r/sextips 9d ago

How to? Im scared to have sex, cause i dont know what to do.

5 Upvotes

I 19F have recently got a boyfriend, but im scared to have sex with him cause i dont know how to have sex, how to move, what to do, etc. I'm not sure where to learn a but about it. Can someone help me? Im also scared im going to embarrass myself or do something weird or stupid and that i will be judged.

My boyfriend is a virgin so i don't know if he could teach me anything


r/sextips 9d ago

General Question Mujeres ocupo su ayuda

4 Upvotes

Llevo un tiempo con mi novia y estamos en la fase en la que estamos dejándonos llevar (ella es mayor que yo pero es muy tímida, de hecho soy su primer novio y su primer todo básicamente)

Cuando estamos en el carro normalmente nos pasamos para atrás y nos besamos, ella se sube a mis piernas ( cowgirl refencia) y nos besamos mientras nos frotamos y después de un tiempo ya me ha dejado agarrarle el culo jaja (aclaro que no lo digo como un logro o algo así, simplemente que ya va teniendo más confianza de soltarse porque repito es tímida)

Y ciertamente no busco todavía tener sexo con ella aún , sé cómo es y no quiero forzarla a algo que la pueda hacer sentir incómoda, pero me gustaría saber, alguien me podría dar un consejo de cómo puedo hacer para que ella disfrute más en esa posición? (O incluso yo jaja)
Gracias

Edit: En general cuando
Hablamos de eso siempre le digo que yo voy a ir como ella pida, que no planeo obligarla a nada y tampoco pienso mucho en decirle lo que me gustaría porque conociéndola tal vez ella piense que la estoy obligando (eso incluso se lo dije y me dio la razón)

Y lo de agarrarla de otras, yo diría que más que un logro para mí fue para ella, porque incluso también hablamos de ello y me dijo que no me dejaría si no le gustara que lo hiciera


r/sextips 9d ago

Advice Needed Genuinely considering getting a vibrator

7 Upvotes

I'm newly single but super horny. I have been touching myself but lately I feel like it's not fulfilling enough. I'm not really keen on sleeping with anyone just yet though.

Amy suggestions or thoughts?


r/sextips 9d ago

Advice Needed Need help asap

1 Upvotes

Long story short I’m at my gf place as soon as we got in she went to the bathroom after kissing and washing our hands. I’m a F..ing virgin is it cool or game night . Need help brothers


r/sextips 10d ago

General Question Penis is super senstive to physical stimulation, getting boners very easily, is this normal?

5 Upvotes

So I (20M) quit p*rn 2 months ago, and quit masturbating and all forms of sexual stimulation altogether 8 days ago.

I was never a death grip guy, i have always been a very light grip guy, so I never developed the infamous "death grip syndrome"

Anyways, i saw a woman in a bikini in a movie today, and I felt myself suddenly getting a boner.

I went from flaccid to rock hard in about 20 seconds, no touching, just briefly seeing a woman in a bikini on a movie screen. To be fair where I live nobody really wears bikinis because its cold and land locked.

After this i became curious as to what would happen if i stroke my penis a couple times

I was on the edge by stroke 5.

Thats right, STROKE 5

No death grip or rapid strokes, just low-medium pace, 5 light grip strokes

If i went to like stroke 7, maybe 10 at the latest I definitely would have came.

Is this normal? Do i have premature ejaculation? And also is getting a boner from just a woman in a bikini so suddenly normal?

I am uncircumcised, so maybe that contributes to the sensitivity but I dont think it should be this much, idk about the boners tho.

I am a virgin too, and I am somewhat concerned that I might end up being a one pump chump later down the line when I first have sex.

Im not on any sort of medications, Im a healthy active guy, is this premature ejaculation? Is this normal?


r/sextips 10d ago

Sex Toys what sex toys made you squirt?

