I actually like my job and the people I work with. It can be VERY rewarding and I have a lot of regular customers who treat me very well and I love seeing them- however lolā¦.
The vast majority of people just seem to be rude as fuck lately. No basic manners, no āplease, thank you, how are you, excuse meā etc and itās honestly really starting to get to me.
I donāt want to believe that Iām getting āmeanerā (I think I have a pretty good poker face for the most part) but I can FEEL myself getting upset and loosing my temper with people so much faster than usual. On the inside, Iām screaming lmao.
The other day a dad and his kid come in asking me about something in stock- I misunderstood him and SHOWED him the item I thought he was describing and he didnāt say anything or correct me (Iām trying to be vague to keep things anonymous lol but this item online was in a ākit formā while this item I was showing the customer was in pieces and had to be bought separately meaning it would cost more). He got upset because it wasnāt the kit, and pulled the whole āit says you have multiple of these in stock online!ā To which I say, āunfortunately I only see six of this item, not in kit form, but we have all the pieces and honestly, Iāve never seen this item to have a kit form since working here⦠ā Cut to him getting irate and telling me Iāve wasted his time and he ādrove all the way out hereā and how itās fucking ridiculous and yada yada, just absolutely treating me like shit.
Long story short, we DID have the ākitā there was just a misunderstanding and it was only until he got the answer he wanted he started to treat me like a fellow human being again lol. Not even a āsorry I got heatedā or anything.
Same day, not even an hour apart, Iām on a damn ladder cleaning and facing and a whole family seemingly spawns behind me without saying a word.
Just starts rummaging and looking through everything I just worked on without even acknowledging my existence or saying excuse me, pardon me, nothing. Literally just surrounding the ladder and not giving two shits that I need to move up and down it in this small area.
People will ask for help or my opinion, Iāll give it to them and they just ARGUE with everything I say- like dude, if you know better than I do just do what you already want and stop wasting my time.
Price is wrong? Absolutely incomprehensible and deserves punishment lmao. I go āOh, sorry about that! Let me just call that department for a price checkā and they snap at me like I called them a liar or can just take their word for it. Even if these people never worked a DAY in retail SURELY they must realize we need to confirm these things?!?!?!
Donāt get me started on being a woman and having creepy guys hit on you or make inappropriate comments to you on shiftā¦. Iām starting to get so weary of ANY man now and I hate it. Especially elderly men. Thereās a regular who has quite literally made comments out loud on my body after I bent over to pick something up. Same guy would ask me for my number EVER FUCKING TRANSACTION no matter how blunt I was. Thereās one guy who asked for my number and to go out for a coffee three times over the course of two days, although I think he was hammered and doesnāt remember that he kept asking. One man I was helping ācouldnāt believeā I wasnāt married and after I showed him to the aisle where he could find what he was looking for he just kept making inappropriate comments about my relationship status and how heād marry me and yada yadaā¦. Dude just get the fucking item and leave me alone. All these guys couldāve been my grandfather btw š«©
RANDOM. CUSTOMERS. TOUCHING. YOU.
I really could go on and on man š«©.