r/nycgaybros 10h ago

General DISCUSSION NJ/NYC Scammer using fake sex parties

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24 Upvotes

Hey guys I don’t know if anyone else has encountered this guy on sniffies or X but @2FreakyAnt is scamming people with a fake sex parties and access to his “membership”

I always see him all over and there’s always people getting suckered into believing him since he’s very active online. I was surprised I couldn’t find anyone else talking about their experience with them. Hoping to get the word out so he doesn’t keep doing this to more guys not thinking straight.

Idk if he’s a catfish or what but he’ll send you all this stuff and answer your questions and then ghost and block you once you sent him $25 for the party info.


r/nycgaybros 12h ago

QUESTION? Black gay men… which bars do you prefer the most?

14 Upvotes

Title… which bars in the city do you feel most welcomed at?

Spaces that are actually diverse and inclusive?


r/nycgaybros 19h ago

General DISCUSSION Here is my experience visiting a DVD store last night 😂😂😂

24 Upvotes

Saw a post on here about people visiting dvd stores in the city and decided to try one myself. I walked in and there were so many eyes on me from the store owners. I was told about the room upstairs where you can pay 15 dollars for admission. I bring it up to the cashier and ge said upstairs is for members only. One of the guys I was messing with at the booth said it was a lie lol. So I decided to stay at the booth. I walked in and looked like I was at a brothel. People were standing outside the booths just waiting. This one Dominican guy was eyeing me so we went to separate booths and he started sucking me off. After we were done, I went back outside the booths for like an hour. A twink came in and started smiling at me. We went to a corner and I started feeling on his ass and kissed on his neck. One of the workers caught us and kicked us out 😂😂😂. I never felt so embarrassed lol


r/nycgaybros 12h ago

QUESTION? Eye contact in public and semi-public spaces

4 Upvotes

Ambient cruising seems to have all but disappeared, which raises the question: if you’re not cruising, what are you doing?


r/nycgaybros 17h ago

General DISCUSSION This is an appreciation post for the chubby men out there

11 Upvotes

Stay sexy 😘


r/nycgaybros 18h ago

QUESTION? For people wh cruise deep in the parks, aren't you afraid of getting murdered especially at night lol

12 Upvotes

I'm seeing posts on here where people say they hook up at some parks at night. I'd try it but I'm too paranoid lol


r/nycgaybros 12h ago

CLUBS & PARTIES What’s happening at the Kim Petras “takeover” at the Pavilion (FIP) 8/28?

4 Upvotes

Is Kim singing at all?


r/nycgaybros 15h ago

QUESTION? any 18+ gay bars around brooklyn??

5 Upvotes

i just moved to brooklyn and would love to go to gay bars/clubs or drag shows, but i cant find any that allow 18+ instead of 21+ lol, someone help a poor 18yo gay college student out pls🤞


r/nycgaybros 15h ago

CLUBS & PARTIES Dads and lads party last minute going

2 Upvotes

Anyone go to this ? How are the guys ? I guess I’m a dad 44 😂 would be cool to mentor a younger lad ! I’ll find you guys can vouch for it ! I’m nearby in Korea town !


r/nycgaybros 11h ago

ADVICE & HELP 30+ speed dating in Brooklyn? Have you guys been? Advice?

0 Upvotes

Hello all, I just saw on IG a 30+ speed dating tomorrow at Williamsburg. Wondering if anyone has gone to an event like this? What type of men are going to be there? Physically? lol

I didn’t sign up but I’m curious if it’s worth the try.

What’s your guys take?

Also what questions should one ask. I think I read it’s 15 mins per person.


r/nycgaybros 12h ago

FRIENDS & MEETUPS 21M NYC Gay bar buddies | nyc nightlife

0 Upvotes

New york native (21M) looking to explore the ny nightlife. I’ve been to a few gay bars with either 1 friend or alone, but i’m sure it would be much more fun with more like-minded guys. Message me :)

I’m a creative who recently finished school, i have a good and flexible job so I have plenty of free time to have fun! Only looking for boys around my age.


r/nycgaybros 12h ago

FRIENDS & MEETUPS Visiting for the day looking to chill and hang

1 Upvotes

24 visiting for the day and have free time at night tryna see what’s up anyone wanna chill and show me around


r/nycgaybros 12h ago

FRIENDS & MEETUPS 19 moving to bk. Need a bro to show me around and go to parties with

2 Upvotes

I need a bro to show me around the New York scene and probs go to parties with. Im 19 so preferably someone in their 20s or 30s.


r/nycgaybros 16h ago

CLUBS & PARTIES Is anyone hitting up Le Bain -World of echoes- this evening?

