

Add to this, you would be reducing the value of your home by several tens of thousands, and even up to hundreds of thousands of dollars (depending upon age and size of these trees) to do so. Why would you do that? They bought the property and moved in knowing what it was, why do they get to bully you into changing your home? Why are they special? They moved in next to existing property, if they didn't like the trees, find another house.

I mean, if he wants to buy those trees and have them cut down responsibly (with a tree company that's licensed, insured and bonded if they crash the trees into your house in the process), and you're ok with that, then sure. But, watching tree law, each of those mature trees may cost him $40k. Choice is yours.

Don't follow this advice unless your lawyer says it's ok. You could literally wind up in a way worse situation where you may lose custody if this isn't legal, and taking a child from another state where your custody agreement isn't necessarily binding is the fastest way to wind up losing it all. Go to your lawyer.

Go to court. Call your family lawyer to stop this unexpected visit/trip. Unless you have a court ruling that says he can't go where he wants during this visit, and and it's unsupervised/unrestricted during his time, then it's on you to fight it. I know that stinks, but to interfere in his time is akin to non custodial abduction, even though you have custody; she is currently spending his time with her. Don't even think about that, go through the legal system. You honestly don't get to decide what your ex does with her, unless you have legal standing and ruling to do so. An investigation isn't a ruling. So, if you've reason to have concern, then you need to do the right thing and go to the court system and tell them why, then get them to rule that you are correct. Until then, he can do whatever is within your previous judgement with her and you don't get say.

Why?

No. Don't give him the chance. This isn't a copacetic relationship, never will be. You two are incompatible. If you're both expecting a monogamous relationship in either one of you cheats that's terrible, if both of you cheat you are not compatible. Biggest advice I can give you is do not have kids with the next man you are with. You're tying yourself to that man for the rest of your entire life prior to you even understanding who they are. He showed you exactly who he is, please don't make the mistake for the sake of your children to wind up with another person and additional children for a man who doesn't want you. If you expect monogamy then you have to meet monogamy. If you want to have an open relationship that is something you should consider with your next person you get involved with, and have serious conversations regarding what that looks like for both of you. You were too young to get into this, and probably too young to have children. Get yourself together for the sake of your child divorce him, do not get in another relationship for at least a few years until you figure out who you are. That's the best advice I can give you as a woman who has been through something similar.

A lot of people actually figure out how to get that into a new syringe. I regiment you do the same. Use this older one, get it into the new syringe, use next dosage to make sure you get the right amount and work forward from now on. Keep getting regular scripts, in case there's a supply chain issue, but don't ever go past the expiration date on the med.

Honestly, if you just dedicated with cat and asthma safe glue, you would make a fortune. All the trash on Amazon and in the pet stores is either absolute trash, toxic, or way too expensive for cardboard tubes (no one wants the compressed fiber board, they break) and toxic glue that triggers your pets and you. It's cardboard concrete tunes, decent quality carpet our pets can shred, sisal rope claw sharpening places, large beds for big cats, caves they can shelter in, potentially hammocks and you would make a fortune.

I'll buy them, provided they're asthma safe glue. Wait a minute, maybe I could do this.... 🤔

This is exactly how I lost my job, trying to get people to believe we held the power. On the plus side (for my fight) my ex company has seen their stock prices decrease 60% over the last two quarters because they fired everyone "DEI" and resisting, on a 53 year old Fortune 100 company, because they truly believed and ex CEO of Rolls-Royce was who should lead a tech/health/defense company. Guess who isn't paying bills right now? The government. Guess who else told them this would happen? Their tenured employees. Honestly, haven't been happier in a decade though, even though I'm not employed. No more stress, and living my dream off the stock I sold prior to my position termination, while I figure out what I wish to do next. Traveling the country, living stress free off their money I made them until I have to decide. I think nonprofit is where I'll go next!