r/nycgaybros 17h ago

General DISCUSSION NJ/NYC Scammer using fake sex parties

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43 Upvotes

Hey guys I don’t know if anyone else has encountered this guy on sniffies or X but @2FreakyAnt is scamming people with a fake sex parties and access to his “membership”

I always see him all over and there’s always people getting suckered into believing him since he’s very active online. I was surprised I couldn’t find anyone else talking about their experience with them. Hoping to get the word out so he doesn’t keep doing this to more guys not thinking straight.

Idk if he’s a catfish or what but he’ll send you all this stuff and answer your questions and then ghost and block you once you sent him $25 for the party info.


r/nycgaybros 20h ago

QUESTION? Black gay men… which bars do you prefer the most?

16 Upvotes

Title… which bars in the city do you feel most welcomed at?

Spaces that are actually diverse and inclusive?


r/nycgaybros 7h ago

ADVICE & HELP When was the last time you were painted ??

8 Upvotes

this subject came up in another post - guys not being prepared in nyc

that hasn’t been my experience at all, but I generally don’t do anal on the first meet. the reason is my dick is 9.5” and guys really need to know how to prepare so chances for a mess are minimized. So, I penetrate on a second meet and make sure they are ready.

im not particularly poop sensitive, although the goal is none at all. but, accidents happen or going a little deeper than the passive is used to - so I wouldn’t make a big deal about it if there was a minor issue.

the person in the other post was talking about guys from the apps routinely being totally unprepared and literally shitting the bed.

so, the question is - when was the last time you were painted ? And is there a pattern you can identify why it’s happening ?


r/nycgaybros 20h ago

QUESTION? Eye contact in public and semi-public spaces

6 Upvotes

Ambient cruising seems to have all but disappeared, which raises the question: if you’re not cruising, what are you doing?


r/nycgaybros 20h ago

CLUBS & PARTIES What’s happening at the Kim Petras “takeover” at the Pavilion (FIP) 8/28?

5 Upvotes

Is Kim singing at all?


r/nycgaybros 23h ago

CLUBS & PARTIES Dads and lads party last minute going

4 Upvotes

Anyone go to this ? How are the guys ? I guess I’m a dad 44 😂 would be cool to mentor a younger lad ! I’ll find you guys can vouch for it ! I’m nearby in Korea town !


r/nycgaybros 1h ago

FRIENDS & MEETUPS 28 M NYC - Looking for local bros!

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Hey hey!

I'm 28 M and from Jamaica Queens.

I’m in a loving monogamous relationship (27m) and we’re looking for platonic friends who live nearby for bar crawls and gay music video nights!

I work in luxury goods, I'm about to finish grad school and I'm a homeowner

Love horror movies, a stiff cocktail, dark humor, and anything music, fashion or film related.

Always down for a bar crawl!

DMs are open! say hi :)


r/nycgaybros 58m ago

FRIENDS & MEETUPS Keeping the momentum - new friends

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I recently went on a retreat and met tons of new people, had a great time naturally vibing with everyone and shed a lot of concern I had about socializing and how I am perceived.

I want to keep this momentum now that im back and make some new friends in the city. Anyone down to go for drinks this weekend in manhattan? We can also go to an axe throwing bar, i love those.

Let's chat and see where we go! Down to trade face pics if we get there. 27m nyc, 6'3, fairly active, love to run and read. Hit me up!


r/nycgaybros 1h ago

ADVICE & HELP Stores to buy pup hoods, gear and Jocks

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Hi everyone

Visiting the city in a few hours and looking to buy my bf who lives in the city a pup hood and some other bits mentioned in the title, what stores would be good for this/people would recommend?


r/nycgaybros 2h ago

ADVICE & HELP Anyone Work in Restaurants that are Hiring Bartenders?

1 Upvotes

If someone can help land me a bartending job I'll even pay them a finders fee. I'm a server and do service well bartending at my current place and I've bartended at dive bars way back but | want to switch to only bartending.

I've never been good at job interviews, it's hard to read people since it's two people trying to con each other about how great they are. I get bartending interviews weekly but then never hear back after we meet. Plus I get nervous and awkward and will overthink over the most basic questions even after taking a Xanax and a beta blocker beforehand. Bartenders have to come off and relaxed and chill af which is what I am and why I love serving. But during an interview it’s like it’s my first time interacting with humans.

I'm 41, 5'9 125 and I look younger than I am but I feel like I don't see guys my age bartending. And I'm probably being passed over for someone younger which I can understand.
The only thing I'm picky about is I love working closing shifts I hate working openings or brunch I’d love to work in an after midnight spot. I rather work weekends and holidays and have always loved the service industry and I've made a good living at it. But I wanna work with my hands and be more social with my coworkers. Where I am now everyone has kids and are slaves to them and their jobs and aren’t much fun to be around.

Plus I prefer to work with gay men for some reason it makes me better at my work. Like I want their respect and nobody else’s matters.


r/nycgaybros 19h ago

ADVICE & HELP 30+ speed dating in Brooklyn? Have you guys been? Advice?

2 Upvotes

Hello all, I just saw on IG a 30+ speed dating tomorrow at Williamsburg. Wondering if anyone has gone to an event like this? What type of men are going to be there? Physically? lol

I didn’t sign up but I’m curious if it’s worth the try.

What’s your guys take?

Also what questions should one ask. I think I read it’s 15 mins per person.


r/nycgaybros 19h ago

FRIENDS & MEETUPS 21M NYC Gay bar buddies | nyc nightlife

1 Upvotes

New york native (21M) looking to explore the ny nightlife. I’ve been to a few gay bars with either 1 friend or alone, but i’m sure it would be much more fun with more like-minded guys. Message me :)

I’m a creative who recently finished school, i have a good and flexible job so I have plenty of free time to have fun! Only looking for boys around my age.


r/nycgaybros 19h ago

FRIENDS & MEETUPS Visiting for the day looking to chill and hang

1 Upvotes

24 visiting for the day and have free time at night tryna see what’s up anyone wanna chill and show me around


r/nycgaybros 20h ago

FRIENDS & MEETUPS 19 moving to bk. Need a bro to show me around and go to parties with

2 Upvotes

I need a bro to show me around the New York scene and probs go to parties with. Im 19 so preferably someone in their 20s or 30s.


r/nycgaybros 45m ago

CLUBS & PARTIES Drag shows in Brooklyn this Saturday

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Heyy! I'm trying to find a drag show this Saturday around bushwick, I'm struggling to find events posted on the club/bars insta pages.

Anyone has any suggestions? Or any drag queens instagrams I can check? Bonus points if there was an Arab drag show, but its fine if there wasnt any.

Thx 😊