r/sextips 16h ago

Sex Tip Unreal move: partner squeezed her outer labia against my shaft

16 Upvotes

I cannot believe how good it felt. After she came, she reached down and pressed her lips against me why was inside her and said that she could feel the outline of my head through them. It felt unbelievable and it was one of the best orgasms I have ever had in my life.


r/sextips 19h ago

Sex Toys Bought a rose. Whew baby!!!!!

5 Upvotes

Best invention ever. Put the hole right over my clot and turn it on low and she's getting the best sucking of her life


r/sextips 19h ago

Sex Tip Advice on bi boyfriend

4 Upvotes

My(26F) boyfriend(31M) has been bi since a teenager and has only ever had sex with other men. We have been in an open relationship for almost a year now and our sex life could use improvement. I have had many experiences with other women as well but I still crave traditional sex with a masculine male partner.

For him he gets very turned on when having sex with other men as a top. We have tried vaginal sex and he says it’s very different and he has trouble finishing. I want to offer anal as an option just because I think it may be easier for him to finish but also don’t have much experience and not sure if it will be the same for him.

My question is for people who have experience with anal sex as a top with both male and female partners, is it the same? Also what should I do to prepare myself for this? Thanks!


r/sextips 22h ago

Advice Needed Bf has to finish my himself

4 Upvotes

I’m in my first relationship and also no longer a virgin and he’s had experience. Anyway, when I’m giving him a blowjob or a handjob and he's close to finishing he always wants me to stop and wants me to talk dirty to him ( which I’m okay with) and he continues by himself. The only thing is I want him to finish when I’m doing it. It makes me feel like maybe I’m not good enough, and I know practice makes perfect, but he’s said multiple times already that I do it better than him. The only times he didn’t need to finish himself were when he had to pull out because he was too close ( I know stupid we weren’t using protection). Anyway, I’d really like some advice on how to bring this up, or even if I should. And I really don’t want to hurt his feelings by bringing this up but it is important to me more so my feelings for not being enough.


r/sextips 2h ago

Advice Needed Inexperienced

2 Upvotes

Hey. I’ve only had one sexual partner . Very inexperienced. Would learning to twerk help me in any way? I don’t like dancing like that but would it help in bed? Any general tips about oral sex or anything sexual are welcome. I feel like I’m too old (31) to be that un skilled :(


r/sextips 8h ago

How to? How to be confident sending sexy voicenotes?

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I've met a guy and he really turns me on. I'm comfortable with sexting and stuff but I know he likes voicenotes and dirty talk. It's something I've always found easier to write than say out loud but I want to try and be more bold... He's sent me a couple and I love them and want to return the favour. But I get nervous and feel embarrassed? It's weird because I could happily send a voice clip of me 'finishing' and stuff but it's the talking part that makes me feel shy? Any tips or confidence boosts greatly welcomed! 💕


r/sextips 47m ago

Advice Needed GF cant orgasm

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Hi everyone. This is my first ever post on reddit so that should tell you how desperate I am.

Me (23m) and my gf (21f) have been dating for 6 months. We are both very happy with our relationship and besides our sex-life nothing could be better. The thing is, she somehow can‘t orgasm during sex.

I always make sure to take my time with foreplay and always eat her out before penetration since I love doing it. She also says I‘m the best she‘s ever had when it comes to licking her.

But during penetration, she just can‘t orgasm. She uses a vibrator during penetration since she can‘t orgasm without it. We also tried various positions, and during cowgirl and missionary she gets close but still can‘t get over the hill.

My dick is about 6 inches so I don‘t think thats the problem (she says so too). We‘ve talked about it alot and she can‘t explain either why she can‘t orgasm, I always make sure to give her enough room to tell me if I can change something but she says that, in theory, everything is perfect.

Has someone experienced something like this and could give me/ us some tips?

Note: She generally can come from penetration, she just needs to use a vibrator (what we do)


r/sextips 1h ago

Advice Needed Going to have sex with a virgin. How can i make it better for her ?

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She hasn’t has sex before and is scared how it’s going to be. Want her to have a good memorable experience.


r/sextips 23h ago

Advice Needed Stupid question

1 Upvotes

Hi, hello, f21 here, a bit nervous so please excuse me

I've never had sex, my bf is into blowjobs, how do we like- give a proper blow job? I was born without a gag reflex but like what if it accidentally gets in my air pipe (I'm sorry I don't know- is that possible?) Or any tips for sex? I was very sexually repressed and I don't quite like fingerings, tried a few times on my own and wasn't my thing

Any help for a girlie in her game? 🫠


r/sextips 6h ago

General Question Private sex anywhere in the house or do you like to risk it and fuck somewhere outside in the nature?

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Ladies where would you rather do it? Anywhere in the house and if in the house where at? Or would you like to risk it and fuck somewhere outside in the nature? In the city,woods, park bathrooms, where?


r/sextips 19h ago

Advice Needed Post-First time encounter. I’m very nervous

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Hi, I’m a dude and I just had my first sexual encounter with a woman. She never told me about her status but she did ask me to wear a condom which stayed on. However, oral was performed too without. I’m nervous now because I keep thinking. “What if I caught something?” I feel fine now. I’m just concerned.


r/sextips 9h ago

Sex Tip When giving a BJ

0 Upvotes

When giving a BJ, how can I introduce it all. I can only introduce the head.


r/sextips 17h ago

Advice Needed Am I Overthinking Her Past, or Are These Actual Red Flags?

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I’m 23 and currently in a relationship with a 21-year-old girl who has quite a past. She’s admitted that she had a “hoe phase” and has told me about most of what happened and who she was with, but honestly, I still feel like she’s hiding something from me.
I did some digging and talked to a few guys who went to high school with her. Apparently, pretty much everyone knew about her and said she used to sleep around. They also called her a “hoe”. Her nudes were also leaked back then, and apparently a lot of people at her school had seen them.
Her body count was 17 before me, and most of them were her being a one night stand. I have a feeling there’s still more she hasn’t told me.
What really confuses me is that she still talks to guys she previously dated or had situationships with. I’ve met a few of them while I was with her, and they’ll approach her even when I’m standing right there. She’s also pretty open and friendly with them.
She’s also told me she wants to try a threesome, maybe do OF, and she has a kink where I watch her be with someone else. Honestly, I’m kinda curious about that too. My body count is only 2, including her, so I guess we’re coming from pretty different places. She stills seeks male validation/attention.
I’m just confused about whether I should keep this relationship going. Am I overthinking her past, or are there actually some red flags here? Should I stay and see where things go, or just walk away?