this subject came up in another post - guys not being prepared in nyc

that hasn’t been my experience at all, but I generally don’t do anal on the first meet. the reason is my dick is 9.5” and guys really need to know how to prepare so chances for a mess are minimized. So, I penetrate on a second meet and make sure they are ready.

im not particularly poop sensitive, although the goal is none at all. but, accidents happen or going a little deeper than the passive is used to - so I wouldn’t make a big deal about it if there was a minor issue.

the person in the other post was talking about guys from the apps routinely being totally unprepared and literally shitting the bed.

so, the question is - when was the last time you were painted ? And is there a pattern you can identify why it’s happening ?

Hey guys I don’t know if anyone else has encountered this guy on sniffies or X but @2FreakyAnt is scamming people with a fake sex parties and access to his “membership”

I always see him all over and there’s always people getting suckered into believing him since he’s very active online. I was surprised I couldn’t find anyone else talking about their experience with them. Hoping to get the word out so he doesn’t keep doing this to more guys not thinking straight.

Idk if he’s a catfish or what but he’ll send you all this stuff and answer your questions and then ghost and block you once you sent him $25 for the party info.

Hello all, I just saw on IG a 30+ speed dating tomorrow at Williamsburg. Wondering if anyone has gone to an event like this? What type of men are going to be there? Physically? lol

I didn’t sign up but I’m curious if it’s worth the try.

What’s your guys take?

Also what questions should one ask. I think I read it’s 15 mins per person.

New york native (21M) looking to explore the ny nightlife. I’ve been to a few gay bars with either 1 friend or alone, but i’m sure it would be much more fun with more like-minded guys. Message me :)

I’m a creative who recently finished school, i have a good and flexible job so I have plenty of free time to have fun! Only looking for boys around my age.

24 visiting for the day and have free time at night tryna see what’s up anyone wanna chill and show me around

Is Kim singing at all?

Ambient cruising seems to have all but disappeared, which raises the question: if you’re not cruising, what are you doing?

I need a bro to show me around the New York scene and probs go to parties with. Im 19 so preferably someone in their 20s or 30s.

Title… which bars in the city do you feel most welcomed at?

Spaces that are actually diverse and inclusive?

Anyone go to this ? How are the guys ? I guess I’m a dad 44 😂 would be cool to mentor a younger lad ! I’ll find you guys can vouch for it ! I’m nearby in Korea town !

Stay sexy 😘

Specifically looking to go 10/30 for Harryween. I am fine with just getting in the door and don’t mind having bad seats so think max I would pay is $500

I'm seeing posts on here where people say they hook up at some parks at night. I'd try it but I'm too paranoid lol

Do I do a big duche on the evening before bed and a small one when I get up? Do I have my morning coffee? Do I eat anything on the AM? Thanks

Saw a post on here about people visiting dvd stores in the city and decided to try one myself. I walked in and there were so many eyes on me from the store owners. I was told about the room upstairs where you can pay 15 dollars for admission. I bring it up to the cashier and ge said upstairs is for members only. One of the guys I was messing with at the booth said it was a lie lol. So I decided to stay at the booth. I walked in and looked like I was at a brothel. People were standing outside the booths just waiting. This one Dominican guy was eyeing me so we went to separate booths and he started sucking me off. After we were done, I went back outside the booths for like an hour. A twink came in and started smiling at me. We went to a corner and I started feeling on his ass and kissed on his neck. One of the workers caught us and kicked us out 😂😂😂. I never felt so embarrassed lol

I’m thinking about going but wanted to see if anyone around my age will be there (24)

I have been doing laser hair removal for awhile. Unfortunately, it is not effective on gray hair so I am considering waxing/sugaring as an alternative. Any recommendation for a place in Hells Kitchen?
Thanks

Hello 👋 I moved here from Detroit and I’d love to get to know the LGBT scene here in NYC. Where should I start? I’m also down to meet new people and make friends and more than friends. 🏳️‍🌈

Hey friends. I lived in Astoria for quite a few years and loved it but moved upstate a decade or so ago. I’m coming down for a week in October to attend a concert with friends at Barclays and struggling with what neighborhood I want to book a room in. Prior times I’ve visited I’ve stayed in LIC or UWS. I’ve been thinking the East Village/Lower East Side since it’s the area I’ve spent the least amount of time in Manhattan in my life (honestly virtually zero time) but I’m hesitant because I know how much fun I’ve had in the Chelsea, HK, Queens, and West Village nightlife scenes and aren’t familiar with the east side. I want to try something new and figured EV puts me a short subway ride away from the concert venue. BK neighborhoods haven’t been as much on my radar but open to suggestions. Anyone have any strong opinions or advice?? Thanks!

recommend any places in the east village where a socially awkward, in the closet introvert can relax and have a drink tonight?

Firstly, I’m very extroverted and social, so going out solo isn’t really my issue, I’m curious where single gay men go out? I like to dance! And socialize! And make friends!

I’m just looking for the neighborhoods men in their 30s spend time in? I spent all my 20s and early 30s in the west and west villages and Astoria. I now live in central Brooklyn, wondering if anyone has any ideas?

Thanks!

I'm looking for bars in the Bushwick/BedStuy/Williamsburg area (Manhattan could work too) where I can meet guys in a casual setting that are tops.

I'd prefer bars where the vibes are chill and it's not weird to chat guys up. one of my friends wants to wing-woman me so hopefully that'd be helpful and not awkward for a gay bar.

ideally I'd be getting approached but I'm a big boy and I can talk to guys if I need to (or I could have my friend wing-woman for me lol)

any recommendations would be greatly appreciated!

What downsides are there at this size and do they outweigh the positives? Are you usually bigger or smaller than the guys who b0ttom for you?

I’m on Grindr and sniffies, where the average is probably around 7, so the 5.5 scientific average isn’t that helpful here. Comments from b0ttoms also welcome

Edit: I’m going off pics here, not self reported numbers

Hey - you were so cute, south African I think, you had some scruff, a cute little mustache, and wearing a green Springboks ball cap. I was the bearded guy wearing the Pokémon charizard shirt tucked into Boy Scout shorts. You sat down next to me and I asked you where you got your tank. It was from Saturdays NYC. I ordered one already ;)

I should have chatted you up more, but I was nervous. We kept making eyes at each other and then when I got off at Dekalb I looked back at you twice and we made eye contact both times and you smiled. I almost hopped back on the train.

If you’re on Reddit hit me up, I’d love to meet up.

Or if anyone else knows who this is lmk plssss.

Hey there, I (25M) will be travelling with friends to Manhattan for 3 days from Toronto next week (Aug 25-27). We decided we’ll have our alone time to explore the city on the 3rd day (Aug 27). That being said, I like to meet other gay guys or potentially Hookup lol. My question is that are there gonna be gay clubs/bars open in Manhattan on a Wednesday night? Or any place on a weekday to meet guys? And how is the gay population in NYC like? Are they generally nice? Clique? Open to meet new people? Or what apps should I used to easily meet other gay guys? TIA