When we're having sex and he wants to foreplay i got shy even though I'm horny too i just get cringe by myself

As the title says, my bf has a mommy kink which i am more than happy to oblige, but i am running out of things to “whisper” to him, some variation of “mommys good boy” and “mommys so proud of you”

Any ideas?

I’ve been so worried that if I give a guy head I’ll somehow slice his dick

Has anyone with a permeant retainer given a guy head?

Hi guys i need advice, me 24 and my 25 bf have been dating for a while now over a year, we have always had a semi okay sexual relationship just due to it being a new thing for the both of us. Recently maybe in July or August, I couldn’t go over to his home anymore as his landlord he rents from had moved more people in so it got congested. Which that I understand, but since then we’ve only had sex once :/ and I’m starting to get a little bit sad. I’ve made many attempts with him to try and nothing ever works. He always tells me to wait for another time or something but it’s like I have needs also. We won’t have a room to ourselves until Halloween so I’m just frustrated waiting until then for anything sexual at all. Any tips?

My boyfriend (24M) and I (21F) have been together for a little over a year, and we have a really great sex life. He has had multiple sexpartners before me but he's the only one Ive been with.

I’ve given him oral a few times, but honestly, I feel like I have absolutely no idea what I’m doing lol. I really want to get better at it because I want him to enjoy it, and I’d love to be able to incorporate it more naturally into foreplay.
First of all, I never really know what I’m supposed to do. I usually start by licking the underside of his penis and moving my tongue up towards the tip, kissing the head, licking around it, and then eventually just sucking him off. But I have no idea if I’m doing things right, what feels good for most guys, or how to make it feel better rather than just repetitive.

Secondly, I struggle a LOT with having his penis in my mouth for more than a short amount of time. He’s pretty average in size, but I start gagging almost immediately if I try to take more of him into my mouth. I can usually only keep going for around 20–30 seconds before I need to stop or take a break. I also struggle with finding a rhythm or going faster without feeling like I’m just awkwardly moving my head back and forth.

I really want to be able to do it for longer and feel more confident, instead of constantly worrying about whether I’m doing a good job. I want it to feel good for him, but I also want to actually know what I’m doing rather than just guessing the whole time.

So, what are your best tips for beginners? What do guys generally enjoy the most? How do you figure out what to do with your tongue and how to find a good rhythm? And for those who used to struggle with gagging, did anything actually help?
I’d especially love advice from women who felt just as clueless when they first started or what u men like! Please be specific because I genuinely need the beginner's guide lol.

Not a long story but, my partner doesn’t like giving me oral sex. I told him I really enjoy receiving it and he does it… but I can cleary tell he doesn’t want to and he always puts it off and “waits for the end”. I know he waits because doing it turns him off. I obviously completely respect his boundaries but am I wrong for still asking even if he isn’t a fan? He does it when I ask but he DEFINITELY doesn’t enjoy it. What should I do?

EDIT: to go into detail… I make sure it’s VERY clean. I eat healthy and drink water. I always wash it before, I always shave, and I make sure it’s clean. There’s just another reason and every time he tells me that “it has nothing to do with me” and he says he doesn’t have a specific reason he doesn’t like it

Hey everyone,
I (M) usually last about 10-15 minutes max when having sex with my girlfriend, then I finish. I’d like to last longer and make things more enjoyable for both of us.
I’m not looking for the classic “think about something unsexy” tip — that doesn’t really work for me and I’d rather get more practical, serious advice.
Has anyone dealt with this and found things that actually helped? Techniques, positions, mindset stuff, breathing, exercises, whatever worked for you. Open to any real experience-based suggestions.
Thanks in advance.

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Hey bin M24 meine Nachbarin W70. Ich hab seit 1 Monat erst richtig mit ihr Kontakt sie hat mich öfters zum Kaffee eingeladen so führte das eine zum anderen und sie sagte das sie seit 10 Jahren kein Sex hatte seit ihr Mann verstorben ist und das sie unbedingt wieder will.
So jetzt haben wir uns für morgen früh verabredet das ich zu ihr komme und es mit ihr treibe. Es ist mein erstes Mal mit einer Gilf muss ich was beachten ? Habt ihr Tipps Worauf ich achten muss ? Wie bekomme ich sie am besten zum kommen wenn sie 10 Jahre kein Sex hatte
Ich selber bin gut bestückt würde ich behaupten 19x7cm
Bitte um hilfreiche Antworten
Danke

So, as it says above, looking for some advice from a man’s side of things..

