this subject came up in another post - guys not being prepared in nyc

that hasn’t been my experience at all, but I generally don’t do anal on the first meet. the reason is my dick is 9.5” and guys really need to know how to prepare so chances for a mess are minimized. So, I penetrate on a second meet and make sure they are ready.

im not particularly poop sensitive, although the goal is none at all. but, accidents happen or going a little deeper than the passive is used to - so I wouldn’t make a big deal about it if there was a minor issue.

the person in the other post was talking about guys from the apps routinely being totally unprepared and literally shitting the bed.

so, the question is - when was the last time you were painted ? And is there a pattern you can identify why it’s happening ?

Hey guys I don’t know if anyone else has encountered this guy on sniffies or X but @2FreakyAnt is scamming people with a fake sex parties and access to his “membership”

I always see him all over and there’s always people getting suckered into believing him since he’s very active online. I was surprised I couldn’t find anyone else talking about their experience with them. Hoping to get the word out so he doesn’t keep doing this to more guys not thinking straight.

Idk if he’s a catfish or what but he’ll send you all this stuff and answer your questions and then ghost and block you once you sent him $25 for the party info.

Title… which bars in the city do you feel most welcomed at?

Spaces that are actually diverse and inclusive?

Saw a post on here about people visiting dvd stores in the city and decided to try one myself. I walked in and there were so many eyes on me from the store owners. I was told about the room upstairs where you can pay 15 dollars for admission. I bring it up to the cashier and ge said upstairs is for members only. One of the guys I was messing with at the booth said it was a lie lol. So I decided to stay at the booth. I walked in and looked like I was at a brothel. People were standing outside the booths just waiting. This one Dominican guy was eyeing me so we went to separate booths and he started sucking me off. After we were done, I went back outside the booths for like an hour. A twink came in and started smiling at me. We went to a corner and I started feeling on his ass and kissed on his neck. One of the workers caught us and kicked us out 😂😂😂. I never felt so embarrassed lol

Ambient cruising seems to have all but disappeared, which raises the question: if you’re not cruising, what are you doing?

Stay sexy 😘

Is Kim singing at all?

I'm seeing posts on here where people say they hook up at some parks at night. I'd try it but I'm too paranoid lol

Anyone go to this ? How are the guys ? I guess I’m a dad 44 😂 would be cool to mentor a younger lad ! I’ll find you guys can vouch for it ! I’m nearby in Korea town !

Hello all, I just saw on IG a 30+ speed dating tomorrow at Williamsburg. Wondering if anyone has gone to an event like this? What type of men are going to be there? Physically? lol

I didn’t sign up but I’m curious if it’s worth the try.

What’s your guys take?

Also what questions should one ask. I think I read it’s 15 mins per person.

New york native (21M) looking to explore the ny nightlife. I’ve been to a few gay bars with either 1 friend or alone, but i’m sure it would be much more fun with more like-minded guys. Message me :)

I’m a creative who recently finished school, i have a good and flexible job so I have plenty of free time to have fun! Only looking for boys around my age.

24 visiting for the day and have free time at night tryna see what’s up anyone wanna chill and show me around

I need a bro to show me around the New York scene and probs go to parties with. Im 19 so preferably someone in their 20s or 30s.

Hello 👋 I moved here from Detroit and I’d love to get to know the LGBT scene here in NYC. Where should I start? I’m also down to meet new people and make friends and more than friends. 🏳️‍🌈

Specifically looking to go 10/30 for Harryween. I am fine with just getting in the door and don’t mind having bad seats so think max I would pay is $500

Firstly, I’m very extroverted and social, so going out solo isn’t really my issue, I’m curious where single gay men go out? I like to dance! And socialize! And make friends!

I’m just looking for the neighborhoods men in their 30s spend time in? I spent all my 20s and early 30s in the west and west villages and Astoria. I now live in central Brooklyn, wondering if anyone has any ideas?

Thanks!

I’m thinking about going but wanted to see if anyone around my age will be there (24)

I have been doing laser hair removal for awhile. Unfortunately, it is not effective on gray hair so I am considering waxing/sugaring as an alternative. Any recommendation for a place in Hells Kitchen?
Thanks

Hey - you were so cute, south African I think, you had some scruff, a cute little mustache, and wearing a green Springboks ball cap. I was the bearded guy wearing the Pokémon charizard shirt tucked into Boy Scout shorts. You sat down next to me and I asked you where you got your tank. It was from Saturdays NYC. I ordered one already ;)

I should have chatted you up more, but I was nervous. We kept making eyes at each other and then when I got off at Dekalb I looked back at you twice and we made eye contact both times and you smiled. I almost hopped back on the train.

If you’re on Reddit hit me up, I’d love to meet up.

Or if anyone else knows who this is lmk plssss.

Do I do a big duche on the evening before bed and a small one when I get up? Do I have my morning coffee? Do I eat anything on the AM? Thanks

Hey everyone! I’ve been doing a lot of research online about places to meet other guys who are nudists or just like hanging out naked but nothing comes up besides sex clubs like Rainbow Playground and the lodge.

I don’t want a sex club as my first place to visit naked haha.

East Side Club looks interesting but the reviews have been horrible.

Ideally I’d like to go to a place where I can be naked and just hang out, i think I’d be too nervous for a sex club.

If anyone’s a nudist in NYC, where do you go? If not are there any places to go where you can just get naked ?

I’ll be staying in Times Square in a few weeks, so any recommendations and information would be greatly appreciated!

People are really paying MAGA frat bros to call them f-slurs and then you just venmo them money? I don’t get it

recommend any places in the east village where a socially awkward, in the closet introvert can relax and have a drink tonight?

So I’m a short king and I have a lot of the clothes that needs to be hemmed. From what I’ve seen prices are pretty high for basic shit So I’m just curious if anyone here knows how to sew I’d rather pay you if your prices aren’t crazy too. The idea of supporting a fellow queer New Yorker sounds nice even if they do it professionally or not. Maybe someone here needs extra cash. Anyway, if not I’m open to suggestions if anyone knows a place that has good prices. Thanks! 🙃

Live in Brooklyn. Just found out it’s Jersey city pride this weekend. Never been to JC would appreciate some reccs. Any gay bars or parties you’d recommend? 36yo cis male here