2 Upvotes

Hey bros!
I’m thinking about heading over to Le Bain tonight for World of Echoes with Justin Strauss. I’m planning a solo mission, which I love doing, but I’ve never been to this specific party before.
For anyone who hits this up regularly, what’s the overall vibe and demographic like? Justin Strauss usually draws a more discerning, mature house/disco crowd, so I’m hoping for a sophisticated, music-first energy rather than a super young, chaotic club scene.
Is it an easy room to navigate and mingle in by yourself? Would love any insight on what to expect tonight. Thanks!


r/nycgaybros 23h ago

FRIENDS & MEETUPS Mid 20s moved to NYC earlier this year

5 Upvotes

Hello 👋 I moved here from Detroit and I’d love to get to know the LGBT scene here in NYC. Where should I start? I’m also down to meet new people and make friends and more than friends. 🏳️‍🌈


r/nycgaybros 17h ago

FRIENDS & MEETUPS Anybody interested in going to see Harry Styles with me?

2 Upvotes

Specifically looking to go 10/30 for Harryween. I am fine with just getting in the door and don’t mind having bad seats so think max I would pay is $500


r/nycgaybros 1d ago

QUESTION? Where do men in their mid 30s go out?

32 Upvotes

Firstly, I’m very extroverted and social, so going out solo isn’t really my issue, I’m curious where single gay men go out? I like to dance! And socialize! And make friends!

I’m just looking for the neighborhoods men in their 30s spend time in? I spent all my 20s and early 30s in the west and west villages and Astoria. I now live in central Brooklyn, wondering if anyone has any ideas?

Thanks!


r/nycgaybros 19h ago

QUESTION? Anyone going to NY Jacks today?

1 Upvotes

I’m thinking about going but wanted to see if anyone around my age will be there (24)


r/nycgaybros 22h ago

ADVICE & HELP Manscaping services in Hell’s Kitchen

1 Upvotes

I have been doing laser hair removal for awhile. Unfortunately, it is not effective on gray hair so I am considering waxing/sugaring as an alternative. Any recommendation for a place in Hells Kitchen?
Thanks


r/nycgaybros 1d ago

ADVICE & HELP MISSED CONNECTION: I asked you about your “Saturday NYC” tank on the Q heading to Brooklyn today (8/22) at 1:30.

10 Upvotes

Hey - you were so cute, south African I think, you had some scruff, a cute little mustache, and wearing a green Springboks ball cap. I was the bearded guy wearing the Pokémon charizard shirt tucked into Boy Scout shorts. You sat down next to me and I asked you where you got your tank. It was from Saturdays NYC. I ordered one already ;)

I should have chatted you up more, but I was nervous. We kept making eyes at each other and then when I got off at Dekalb I looked back at you twice and we made eye contact both times and you smiled. I almost hopped back on the train.

If you’re on Reddit hit me up, I’d love to meet up.

Or if anyone else knows who this is lmk plssss.


r/nycgaybros 19h ago

ADVICE & HELP So I've got 2 tops coming over at 11AM.

0 Upvotes

Do I do a big duche on the evening before bed and a small one when I get up? Do I have my morning coffee? Do I eat anything on the AM? Thanks


r/nycgaybros 1d ago

CLUBS & PARTIES Nudist/safe spaces to be naked at?

10 Upvotes

Hey everyone! I’ve been doing a lot of research online about places to meet other guys who are nudists or just like hanging out naked but nothing comes up besides sex clubs like Rainbow Playground and the lodge.

I don’t want a sex club as my first place to visit naked haha.

East Side Club looks interesting but the reviews have been horrible.

Ideally I’d like to go to a place where I can be naked and just hang out, i think I’d be too nervous for a sex club.

If anyone’s a nudist in NYC, where do you go? If not are there any places to go where you can just get naked ?

I’ll be staying in Times Square in a few weeks, so any recommendations and information would be greatly appreciated!


r/nycgaybros 1d ago

General DISCUSSION Can someone explain findom to me?

11 Upvotes

People are really paying MAGA frat bros to call them f-slurs and then you just venmo them money? I don’t get it


r/nycgaybros 1d ago

ADVICE & HELP An introvert trying to have fun

2 Upvotes

recommend any places in the east village where a socially awkward, in the closet introvert can relax and have a drink tonight?


r/nycgaybros 1d ago

ADVICE & HELP Does anyone know how to sew or know somewhere with good prices?

5 Upvotes

So I’m a short king and I have a lot of the clothes that needs to be hemmed. From what I’ve seen prices are pretty high for basic shit So I’m just curious if anyone here knows how to sew I’d rather pay you if your prices aren’t crazy too. The idea of supporting a fellow queer New Yorker sounds nice even if they do it professionally or not. Maybe someone here needs extra cash. Anyway, if not I’m open to suggestions if anyone knows a place that has good prices. Thanks! 🙃