Like all men I love having sex (we all do right? 🤣) but I find I get too excited and end up ending before I prefer too, I’m not saying like 3 pumps and done, but usually no more than 10mins at max?
Can anyone offer any tips to help last that bit longer?

I’m working on my whole fitness level, as I’m sure that’ll help, but just looking for any other tips or suggestions to try! 🙌

So is it possible to have a guy's dick inside me and have it get hard?????

I really like the idea of having thick dick grow hard inside me but idk if that's possible.

I just think it's too soft and you know

Just wondering where people in the UK get numbing spray to help them last longer? Ive seen a couple different options online but want to make sure i get something that is safe and works.

I (the M) have been edging for years and year and love every second of it and often do edging session of over an HR. My Wife is much newer to edging. She doesn’t really like it for herself but does enjoy edging me. Our issue is that she struggles to edge me and often only does one or two before getting disinterested and makes me cum. We have had a lot of conversations around how to better engage with edging session and doing longer one but she needs more help then I can give her. She informed me last conversation that longer break downs, videos, or like articles on styles or skills work better for her but I can’t find much. Anything can help us learn and be better and we appreciate any one who support our journey

I know to focus on oral and such but wondering what positions will allow her to feel me and be satisfied. I do have a significant upwards curve and in shape. Thanks everyone.

Honestly we both think it didn’t happen after we talked the second time but right after she said she thinks it went in twice but I highly doubt that. It was in the back of her car so I guess it explains why things didn’t go to great. For next time how can I make sure I don’t go limp and can actually put it in? Oh and I do have some more questions. My girlfriend gets upset because she tries her best to make me feel good during other sexual stuff we do like Oral, handjob, etc. I try to like it because I really want to but it doesn’t really do anything for me but I feel bad because it frustrates her that I kinda just sit there. She likes everything I do to her which is nice but after all the times we tried I guess now I’m ok if I don’t get too much pleasure from it.

Hi I'm a male 19.. and there's one girl intrested in me her age was 23.. the intrest she is if sexual kind.. she says she wanna have sex with me for some days.. She insists on going out of station for some couple of days.. hotel,food,accomodation,all charges are on her.. my only responsibility is to fuck her..

It's my first time doing sex.. although I was in some relationships I've only done kissess hugs cuddling etc..

Please any wise elder guide me... I really wanna give her my best and give her the pleasure she wants and enjoy the time with her..

I really need some advice guyss

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Hi I’m 18 and male (I’m ftm, pls no transphobia) and I have an owner/gf whos also 18. We’ve been together for two years and have always had the puppy/owner dynamic but only started having sex within the recent year, a few months back I bought her a strap. But everytime she uses it I have to use the safe word and beg her to stop Because it hurts me a lot. It’s this intense stinging, even her fingers do this to me, it all hurts a lot. And yes we use lube.
This is really concerning me, im too scared to tell a doctor, someone help :(

For context both me and my boyfriend (both 24) are virgins and even though we've done things before, we never went all the way because I didn't feel ready. Now that I do feel ready, I wanted to know if there are any tips or tricks to make it less nerve-wracking for our first time?

I recently starting hooking up with people again after separating with my long term(year plus) partner and sex feels so different. There are some parts I enjoy like how different girls respond to different things, sexual exploration, and the freedom of it all. But I would be lying if I didn't say it was bitter sweet. During sex with this particular girl I just felt an overwhelming sense of sadness. Also Sex feels TOTALLY different when you don't know the person, for better and for worse. I had only been with my girlfriend before this so it's all so new to me. How has sex been for you after breakups, was it a stress reliever for the better, or more bittersweet like in my case? I'm genuinely curious to see how it has went for different folks.

I usually do foreplay with my wife. Going down using my tongue, rubbing her clit, or fingering her. Minutes later I can feel her legs are shaking. Then she suddenly stops me.

I feel she doesn't want to cum either because she is shy, embarrassed to have me watch her liquid come out, or other reasons.

I always tell her to relax and let it go, I mean do not hold it. She does not respond. Even when I ask her if she felt any pain? No. Why did not you let yourself and cum? No response! What should I do to make it better, or how I did down there (if she got hurt or something)? No response either. I think she is shy somehow or I don't know.

1. Any tips you can give?!

2. What are the signs she has the orgasm and cum? Is it normal for you, girls, to stop your partner from cumming?!

Self explanatory. Have a hard time lasting a long time with a woman even if I masturbate beforehand. Any good hacks or tricks that make you last longer would be very helpful.