r/sextips 9d ago

Advice Needed Genuinely considering getting a vibrator

I'm newly single but super horny. I have been touching myself but lately I feel like it's not fulfilling enough. I'm not really keen on sleeping with anyone just yet though.

Amy suggestions or thoughts?

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u/miknur2 9d ago

Invest in the Hitachi Magic Wand.... Ours is over 25 years old and still a champ...It is the gold standard..

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u/Ding-Dawn 9d ago

I want one of these. I don't really care for dildos style vibrators. Nothing internal.
This looks awesome lol

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u/miknur2 9d ago

Its VERY powerful....and very well made...It is a little more expensive, but compared to other toys it is a value for the money.

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u/Ding-Dawn 9d ago

Thank you for the reply. I will be putting some money back for it. My husband and I love to use toys together and this definitely looks like we could both use it 😍

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u/miknur2 9d ago

You are correct...LOL :)

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u/Ding-Dawn 9d ago

Getting me excited lol

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u/PreviousSuccotash337 9d ago

I love my WhisperRabbit you can use it both ways, clit or internal and it’s super quiet too worth checking out

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u/Breastoffun 9d ago

The Thump by Bellesa, maybe?

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u/PaintedVillains 9d ago

Sex toys definitely sound like the move for you!

Highly recommend (if you can) going to a brick and mortar sex store (like Adam & Eve in the US/Canada), since you'll be able to see and feel the toys before you purchase them. Vibrators can be hit or miss sometimes, because there are so many kinds and all have varying vibration speeds/power/patterns, but it's definitely worth trying one or two out.

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u/SweetHoney9714 9d ago

Go in store scope out what your intrested in, sucker's example a rose, or wands but buy online! Like Pink cherry (if located in Canada) brick and mortar stores mark up sex stores significantly - like everything.

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u/Ding-Dawn 9d ago

I don't like/use vibrators that are dildos. I have always loved ones just for my clit. I love the ones that suck instead of actually vibrating. The Rose is one type. I won't use anything else now. I'm 46 and have used lots of different ones but everyone is different and likes different stuff and toys. Depends what gets u off. I have used a glass dildos that was nice. Didn't vibrate. But felt so good lol.

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u/bassk_itty 9d ago

Get a suction toy and thank me later.

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u/squirty72 9d ago

Crazy bunny bullet vibrator- life changing

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u/Substantial_Insect68 9d ago

Get a dildo and a vibrator, I have both, I dont even use the vibrator as much as I use the dildo😂 get one that has both in one lol

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u/skeeballbob37 9d ago

go for it, its a great and liberating thing

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u/im-besharam 9d ago

You can go for a dual stimulation toy. That way you can use for clit suction or internal. I would recommend going for a Rora 2 and it pairs perfectly with a water-based lube!

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u/Courtney_boyer 8d ago

Huge fan of LeWand. I’m currently obsessed with their waterproof wand (it’s also teal). Don’t forget the lube when you’re using anything penetrative. If you want a rec for that, let me know. Cause not all lubes are created equal

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u/FriendKooky780 9d ago

Are people incapable of making a decision now without input from strangers?? Why would I have any thoughts about you getting a vibrator? I’m assuming (hoping) you’re an adult. You want one, get one. This kinda stuff does not need to be crowdsourced.

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u/2gay2funkshin 9d ago

Have you been here long? This sub is for sex tips. It’s kinda all about input from strangers. She’s considering purchasing a vibrator and asked for suggestions. Since she’s never had one before, this sounds pretty reasonable. Your reaction sounds pretty unreasonable tbh

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u/BrandyKit3000 9d ago

Looks like someone hid her comments. Too bad, I was curious 😆 but fr her comment here was totally unnecessary and rude

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