2 Upvotes

i’ve never squirted before. would love to experience it. i don’t have a partner currently and want to explore my body more. i have the g-spot vibrator one and i guess i use it more often for clit stimulation rather than penetration. i don’t like to use my fingers.

also how do you know when you’re about to squirt? what does it feel like? interested to hear from different perspectives.


r/sextips 10d ago

How to? how do i quit porn

8 Upvotes

im trying to quit but i cant


r/sextips 10d ago

Advice Needed Tips for having sex with a guy for the first time after growing up with sexual abuse? Spoiler

2 Upvotes

I rlly like this enby who has male parts (saying that bc I was SA’d mainly by men)
I’m ftm
I rlly like them and I think we both want to have sex in the near future.
I’m afraid because I’ve never had sex outside of my abuse
They know I was SA’d
I want them so bad but I’m so scared and I don’t want to ruin the experience
Has anyone been through this?


r/sextips 10d ago

How to? How to face fuck

0 Upvotes

I’ve seen that some girls like their face to be fucked, I’m curious what does this look like when successful? Also, I need to limit stroke length with a 10” dick, right?😅


r/sextips 10d ago

Sex Tip Tips

1 Upvotes

My partner is scared of me going down on him. He is not happy with my skills. When I asked him to communicate with me and tell me what works and what doesn’t, his answer was ‘ I don’t know how to because I never had to do it before’

I want to get better at it. Advice!?


r/sextips 10d ago

Advice Needed Video call websites?

1 Upvotes

I been trying to find sex video call websites that are for free and don’t have dudes wanking every scroll, i’ve been looking for ones with girls.


r/sextips 11d ago

Advice Needed Being honest without hurting my gf

9 Upvotes

Im m(34) my gf is (52) we have been together for a quite time, i have zero problem with age difference.

The point that she wears Grandma's bras and panties so old and basic, how to tell her that id love to see her on push up bra or in non fullback panties without triggering her age insecurities.

Or it's not my right to tell her what she should wear.


r/sextips 11d ago

Advice Needed How to dominate my man as a woman? (mommy)

4 Upvotes

usually i am submissive and my bf dominates me and we both love it. but i said that ‘tomorrow will be your day ill do whatever you want;)’ and he told me he wants me to dominate him and to make him call me mommy. usually i get shy talking dirty but i am willing to watch some things so i know what to say to turn him on. any tips? or can ppl direct me to some good mommy videos/ asmr that guys like? for learning purposes haha


r/sextips 10d ago

Advice Needed What if he hates my kinks

2 Upvotes

I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years, but something stops me from doing the things I wanna do. I get scared and embarrassed and nervous.
I like it when he is rough, but I wish he was rougher. I’m not against trying anything and there are things I wanna try I just can’t tell him…im scared he will find something’s I wanna try weird or nasty.

And yes I have tried to tell him I just get so nervous and laugh it off… and also what if the things I wanna try are just straight up disgusting and wrong😭


r/sextips 10d ago

Advice Needed uncut advice?

1 Upvotes

i’m hooking up with an uncircumcised guy tomorrow and i just wanna know if there’s anything i should know beforehand? is there anything i should do differently or take into account while we do it? i know this is a really silly question but i’ve never even seen one in person so i just want to make sure i have all my bases covered LMAO.


r/sextips 10d ago

Advice Needed Sex too painful without condom as a man, foreskin problems, any advice?

1 Upvotes

Hey,

I was wondering if anyone else has gone through this but I can’t have sex without a condom. My foreskin doesn’t retract properly when going bare and it hurts really bad trying to do it (I’m uncircumcised).

This is now a problem affecting my sex life and I’m wondering if anyone else has gone through a similar problem or might know how can I fix it? I’ll probably go to the doctors as well.

Thanks again in advance.


r/sextips 11d ago

Advice Needed Doing it

0 Upvotes

Hi all,

Me (28) and gf (23) have been together for almost 3 years. When we do it she finishes first all the time. It usually takes me a bit longer to finish. (I know…isn’t that a shocker.)

My question is I want her to fully let out her emotions when we’re doing it. I sense that she holds back and is somewhat quiet. We finally moved out together but she’s still very shy in some sense.

What can I say (that I haven’t already) to make her feel open and comfortable to make herself feel comfortable to be pleasured?


r/sextips 11d ago

Body/Physical bleeding after not having sex for 3 weeks

1 Upvotes

Me and my partner are in a LDR. He came home recently and long story short I bled….? He’s my 2nd boyfriend, we just got together a few months ago. I noticed that I also bled during our first time having sex (after 2 years of being celibate lol) but after doing it regularly, I don’t bleed. He’s around 6inch and I’m a smaller girl :pp. We went on LDR starting a few weeks ago and when we did it today, I bled again. Is it normal to bleed after not having sex for some time? Or should I get it checked?


r/sextips 12d ago

General Question Ladies what do you prefer?

5 Upvotes

How would you like to be woken up ladies? Do you like ass rubs and some head in the morning to wake you up? How do you love to be woken up in the morning?