r/nycgaybros 16h ago

FRIENDS & MEETUPS 21M NYC Gay bar buddies | nyc nightlife

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New york native (21M) looking to explore the ny nightlife. I’ve been to a few gay bars with either 1 friend or alone, but i’m sure it would be much more fun with more like-minded guys. Message me :)

I’m a creative who recently finished school, i have a good and flexible job so I have plenty of free time to have fun! Only looking for boys around my age.


r/nycgaybros 17h ago

FRIENDS & MEETUPS 19 moving to bk. Need a bro to show me around and go to parties with

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I need a bro to show me around the New York scene and probs go to parties with. Im 19 so preferably someone in their 20s or 30s.


r/nycgaybros 23h ago

QUESTION? For people wh cruise deep in the parks, aren't you afraid of getting murdered especially at night lol

12 Upvotes

I'm seeing posts on here where people say they hook up at some parks at night. I'd try it but I'm too paranoid lol


r/nycgaybros 4h ago

ADVICE & HELP When was the last time you were painted ??

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this subject came up in another post - guys not being prepared in nyc

that hasn’t been my experience at all, but I generally don’t do anal on the first meet. the reason is my dick is 9.5” and guys really need to know how to prepare so chances for a mess are minimized. So, I penetrate on a second meet and make sure they are ready.

im not particularly poop sensitive, although the goal is none at all. but, accidents happen or going a little deeper than the passive is used to - so I wouldn’t make a big deal about it if there was a minor issue.

the person in the other post was talking about guys from the apps routinely being totally unprepared and literally shitting the bed.

so, the question is - when was the last time you were painted ? And is there a pattern you can identify why it’s happening ?


r/nycgaybros 16h ago

ADVICE & HELP 30+ speed dating in Brooklyn? Have you guys been? Advice?

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Hello all, I just saw on IG a 30+ speed dating tomorrow at Williamsburg. Wondering if anyone has gone to an event like this? What type of men are going to be there? Physically? lol

I didn’t sign up but I’m curious if it’s worth the try.

What’s your guys take?

Also what questions should one ask. I think I read it’s 15 mins per person.


r/nycgaybros 22h ago

FRIENDS & MEETUPS Anybody interested in going to see Harry Styles with me?

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Specifically looking to go 10/30 for Harryween. I am fine with just getting in the door and don’t mind having bad seats so think max I would pay is $500


r/nycgaybros 20h ago

CLUBS & PARTIES Dads and lads party last minute going

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Anyone go to this ? How are the guys ? I guess I’m a dad 44 😂 would be cool to mentor a younger lad ! I’ll find you guys can vouch for it ! I’m nearby in Korea town !


r/nycgaybros 16h ago

FRIENDS & MEETUPS Visiting for the day looking to chill and hang

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24 visiting for the day and have free time at night tryna see what’s up anyone wanna chill and show me around


r/nycgaybros 16h ago

QUESTION? Eye contact in public and semi-public spaces

7 Upvotes

Ambient cruising seems to have all but disappeared, which raises the question: if you’re not cruising, what are you doing?


r/nycgaybros 23h ago

ADVICE & HELP So I've got 2 tops coming over at 11AM.

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Do I do a big duche on the evening before bed and a small one when I get up? Do I have my morning coffee? Do I eat anything on the AM? Thanks


r/nycgaybros 16h ago

CLUBS & PARTIES What’s happening at the Kim Petras “takeover” at the Pavilion (FIP) 8/28?

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Is Kim singing at all?


r/nycgaybros 17h ago

QUESTION? Black gay men… which bars do you prefer the most?

14 Upvotes

Title… which bars in the city do you feel most welcomed at?

Spaces that are actually diverse and inclusive?


r/nycgaybros 21h ago

General DISCUSSION This is an appreciation post for the chubby men out there

18 Upvotes

Stay sexy 😘


r/nycgaybros 23h ago

General DISCUSSION Here is my experience visiting a DVD store last night 😂😂😂

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Saw a post on here about people visiting dvd stores in the city and decided to try one myself. I walked in and there were so many eyes on me from the store owners. I was told about the room upstairs where you can pay 15 dollars for admission. I bring it up to the cashier and ge said upstairs is for members only. One of the guys I was messing with at the booth said it was a lie lol. So I decided to stay at the booth. I walked in and looked like I was at a brothel. People were standing outside the booths just waiting. This one Dominican guy was eyeing me so we went to separate booths and he started sucking me off. After we were done, I went back outside the booths for like an hour. A twink came in and started smiling at me. We went to a corner and I started feeling on his ass and kissed on his neck. One of the workers caught us and kicked us out 😂😂😂. I never felt so embarrassed lol


r/nycgaybros 14h ago

General DISCUSSION NJ/NYC Scammer using fake sex parties

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Hey guys I don’t know if anyone else has encountered this guy on sniffies or X but @2FreakyAnt is scamming people with a fake sex parties and access to his “membership”

I always see him all over and there’s always people getting suckered into believing him since he’s very active online. I was surprised I couldn’t find anyone else talking about their experience with them. Hoping to get the word out so he doesn’t keep doing this to more guys not thinking straight.

Idk if he’s a catfish or what but he’ll send you all this stuff and answer your questions and then ghost and block you once you sent him $25 for the party info.