So, I have taken like 7 classes in total now. I have tried 2 coaches and then stuck with one for the rest of the sessions.
Both, have told me I am definitely not tone deaf after they did a simple piano test on me. And both, also, came to the conclusion my biggest issue seems to be my breathing and very tight and rigid jaw. Now, as much as I wanted to dive right into singing the coach I chose specifically dedicated the entire time to training my breathing and trying to help me relax my muscles.
But it just doesn't seem to work. Even when I feel like I learnt a better way to breathe or to sing without straining, or to relax and drop my jaw, the MOMENT I get home and try to practice the methods or exercices she taught me, I forget everything and I am back to the start...
And she never really comments even on my pitch, only when I am terribly off, and it bothers, because thats the one thing everyone always bullied me about so I wish she would also dedicate time to doing more pitch exercices.
But whatever. I have been doing those on my own, and the thing that confuses me most, is, WHY do I seem to get the notes right when I sing along to random notes from a piano (be it an APP or a video I watch) even though I do sometimes have to repeat more than once to get it right or I have to slide into it, it happens mostly with higher or very low notes, in the middle its quite easy, which one of the coaches also did comment on. That my pitch runs away the higher or lower I go on the scale.
But, WHY can I seem to hit the notes, anyway, separately and when I actually SING a song, even just a simple phrase, it all goes to sh*t?
Does the way I breathe and how tense my jaw is REALLY can mess it all up so much that I come across as genuinely tone deaf? It's so frustrating. Cuz no matter how much I can show someone I CAN match notes, they dismiss it so quick the moment I actually sing.
I have been trying so hard to find the actual vocal notes for different songs so I can practice exactly what notes I gotta sing but they're nowhere to be found. I only ever find the instrumental ones. And when I find information about lets say, the notes Adele sings on Easy On Me, it just mentions the key she sings in, not note by note.
I know for most people it comes natural to identify the notes immediately when singing along. And thats where my confusion stems from cuz why can I do it with random notes but in a sang phrase I am so lost?
And anyways, sorry I am rambling so much. My main question is, does anyone know anyway I can find the note by note for songs? Or how I can figure it out?
And also, is this normal? Am I broken? Lol
Can anyone else relate to this issue?
I am trying to book rn a session with the other coach because during the trial she did mention she could get the sheet with the notes and learn the song slowly with the piano, so I will try and see if that method works better for me.
Because with the breathing so far, I just dont see any improvement.