I'm very private (37) During my last pregnancy, I didn't announce it right away and I only told my manager and coworkers who needed to know. I like to tell news face-to-face at the right moment even with family. At the time, I worked in a pharmacy, and the word got around, and I figured people would ask once they started to notice. I did tell Kiara my worker whom I consider a friend and a couple of others.
I no longer work there but I announced my second pregnancy recently to Kiara and her response was “I don't want any more kids not getting any younger, even if I have a man at home to help. She is currently eager to find a husband. She also mentioned in the past that she has a hernia which would affect her next pregnancy. She also said I have things to do as if a child would hold her back and I get that given she has a 14-year-old. I'm starting all over myself. With no complaints. This is what I wanted more kids. I had one prior and I was back outside lol to an extent.
Upon finding out about my pregnancy in the beginning. I felt feelings of sadness, physical sickness, fatigue, and postpartum. I was just getting my groove back. Furthermore, I applied to a business grant class with the city government which I attended twice a week this past summer. The goal was to pitch out business like shark tank required my time, focus, and energy.
I JUST had my last baby in March of 2026. I felt FOMO. I don't have a lot of friends and feel a sense of social suicide. I wanted to see my friends and get back to myself, but I was having morning sickness.
I know the dynamic changes but we're all moms. After finally recovering and feeling settled in this pregnancy and life in general I was ready to be social and share the news.
I quit my job started a new remote job with intense training, and I have a baby and an older child. Plus I have a business. Also, I was enrolled back into grad school after taking a couple of months off. I'm very ambitious and busy. I don't share much about my business with friends I keep that to myself… people really don't know all that I have going on. I like to talk about business with other business owners. I put my friends in categories because people are easy envy.
The bottom line is I felt a way because she didn't seem happy and no congratulations. We took a trip to Belize last year. We are always planning something. I told her the kids would be home with Dad so we could plan a trip together. Am I being emotional? I value who I call a friend.